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Giving Foster Kids Three More Years

Posted: 09/21/10 03:29 PM ET

For the past two years I've had the privilege of working alongside the Children's Action Network (CAN) on a project called This is Me, a series of videos profiling children in the Los Angeles foster care system who are eligible for adoption. I've met and fallen in love with these kids, most between the ages of 10 and 17, as they talk to the camera about themselves, their hopes and dreams. They have grown up in foster homes and group homes, moving many times in their short lives. Often they're separated from siblings and have no family to speak of. It's a challenging life, and yet these kids want what all kids want, to be a doctor, lawyer, actor, basketball player, to have fun with their friends, to see the world, but mostly, they want love and a family of their own. Fox's Good Day LA has partnered with CAN, who works with the Los Angeles Dept. of Children and Family Services, and airs the films on alternate Fridays and on their website. Some of the children we profile will find homes. The reality is that many will not.

What happens to those who don't? They will stay in the system until age 18, when the state is no longer responsible for them. About 5,000 kids age out of California foster care every year. Having been removed from their original homes because of abuse, neglect or abandonment, they have effectively been raised by the state. When they turn 18, they are literally, and often, devastatingly, turned out on their own. With no natural supports, many of them become homeless. No money, no roof over their head, no family, they often become victims of crime or become criminals themselves.

Right now there is a bill sitting on Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger's desk called the California Fostering Connections to Success Act (AB 12), authored by Assembly Members Jim Beall and Karen Bass. Both houses of the state legislature have overwhelmingly approved it. The bill represents one of our best opportunities to change the lives and outcomes for thousands of foster youth in California. To ease the strain of its costs on California's economy, the legislation will be phased in over 3 years starting in 2012, and the Federal government will supply a matching fund that will help pay for it.

If the Governor signs this bill, emancipated foster youth will have the option of continuing to receive vital services until age 21 if they meet certain eligibility requirements, such as remaining in school or having a job.

There is plenty of research to prove that extending benefits to foster kids during these first difficult years in college, or as they enter the work force, will save California considerable money down the line.

Plus, let's face it, it's the right thing to do. Governor Schwarzenegger has always been a champion of children's' rights and a friend to kids with special needs. I'm sure that my husband's "twin" brother will do the right thing. He'll pick up his pen today and sign AB12. That alls I'm sayin'.

 
 
 
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09:32 AM on 09/29/2010
Thank you for lending your influential voice to encouraging Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger to sign this crucial piece of legislation, which will be a victory for California’s foster children and their relative caregivers. The legislation brings us closer to building a nationwide child welfare system that effectively meets the comprehensive needs of America’s children in foster care.

Our nation’s foster children need and deserve a life of stability in a nurturing environment that paves the way for a successful transition to adulthood. It certainly strengthens our child welfare reform efforts when distinguished celebrities like you champion stability and opportunity for foster children.

Christine James-Brown
President and CEO
Child Welfare League of America
Arlington, VA
http://www.cwla.org
thebigbike
ran away to be a cowboy
10:45 PM on 09/25/2010
This is one area where a real difference can be made in some one's life and some one who got one of the really raw deals! My hat's off to you and I'll be working locally, where this issue has come to public atttention
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Angie Tyne 1
I want my disagree button!!
03:29 PM on 09/24/2010
Another issue to address is the matter of savings accounts. I don't know about CA but I know someone with a foster child in another state. This child receives a portion of cash 2x a year. It is a fairly large amount for the child's age. Investing in a college fund would help greatly but no savings are allowed. This would make a big difference in their future if they were able to learn to put money away.

Thank you for your efforts and I hope that many issues are addressed not just the one of age.
08:28 PM on 09/23/2010
As a volunteer at “Konnichiwa Little Tokyo Day for American Foster Childrenâ€(thanks to Rhea!), I've encountered over 100 youths from foster group homes in Los Angeles County these past two summers. I have learned that many of these children have deep emotional scars etched into their hearts from vivid memories of their parents physically abusing and/or abandoning them. These youth have such challenging beginnings. A fair number of these children struggle to escape this upbringing by attempting to commit suicide (a higher probability of these attempts are around the holiday season). Many become homeless or resort to crime when their professional care obligations end at the age of 18.

In order to better prepare and protect these young, impressionable children, our society should definitely provide three more years of professional support. These are the most significant years for a youth to grow mentally and to mature into responsible adults.

I totally support Rhea's opinion. I hope her husband's "Twin" brother will do the right thing!!!!!
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LMPE
I connect the most dissimilar things
07:29 PM on 09/22/2010
Good work, Ms. Perlman!
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Jeanne Duvall
01:02 PM on 09/22/2010
College is no longer optional... it is a necessity to a well-balanced life in our current system. Do we pay for aged-out foster children to become better citizens... or do we pay for an ever-increasing prison population? Its not just for them... it's beneficial for all.
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ReadMyLipstick1
It can't be that hard.
09:23 AM on 09/22/2010
Bravo Ms. Perlman! What good work you do! Yes, this bill would be a blessing to the foster children in California - and anywhere for that matter! I can't imagine Governor Schwarzenegger not signing that legislation.

