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New York's LGBTQ Marriages, "Don't Ask" Repeal, and California's LGBTQ History Bill Herald Tipping Point

Posted: 07/22/11 11:02 AM ET

We have reached a tipping point in our fight for equality in America. Forty-two years after the Stonewall riots -- a defining moment in the beginning of America's gay rights movement -- New York's legalization of same-sex marriage and California's mandate to teach lesbian, bi-sexual, gay, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) history in grade schools, bring this country closer to a more equal society.

In my decade in Congress, the gay community and its allies have fought numerous battles and this double victory shows we have not fought in vain. Both California and New York, with their own rich history of LGBTQ activism, have taken courageous steps towards equality. I commend Governors Jerry Brown and Andrew Cuomo for answering the calls of their constituents. I am also proud of the progress made in Congress including the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell and movement towards the Defense of Marriage Act repeal. The fact that the Pentagon announced this week that the U.S. military is prepared to accept openly gay and lesbian service members, and doing so will not harm military readiness, is great news. Yet, I know this is not enough.

Discrimination in any realm is still inequality. Now more than never, it is imperative to remind each other, and our elected officials, that until we all have equal rights -- be it the right to marry or earn equal wages -- liberty and justice has not yet been granted.

Consider California. California's groundbreaking legislation -- S.B. 48, the California FAIR Education Act (also known as the LGBT History Bill) -- requires all public schools to teach significant eras and historical movements, such as the previously omitted topics of the gay rights movement and disabilities education. California has laid out a framework for dialogue for the entire country. This dialogue among young people and educators hopes to break the misconceptions and stigma in our society regarding the gay community, and slowly lead to an increased social awareness among future generations.

Consider New York. Even as New York became the sixth and largest state to grant same-sex marriage licenses, thousands of gay couples remain in immigration limbo throughout the country, not able to sponsor their partners for residency or prevent deportation. In fact, one of my constituents, Judy Rickard, is being torn apart from her partner because of unfair immigration laws. Judy and others face a distinctly different, and unequal, reality compared with heterosexual couples. We must not forget that these communities continue to struggle, often silently, for their rights.

My strong advocacy for equal rights within the gay community is rooted in my commitment to increase the visibility and profile of all underrepresented communities. This is reflected in my authoring of the Reuniting Families Act, which eliminates discrimination in immigration law against same-sex, permanent partners and their families who are seeking to reunite. I reintroduced it in the 112th Congress to help reunite the tens of thousands of lives and livelihoods put on hold due to our current discriminatory immigration law.

As Vice-Chair of the Congressional LGBT Caucus, I have consistently voted in favor of non-discrimination laws such as the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, lifting the HIV Entry Ban on immigrants, and guaranteeing LGBTQ families the right to visit and make medical decisions for their partners.

These are only a few pieces of legislative accomplishments that we hope to achieve, but we need your help. We are steadily making progress as we work to repeal legislation such as California's Proposition 8 and the Defense for Marriage Act. As long as we continue to fight on all fronts, change will follow.

US Congressman Michael Honda (D-CA) is Vice-Chair of the Congressional LGBT Equality Caucus, represents Silicon Valley and serves on the House Budget and Appropriations Committees. Follow Rep Honda on Facebook and Twitter.

 

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We have reached a tipping point in our fight for equality in America. Forty-two years after the Stonewall riots -- a defining moment in the beginning of America's gay rights movement -- New York's l...
We have reached a tipping point in our fight for equality in America. Forty-two years after the Stonewall riots -- a defining moment in the beginning of America's gay rights movement -- New York's l...
 
 
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Untainted Love
07:57 PM on 07/23/2011
Congressma­n Honda, thanks to out-of-state interests, primarily the Latter Day Saints and Roman Catholic Church, as a Californian my own constitution has been reforged into a weapon to deny me over 1000 civil rights and responsibilities, and even the fundamental human right to marriage.

Meanwhile, South Africa has sexual orientation included as a protected class in their federal constitution, along with race etc, and so far they've had zero issues with it. This would fix the actual problem, instead of wasting all this time and effort trying to address the 1000+ individual symptoms of the problem.

