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Gay and Baptist: How an Oxymoron May Save the Church

Posted: 01/27/2013 11:29 am

An ordained gay Baptist preacher and his life partner who were refused a marriage license in Jefferson County accepted arrest rather than betray their Christian conviction that anti-gay laws are unjust. By implication, the Rev. Maurice "Bojangles" Blanchard and his husband, Dominique James, both members in good standing in a local Baptist congregation, stood in contradiction to the widely held cultural and spiritual assumption that gay people are "abominations" before God, and should have none of the common rights to marriage afforded to all other citizens by the civil state. Despite the shockwaves their non-violent protest is sending throughout evangelical Protestantism and Baptist life in particular, their act of conscience may save the church yet.

The facts of the protest action carried out by the Rev. Bojangles and Dominique are these: on Tuesday, Jan. 22, the couple, wearing crosses on their ski caps, requested a license to marry from the Clerk's Office, and were refused. When asked why she refused them, Sandy Byerly, manager of the license office, said that she was upholding the law of the Commonwealth of Kentucky, which wrote anti-gay discrimination into the state constitution in 2004 by an amendment saying that "only a marriage between one man and one woman shall be a marriage in Kentucky," according to the Louisville Courier-Journal. Further, any clerk who willfully defies state law and issues a marriage license to a same-sex couple anyway will be removed from office and is subject to a year in jail. After the refusal by the clerk, the gay couple staged a peaceful pray-in until they were arrested and charged with trespassing at 5 p.m., when the clerk's office closed for the day. Offered the option of being cited for the offense rather than being arrested, the Baptist preacher and his spouse told the Metro Police officer that they had a "spiritual obligation" to resist the injustice of a law that denied them their civil right to marriage. As the Rev. Bojangles said prior to entering the clerk's office, "If we don't act, we are accomplices in our own discrimination. We have to resist." The couple was led to a waiting patrol car, and were transported to the Metro Corrections Center where they were booked. Jefferson County Clerk Bobbi Holsclaw told reporters that the ordained minister and his spouse were protesting in the wrong place. Instead of disturbing the clerk's office, she said, they should instead have taken their argument up with the state legislature.

Selah (Hebrew for "pause" -- found in the Book of Psalms).

The vast majority of Christians in the United States consider themselves law-abiding citizens, and shy away from public acts that defy law and order. Among ordained ministers, the aversion to any controversial word or deed, inside or outside of the congregation, is particularly high. Preachers, by-and-large, consider the office of prophet to be a historic artifact of First Testament history, not an obligation for modern spiritual shepherds. Prophetic action of the sort the good Reverend took in the county clerk's office is decidedly not a career enhancing choice. Controversy in the ministry can get ministers fired, and their families booted out of the parsonage.

The Rev. Bojangles knew all of that -- but he acted anyway, in obedience to the spiritual dictates of his conscience and in solidarity with LGBTQ people in over thirty states where same-sex marriage has been outlawed by constitutional amendment. As he told the Courier-Journal, he felt anxiety about the prospect of arrest, but he and his spouse of six years were "trusting in God and deeply called to do this." They faced the humiliation and degradation of the refusal in the clerk's office, they said, in order "to stand up for ourselves and countless others."

Selah, again.

Both gay men are members of Highland Baptist Church in Louisville, the church that ordained Bojangles in May of last year. Highland's Pastor, the Rev. Joe Phelps, said that Bojangles and Dominique let him know what they were going to do prior to the peaceful protest. Pastor Joe also acknowledged that he understood there would be considerable friction for the church because of what these two Baptists were intending to do. Yet, neither he nor the good Baptists of Highland Church have flinched at the storm of publicity whipped up since their Timothy (a term for a member ordained by a local church to the ministry, harking back to the example of the Apostle Paul's protégé Timothy) and his husband withstood the anti-gay, anti-same-sex marriage law. In a public statement to the church and the world at large, Pastor Joe wrote on Jan. 24, "As for my reaction to Bojangles and Dominique's action: I'm proud to pastor a church where members are willing to put their reputations on the line in order to challenge unjust laws in a manner that is respectful and non-violent."

While Christians and others of good conscience may justly disagree over the specifics of the deeds of Bojangles and Dominique, and in general oppose one another's views on same-sex marriage and the status of LGBTQ people in the church of Jesus Christ, Pastor Joe said he had to stand with his parishioners, and he believed that their sisters and brothers in the faith should, as well. "And I do believe that the laws against same-sex marriage are unjust," he went on to say. "We experienced the consequence of this just last week, when the five-year partner of a man in critical condition in the ER had to wait several hours until a 'legitimate' next-of-kin arrived before being told that he had died on the scene."

