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Why Gays and Lesbians Should Never Argue Scripture

Posted: 12/29/10 08:01 PM ET

"When are you going to talk about scripture that condemns homosexuality?"

The question came from a young woman who attended a workshop based on my book Bulletproof Faith: A Spiritual Survival Guide for Gay and Lesbian Christians. This particular workshop was held a couple of years ago on a college campus and attracted a cross-section of students who were both supporters and detractors of homosexuality.

This question is usually asked by a pro-gay person who wants to know how to answer challengers who quote scripture. This woman was different -- she had come for an argument and intended to challenge me with anti-gay interpretations of scripture.

"We're not going to talk about those passages specifically," I told her. "Instead, part of this workshop is on why we should never argue scripture with anyone ever again."

She was visibly disappointed and left halfway through the workshop. I now realize that I should have given her a more in-depth answer to her question, because there are still plenty of people, both for and against homosexuality, who insist on arguing about what the Bible does and does not say about homosexuality.

There are several reasons that gays and lesbians should never argue scripture. First, it's pointless and nobody wins. Those who are anti-gay have their authorities and scriptural interpretations and so do pro-gay people. No one wins a "they said, they said" argument because no one will believe the scholars from either side no matter what argument anyone makes.

Secondly, arguing over scripture just hardens the opinions of both sides. Neither side is willing to give an inch. This is not a true dialogue, it's simply a contest of who can argue the longest, and usually the loudest. No one is convinced, and everyone leaves further entrenched in their own ideas, and usually angry. No education happens, and little, if any, compassion ever happens.

Thirdly, the arguers on either side never share the same starting point on scripture. Those who are anti-gay are more likely to see the Bible as the infallible "Word of God" -- which means the words literally dripped from the lips of God through the pens of the scribes and onto the page. Each jot and tittle is God-breathed and never to be contradicted. (Never mind that much of the Bible is full of contradictions and much of it we disregard with impunity these days. Those sorts of inconveniences never actually apply to the argument around homosexuality.)

Those who argue from the pro-gay side are generally those who see the Bible as inspired by God, but not the literal, infallible words of God. This means they are more open to different interpretations and approaches to scripture. Those who see the Bible as "God's literal word" only know one way to read any passage, and it's usually to back up their current beliefs about God, homosexuality or any other issue.

The most important reason, however, that gays and lesbians should never, ever argue about scripture is because the Bible has nothing much to say about homosexuality. We have to remember that this is an ancient book. It was written at a time when people believed the world was flat and that the earth was in the middle of a three-tiered world with heaven above and hell below. It was written at a time when people believed that the whole of human reproduction was held in the sperm of a man and a woman was merely an incubator. Speaking of women, this was a time when they were seen as chattel -- property to be passed along from father to husband, from husband to brother and so on. It was written at a time when slavery was seen as God-ordained and animal sacrifice was the way to cleanse sins.

In short, we cannot extract modern ideas from an ancient book. The writers of the Bible no more understood homosexuality than they understood that a spherical Earth orbited the sun. At most, we have a commentary on same-sex sexual behavior involving lust and abuse, but nothing -- pro or con -- about the modern concept of sexual orientation. We don't take the Bible's word for it that the earth is flat and women only incubate babies and contribute nothing else to the process. Why on earth would we take it as an authority on sexual orientation?

The Bible remains a holy book because it maps humanity's journey with God, and not the other way around. Because it maps our journey with God, it maps our evolving understanding of how the Holy works in this world. Humanity has moved from seeing God as a harsh judge and lawmaker to a seeing God as full of grace, mercy and love.

We don't learn about God by pulling out tiny details of the book and proclaiming them as true for all time. Instead, the Bible puts us in touch with God when we recognize its overarching message, which can be summarized by 1 John 4:7-8: "Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God; everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love."

The reason gays and lesbians should never argue over scripture is because, not only does scripture not condemn homosexuality, arguing over it produces nothing but strife, division and hatred. Anything that does not promote love is not of God. Instead of arguing, let us love one another, even those with whom we disagree. This is God's message to us. Nothing else matters.

 
 
 

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"When are you going to talk about scripture that condemns homosexuality?" The question came from a young woman who attended a workshop based on my book Bulletproof Faith: A Spiritual Survival Guide ...
"When are you going to talk about scripture that condemns homosexuality?" The question came from a young woman who attended a workshop based on my book Bulletproof Faith: A Spiritual Survival Guide ...
 
 
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10:02 AM on 01/08/2011
As for your other argument, besides the logical fallacy, you would also have to come up with a theory to disallow black conservatives who oppose homosexuality, as well as deal with the reality that it was typically evangelical-type Christians who (though not all) rose up and opposed slavery.

