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Female Jet Pilot? Sure. Preacher? No.

Posted: 08/12/11 08:00 AM ET

One third of the U.S. Supreme Court justices are women, more than 50 female astronauts have traveled into space and 41 women have won the Nobel Peace Prize. But place a woman in a pulpit and blood pressure and eyebrows immediately begin to rise -- rise, that is, within the religious tradition of my upbringing: the Southern Baptists.

The current position statement on women by the Southern Baptist Convention (SBC) states that "Scripture teaches that a woman's role is not identical to that of men in every respect, and that pastoral leadership is assigned to men."

Today -- in 2011 -- the road to ordination in the Southern Baptist Church remains strewn with women who have been turned down or, worse, who have been ordained only to be ousted from the denomination. Consider the case of 28-year-old Rev. Bailey Nelson who was recently called as the Senior Pastor of Flat Rock Baptist Church in Mount Airy, N.C. Within two weeks, her church was summarily kicked out of the local Baptist Association for violating scriptural guidelines that they believe reserve the role of pastor to male. "We're getting letters from all over the world voicing concern and support," Nelson said. "The outpouring has been overwhelming."

Rev. Nelson is not alone. I remember at an early age telling a vacation bible school teacher that "I was trying to decide between being a minister or a jet pilot." She smiled and said, "Well, girls can be jet pilots, but God only calls men to preach."

Eventually I decided against the jet pilot career and became a lawyer -- same job as a minister, just different clients. Yet the call to ordination became too strong to ignore. In the end, I was forced to leave the Southern Baptists and join the American Baptists, a more moderate denomination within the Baptist family and one that ordains women.

But I'll give the Southern Baptists one thing: They are nothing if not consistent. To this day, after 10 years as a trial lawyer, two graduate degrees, an honors thesis in seminary and my own pulpit in New York City (and the first woman in my church's 164 history), I am still not welcome to preach in my home church in Charlotte, N.C., where I grew up.

As a lawyer, I can't help but scratch my head at the circular nature of this situation: The SBC interprets scripture to exclude women from ordination; yet all those who interpret scripture within the SBC are ... men?

Their position hangs on a literal interpretation of passages like 1 Corinthians 14:34-35 in which the Apostle Paul writes "Let the women keep silent in church." Of course, a literal interpretation of this passage would mean women may not sing or verbally praise God in worship. For anyone who has attended a Baptist service, you know that is a manifest impossibility.

In another similar scripture (1 Timothy 2:11-12) Paul writes: "I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent." Not even addressing the historical context of this scripture, which demonstrates these words were directed at marital issues and not ministry, there is a larger problem of selective enforcement. For example, that same passage also forbids women to wear gold jewelry or pearls. We don't hear much about that section. I guess the SBC decided that would be too much to enforce on us bling-lovin' southern sisters.

We also don't hear much about Romans 16:7 where Paul speaks of Andronicus and Junia (a woman), describing them as "outstanding among the apostles." (Not surprisingly, some later translations changed the female name "Junia" to the male "Junias.")

If you want to take a literal interpretation of the Bible, then how about use Acts 2:17-18: "And it shall come to pass in the last days, saith God, I will pour out of my Spirit upon all flesh: and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy." As I used to say in my prior career, "I rest my case."

Numerous theologians and prominent members of the Baptist family have publicly disagreed with the SBC, most notably former President Jimmy Carter, who broke with the Southern Baptists due to their position on women in the ministry. He explained, "The truth is that male religious leaders have had -- and still have -- an option to interpret holy teachings either to exalt or subjugate women ... They have, for their own selfish ends, overwhelmingly chosen the latter."

The reality is this: We live in a world in great need of healing. And there are people across the globe offering to dedicate their lives toward this healing; yet, they are denied simply because they are women.

In one of his most famous parables, Jesus said that the Kingdom of heaven is like the landowner who entrusted his three workers with certain talents (money). Two invested the talents, doubled their value and were rewarded. The third worker, however, was punished because he buried the money and barely returned what was given.

The SBC is burying the divine gifts borne by more than 50 percent of God's children. It is wasting these talents. We can no longer afford this unjust denial of vocation. We can no longer afford to stifle God's call. Given the broken nature of our world today, I say we need all the help we can get -- Supreme Court Justices, jet pilots, preachers, and all.

 

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One third of the U.S. Supreme Court justices are women, more than 50 female astronauts have traveled into space and 41 women have won the Nobel Peace Prize. But place a woman in a pulpit and blood pre...
One third of the U.S. Supreme Court justices are women, more than 50 female astronauts have traveled into space and 41 women have won the Nobel Peace Prize. But place a woman in a pulpit and blood pre...
 
