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A Married Jesus?

Posted: 09/21/2012 12:43 pm

A scholar from Harvard has delivered a paper at a conference in Rome announcing that she has been examining a papyrus piece of five lines of text that has the statement that Jesus says, "My wife..." I have no idea how authentic this piece is. The scholar claims she and others have been very careful and they believe that it is a fourth century A.D. papyrus. So maybe 300 to 350 years after his death, we have a piece of writing that is supposed to quote Jesus saying something about a wife.

How would that change our understanding of the Christian message? As I ponder the implications of that papyrus, I kept trying to find a place where the fact that Jesus was married would make any difference.

We already know that Jesus had dealings and conversations with women, and that he treated women with respect and integrity that was not always offered to them. The four Gospels have a number of stories where Jesus is very supportive of women. So it would not be surprising that women would respond to him.

But what difference would a married Jesus make? Think about the Christian apostles creed. Is there anything there that would have to change if he were married? He could still be "born of a virgin, suffered under Pontius Pilate, crucified, dead and buried. Descended into Hell, and on the third day He arose from the dead and ascending into heaven and sits on the right hand of God from thence he shall come to judge the quick and the dead." All of those affirmations could still be affirmed about a married Jesus.

Certainly some traditions would find a lot of their justifications for many of their rituals and rubric disappearing if Jesus was married. The whole celibate thing for priest might take a serious hit if Jesus had been married. Would it make Jesus more human to be married and less special in the minds of people? Or would it increase his identification with humanity and make he more real for us?

 
 
 
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charlesrfd2003
Proud American who believes in the Bill of Rights
07:47 PM on 11/05/2012
Those who really understand the teachings and life of Christ would say, "No difference" and that is the point Rev. Brand is making.

The other point I would like to make is that if a scrap of very old paper is found how do we authenticate the finding to the level that over throws all tradition. People say and write almost anything today but it does not mean it is true. The same is true of ancients. Now if we were to go into the libraries of Alexandria, Antioch and Rome and find hidden away some ancients texts that are almost two thousand years old and that support this scrap of paper. May then we would have something new.

One can got to New Advent Webpage and read some of the early Christian writing that did not make it into the Bible. There were many of them that were more substantial than the scrap of paper.
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02:02 PM on 09/23/2012
Is there anything that Christ being married or even having sex fundamentally changes about what it was he wished for people with respect to living their lives? I seriously doubt it, but it does bring into painful light the gender discrimination of men and women in the Church.

And, beyond everything else, THIS is what I believe is the central issue of those who find it so infuriating to suggest that Christ was married or, heaven forbid (no pun intended), actually had sex just like any other normal person.

Because it evens the playing field and erases the pointless perception that Christ was a step above humans because he was free from carnal desire, was never married and never had sex; something that countless men have used to reinforce the notion that a MAN is better suited to positions of power in the Church rather than a woman.

Quite frankly, I think that's just an outright stupid reason to consider Christ as being the enigmatic, revered figure that he is. And my apologies if I came across as being too frank, but let's just get this issue out in the open right here and right now.
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charlesrfd2003
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07:50 PM on 11/05/2012
The point that is important is that God became man through the birth of Jesus. That is the Christian belief. He was flesh and blood like the rest of us. We should pray looking down instead of up because we have humble God who came to earth and is still here.
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ttsgw
Atheist and secular humanist
10:42 AM on 09/23/2012
Would a married Jesus make him a heretic?
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Richard Brand
02:54 PM on 09/23/2012
That is an interesting claim. How would that work? What is the rational for that question?
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ttsgw
Atheist and secular humanist
12:53 AM on 09/24/2012
The church's history of choosing heretics, e.g. Giordano Bruno, a heretic they burned because he told the truth. The same church as existing today, a church that never said they're sorry for what they did. A true evil and vicious church.
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ttsgw
Atheist and secular humanist
03:23 AM on 09/24/2012
Or would it have been allowed for priests to be married if the truth would have been that he was married, and not unmarried as decided by the church?
04:22 AM on 09/23/2012
Richard Brand,