In reality, regardless of the motive of those who use the Bible, the fact is that it does not support homosexual relations or marriage nor heterosexual fornication, and obeying its laws work for our benefit and our hurt when we do not: Now and forever if we will not turn to Christ in repentance and faith.
08:35 PM on 01/07/2011
Same gender loving men of African descent ALWAYS should speak up, when confronted with people who do not understand Ezekiel 16:46-49. It clearly says the Iniquity of Sodom was: in-hospitality, pride, fullness of bread, abundance of idleness and failure to strengthen the hands of the poor. Dixie slave holders would not teach this. They were sodomites. Slaves were the poor. Christian conservatives embrace racial superiority of Caucasians for profit. They demonize same gender loving people to avoid admitting the truth about how they economically exploited slaves in the past and do not question Wall St. excesses and the military industrial complex today.
04:39 PM on 01/06/2011
I agree with an implied argument that ancient books were made ONLY for the ancients. The "epistles" are specifically written to specific congregations to deal with specific issues, and often it is not clear about the issue itself.

Throughout the history of mankind, prophets revealed the will of God. Obviously (or not) God can reveal his will to anyone at all.

Either way, it makes more sense to allow modern prophets to declare the *current* intentions or will of God in the unlikely event those intentions have changed.
04:35 PM on 01/06/2011
"Thirdly, the arguers on either side never share the same starting point on scripture."

Make this FIRST.

"In short, we cannot extract modern ideas from an ancient book."

Unless of course the ancient book supports your point of view :-)

"The reason gays and lesbians should never argue over scripture is because, not only does scripture not condemn homosexuality, "

The way to START an argument is to declare to the whole world what you think it means!

Which, by the way, you just did.
10:13 AM on 01/06/2011
Despite all the attempts to render the Bible as having no coherent sexual ethic, or at least as regards homosexual relations, the issue is really quite clear. From beginning to end marriage is sanctioned, and fornication is condemned. God is shown creating man and women uniquely compatible and complimentary, after having illustrated that nothing else would do for a help mate, and only joined them in marriage, opposite genders being specified by both Genesis and by Jesus Christ. (Gn. 2:18-24; Mt. 19:4)

In no place does the Bible sanction marriage between same genders, despite attempts to extrapolate it, and it only condemns homosexual relations - by design and decree, in principle and by precept - and only condemns them, and the injunctions against them are part of the transcendent moral laws. (Lv. 18:22; Rm. 1:26,27) All homosexual relations are rendered fornication, and that of a most perverse kind.

The idea that either Moses or Paul were only condemning certain forms of homosexual activity based own motive or association with idolatry, while sanctioning "loving caring" homosexual relations is as untenable as supposing that bestiality or adultery was only forbidden within a certain context. Motive is never the determinative factor in laws against illicit sexual relations, while idolatry is the mother of all sins, more than just homosexual relations. (Rm. 1:28-32)

However, there is yet room at the cross for all who will turn to Christ, wanting Him over sin, and believe in Him with all their heart. (1Cor. 6:9-11)
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Ioan Lightoller
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02:15 PM on 01/06/2011
Thanks for the sermon--not!--I've heard it all a thousand times. This still does not give you the right to deny same-sex couples marriage.
03:29 PM on 01/06/2011
You missed the point of Matthew 19. Jesus was debating the religious leaders of his time regarding divorce and how its frequency allowed men to abandon their wives to poverty. In his argument, he actually grants more rights to women. Same-sex marriages did not exist at the time so there is no reference one way or the other to that. Please read Romans 1 more carefully: "they exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling a mortal human being or birds or four-footed animals or reptiles... Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the degrading of their bodies among themselves, because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served THE CREATURE rather than the Creator." This is clearly about pagan ritual. For all your platitudes, you miss the main point of Jesus' ministry and the Bible as a whole: hundreds of references regarding the oppression of the poor/needy; hundreds of references to "justice" (more profound than mere charity); denouncing those who do not welcome the "alien/stranger" (immigrant) dozens of times; and condemning greed and serving wealth. You would do well, PBJ, to attend to "the weightier matters of the law." (Mt 23:23-24) as I do not think that Jesus would approve of your misrepresentation of Scripture.
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Billy Fritts
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08:52 PM on 01/05/2011
One reason is you have to be saved by Jesus Christ blood--Then the holy spirit will teach you the scriptures--
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RedRat
Ignorance is fixable, stupidty is forever
06:35 PM on 01/05/2011
Arguing scripture with evangelicals by gay and lesbians is a waste of their effort, you might as well quote "Harry Potter" sayings. The Bible was written for a society that existed 3500 years ago and some parts for those living 2,000 years ago.