With the foster chidren situation as it is in this country, I wish that more people who are adopting children for whatever reason, would first investigate the foster programs. While there are surely too many children in other countries as well who need good and loving homes, shouldn't we be looking out for our own in this country first? I think so, but then we have to get the courts and the powers-that-be to not make adoption here such a nasty and frightening business .... adoption programs must be tailored more in favor of the adopting parent, such that the adopting parents knowing that if they adopt they have no fear of losing that child in the future.
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Susanne Freeborn
Talk sense to a fool & he calls you foolish
07:08 AM on 09/22/2010
Foster kids deserve better than being thrown out on the street simply because they had the misfortune to be born to parents unable or unwilling to support them. A kid that can count on going to college is a kid who is going to be employable.
06:59 AM on 09/22/2010
I don't necessarily disagree with Ms. Perlman. That said, there are other populations of kids that fall though the cracks, especially those with unemployed parents. I think everyone would like to help all kids get a head start, but the reality is, this starts at home. And, with a lot of people struggling these days, don't you think that struggling parents would want to give their own kids a head start as well?
11:16 AM on 09/22/2010
In this case the struggling parent IS the state. The start at home is the State since these kids are wards of the state. Right now they are abandoned by the state simply for turning 18. You wouldnt just throw your own kid out on the street at 18, why should we do that to kids who have already been beaten up by the system in one way or another?
I applaud the heart of this bill and hope more state follow.
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EndTheEcho
04:04 PM on 09/22/2010
Most young adults have a family to turn to for support. Think about the young adults you know of, how many made it without some help from mom or dad? Not many, these children who age out, don't have that mom or dad to turn to.

And as another poster pointed out, it is cheaper to help them now than incarcerate later.
06:08 AM on 09/22/2010
Today's America is awfully hard on abandoned children.

80% of youth aging out of foster care are leading dysfunctional lives.

As a long time guardian ad-Litem, it pains me greatly to see our communities struggle with supporting child protection programs.

"What we do to our children, they will do to our society" (Pliny the Elder 2500 years ago)

This video speaks well to the issues of aging out of foster care,

http://www.invisiblechildren.org/2009/12/10/aging-out-of-foster-care/
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MontanaSouth
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12:38 PM on 09/22/2010
I have a friend who is a judge in the juvenile court. She received an amazing letter from a young man who had been in and out of foster care and in and out of her court from the time he was eight to 18 when he was literally tossed onto the street. The line that broke my heart was: Judge C, you have been the one person who I could depend on. The only person who cared. I don't know what I am going to do now. She is an amazing person, I am so glad she does what she does. She is so supportive of just this type of program and is working to get it implemented here. She sees what happens to these kids when they don't get support to help them succeed. The cost to society and humanity is too great to not do something about it.
03:54 PM on 09/23/2010
I am currently a Guardian Ad-Litem for 3 teens (16, 17, & 18) in the foster care system in CA. They are siblings who have never lived in the same home during the 5 years in the system and have been to more schools and in more homes (foster & group homes) than I can count. The 18 year old is being told he will be "emancipated" at the end of this month. When asked where he will sleep, his social worker said, "I don't know, but he can no longer stay in this foster home."

These are great kids who have a lot to offer our state and our nation, but we're throwing them to the wolves. America can no longer claim to be the greatest country when we spend TRILLIONS to fix other countries' governments but abandon our own children.

I cannot express enough that these kids are being tossed around the system and no one seems to have an answer.
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SageSpencer
Angel brought Him the leaden heart & the dead bird
02:26 AM on 09/22/2010
AB 12 is the right thing to do. Thank you Ms Perlman for standing up for foster kids.
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tnlcallen
12:55 AM on 09/22/2010
I can't think of a nobler cause. These poor children were given a tough break in life, and we should do everything in our power to help them get a start in their adult lives.
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sandiegowoman
11:35 PM on 09/21/2010
Bless you, Rhea. Tragic that this rich nation cannot care for it's most vulnerable. Many head off to the military, always a home there, even tho it may be in Afghanistan.
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tnlcallen
12:53 AM on 09/22/2010
The military is an excellent opportunity for young people. A steady income, medical benefits, education benefits, technical training, and the list of benefits goes on......
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11:31 PM on 09/21/2010
Thanks, Ms. Perlman. I believe the governor will do the right thing.
11:25 PM on 09/21/2010
It is definitely the right thing to do!!