Pastor Joe concluded, "There can be debate about whether the arrest is good or bad for the cause of civil rights for LGBT persons, but that they acted with integrity and the convictions of their hearts cannot be debated."

Such words and deeds are rare in any Christian circles these days, on the so-called religious right or progressive left. Matter of fact, putting words like "gay," "ordained Baptist minister" and "civil disobedience" together affirmatively in the same sentence feels like a bald-faced oxymoron: a brain-aching contradiction in terms! But given the damage done to the lives, psyches and families of LGBTQ people in the name of religion, decisive action to reverse the course of prejudice in the faith community looks essential, if the church is to be true to its Savior and its own soul. These days, encounters with such amazing oxymorons may be the only way the church can be awakened to its true role in society: speaking and acting FOR the underdogs of this world, and not against them.

Some might call the stand Pastor Joe, the Rev. Bojangles and Br. Dominique took as action "for the sake of Jesus Christ" as well as for the underdogs of today's world. Professor of New Testament Leander E. Keck wrote in his landmark book, "Who Is Jesus? History in Perfect Tense," that voluntarily becoming despicable in the eyes of society is a powerful characteristic of taking up Jesus' work among the outcast and the despised of every age-in effect, facing the risks "for Jesus' sake." Of such courageous souls, Keck notes, "Such persons usually do not talk of their own suffering but talk of others' for whose sake they are ready to accept what may befall them." In this day and age, these words could have been penned expressly for oxymoronic Baptist preachers and those who cherish them who stand up to the opprobrium heaped on LGBTQ people. "Such voluntarily suffering," Keck wrote, "has two names: one is love, the other is Jesus-in perfect tense."

Will the real Christians of this age please stand up? Some are, apparently, accepting despicable consequences on behalf of the outcasts, and "for Jesus' sake," as well.

 
 
 
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07:15 PM on 02/01/2013
They sound like good, principled people. WTH then are they Baptists? Not exactly known for tolerance and equality!
03:47 PM on 02/01/2013
I didn't realize the real Church of Jesus Christ needed human rescue. But hey you have rewrote the Bible on everything else so why not make man the center of power instead of Christ. He is just here for you isn't He? Your the center of your universe and you just let God live here.
03:31 PM on 02/01/2013
It is one thing to be sincere. It is another to be sincerely wrong. Marriage, the first ever of all human institutions is to be the union of one man and one woman. To reject that is to reject life. And that so many do reject that is one credible evidence of the culture of death that is shrouding most of humanity.
12:05 PM on 01/28/2013
Anti-gay discrimination is a misleading term. Marriage is between one man and one woman and it is not discriminatory to say so.
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BeninOakland
Don't tell me you love me. Let me guess.
01:15 PM on 01/28/2013
But it is discriminatory to enact it and claim that it is god's will, or to tell a lot of bigoted lies about gay people to jusitfy it.
03:34 PM on 02/01/2013
You should look up the word "discriminate" in a decent dictionary. Essentially all of us do well (for ourselves and others) to discriminate between that which is true and that which is false. God is true, the devil is false. Start with that discrimination and proceed.
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democratbob
Equality for all, including marriage.
01:39 PM on 01/28/2013
A growing number of countries and states disagree with you.
08:40 PM on 02/01/2013
Since when does what a country or state thinks compare to what Biblical Truth states?
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11:33 AM on 01/28/2013
"Will the real Christians of this age please stand up?" Real Christians preach the the true message of the Gospel when they stand, that being "repentance and forgiveness of sins in Jesus name". They call on people to turn from ALL their sins rather than twist Scripture to defend their favorite ones. When real Christians stand up and preach repentance as part of the Gospel (as instructed by Christ Himself to do) we repeatedly get slammed as being "intolerant" for simply believing what the Bible says. Do you really want us to stand up? I think not...
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TXanimal
Somewhere between Occam's Razor & Murphy's Law
04:45 PM on 01/29/2013
Intolerance wrapped up in religious opinion is still intolerance.
07:19 PM on 02/01/2013
Wait, aren't you being intolerant for not tolerating ChurchSalt's views?
06:14 PM on 02/01/2013
ChurchSalt, well said. The truth is that many christians are looking at pornography, fornicating and committing adultery. As one who must fight against heterosexual lust in his heart everyday, I can say that homosexuality is ALSO a sin to be shunned by all men and women. The pleasure associated with God ordained sex in marriage is a gift, but it also brings forth children themselves a gift AND a responsibility. That's married life as God intended it to be.
10:43 AM on 01/28/2013
Why is this person a Baptist? He obviously doesn't agree with the basic teachings of his denomination. If your personal beliefs are at odds with 90% of the people in your denomination, then it's probably time to find a new church.
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democratbob
Equality for all, including marriage.
01:40 PM on 01/28/2013
Not all Baptists are of a piece. You have the Southern Baptists who tend to be pretty conservative and there are moderate Baptists and then there are very liberal Baptists.
10:30 AM on 01/28/2013
Sin save the Church? Nope...

