The saying goes that when Mom is happy, everyone's happy. But in this busy world, where the ultimate luxury may be a full night's sleep, here are seven qualities that help moms not only keep it together, but thrive. Which ones would you want to share with the favorite mom in your life?
1. Know your strengths: Happy moms recognize that "effortless perfection" is an outdated myth. Being real, authentic and present is way more fulfilling and meaningful, not to mention a much better model for your children. Focus on your strengths, and what makes you energized, not on what is "missing."
2. De-stress: Time to de-stress is not a luxury -- it is fuel for going the distance. Even a few minutes during a hectic day counts. Whether it's through laughter, exercise, hobbies or meditation, it's important to have a way to let go of stress. Take time to return to yourself. You and everyone around you will be happier!
3. Be gentle with yourself: Happy moms try to show compassion for themselves and to others. Mothers who, even inadvertently, put themselves down (I'm too fat, too overwhelmed, etc.) demonstrate that belief to their kids. We are all in the process of evolving. When you choose to be kind to yourself, as well as to others, it will inspire everyone around you to do the same.
4. Know when to say no: Happy mothers set healthy boundaries. This can look like prioritizing quality time with family or deciding not to take on another project that would drain all of your energy. Pleasing people, whether it is friends, relatives or colleagues, can lead to spreading yourself too thin -- invest your time wisely.
5. Empower your children to help: Kids feel better when they are a contributing part of a team. Happy moms find creative ways to engage their children in helping out, whether that is assisting in putting together tomorrow's lunch or feeding the pets. "It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings." ~ Anne Landers.
6. Find time for friends: Friends help you laugh at your troubles, listen when you want to talk, and remind you of who you are. Being a mother is but one of your roles; real friends help you keep your identity and perspective, and remind you to reach for your dreams.
7. Have an attitude of gratitude: Happy moms know that gratitude opens the doors of the heart. Try having everyone around the table talk about one thing they are grateful for in their lives as well as something they appreciate about the others there. "People will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." ~ Maya Angelou
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