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Turning Cheeks: Why Christians and Muslims Should Break the Cycle of Hate

Posted: 04/ 5/11 09:03 PM ET

To figure out how to build freer, better societies, Muslims need not look across the ocean. They need only look back into their own history ... consultation is the magic word. It occurs again and again in classical Islamic texts. It goes back to the time of the Prophet himself ... power was shared such that rulers at the top were checked, so the Arab and Muslim communities of the vast Ottoman Empire came to include certain practices and expectations of limited government. --Bari Weiss, "The Tyrannies Are Doomed," in the Wall Street Journal, after interviewing Bernard Lewis, April 2

When Jesus said we should turn the other cheek (Matthew 5:38-42 and Luke 6:27-31), he was not asking followers to become door mats. Rather, in the face of violence, Jesus directed us to "break the cycle."

At the Cathedral of Saint John the Divine, we read the Quran on various occasions each year -- on New Year's Eve at our Concert for Peace and at the Blessing of Animals during the Saint Francis Day service on the first Sunday of each October. We are a Christian church, rooted in the Anglican and Episcopal traditions. We also are a Cathedral that was chartered in the State of New York to be a cathedral for all people. Across cultures and faiths for more than 100 years, we have not only endeavored to be respectful and hospitable. Perhaps even more importantly, we have tried to be open to learning from others. We don't have to believe what they believe to want to understand what animates their quest for human dignity, freedom and justice as inspired by the Divine. If what they believe is contrary to those values and goals, perhaps we can learn how to discover common ground on which to stand as we build more just societies even as we disagree religiously.

Last fall I was in Switzerland at a seminar that included several Iranian scholars. The topic was Ecological and Environmental Justice, and Jews, Christians and Muslims gathered around a table studying their respective sacred texts and traditions. What did each say about our stewardship of this planet and responsibilities to care for resources without which future generations will not be able to survive? That seminar took place as Florida pastor Terry Jones was threatening to burn a copy the Quran. I came to appreciate what we would lose if the Quran and its teaching about the environment were to be destroyed: a long tradition of theology about what it means to be faithful to this planet and to each other.

Repeatedly, my Muslim colleagues asked, "What could be so much more important to you, when we say that burning a copy of the Quran would rupture our relationship because of the desecration and disrespect shown?" I kept trying to explain that, as an American, as sacred as my religious vows are, I have a socially binding contract in the vow each American citizen makes to the United States Constitution. I thought burning the Quran would be disrespectful and wrong, but that someone still had the right to do it in my country -- even though I hoped they would not.

Terry Jones did not act then. Instead, he traveled to New York City and met with Muslims -- for the first time, I imagined. Perhaps he even read some portions of the Quran -- also likely for the first time. I wanted to believe education and conversation could open anyone to the realities that in diverse societies we either live together or tear each other down. I was not sure Jones would change, but I wanted also to believe he would see that burning the Quran was more dangerous than courageous, and that any idea it "sent a message" was misguided.

Fast forward several months. Maybe it was ridiculous to expect further that if the Florida pastor followed through on a threat to burn the Quran, Muslims everywhere would see the act for what it is: the unrepresentative action of an ignorant and misguided individual or small group. There are fewer members of Jones's Dove World Outreach Center these days. Reports claim that he's broke. Jones says he gets death threats and that even his neighbors vilify him.

It still mystifies me when I try to comprehend why Jones went ahead and organized a mock trial that concluded with the Quran burning. He told The New York Times, "It was intended to stir the pot; if you don't shake the boat, everyone will stay in their complacency." He went on to say, "Emotionally, it's not all that easy. People have tried to make us responsible for the people who are killed. It's unfair and somewhat damaging."

I abhor the disrespect Jones displayed in this action. The Quran is a holy book. Even someone who seems to know little about it or Islam should, especially if religious, respect that the Quran is a sacred text to others. Read and critique it -- fine. But what is the purpose of desecrating it? To understand what the Quran means to Muslims -- as revelation -- the equivalent would not be for them to burn the Bible but to crucify Jesus. I think Michael Peppard's article in the Dec. 5, 2008 Commonweal should be required reading: "The Secret Weapon: Religious Abuse in the War on Terror." Dr. Peppard concludes, "Religious torture generates determined resistance and long-lasting resentments."

That said, I want also to ask this: What's worse, the idiotic acts of this pastor, or the violence and death caused by "believers" who claim as Muslims to be defending their faith in response to his actions? As President George W. Bush used to say about the abuses at Abu Ghraib and Guantanamo, are we talking about a few "bad apples?" Even if that is true, let's be clear: how anyone responds to such situations says as much about the responder as the original act itself.

Islam has a long and glorious tradition of peace and tolerance. Christianity does as well. There are horrific exceptions in each tradition. Turning the other cheek does not condone the wrong of the other, but it affords us an opportunity in our responses to break cycles of violence by not sowing more violence. Then New Communities of Justice can dawn.

