Rev. Dr. Cindi Love
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Rev. Dr. Cindi Love is the executive director of Soulforce, a national organization dedicated to nonviolently confronting and ending anti-LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer) discrimination through relentless nonviolent resistance, as taught by Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King and Gandhi and adapted by Rev. Dr. Mel White. She serves on the "Faith and Religion Council" for the Human Rights Campaign in Washington, D.C. and the Compass to Compassion global coalition working with the United Nations to end criminalization of LGBT lives throughout the world. She is the author of Would Jesus Discriminate? The 21st Century Question. This book is part of a broader campaign to prompt churches, communities and individuals to consider the ways that religious attitudes against homosexuality may contribute to wider discrimination against gays and lesbians.

In 2007 and 2009 Love was part of the Clergy Call on Washington to lobby for passage of the hate crimes bill and the employment non-discrimination act. Between January 2005 and May 2009, she served as the Executive Director for Metropolitan Community Churches worldwide. She is the editor of Forty Years of Faith, Hope & Love, a historical retrospective on Metropolitan Community Churches throughout the world (ISBN 1425182836). She is an ordained minister with Metropolitan Community Churches and served as founding Pastor of MCC of Greater Dallas in 2003-2004.

A native of Abilene, Texas who has lived and worked in Minneapolis, Dallas, Austin, West Hollywood, Tel Aviv, and Paris, France, Love holds a Bachelor of Science in Education from Abilene Christian University, a Master of Arts from Louisiana Tech, and a Doctorate in Educational Administration from Texas Tech University. She was ordained by Metropolitan Community Church in 2003 after completing the course of theological study required and then served as Senior Pastor of MCC of Greater Dallas as well as Chair of the Board of Administration for MCC and its Executive Director from 2005-2009. Most recently, she received a fellowship to attend the Harvard Kennedy School Executive Education program and completed the certificate in State and Local Government.

She spent many years in the business sector founding companies, the last of which was acquired by The Toro Company in 1996. She also served as a Visiting Investigator for NASA in 1990. She was named one of the "Top 50 Entrepreneurs" in North America by Inc. Magazine, MIT, and YEO in 1990. In 2008, she was named one of the “most loved women” in the United States by Go Magazine in New York and to Women at the Helm by the same magazine in 2011. She has served on numerous not-for-profit boards and committees for educational, business, and LGBT interests. She is a long-time director of one of the West Texas Rehabilitation Center's advocacy programs in Abilene.

She and her partner of 31 years, Sue, live in Abilene and have two adult children. Sue and Cindi are legally married in Canada.

Blog Entries by Rev. Dr. Cindi Love

Father Dobson May No Longer Know Best

(2) Comments | Posted May 14, 2012 | 2:20 PM

I have seen dark hours in my life, and I have seen the darkness gradually disappearing, and the light gradually increasing. One by one, I have seen obstacles removed, errors corrected, prejudices softened, proscriptions relinquished, and my people advancing in all the elements that make up the sum of general...
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Obama Said Our Names Today

(18) Comments | Posted May 10, 2012 | 12:52 PM

Without freedom, no one really has a name. --Milton Acorda

When looking back on these early years of the 21st century, we will remember the handful of people who made decisions to act in conscious defiance of the status quo -- to say out loud the names and needs of those...

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Moms: Above All Else, Just Say No

(0) Comments | Posted May 8, 2012 | 8:09 PM

On Wednesday, May 2, CNN's Anderson Cooper 360 broadcast Pastor Sean Harris' sermon in which the spiritual leader of the Berean Baptist Church in Fayetteville, N.C. told dads in his congregation to "man up" with their 4-year-old boys who "act effeminate." Pastor Harris' recommendation to dads was to...

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Teach Your Children Well

(23) Comments | Posted March 9, 2012 | 10:06 AM

Early on Sunday, March 4, before the sun came up, I was outside a hotel in Philadelphia to say bon voyage to a bus full of young adult volunteers on the 2012 Soulforce Equality Ride. It was dark and cold outside, but the hope-filled energy and love of...

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Take Note: Jesus was a Millennial

(2) Comments | Posted December 19, 2011 | 9:31 AM

After a recent opportunity to engage with 23-year-old Matthew Segal, one of the founders of OurTime, I was thinking about why he intrigues me. I am more than twice his age. I am a Boomer. He is a millennial. Bottomline, I think Matthew is going to really shake...

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World AIDS Day 2011: My Brother Patrick

(21) Comments | Posted November 30, 2011 | 8:48 PM

What words, what story can I offer to refute the losses and, in the same moment, celebrate the indomitable spirits of people living with and affected by HIV and AIDS?

Only the story I really know. My own. My brother, Patrick, died of complications of HIV in 1988 in...