 
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03:52 PM on 08/16/2011
Why is the author conflating secular social norms with religious social norms as if they are one and the same? We generally hear christians arguing that secular social norms should reflect religious norms, but this author is arguing the opposite.
02:29 PM on 08/16/2011
The Bible says in Joel 2:28 & 29 that in the last days I will pour out my spirit upon all flesh, this means men and women, your sons and your daughters shall prophesy ( this means to preach), read Acts 2:17 & 18, This is the word of God, not Paul talking here. when reading that scripture where Paul was saying " let your women keep silent in the church ) he was making reference to women out bursting and asking there husbands questions, there was a argument some confusion going on. People have miss quoted this scripture, taking it out of context. God can use an ass to give His word, he can most certainly use a women , and He has, and will continue to call and use women , after all a women was the first to carry the Gospel, when Jesus rose who was there to carry the message women, so you can argue about this from now until He comes back, take the Bible at it word, women preachers are here to stay, God said it and that settles it.
05:29 PM on 08/23/2011
That is not what Paul means in Acts 2:17, 18. He is referencing teaching. If you state that people have miss quoted this scripture, can you give a related scripture to back up your stance?
11:56 AM on 08/30/2011
In Acts 2:17 this was Peter's Pentecostal sermon, he was telling the people what Joel had said, just reiterating the fact that in the last days the spirit will be poured out upon all flesh, this was said during the day of Pentecost when the Holy Spirit (Holy Ghost) came down and feel on them.I don't need to give you more scripture to back up anything the word backs up it's self. You can either believe it and take it at it's word, or you can choose not to believe it. I have given you Acts and Joel so that's now if you want to know where you can find different scriptures that shows women preacher in the Bible then that's something different. I can't make you believe or change your mind about women preachers, but I can say this God said it I believe it. He uses whom He wants.
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
08:28 PM on 08/15/2011
There's also the little matter that those passages weren't written by Paul at all ... they are later additions not to be found in the earliest manuscripts.
10:58 PM on 08/14/2011
So what is the problem? You disagreed with the Southern Baptist tradition, and brought your talents to a different denomination. This is exactly how it should be. They don't have the right to prevent you from being a preacher, but they certainly have the right to prevent you from being one of their preachers. They continue in their beliefs, you continue in yours.

I fail to see what the controversy is about.
09:56 AM on 08/15/2011
Because it is sexist.
been2there
Facts have a liberal bias.
01:14 PM on 08/15/2011
They have the right, legally, but that does not make their attitude right.
08:16 PM on 08/15/2011
Who can say whether their attitude is "right" or not? It is based on their interpretation of Scripture and the Christian religious tradition, subjects which are particularly susceptible of varying interpretations. I have no idea whether they are right or wrong and neither, IMO, does anyone else.
04:35 PM on 08/14/2011
This is why main stream religions are out of touch, primitive, and will one day become irrelevant.

Historically women have been the healers, and nurturers of civilization. Religions run by men have relegated women to being spectators, and not participants. These men are neanderthal in their thinking, and need to step down because they are cheating their congregations.

I for one would attend a religious ceremony that actively included women.

But until that day comes, I will avoid religion........ it is such a waste of time anyway.
02:56 PM on 08/14/2011
There's no such creature as a woman preacher.
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Kate McCloud
There will be disappointment, but never shame
08:02 PM on 08/16/2011
Since you don't have them in Penrose, I guess you believe there's no such creature as a kangaroo, either. Uh,,,they both exist.
but God? Meh....
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BlackYowe
I am a classical- liberal woman and a Jeweler.
01:32 AM on 08/14/2011
Methodists, Presbyterians and Episcopalians have thousands and thousands of female ministers in the USA. In the UK there are more women clergy than men. Baptists are backward, nuff said.
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Polarchinois
01:07 PM on 08/15/2011
So do Evangelicals in my neck of the woods.
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BlackYowe
I am a classical- liberal woman and a Jeweler.
12:18 AM on 08/16/2011
I know some independent Evangelical churches in my area with women pastors. My husband had a cousin who was one.
10:36 PM on 08/13/2011
In the late 1990's, the Baptist churches around South Los Angeles, where I'm from, underwent a major boom in women ministers, which drew undisguised rancor and disgust from many of the mainline congregants and pastors.

In this context, I became a licensed minister and preached my first sermon in 1998. I knew many other women, as well, who, freed from former constraints, stepped up to the plate and began to operate in ministry. Despite certain visual changes on the surface, there remained a hollow, a void in many churches regarding the place of women ministers.