Such a proposition is "blasphemy". That proposition does not "humanize" Jesus, it "desacralizes" Christ. It places carnal desires within Jesus, and in so doing makes it impossible for Him to be without sin. If you think it doesn't make any difference, then you need to step down from the pulpit because you are not fit to minister.
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07:34 AM on 09/23/2012
Right. He was just a 33 year old bachelor who liked to hang out with guys....
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Richard Brand
08:32 AM on 09/23/2012
I think the purpose of my post is to discuss whether or not it makes a difference. It seems it does make a very big difference to you. My examination of the creed simply pointed out that the major affirmations made about Jesus by traditional Christian communities could all be made for a married Jesus. We still must wait to see what kind of credibility the papyrus has.
thankgodimanatheist8
The answer to fools is silence
10:29 PM on 09/22/2012
With or without this papyrus most Jewish men living in Palestine 2000 years ago were expected to be married and not being married at the age of 30 would have been rare.
Anyway, I don't see what difference it should make for a believer as the good minister writes and it sure make no difference to non-believers, like me.
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Soulmentor
"To thine own self be true...."
10:29 PM on 09/22/2012
If it were to be proven, or at least accepted that Jesus was married, it would have the potential to radically change the credibility of Christianity by way of discrediting the Roman Catholic Church BS the the long accepted Christian historical tradition is has set upon the entire world. The RNC would look more foolish and hypocritical than it does even now and much of Christian tradition would be seen as a lie. The following question would become prominent: We already know the RNC has lied about Mary Magelene being a prostitute and now this. What else has it lied about. THE CHURCH, as the RNC thinks itself to be in it's conceit, would surely collapse. And if that weren't enuf, the fact of Jesus' marriage would lend some, perhaps much greater credence to the theories beginning to show up that Jesus may not have even died but escaped and fled with family to southern Europe where he lived out his life and left a bloodline that exists to this day, or at least, that Mary and family did that after his death. Such theories would gain great strength and undermine the very foundations of Christianity.
Rev Brand must surely know of these theories and the fact that he doesn't mention them vis-a-vis his question of how Jesus' marriage would effect Christianity can only be because he doesn't want to consider the potentialities.
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Soulmentor
"To thine own self be true...."
11:08 PM on 09/22/2012
I really do need to learn to review my writings before submission. That BS at the end of my second line baffles me (tho it may work well as a Freudian slip now that I think about it). It should be the word "and". How the BS got in there.....well, I already addressed the possibility.
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Richard Brand
07:23 AM on 09/24/2012
My focus was on the theological affirmations of the Christian faith that might be affected by the claim that Jesus was married. Soul Mentor wants to focus on the practices of one particular part of the Christian tradition and their doctrine and practices. The Roman Catholic Church is not the only Christian tradition. There is a vast different between the Christian faith in creedal statements and affirmations and the expression of them by different denominations.
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Soulmentor
"To thine own self be true...."
04:14 PM on 09/24/2012
******The Roman Catholic Church is not the only Christian tradition.********

Granted, but not until centuries into Christian tradition. The rough timeline of Christian history includes the first 1-2 centuries of "the early church" followed by a more formalized Christian history that literally WAS the Roman Catholic Church until Luther came along, and from which tradition Christianity today remains primarily informed. I don't see how you get around that vis-a-vis my comment implication that Christianity, as a credible religion, is therefore quite vulnerable to developing historical and archeological discoveries.
02:22 PM on 09/22/2012
Given the supposed date, several hundred years after Jesus would have lived, this finding's application to a historical Jesus is minimal. It's significance is to show that there was a group of Christians that accepted a married Jesus in their faith. This is part of the shift from Jewish views of marriage and sex to the traditional Catholic veneration of celibacy. This finding is about Christian history, not Jesus.
10:03 AM on 09/23/2012
given that NONE of the gospels were written until long after Jesus supposedly lived how much credibility can any of them have. especially considering that there is no historical evidence to back up anything they contain?
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charlesrfd2003
Proud American who believes in the Bill of Rights
08:03 PM on 11/05/2012
Remember the absence of something does not prove that it did not exist. So we will never know empirically. Science is based on facts. Religion is based on belief.

Frankly, the scrap is interesting but really proves nothing.
10:38 AM on 09/24/2012
Engineer: The gospels were written from between 70CE to the turn of the 2nd Century. There has never been a single original copy of any gospel ever discovered. What we have are copies of copies of copies, the earliest of which is a fragment of John, dated at about 140 CE. The others, Matt 150-200CE, Mark around 350CE and Luke 175-250CE. Do you think, so long after Jesus would have lived, the application of these to a historical Jesus is minimal?

There is no independent, contemporary evidence of any of Jesus' ministry, let alone his existence. Strange when you consider the miracles he was meant to have carried out and resurrecting himself from the dead.
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charlesrfd2003
Proud American who believes in the Bill of Rights
08:11 PM on 11/05/2012
No empirical by modern standards except his followers believed and spread the word. Many were killed for doing so. So something must have happened.