 
To figure out how to build freer, better societies, Muslims need not look across the ocean. They need only look back into their own history ... consultation is the magic word. It occurs again and agai...
To figure out how to build freer, better societies, Muslims need not look across the ocean. They need only look back into their own history ... consultation is the magic word. It occurs again and agai...
 
 
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jokerdanny
my other bio is a macro
05:25 PM on 04/11/2011
how just ending hate because it's hate
11:57 AM on 04/11/2011
I suppose that photo was taken a bit earlier in Rev Jones career ?
11:52 PM on 04/10/2011
It's tough to break the cycle of hate when that hate originates in holy texts regarded as the word of God.
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nomadrdw
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04:04 PM on 04/10/2011
i have always said that this insanity will not stop until these people start loving their children more than they hate each other.
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Red Ninja Warrior
01:22 PM on 04/09/2011
Ive learned to read between the lines when Christians and Muslims want to extend their hands in friendship to each other. Most of these articles mention Christians, Muslims and Jews, but no one else. I wonder what they plan to do to people that dont believe in One God? I hate to ask, but my concern is legitimant, considering the barbarianism of the Abrahamic faiths.
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05:12 PM on 04/08/2011
http://vimeo.com/14966663
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American Air
10:23 PM on 04/08/2011
diabolical turpitude
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jackbutler5555
12:48 PM on 04/08/2011
It's a worthy goal to have Christians and Muslims get along better than some of them do now.  But can it be accomplished?  In Christianity, some Protestants don't like other Christians.  Catholics, in some parts of the country, are regarded as heretics and Mormons are not even regarded as Christians.  Of course, we have some Shias and Sunnis itching to kill each other.

Within religious sects, the zealots' arguments about dogma mitigate against tolerance.  How can we discount the arguments within the world's religions as we proclaim our willingness to reach out to other world religions.

It's one thing to own a set of beliefs based on faith rather than reason.  It's really quite another to express hostility toward those whose sets of unprovable beliefs differ from our own.
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TheOneIndependent
10:04 AM on 04/08/2011
We live our lives based on fables written by men educated less than the normal 6 year old of today. Men who previously would pray to the thunder god because of a lightning bolt. All christian faiths agree that the bible was written by men but those of Islam believe that the Koran was written by "God" himself. To believe either has any credibility is just nuts but to purposely act to disavow anothers faith as T. Jones did and people get killed is criminal and should be held accountable for all the deaths that occured by his word. Where did the reverend go that lived in the little house by the local church? He now has his own TV show and now has his own mansion. Even muslim leaders are guilty of this as well, living in palaces. The GOP has learned that they too can manipulate the masses through religion, when have you ever witnessed so many in govt deny evolution? No one sitting on a throne in the clouds is gonna save us, enlighten us or guide us. We all have to come to certain realizations that our religion is no better than another and while we think ours is the only one we must respect another persons fantasies. What we should be revering is our neighbor, our planet, our family. When the world stops believing in fantasies created by uneducated fearful people 1600 years ago we will all be in a better place.
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Red Ninja Warrior
01:22 PM on 04/09/2011
All christian faiths agree that the bible was written by men but those of Islam believe that the Koran was written by "God" himself.

Ive come across christians that believe God himself wrote the bible.
12:20 AM on 04/08/2011
"My point for posting the link, which would answer some of you questions, is to show that Muslims respect Christiani­ty and the Bible."

Rubbish. Ask the Christians in 60 odd mulsim countries; they hold a different view!!!

"His evil call for burning al Quran demonstrat­es how sick people could exploit the freedom of expression in a free society like America."

This is better. They execute some one to share his faith with others!!! Read this:

"An Eritrean Christian is facing the death penalty in Saudi Arabia after being arrested for sharing his faith with Muslims.

Mussie Eyob was detained by the authorities at a mosque in Saudi’s second largest city, Jeddah, on 12 February. He had gone there to meet and talk with local Muslims after speaking about Christianity at the Eritrean Embassy for three days. Eyob was arrested for preaching to Muslims, an offence that carries the death penalty in Saudi Arabia.

Eyob, who was initially assumed to have mental health problems, was examined by doctors, who confirmed that he is fit for trial and sentencing. He was then transferred to the notorious high-security Briman Prison. His family are very concerned for his welfare there."

http://weaselzippers.us/2011/04/05/saudi-arabia-christian-man-jailed-faces-death-penalty-for-sharing-his-faith-with-muslims/
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ilm101
01:47 AM on 04/08/2011
At least Muslim did not bring millions of slave from Africa and forced them to convert.
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Ioan Lightoller
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04:17 AM on 04/08/2011
Actually, Muslims did take slaves from those they conquered. And the conquered had the choice of converting or death (though in some cases they allowed dhimmitude, a status of inferiority vis a vis Islam.
04:59 AM on 04/08/2011
Well, Google "Arab slave trade", for starters. America isn't the only place where Africans (or other peoples, by the way) were sold. Slave trade is way older and more widespread than that.
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11:24 AM on 04/07/2011
"There is always an angle worthy of discussion in this megalomania of “Burn al Quran Day”. May be that is why so many comments have been voiced and they are all against this disgraceful and stupid plan by a discredited pastor who can’t get the support of his mother church in Germany nor the sympathy of his own daughter.