Some of the older women, conditioned by their many years in patriarchal churches, were adept at hanging in there, suffering silently the ugly comments, the oversights, the slights. This was not for me, however. A very young woman at the time, I left my small home congregation because of lack of training opportunities and a stubborn commitment to tradition.

Now, I am not associated with any formal church community. I do, however, teach my own small Bible study. Someday, I am sure that I will return to a more formal church community, but I am glad to have freedom to teach and lead outside of the mainline Baptist tradition. I have a feeling I'll need that strength someday.
12:11 AM on 08/14/2011
Good for you!
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April Pells
08:38 PM on 08/13/2011
When I was a girl, I told my dad I wanted to be a minister. He told me only men can be ministers, because god loves men more than women. I decided either god or my dad was full of it.

Trying to be a part of something that fundamentally rejects your efforts seems pointless. Good luck.
01:48 PM on 08/19/2011
Well, if you believed it without actually seeing if he was correct, then you can't blame him.

If you truly wanted to be part of something, then you should research the bible to see if he is correct and not believe every word.
05:55 PM on 08/13/2011
I notice that the author did not reference Titus 1:5-7 which describes a requirement for being an elder (pastor) as being that he is the husband of one wife.
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Polarchinois
01:11 PM on 08/15/2011
Kinda locked into a narrow bandwidth in your interpretation, no?
04:33 PM on 08/15/2011
How else would you interpret it? It is something that certainly appears straightforward and obvious.
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wisdomteeth
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01:48 PM on 08/16/2011
It says that in the book of Titrus? So what? For heaven's sake.
02:08 PM on 08/16/2011
Depends upon whether or not you believe that Bible is the Word of God and want to be obedient to it. If not, then it would not be important for you. I would think and hope that anyone wanting to be a preacher would want to be obedient to the Bible, but I do realize that many do not. I do find it quite ironic that you end your comment "For heaven's sake".
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SkreetGil1
The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell
04:30 PM on 08/13/2011
I don't understand why women keep going to these places that don't want or respect them in any way.

My sister is still catholic. She's pro-choice and uses birth control as do 98% of catholic women!

So why go to a church that doesn't support you?

I left decades ago.

If you stopped supporting them they would disappear!

Yes you do have that much power.

Why do you think religion was invented in the first place.
07:43 PM on 08/13/2011
I have been involved in progressive Catholic movements for years and let me say something in defense of your sister and the millions of other leftist Catholics in the US. I think it is admirable that many Catholics like myself and your sister don't allow the hierarchy to manipulate them into leaving their spiritual home. Why should WE be the ones to leave? I plan to be a thorn in the side of the bishops and the Pope for a very, very long time. And if they don't like it THEY can leave.
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SkreetGil1
The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell
12:42 AM on 08/15/2011
That is like a woman who is beaten by her husband and stays in the situation until he tires of beating her and he leaves.

If you don't leave nothing will ever change.

Stand up for yourself. Worship somewhere that they actually respect you.
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Polarchinois
01:12 PM on 08/15/2011
Religion may have been invented but not Christ, thank God!
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LeftRight
TANSTAAFL
03:32 PM on 08/13/2011
Interesting. But irrelevant. Personally I disagree with the church about hiring women to be the preachers, but that's their right.
07:55 PM on 08/13/2011
It is their legal right, yes, but it is pure baloney not to ordain women. There are many instances in the Bible of women taking leadership roles that would be equivalent to the roles of ordained ministers or priests. All the churches that are dragging their feet on this need to wake up and start respecting women by giving them equal footing, who have been the backbone of Christianity from the beginning.
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03:57 PM on 08/14/2011
It shouldn't be their right as long as they want our tax exemption.
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LeftRight
TANSTAAFL
04:07 PM on 08/14/2011
I disagree to an extent.... I think that churches have a right to their own choices regarding personnel placed in the pulpit. On the other hand, I also think that churches should NOT be tax exempt except for their charitable deeds....

So I can see both parts of this one...
11:06 PM on 08/14/2011
Uh, it is, as you say, OUR tax exemption, not YOUR tax exemption. The great majority of the people in this country take a live and let live position on this kind of religious issue, and are not in favor of the tax code to sway religious groups into adopting policies the government may prefer. If you don't feel that way, by all means vote for whoever you think will change things, file petitions, whatever. But I am confident that most people would reject that kind of government involvement with religious belief and organization.
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Watching rock grow
It's a practice in patience
01:34 PM on 08/13/2011
1Cortinthians 14:34 if accept as a real Pauline verse, and not everyone accepts it as that. Then there is another POV available, other than the usual interpretation. That Paul (or God) considered women inferior and wanted women to be quite in church. Although there are few supporting events, instructions or discussions in scripture; such thinking is also contrary to much of the Jesus material, and the very early church organization.

