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A Christmas Story

Posted: 12/25/11 07:40 PM ET

Matthew 1:18 "This is how the birth of Jesus came about"

Much of what we do is based on stories.  Much of what we hear and  what we see are stories.  

Stories tell messages.  Based on particular people,  set at a particular time, at a particular place. And our lives are based on these stories.  They make sense of our lives and our world.  We are collections, safe deposits of stories.  

Our lives are based on a few stories that we tell.  Some of them are good and some are not.  We tell ourselves we're no good,   we'll never make it.  And we say this type of negative story about others.  We limit other people to the stories we tell about them.  These stories define our lives. What stories have you been telling?

Growing up I ran home everyday, and would be met at the kitchen table with a tunafish sandwich, celery, and some apple juice.  There my babysitter would demand my absolute silence as she watch her "stories."  For 2 hours the stories were told.  As the World Turns. Guiding light.  Days of Our lives.  

Movies and television.  They tell false stories.  They're not true. They're soap operas, dramas.  They take us to imaginary places with imaginary people.  

We feel pain when we try to make real life look like the imaginary. We try to look and dress and act like imaginary people.  We change our bodies to reflect those imaginary TV bodies.  We get implants.  Surgery. Face lifts.

These false stories are all over.  On TV. In our books and in our music.

Beyonce has a song, Irreplaceable.   "To the left to the left.  Everything in you own in a box to the left."  She's singing about this trifling man who did her wrong.  He's replaceable.  She can find another one like him in a minute.  This song is not true.  Its a story.  Beyonce is married and pregnant.   She's not living the lyrics of this song.

But we on the other hand chose replaceable men.  And disposable women.  Who have no substance. No significance, continuing on cycles of nothingness.  Not married with children but bitter and alone.  

Our children are living out destructive lyrics.  Rappers record about violence in studios and our children live out violence in the streets.   They are dying.  Killing themselves based on imaginary lyrics.  

We are surrounded with stories that are wrong.  Not true. False.  But this christmas story is all about the truth.   For it tells about Jesus.  And we know "Jesus is the way the truth and the life."  The Christmas story is all about Jesus.  Thats why is true.  And real.   

The story sounds imaginary.  Mary became pregnant by the Holy Spirit.   Unbelievable.  If it wasn't for Jesus.   With Jesus the unbelievable becomes believable.  The impossible becomes possible.  God does what no one else can do.   

Has God done anything impossible for you?  Has God opened doors you thought would never open?  Has He healed you when everyone else gave up?

God does the impossible.  In my life and your life.  That's Christmas.  

Out of nowhere.  God picks Mary and we see the impossible.

God worked in Mary to create life where there was no life. He doesn't need anything to make something.   God did it at creation and God did it at Christmas.  God takes what is not and makes what He wants.  God calls us when we are nothing.  When we feel empty and lifeless and worthless.  God takes us. And turns us into what He wants us to be.   

God doesn't need anything to bless us.  God takes us. With nothing.  Empty.  Barren.  And gives us life.  And meaning. And purpose.

Christmas tells the story of a family who stayed together.   God tells Joseph not to run, not to flee, "don't leave Mary!".  God turned Joseph from fleeing into a father.   Brothers we must stop leaving our sisters.  Stop leaving Mary.  Don't leave Mary to raise the baby by herself.  That's the Christmas story.   

Poor. Struggling.  You've seen it.  I've seen it.   God kept us together.  Families who had nothing but love.   That's Christmas.  

Joseph said yes to God, and lived up to his purpose.  We often live beneath what God has destined for us.  Many of us never live up to our full greatness.  Because we tell God "No".  What if we said yes?  Instead of hiding and running from God. Say yes to God.  

This christmas.  What would you do, how would you live, if,  you said yes to God?

God does the impossible.  With us, For us and Through us. God does it for me and for you. God does it because He believes in us.  

We lie to God.  But God believes in us.  We break our promises.  We tell Him we won't, but we do.   We say we will, but we don't.  "God I'll never do it again". But we do.   "I'll never cheat again."  "Won't call him again."  But we do.  And God believes us.  Time after time.  God treats us like we have never lied.  If God believes in us, we can believe in God

God gave us this Christmas story.  That Jesus lives.  Christ Jesus lives today.   He walks with me. He talks with me.   Along life's narrow ways.  I've seen it.  Not in a movie.  Not on the radio. Not on TV.  But in my own life, Jesus lives.  So this Christmas, know that Jesus is real, and true.  Thank God.  Thank God for this great story!  

 
Matthew 1:18 "This is how the birth of Jesus came about" Much of what we do is based on stories.  Much of what we hear and  what we see are stories.   Stories tell messages.  Based on particular...
Matthew 1:18 "This is how the birth of Jesus came about" Much of what we do is based on stories.  Much of what we hear and  what we see are stories.   Stories tell messages.  Based on particular...
 
 
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Alex0393
Are you people for real?
10:57 PM on 12/25/2011
You will no doubt have many if not the majority of comments designed to dispute or belittle your words. There are so many people in this world with a void they're trying to fill with drugs, drinking, women or any number of obcessions and addictions. I know from personal experience that nothing could fill that void for me except Jesus. I have many problems come my way and I make many mistakes but since I put my faith in God those problems often come with solutions and I can go to sleep at night without the guilt I felt before because I know I am forgiven. It's hard to explain to someone who isn't a Christian why we believe these stories or how much better life is when you include God in yours. Once you discover that faith something like the story of the immaculate conception takes no effort to both understand and believe. Thank you for a great article in a chaotic world of news. Wishing you and yours a Merry Christmas
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crydespite
oh go on then
05:42 PM on 12/25/2011
"God worked in Mary to create life where there was no life. He doesn't need anything to make something."