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Advent: Slippery Slope of Christendom

(16) Comments | Posted November 25, 2011 | 8:30 AM

On the fourth Sunday before Christmas Day, many Western Christians begin a season of reflection called Advent, the official beginning of the church year and a great time to "restart." Historically, Advent has been a season of penitence, looking back to the suffering of Jesus Christ in behalf of humankind...

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Third Installment: Obama, Congress and Budgeting the Biblical Way

(3) Comments | Posted July 26, 2011 | 2:45 PM

This is the third installment in a series about how we care for one another. As we await the deliberations of our bi-partisan Congress regarding the federal budget and listen to the righteous indignation of our elected officials with one another, I am reminded of the meanings of the words...

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Willow Creek Drops Exodus International, 'Ex-Gay' Ministry

(7) Comments | Posted July 22, 2011 | 1:11 PM

"Every wall is a door. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe that your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to the end requires...

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Tom's Shoes Founder Steps on Gay Toes

(61) Comments | Posted July 13, 2011 | 12:00 PM

Recently, Blake Mycoskie, founder of Tom's Shoes, issued a public apology for his affiliation with Focus on the Family, the megawatt fundamentalist Christian power brokerage founded by Dr. James Dobson. Blake said he did not know the extent of Focus's anti-gay beliefs and efforts and that if he had known,...

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Gay People Affirmed to be Human by United Nations

(33) Comments | Posted July 10, 2011 | 6:20 PM

You did not hear or read much about it, but the arc of justice stretched far and wide on June 17, 2011, when the United Nations Human Rights Council passed a resolution affirming that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender persons are entitled to the same protections afforded other...

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The Separation of Church and Hate

(130) Comments | Posted July 5, 2011 | 6:00 PM

My hometown newspaper, the Abilene Reporter News, recently carried my new, all-time favorite political cartoon by Branch. It depicts Governor Rick Perry holding a newspaper with the headline, "Perry prayer event to be sponsored by prominent anti-gay group. Perry responds to the headline by saying, "Show me where...

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Who Will Care For Us?

(4) Comments | Posted June 14, 2011 | 10:26 AM

We're getting older in America, yet we don't seem to be getting much wiser. Against the backdrop of an aging society and a renewed emphasis on reform of social security, maybe it is time for all of us -- citizens and our elected officials -- to take a time-out to...

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International House of Bigotry

(0) Comments | Posted February 23, 2011 | 10:28 PM

In recent posts, I have described my grief and outrage at the plight of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people in Uganda. Publicly outed, threatened, beaten and killed, they are now targeted by the proposed Anti-Homosexuality Bill, or the Kill the Gays Bill sponsored by MP David Bahati. Perhaps...

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An Indecent Piety

(86) Comments | Posted February 13, 2011 | 12:53 PM

Few things are more vulgar or indecent than violence masked as piety. From the crucifixion of Christ to martyrdom of saints, from burning innocent women at the stake to Klan crosses in front lawns, we know in our hearts when religion has gone bad.

This horrific history and our current...

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Jesus: The King of Connection

(40) Comments | Posted February 9, 2011 | 1:19 PM

In 1801, the census was invented to measure the population crisis in Britain. There were too many mouths to feed. People were growing insular, less willing to share with one another or view the challenges of poverty and hunger as collective responsibility. This disconnectedness made it particularly easy to objectify...

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Seeking the True Church

(72) Comments | Posted January 3, 2011 | 10:06 AM

The recent Christmas holidays found a fair number of Americans in church, some for the first time, some for the only time of the year and some as a regular practice (at least once per month). The scripts for Protestant worship services, children's plays about the birth of Jesus and...

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How to Stop the Perfect Storm of Hate in Uganda

(17) Comments | Posted December 29, 2010 | 11:28 AM

In my most recent HuffPo post, I reported on sexual minorities (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex people) and their families, friends and co-workers in Uganda who are standing at the intersection of a rapidly advancing perfect storm.

This deadly storm started with funding and support from fundamentalist/evangelical politicians...

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Would Jesus Discriminate?: Responding to Uganda's Gay Death Penalty Bill

(385) Comments | Posted December 17, 2010 | 6:17 PM

If David Bahati succeeds in passing the death penalty for homosexuals in Uganda, we need to pray for our own deliverance in the United States. Analysts tell us that at least 10 African nations will follow his lead immediately. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in Uganda are already in...

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A Gay Firing Fiasco & Opportunity at Belmont University

(9) Comments | Posted December 12, 2010 | 8:50 AM

I've been thinking this week about the abrupt resignation/termination of a young, successful women's soccer coach at Belmont (Baptist) University in Tennessee. She is a lesbian with a partner. They are having a baby. She told her team about the baby and was immediately removed from duty or removed herself...

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