Matthew 12:25 Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them, “Every kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and every city or household divided against itself will not stand.

Mark 3:23 “How can Satan drive out Satan? 24 If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. 25 If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand. 26 And if Satan opposes himself and is divided, he cannot stand; his end has come. 27 In fact, no one can enter a strong man’s house without first tying him up. Then he can plunder the strong man’s house.
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Dan Cheshire
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08:36 AM on 01/28/2013
I'm a scientist. We don't believe in anything, especially Jesus Christ. Having been raised Catholic through part of my life, (before my parents went off the deep-end and got to know Jesus Christ personally in the 'born again' way), I was forced to read the Bible and many times. The biblical Jesus Christ would certainly have done what Rev. Blanchard did so if that is what he was going for then I guess he achieved it although I do want to point out that hundreds, if not thousands of gay people before him have done this same thing and likewise, have been arrested. I am glad to see that he has character since apparently he is a church leader. Most of them have no courage at all; complete cowards most of them. I guess that about the only thing the churches would tolerate less than a gay Baptist Reverend is probably a person of color, or even a transvestite gay Baptist Reverend. My point being that according to them, he's the worst thing out there. If he really wants to have a successful Baptist ministry then I can see where he will need to make some big statements like this one. So he is actually furthering his career in addition to fighting for gay marriage rights. There are some who might suspect that this was done more to promote his career but regardless, he's getting the publicity he desired and in the end gay rights will be served?
10:39 AM on 01/28/2013
Jesus said “Every kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and every city or household divided against itself will not stand."

Embracing what scripture calls sin could never "save the Church."

These are simply the beginning of "birth pangs"...
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Dan Cheshire
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11:33 AM on 01/28/2013
And Peter Pan said, “All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust.” ― J.M. Barrie, Peter Pan
Libbey Ral
The 2nd Amendment Protects Your Other Rights
10:43 AM on 01/28/2013
I disagree Dan. God is the ultimate scienctist. I am sure he understands the world and physics much more than any human being. BTW christians believe that jesus loves all people, but hates the sins they commit. You should read some books like Embraced by the light. It may open your eyes if you can set aside your biases for a second.

Like radiation, you cannot taste it, smell it, see it, hear it, or feel it, but it is there.
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Dan Cheshire
Southern California
11:35 AM on 01/28/2013
lol.  "My church isn't like them".  Christian terrorist far outnumber any Muslim ones.  When you can understand why it is that you reject the gods of Muhammad, Scientology, and Paganism, then you will understand why I must reject your false god.
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WoodyCPM
Now what?
08:10 AM on 01/28/2013
The Biblical literalists and fundamentalists in Christianity will eventually lose on this issue. They're already losing, but over the next 20-30 years same sex marriage will become rather common place, even in the Christian church.
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Dan Cheshire
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08:39 AM on 01/28/2013
I agree. 30 years from now we'll all be laughing that it was ever an issue but there is going to be problems even when it is legalized. There are still many haters but the problems will be few and isolated. There will be retaliation from the biggest haters, you can count on that. They're all working behind the scenes on stuff as we speak. Just no telling what they have up their sleeve.
Dastius-Krazitauc
I wouldn't tech them peas o' hern.
08:49 AM on 01/28/2013
They will lose a lot more than on just this issue. As Christians, they are charged with bringing more people to Christ, but unless they change their rhetoric and stances, their corruption of what Jesus stands for will draw fewer and fewer people to Christianity.
09:56 AM on 01/28/2013
As Christians, Jesus called us to love God, love our neighbors as ourselves, pray for those who persecute us, love those who hate us... Non-violent, civil disobedience is a way of doing just that... I don't think this is a corruption of what Jesus stands for... I think it illustrates exactly he would do.
TryToBeFlexible
MENSA, Gay, Atheist, Believer in justice, age 57
10:28 AM on 01/28/2013
Actually they are driving away such huge numbers that "non religious" is the fastest growing segment of the the "religious" categories.
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lynniebaker
Cons have short term memories too.
06:17 AM on 01/28/2013
Gay and a Baptist church.is something I never dreamed would come together. I was a member of a Baptist church and felt I had to leave because of their beliefs that to be gay was a sin. I am a heterosexual female who strongly believes in the teachings of Christ to which I see nothing that he said or did would warrant such hate between the love of two people. To see that indeed there are Baptist churches that teach the love of Christ and not the extreme hate I see when I read about WBC is truly a call back to my church. I am obviously going to have a long conversation with the Pastor first and hopefully the hate and intolerance is no longer there. I certainly do not want anyone praying for my soul because of my beliefs in the unity of two people whose only desire is to be equal in all things, especially in love.
10:44 AM on 01/28/2013
It is scripture that teaches gay sex is sin; the Baptist church, from which I exclude WBC, is simply teaching scripture.