My guess is that for early 1st Century Christians, wanting to distinguish themselves from their pagan compatriots, probably took up on the anti-homosexuality which was recognized in both Rome and Greece at the time. In any event, arguing scripture is a waste of time.
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ninetailedfox
banning people.....so childish
03:02 PM on 01/06/2011
they did a great job distinguishing themselves from their Pagan counterparts by destroyng Pagan buildings and slaughtering off those that refused to convert. This Pagan has been through far too much to credit Christianity as a positive, tolerant religion. Especially since I read about Sri Lanka (once Buddhist), Africa (once Pagan), and Northern Ireland ( once Pagan as well). I may be intolerant an closed minded, but I am not ignorant of the past and the atrocities of christians. Im also 3/4 Native American and a female, which adds fuel to the fire.
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RedRat
Ignorance is fixable, stupidty is forever
05:15 PM on 01/06/2011
Well when you look at the total history of humankind, slaughter and intolerance seem to be the watchword. It doesn't matter if you are pagan or some other religious type, pagans slaughtered with the best of them. No group is free of this. What it all comes down to is tolerance. We talk a good game about tolerating others, but at the end of the day we don't truly follow through.
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ninetailedfox
banning people.....so childish
06:34 PM on 01/05/2011
This article makes me laugh. Most fundy christians would take notice that the reverend is FEMALE and quickly say "debate over". I WAS a christian, and ive heard fundies, moderates and liberals point fingers using the whole not a true christian. My advice to gay and lesbian christians? Look at the history of christianity, the good and the bad, and you will understand why many people are deconverting. I hope you join the ranks of ex christians.
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Russ Noe
10:13 PM on 01/05/2011
You completely missed the whole point of this article. But, there's no point in arguing about it.
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Douglas Campbell
10:35 PM on 01/05/2011
I love you Russ Noe.
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02:51 PM on 01/05/2011
Y'all need to stop wasting your time here speaking fairytale and quibbling over how to interpret a storybook.

Go out and do something real. Like have some gay sex. It's real and it rocks!

Sin's just somethin' made up to control your mind, your wallet and your vote. Quit being such suckers and grow up!
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ninetailedfox
banning people.....so childish
03:04 PM on 01/06/2011
First, they have to understand, that the bible IS a storybook. Some arent to that point yet, and some will never be.
02:34 PM on 01/05/2011
Jesus loved the harlot, but he also told her to "sin no more."
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
02:10 PM on 01/05/2011
I think the reason gays and lesbians shouldn't argue scripture is just cause it's a lot of words that go nowhere, and haters gonna hate.
01:36 PM on 01/05/2011
Statements herein simply confirm my conclusions of a rather extensive study of pro-homosexual polemics, (http://peacebyjesus.witnesstoday.org/Homosex_versus_the_Bible.html) in which the hermeneutics employed result in negating the immutability of any basic moral law, and render allow most anything to read out or into it. While people do so, typically in seeking to misuse its authority, yet the serious student realizes that the Bible, like communication today, is subject to self-evident principles of interpretation that make basics sufficiently plain, and limit disagreement in things that are not. But this is not in the interest of those who seek to negate its moral constraints and or sanction their fantasies. Rather, like the harlot whose covetousness constrained her to assent to the destruction of a child rather than let her opposing claimant have it (1Kiings 3), the end result of pro-homosexual polemics is that they effectively reject the authority of the very source they seek to use for their own purposes.
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
02:13 PM on 01/05/2011
Actually, it's *your* claim that without interpreting *your* book* to justify treating gay people immorally, 'there can be no immutable moral law,' ... But really, you're just saying you *have* one (Unless someone 'sins' by your standards) while behaving otherwise and calling people 'immoral' for telling you you ain't treating others right and there's no excuse.
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LintLass
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02:14 PM on 01/05/2011
Not to put too fine a point on it, there's nothing 'moral' about homophobia, and if you insist that's all your book is worth, so be it. Screw your book. It's wrong.
12:01 PM on 01/05/2011
Not one so called christian posting here, or any other so called christians for that matter, is innocent of cherry picking from the bible. When you can abide by ALL of the laws that your god made in your bible and live by ALL of them, then you you will make a little more sense. Until then, stop judging and using certain quotes from your ancient book to back up your bigotry.
And so called gay christians, you are doing the same. If you are going to follow any part of the bible as gods word, don't ignore the parts that condemn you for being gay.
What would REALLY make sense would be if you could all think on your own and not have to rely on an ancient book of rules to live by.
12:53 PM on 01/05/2011
Aaaaah....a breath of fresh air.
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alterego55
"Always intended to be a factual statement"
05:09 PM on 01/05/2011
They better warm up their pitching arms, there are a lot of adulterous women and insolent children out there that need to be stoned to death.
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09:41 AM on 01/05/2011
She derives her argument from a comparison to the bible stating the earth is flat, proof that it is not divinely inspired (aka false). This is a big claim, and is itself materially false.