So why did he need Mary?
06:47 PM on 12/25/2011
Ask Him.

I know that folks are generallly born of a woman.
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crydespite
oh go on then
06:53 PM on 12/25/2011
I was commenting on the specific claim in the article: God doesn't need anything to make something. So I have to say that the fact that folks are generally born of a woman doesn't really matter, in the terms of the article.
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Vincent Van Der Hyde
The truth will set you free.
05:23 PM on 12/25/2011
You have to wonder why people actually believe all these stories. What kinds of needs do people have that tales and myths like this fill? Is the evolution of the human brain so incomplete that it still needs these stories to bind people together into groups? Well, it's ok I guess, if it keeps my neighbors from doing terrible things. But, personally, I don't need the fairy stories anymore. Grown-ups have learned to cope with the real-world and don't live in make-believe land, hoping for pie-in-the-sky to take care of them in the by and by.
07:55 PM on 12/27/2011
Humble yourself. Despite all the knowledge you think you have, and the faith that you have put in this world, it is all for not; for this world is only temporary. Just as you've have come from the dust, so you will go. But do not worry; Christians, atheist and all religions alike, we have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God! Jesus came and rose again to save our souls and to give us PEACE beyond our understanding. My brother, do not be ruled by selfishness and your own might, for the bible says: "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding."

God Loves you Vincent and is waiting! Will you answer the call?
ThatsTheTheWayItIs
religion, ideology, partisanship are delusional
05:05 PM on 12/25/2011
"Mary became pregnant by the Holy Spirit. Unbelievable." Yes it is - because Mary was not a Virgin, her mother was! __ The Immaculate Conception refers to Mary's birth, not to Christ - a fact the late Chris Hitchens often pointed out to Christians, showing how little they knew about their own religion. __ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Immaculate_Conception
03:56 PM on 12/25/2011
Thanks for that. It made my day! Be Blessed and Happy Holidays to all.
04:45 PM on 12/25/2011
Believing in imaginary beings can be so much more comforting for some than the truth, huh? :D
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xenubarb
Nebulon V
07:18 PM on 12/25/2011
The truth is cold, it is hard, it is an indifferent mistress. People seem to like thinking there's something out there that cares and is watching over them. We are lonely little apes, caught in a web of our own making; an increasingly complex and bewildering society.
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ragdolly
Consider the lilies of the field.
03:38 PM on 12/25/2011
When I study with the Holy Spirit, I am constantly amazed at how much is retained in my memory. It really is a comfort to have the 'Word hidden in my heart'. One never knows when there might be someone in need and as Christians we need to be ready when asked.
04:39 PM on 12/25/2011
That memory is called indoctrination - children are raised from an early age to believe in fairy tales. :)
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ragdolly
Consider the lilies of the field.
05:18 AM on 12/26/2011
And what is yours called?
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editorjuno
Musician, wordsmith, accidental mystic, etc.
06:59 PM on 12/25/2011
As long as you wait until "asked," I support your right to recite what you've memorized as you see fit.
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ragdolly
Consider the lilies of the field.
06:10 AM on 12/26/2011
I consider an open forum on any subject an invitation. Just so you know.
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Dave24
Without God, life is everything.
02:17 PM on 12/25/2011
"They take us to imaginary places with imaginary people." Nothing's better at this than scripture.
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med1067
What goes around, comes around.
04:29 PM on 12/25/2011
Merry CHRISTmas Dave! God bless you.
04:37 PM on 12/25/2011
Yes, we can't forget the the mythical birth and the magic baby - we can't forget that if Jesus lived he wasn't born on the 25th of Dec. - we can't forget that Christ's Mass (a Catholic holiday) is a stolen holiday from the pagans. There is no god - just fables, myths, and silly stories. Happy HumanLight!
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Dave24
Without God, life is everything.
09:01 PM on 12/25/2011
Merry Fiction, Med1067! Fable bless you.
12:34 PM on 12/25/2011
What an uplifting article. I am very surprised that HuffPo published it, but thank you.
04:38 PM on 12/25/2011
From time to time they do post stories about fictional beings and such.
08:01 AM on 12/26/2011
You felt the need to be rude. Very telling about you as a person.
3rdCitizen
Nobody knows for sure.
11:29 AM on 12/25/2011
You may be skeptical of the nativity story as history, but you can't deny its significance. Or its beauty. Or its profundity. Like all of the greatest stories (be they historical, fabricated, or a combination of the two) it expresses universal truths that challenge & illuminate what it is to be human.

Merry Christmas.
04:38 PM on 12/25/2011
Yes, I feel this way about Santa - such a jolly fellow - but still not real!! :)
06:50 PM on 12/25/2011
The Lord is as real as love.

The Reverend is correct. G-d believes in you even when you don't believe in Him (though, I think that everyone DOES believe).
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Vincent Van Der Hyde
The truth will set you free.
06:54 PM on 12/25/2011
It is bad history,
Poor myth.
and lacking in any useful truth whatsoever.
It is a child's tale, of use only for those who would exploit and repress the weak minded.