This other POV incorporates the history of Corinth re-founded in 44BC without the great temple of Aphrodite and its prostitutes. The temple of Apollo was rebuilt: here is when this other POV becomes interesting and more relevant to verse 34 IMO. Apollo, a demi-god of the sun, and son of Zeus was famous for providing to the ancient world; esteemed and popular women prophets including the Roman Sibyl of Cumaean, and the Oracle of Delphi.

A Christian woman prophesying in a Corinthian church could become confused as a new type of woman prophet rivaling the older Apollonian traditions. I can see where Paul would not want any such event happening and taking the simple solution not to allow women to begin in the first place.
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02:12 PM on 08/13/2011
1Corinthians 14:34 refers back to Genesis 3:16 where God was telling Eve of the punishment for her sin. A lot of people today think that God may have changed his mind about part of the punishment or that they can disregard the part they feel insults them.
The theme of 1Corinthians 14 is speaking in tongues (foreign languages). Paul is not saying that a woman is not to speak in church; he's saying that she is not to speak in tongues in the church
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Watching rock grow
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02:59 PM on 08/13/2011
I have a few problems Gal. The church is not male. That Paul the apostle of Gentiles that denied James, the Archbishop of Jerusalem, the dietary and circumcision statues of Judaism being enforced on the Gentiles. Then going with cultural traditions that limited women’s participation in religious matters and public life really such logic is atypical nor well attested with other works within scripture i.e., James, John or the accounts of Jesus.

Then I do not read Genesis 3:16 “…desire will be for your husband and he will rule over you.” As pertaining to speech and prophecy given by the Holy Spirit in the church to a married woman, I can be wrong but again there is no logic in such thinking for me to give it much weight.

I do not see such wording in Galatians, Romans, Acts, 2nd Corinthians, Ephesians, or Philippians. To affirm a consensus in agreement with the few verses there are in this subject. Therefore, I have to consider the traditional explanation of Genesis 3:16 as weak.

“…God may have changed his mind….” Aside from the fact, I said nothing of the sort. Do you kill those scripture tells you too? Eat pork, shrimp? Spin scarlet cloth after seeking wool and flax (Proverbs 31). Does your husband by the sweat of his brow toil the fields (Genesis 3:17-18)? Accept polygamy? Please, only in the treatment of women, in some churches forbidden to move forward.
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09:53 PM on 08/15/2011
In his own clumsy and ridiculous way, Paul made it clear that women should be covered in church because they merely reflect the glory of men. Men should keep their heads free of covering because men reflect the glory of God. Is there really a debate about the misogynous nature of Paul's beliefs? Sadly, the apostle Paul was the main formulator of Christianity.
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11:01 PM on 08/15/2011
Thank you for your interesting post and yes for a great many people you reflect the modern and popular POV. Nor do I necessarily agree or disagree with it. I simply do not believe enough confirmed information is available to make a determined or educated guess. David Wenham in his book on Paul arrives at a different consideration of Paul’s status as the founder of Christianity. Enough so I want more evidence before I decide one way or the other. That is just me.

Covering of long hair has benefits that are forgotten today. Mainly, you do not have to wash it as often. In a time of poor dying ability, as in ancient Iron Age Rome, reducing the need to wash one’s long hair was beneficial.

Claiming Paul was simply a misogynist has not been much help in the discussion of women in the Christian Church. Therefore, the more other reasons for such verses. We can provide the better we stand the chance of opening up greater understanding of possibilities to explain what is not explained in scripture itself. There are other reasons available, for consideration. One of which is not considered; such as the role of women prophets in the Apollonian traditions and Corinth’s loss of income with the permanent closure of the Temple prostitutes of Aphrodite with the rebuilding of Corinth in 44BC. This consideration is not considered because the city’s need for taxable income traditionally is not considered. It should be.
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12:25 PM on 08/13/2011
The way I see it, if you don't like the rules, whether you're Southern Baptist, Catholic, or any other church, find a denomination that likes your rules, or better yet, start your own and see how that works out for you.

Matthew 18:20 For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.
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01:14 PM on 08/15/2011
Yes, but the position of excluding females is neither Biblical nor Christian.
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bluerosesky79
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12:11 PM on 08/13/2011
Well, a recent point I posted recently is most applicable here: that JESUS HIMSELF said that we are to submit ONE to ANOTHER. I can't believe how people ignore Jesus' own words, that would encourage peace and love and would liberate men and women, in favor of the words of a mere man and misogynist!!! Any man or women that would have women to be treated like that is not to be trusted or followed!