We're now busy separating future heroes from villains, and for the long-term, the first politician to propose and push for what South Africa did, wins. It would even save quite a few lives.
06:58 PM on 07/23/2011
I am grateful to Congressman Honda for his support for LGBT rights and for actual political leadership on these issues that too many politicians continue to avoid or openly oppose. My greatest hero in my lifetime was Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Among the many wonderful speeches and quotations of Dr. King that guide my thinking is this one: "Justice delayed is justice denied." Often, when I write about equal rights for gays and lesbians on the HuffPost, I receive the traditional "be more patient" or "change takes time" responses. While I understand that those making the comments often mean well, and are often supportive of equality, I also remember Dr. King's words. For that reason, I keep pressing forward and urging others to press forward in asking for equality without more delay and without settling for facsimiles of equality. Dr. King was right: Justice delayed is justice denied.
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healthcarenow
RN 4 blue Arizona
12:52 PM on 07/23/2011
"it is imperative to remind each other, and our elected officials, that until we all have equal rights -- be it the right to marry or earn equal wages -- liberty and justice has not yet been granted.".......Words to live by and fight for; too many Americans have forgotten that; LIBERTY AND JUSTICE ARE WORTH FIGHTING FOR.........BRAVO CONGRESSMAN HONDA!
11:39 AM on 07/23/2011
Unfortunately you are a politician. If you were not a politician I could hear what you were saying, but alas I have problems with grandstanding just to get votes.
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healthcarenow
RN 4 blue Arizona
01:19 PM on 07/23/2011
Congressman Honda is far from grandstanding and has maintained the same values his entire careers (government and teaching). You can dislike his politics but you are in no position to discredit his beliefs. I was lucky enough to have him as my state and US Congressman. There aren't many in Government service as true as he is, for sure. You should do your homework to help you with your "problem with politicians".
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Jeffrey Bryson
Truth is a messy thing.
05:29 PM on 07/24/2011
Unless you're an anarchist, you're going to be dealing with politics and politicians when it comes to ensuring your civil rights. Better to drop some of the cynicism and see if we can work towards common goals and solutions.
07:35 AM on 07/23/2011
Don't as don't tell is going away too.
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kevinbr38
Forward
07:03 AM on 07/23/2011
I too believe we have reached a tipping point.
Back in the day, I moved to New York City at the age of 19. I was befriended by a man who had participated in The Stonewall riots. He became my mentor in Gay history and pride.
I have since gone on to be in a relationship for just over 20 years (married in Holland) and going to do the same in New York City in September.
I wish my mentor was still around to enjoy the rewards of all of his years of activism.
While we are enjoying our sucessess, we must not forget those that came before us and fought so hard to make all of this possible.
07:56 PM on 07/22/2011
Keep pushing Mike. Until everyone acknowledges the contributions of the LGTB'QNP'RSMA community our accomplishments will be pushed into the dark corners of history.
Oneandoneandone
Professional Spitfire
07:46 PM on 07/22/2011
This is why I keep voting for you, Mike! Thank you!
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RButler
"Who wouldn't love a person who had a pony?"
05:35 PM on 07/22/2011
I rarely hear about these marriages being accepted in other states. What if a state said it wouldn't accept marriage where one or more spouses had been previously married and divorced, the the bride was younger than allowed in the new state and so?
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ABACADABRA RABBIT
VOTE GREEN PARTY 2012
04:26 PM on 07/22/2011
q=queer?

I wonder what the next letter will be?

p for polyamorous?
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MeRainyday
Green Progressive for Equality, 99%
06:19 PM on 07/22/2011
and FYI: Here is our 'agenda' Called the DALLAS PRINCIPLES: The following eight guiding principles underlie our call to action.

In order to achieve full civil rights now, we avow:
1.Full civil rights for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender individuals must be enacted now. Delay and excuses are no longer acceptable.

2.We will not leave any part of our community behind.

3.Separate is never equal.

4.Religious beliefs are not a basis upon which to affirm or deny civil rights.

5.The establishment and guardianship of full civil rights is a non-partisan issue.

6.Individual involvement and grassroots action are paramount to success and must be encouraged.

7.Success is measured by the civil rights we all achieve, not by words, access or money raised.

8.Those who seek our support are expected to commit to these principles.
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WheelsOnFire
Fiercely Independent
07:09 PM on 07/22/2011
That is simply brilliant!

Thanks for posting it. Hope you don't mind if I pass it around liberally.

Fanned & Faved, too.
08:41 PM on 07/22/2011
And if you don't get what you want?
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AdamWest1313
Hardcore Agnostic
01:37 AM on 07/25/2011
First, the arguments are for 2 consenting adults. Second, what legal stance do you have against polygamy?
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Michael Valentine
Retired SEIU Member
04:18 PM on 07/22/2011
Who would Jesus oppress? According to the book I read no one.
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Contact1972
Honey Badger Don't Care
07:09 PM on 07/22/2011
I doubt he would have oppressed anyone however religion and religious beliefs have nothing to do with treating GLBT citizens being treated equall under the law.
mgpayne
Trying to make sense of it all
03:54 PM on 07/22/2011
Is there a time in the school day when the teacher can teach the children to read and write?
08:43 PM on 07/22/2011
That's not a priority.
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Jeffrey Bryson
Truth is a messy thing.
05:31 PM on 07/24/2011
Yes. Nearly all of it. Reading about Harvey Milk requires the same reading comprehension skills as reading anything else.
03:48 PM on 07/22/2011
Something I never understood - what exactly is "GLBT history"? If, as it should be, everyone were equal, wouldn't there be no GLBT (or other minority "deserving of our sympathy") History?

Equality is a fantastic goal to have, and we certainly are getting there in NY - but focusing on foolish nonsense like "GLBT History" will only reinforce the societal divide between the different groups in America.
05:33 PM on 07/22/2011
All SB48 did was specifically add LGBT and disabled persons, and more broadly include other cultural minorities to an already existing laundry list of groups that included race, ethicity, etc. It's not a "gay or GLBT history course"--that's the media hype.
05:43 PM on 07/22/2011
Au contraire, Josh. CA is asking its education system to NOT allow bigotry. By teaching about who GLBT - not LGBT - people are, they take the mystery out of a minority. Seeing the gay community as normal - which they are - is the best way to stop misinformation. It is NOT pushing a lifestyle - just broadening students knowledge about the real world around them. The GLBT community's contribution to history is important, just as any other group. The societal divide is already there - open information is the only way to close it.