I hate to contribute to the man’s psychic lust for publicity- for that’s what he is after- and join the flocks of writers who have penned many articles on the subject.

Pastor Terry Jones` hideous plan should have been neglected and never granted this wide media exposure which turned this sick idea into a phenomenal display of extremism.

This Jones took advantage of the interconnected world of today and made a congregation of 50 people look like the whole of the American people on a facebook page. His evil call for burning al Quran demonstrates how sick people could exploit the freedom of expression in a free society like America. Being free to do this bonfire does not mean that it is the right thing to do."

http://www.veteranstoday.com/2010/09/09/why-muslims-dare-not-burn-the-bible-in-return/
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03:47 PM on 04/07/2011
Is murdering people in response, the right, or even rational thing to do?

The article that you link to asks why Muslims didn't just burn the Bible in return? I don't propose to know, but that said I did watch Bobby Ghosh, editor Time Magazine, on the telly news say emphatically that the Quran is considered the direct word of God and the bible is not. He said that it wouldn't be the same. I am not suggesting that this is the opinion of all Muslims, but it is of at least one, maybe more (?).


http://www.mediaite.com/tv/msnbcs-hardball-guest-explains-why-burning-the-koran-is-worse-than-burning-the-bible/
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05:27 PM on 04/07/2011
"Is murdering people in response, the right, or even rational thing to do?"

Of course not, and, we should blame innocent people who did not commit the murders.

So far, according to the governor of Mazar-E-Sharif, this has been attributed to the Taliban.

My point for posting the link, which would answer some of you questions, is to show that Muslims respect Christianity and the Bible.
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05:28 PM on 04/07/2011
"we should blame"

Correction: I meant to say we should NOT blame innocent people.
02:43 AM on 04/07/2011
In this century there is a large disparity between the violence the Christians inflict on others as compared to the violence Muslims inflict on others. I think the Muslims have the High Score on that Game.
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01:31 AM on 04/07/2011
Religions bore me. A life lived with passion and fury are interesting. And, of course, everything in human existence on this planet is impermanent. When will we get it?
01:15 AM on 04/07/2011
"At the Cathedral of Saint John the Divine, we read the Quran on various occasions each year."

Dr. James, I in no way endorse Terry Jones, his congregation, and their actions. But I do think you are reaching out too far reading the Quran in a Christian church.

I mean, I am glad you have association with "Muslim colleagues", but I believe you took your vows to Christ. I mean, Muslims do not believe in Christ as the Son of God, as their Lord and Savior. You do, don't you?

Are your "Muslim colleagues" taking their turns reading the gospel, resurrection of Christ, in their synagogue? No? I believe you need to find another small group bible study. One that maybe focuses on the gospel of Jesus Christ. You know, the message of God's Son, Jesus Christ who became incarnate by the virgin Mary, made man, was crucified, died and is risen, seated at the right hand of the Father...and, and all who believe in him, (not as a mortal prophet), shall inherit eternal life.

I mean, can you not peacefully, respectfully, agree with your Muslim colleagues that there are differences in the Muslim and Christian beliefs that are too great to ever meet eye to eye on? And remain respectful as they nourish their believers with their word, while you remain true to Christ and his word with believers in Christ as their Lord and Savior? Right now, your Christian message is tainted, tainted truth is deceit.
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jestermarcus
Enough about me.....
03:30 PM on 04/07/2011
You do realize that the Quran mentions things like Christianity and Jesus in positive ways right?
04:59 PM on 04/07/2011
Did you not read my other post. You try to appease the Son of God by making him into a mortal prophet? This is positive? No, this is stripping Jesus of his glory. No matter how you sugar coat your message, this is denial of Jesus as the Messiah, nothing positive about that.
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12:58 PM on 04/08/2011
Indeed ,the Quran mentions Jesus and the Bible in positive ways ,in fact it confirms that those who follow Jesus will inherit the Kingdom of Heaven .

Surah 5
12:26 AM on 04/07/2011
Not just Christians and Muslims, people of all faith (and no faith) should work together to promote harmony.
With regards to the question you ask, yes, the violence was abhorrent and they should have known better But I don't think comparing it to what Jones did was reasonable because of the different context. The violence took place in a war-torn country that America occupies and where people had little access to information. It was been reported that during the protests people shouted and the crowd believed that hundreds of Qurans had been desecrated by the US government, not some lone nut.
Should they know better? Yes, but is it a reasonable expectation of people in their position? Not really.
Shout Jones have known better? Yes. It is reasonable to expect someone in his situation to know better? Yes, kind of.
been2there
Facts have a liberal bias.
11:48 PM on 04/06/2011
As for me and my family--we do strive to break the cycle. I can't, of course, speak for all Christians.
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Martin Eldred
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02:32 AM on 04/07/2011
We do as well. It begins with each of us doing what we can where we are to live out the peace. Fanned and faved.