Your micro bio speaks volumes...many today are trading God's word for their own consciences and "instincts". You can add they also trade salvation for social justice and Christ for pc platitudes.

God's word is not always warm and fuzzy. Love and Truth walk hand in hand.
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lynniebaker
Cons have short term memories too.
03:40 PM on 01/28/2013
My instincts are God given.
08:29 PM on 01/28/2013
Many today do not believe in your God and don't think, in America, others should have to live by your beliefs. We don't need a God to have morals and values - it is simply wrong to think otherwise.

You go right ahead and live your life based on your God's word, but keep it in your home and in your church. Leave the rest of us Americans to have life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Being gay is not some crazy, criminal lifestyle as people on your side tend to spew. Time to live and let live.
Libbey Ral
The 2nd Amendment Protects Your Other Rights
10:45 AM on 01/28/2013
It appears you did not read the bible.
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lynniebaker
Cons have short term memories too.
01:51 AM on 01/29/2013
Does God know that you sit in judgement right now to a person who is talking about going back to church for whatever their reasons are? How does that speck feel in your eye?
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Tony Sez
06:17 AM on 01/28/2013
Dear fellow followers of Christ,
More of this please.
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Left-Populist
1st, 2nd, 4th Amendment Warrior
03:16 AM on 01/28/2013
You have to face the fact that you are violating both Divine Law and Natural Law. You have no excuse for your actions. Just become a Unitarian Universalist if you want like minded people to support your sins.
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KyDude
All the fish in the sea & I'm in land-locked state
07:08 AM on 01/28/2013
We don't need no stink'n imaginary laws! Just follow your heart and respect others. Live.
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lesterbud
Facts ARE Liberty
08:25 AM on 01/28/2013
What is universal, I have found, is that people who are offended and threatened by same sex marriage have very shaky marriages, massively fractured foundations of faith and live self-imposed secluded lives..
I ahve been narried fior 32 years.
I have raised 3 fantastically intelligent, stable and productive children.
I have NEVER ONCE felt the tiniest threat from a gay or lesbian person or from their desire to be legally bound to the ones they love.
I feel very sad for those that feel they need to use religion to mask their learned hate.
Divine and Natural law????
I certainly challenge you to define those in any sort of coherent way.
01:10 AM on 01/28/2013
I do not support gay marriage but this whole medical issue related to the part about having to wait for the legitimate next of kin could have been resolved in advance if these two had a medical power of attorney that extended rights to each other. Not sure why more are using this too manage through these issues.
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bfbear54
Nil Magnum Nisi Bonum
08:15 AM on 01/28/2013
While you are correct in saying that a medical power of attorney would help partners in a situation where they are denied entry or the right to make decisions for and about their partner's healthcare you miss the larger point here. That point is the discrimination that LGBT people face in not only this but in many other aspects of life that you take for granted. LGBT people cannot inherit on the death of a partner even with a legal will if the family of the dead partner resist or protest. Any children adopted by the couple can be taken away from the surviving partner if the family or someone else decides to protest. There are many benefits tax and otherwise that the LGBT couple cannot access or take advantage of because their partnership/union is not legally recognized. In any of these situations the state within the law may discriminate against LGBT couples in a committed relationship. This is why we are seeking the right to marry because a power of attorney is not worth the paper it is written on if the state or someone's family can object. I have seen with my own eyes situations where the wishes of a partner in an LGBT relationship are totally ignored, especially when the family strongly objects or the state has discrimination built into their laws and constitution. Our quest for marriage equality harms no one, does not damage or negate the marriage of heterosexuals in any way.
06:31 PM on 01/28/2013
I visiteople in the hospital and I have for years. I never talk to administrators. All I need to know is their room number, intensive care, emergency room or whatever and go in. Once the person sees you and acknowledges you they cannot kick you out.