Job 26:7, 10, Isaiah 40:21-22, proverbs 8:27 all speak towards the shape of the earth, as a "circle,"a circle upon the face of the waters," where light terminates, darkness begins," the earth "hangeth upon nothing," similar to the moon and sun &c. There are other examples of rain returning to the rivers etc, not running off the corners of a flat earth, and countless other truths on the topic. This was many centuries prior to the round earth being discovered by reasonable Greeks observing the curved horizon.

The new testament speaks (in no indirect terms) about homosexuality, and was written long after the "times of animal sacrifice" of the old testament. The terms were express and I can only assume Reverend Candice Chellew is struggling (admirably) to reconcile her chosen sexual behavior and profession based on a flexible, interpretive word of god. If we interpret "thou shalt not kill" with the same disqualifiers and indifference towards the intent of the scribes, we might as well junk the book and simply rely on as good old literature, and a source of anecdotes when convenient to our purposes.

There is clearly irony in that the flat earth proof used in her argument is correctly a strong argument FOR revelation.
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11:08 AM on 01/05/2011
The author does not derive her whole argument from the flat earth comparison. That was merely an example (albeit an inaccurate one) that the author was using to show that views of the world were much different at the time. Although the author picked one partly incorrect example, the point is still a valid one.
 
Also, most of the New Testament was written at a time when animal sacrifice in accordance with the traditions of the Old Testament was still practiced (that practice ended in circa AD 70 with the descruction of the Second Temple).
 
The problem that the author is talking about is one to which you fall victim. You take up the typical argument that the New Testament talks "in no indirect terms" about homosexuality. So many people say, "well I can just read it and this is what it says". However, without very specific knowledge about the time such attempts to interpret Paul's words fall short.
 
Let me explain. A modern reader conversing in English will look at the words through a 20th century mind and think that they are talking about homosexaulity in general. That is an error. Paul wrote his letters in Greek. The word he used in the passages you are referencing does not simply mean "homosexual". He used a term that referred to a specific form of male prostitution (usually involving boys). This was a practice common among Romans at the time, and one that has no connection to a monogamous relationship between two men. Each time that Paul mentions "homosexuality" it is this word he uses. The Latin Vulgate translates the term somewhat accurately. However, the numerous English translations that have followed have been less stringent in their interpretations.
 
Now this is a point that my Catholic study bible touches on in the footnotes. However, most bibles do not make this distinction. The Latin Vulgate translates the term somewhat accurately. However, numerous English translations that have followed have been less careful. Very few take the time to explain the practice to which Paul is referring.
 
Paul was condemning they types of sexual activities common in ancient Rome, not committed homosexual relationships. The concept of two men or two women having a committed relationship was nonexistent when Paul was writing his letters. To argue that Paul was condemning something that did not even exist yet is a stretch. To use your own word, it is a very "indirect" association. It is based more on what you think and have been taught than it is based on what the bible actually says.
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12:40 PM on 01/05/2011
"You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination." Leviticus 18:22
There are no known existing copies of Paul until well into the 2nd and 3rd century. There are highly contested fragments of Mark dating back to as early at 150, but not the 70 you mention.
I never mention Paul, or the mistranslation of sodom controversial in Paul’s writings. There are references in Genesis, Jude and countless others in testament both old and new. If we were to cherry pick just Paul, I would refer to Rom. 1:26-28, "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. 28And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper."
I am not here to advocate one view as correct or not to love homosexuals, it’s simply to have a proper debate on the merits of the scripture we must not be in denial of their content, which clearly condemns homosexuality.
01:47 PM on 01/05/2011
Paul may have written in Greek but he was Jewish and heavily influenced by Jewish culture. This guy used to be a hard-core Pharisee at one time. Jewish culture at that time (and until very recently) was overwhelmingly anti-homosexual. Jews thought (like most cultures today in the developing world) that homosexuality was at the very least wrong, if not extremely evil. If the writings in the Bible had originated within a culture that was pro-gay (like ancient Sparta) then you could debate about words...but it's hard to debate about the meaning of what Paul wrote.

Paul didn't grow up in Spartan culture, he didn't live in the time of Barack Obama, he lived in an ancient, homophobic culture. Anything to do with homosexuality was condemned. Homosexuals were viewed as having something wrong with them (like they were in this American culture until very recently). I'm pretty sure any honest secular anthropologist would agree.

It is completely absurd and unrealistic to say that Paul was not a product of his culture (as we all are). When you take the words in Paul's writings apart from cultural context it's possible to say that Paul didn't condemn homosexuality but when you take them according to the cultural context, it's pretty hard to argue that Paul wasn't homophobic.
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11:46 PM on 01/04/2011
I would highly recommend reading "Conversations With God" by Neal Donald Walsh. That clears all of this up pretty simply.