You can spend years fighting the system and laws or just be a little smoother and get in and see the people you need to see. Going to see someone in the hospital has nothing to do with marriage equality. It only has to do with getting past the gatekeeper.
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09:16 AM on 01/28/2013
From personal experience the Medical POA does not always work. In '87 I went in for cancer surgery and wrote a Do Not Resuscitate Order and a Medical POA upon which my Doctor ordered one of the Nurses out of the operating room. He told me later that the nurse in question was known to place calls to the state complaining a Doctor did not do everything possible if problems happened. She did not believe in DNR Orders or in a Medical POA therefore put herself ahead of the patients wishes.
06:33 PM on 01/28/2013
That is a totally different situation. But you're alive so congrats.
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12:09 AM on 01/28/2013
Its the Baptists and Kentucky and you expected something different? really?
10:13 AM on 01/28/2013
Oh yes, KY is the ONLY place this could have happened. Please- it could have happened in many other states.
11:20 AM on 01/28/2013
You do understand that this story is about a gay Baptist and his partner challenging marriage law and that the minister at his church, in Kentucky, fully supports him?
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Sistagirl Young
12:00 AM on 01/28/2013
"But if it be of GOD, ye cannot overthrow it; lest happly ye be found even to fight against GOD." Acts 5:39. GOD's laws do not conflict with man's laws. Love one another, thou shalt not still, thou shalt not kill. Yet man has his own ideas and chooses to exercise his righs. Just because he does so...does not make it right. Yet man views himself as a law unto himself. The person who breaks into your home? He feels it's "his" right. But society says "not so." Even The LORD says "thou shalt not steal. There is obviously some accord here. Yet, man may not agree with The LORD, so he implements "his" law. Right? In the eyes of man. But GOD is the supreme law giver. Break HIS laws and the consequences are beyond the grasp of man's metnal capabilities. It's "his" way or "no" way. We can be right with man and wrong with The LORD. It's up to the individual to make "his" determination. The LORD has laready made HIS. Life.
03:17 AM on 01/28/2013
Can't you think for yourself?
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Sistagirl Young
03:14 PM on 01/28/2013
Hello Christopholl; Obviously you do not think so. Surprising as this may seem, I can and do. I know of no one on earth that hung on a cross for me. Since only one did? Well, that's good enough for me. Not you, or anyone else, perhaps. But "me." I care not what others do. It doesn't matter anyway. Folk do as they so desire. I desire to follow the teachings of The LORD. It don't cost nobody nothing; so why should they even care? One of is right and one of is wrong. You have your view and I have mine. And not just mine. The Bible is all the proof I need. Life.
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05:29 AM on 01/28/2013
The consequences however are not yours to mete out. The laws of Caeser are not yours to legislate or dictate to them. What is legal in the world is no concern of yours. You are in the world but not apart of it. Like an alien resident you have no say or share in what goes for powers of the land. Christ didn't give you that mission. He have you a job. Preach my Gospel. Now for 1900 years Churches have used the sword, war, progromo's, slavery, butchery, lynchings, Burnings and inquisitions, hate mobs, assault and battery to pound your idea of righteousness into the worlds heads. Pharisee's like Paul did the same thing. Killed Christians beleiving he was doing God's will. Zeal for God does not make right thinking. Now Churches throughout history has done the same thing to anyone not thinking their way. That needs to change. Because it is not what Christ commissioned you to do. That is lawlessness he condemned the pharisees, Saducees and greedy temple preist of doing. Look what it got them? A burned down temple, routed to slavery and death and sent to the four corners to be ruled and kicked about for from then on. So I would say watch yourself before you hurt yourselves.
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Sistagirl Young
03:20 PM on 01/28/2013
Hello chatnuptime1; Man is often in conflict with the teachings of The LORD. HE showed them up for what they were. They didn't like it. Most people don't like being proved wrong. But it in no way negates the fact one is wrong. Accept or reject. Do as one will. I am not judging. If I do not step on someone's foot why do they holler ouch? Life.