To add to the above statements about the Gospels is that there are different versions. The oldest Christian writing is the The Didache or The Teaching of the Twelve Apostles. This dates from around 70 AD. Translations can be found online. This document predates the Gospels.
02:21 PM on 09/22/2012
As Christians or simply literature analysts who read the bible and deduce whatever we want from it, it is clear that many questions should be raised on such matters. Especially with the number of critics in our time and even before skepticism is almost at its highest. The story of Jesus has always intrigued me as a child. We must agree that a lot is left out concerning his life e.g. his early childhood, his relationship with his father/mother and yes intimate encounters. Although, it feels like blasphemy to even imagine such things it is only right for us to ask these questions not just as critics but as scholars. As his life plays out in the bible it does make sense that maybe he never did have a wife because that corresponds with his mysticism in which his disciples and others portray him. The man that calls himself the son of God, that performed wonders and yes never sinned against his flesh.
09:36 PM on 09/23/2012
IT TROUBLES ME THAT THE CHRISTIAN RELIGION PUTS SO MUCH EMPHASIS ON "SIN".

I ALSO QUESTION A LOVING GOD WHO WOULD GIVE HIS ONLY BELOVED SON TO BE
CRUCIFIED FOR THE "SINS" OF OTHERS. IF GOD IS ALL POWERFUL, WHY WOULD THIS
BE NECESSARY? IF I WERE GOD, AND "SIN" WAS A BIG CONCERN OF MINE, I WOULD
LET EACH INDIVIDUAL PAY FOR HIS OWN TRANSGRESSIONS.

JUST SAYING
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Richard Brand
10:23 AM on 09/24/2012
That would be affected by Jesus' being married, how?
08:16 PM on 09/24/2012
Yeah that has always bothered me too. I mean it feels like everything the church stands for sometimes is against ones own well wishes.
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califson
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12:51 PM on 09/22/2012
A supposed "quote" 300 years after Christ's resurrection (not death) carries little weight, and certainly does not deserve all the attention it has gotten.

In fact Christ does have a bride, its his church that he will return for one day.
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Richard Brand
06:24 PM on 09/22/2012
It is still very much up in the air. I agree. The evidence for his wife is very questionable, but it is a very interesting question to ponder if that would change our attitude towards Jesus, if it happened to be true. There is long way to go to establish the credibility of that document.
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09:42 AM on 09/24/2012
The existence of Jesus himself is questionable so i don't see why him having a wife would be exceptional.
10:42 AM on 09/24/2012
Richard: You can add a great deal more to the list of questionable assertions about Jesus. Virgin birth, miracles, dying for humanity's sin, resurrection; to name but a few.
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Neil20
12:12 PM on 09/22/2012
Biblical Gospels tell us of the Jesus who laughed, cried, walked with children, spoke to them, felt hungry, got angry and did everything a normal human being would do and most of all he walked in the company of women. In other words, Jesus was a person in flesh having the same desires and urges of a normal person. So naturally he may have nurtured the desire to marry and have a woman companion. Some sources (no not Dan Brown), say that Jesus was in love with Mary Magdalene. Who knows? If this papyrus fragment, thrown in some trash and later found by someone, is authentic and gives a hint that Jesus was married then I suppose it should not surprise anybody. But where in the Gospels does it say that Jesus was NOT MARRIED. That's what the Catholic Church for centuries led people to believe and perhaps for their own political motives.
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charlesrfd2003
Proud American who believes in the Bill of Rights
08:21 PM on 11/05/2012
Not Married is a good point because it also does not say he was married. Women cared and supported his ministry. The mothers of some of the apostles are mentioned. We know Peter had a wife because Christ cured here. No mention is made of the other apostles having wives. I think that the early Christians really did not see the marital status important. The big story is Christ was crucified and he rose from the dead. Now that was an incredible statement for then and now. Still some want to know if he had a wife? Why?

The only hint that I can find is if Christ took these men away from their homes, who was supporting the families when they were away? Again a question with no answer.
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rsttho557949
What is Job's Crucible?
12:08 PM on 09/22/2012
part 2...

I know that this just doesn’t sound right but Like the 10 Commandments often makes a person sin,( its due to the contrarians in us ..we rebel against what it stands for) being married to Jesus would make the imperfect and finite woman increase her sinning.
You can say that this is a situation where the product (negative times a negative ) of two negative will yield a positive. Recall the product of a positive times a negative, yields a negative.
…Jesus is perfect. Marriage-besides procreation is a mechanism to leads to "perfecting" the spouse. Jesus didn’t need Perfecting and His desire to help others would have no doubt upset a finite and imperfect woman into saying, "There you go again worrying about others and not caring about me!" Taken to its logical conclusion, there is noting that a woman could have done for Jesus to "perfect “Him or bring joy to Him. Again, the goal in a marriage blessed by God if for two imperfect people (a normal man and a normal woman) to become :"perfected" with His Love so that they can follow the path leading to perfection. Jesus was about all inclusive (mature love) as opposed to exclusive (immature) love. The irony in this hypothetical situation is that if a woman was married to the Jesus of the Bible, she would increase her sinning. If a woman was married to a regular Jesus, both would increase their sinning.
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Soulmentor
"To thine own self be true...."
10:56 PM on 09/22/2012
You mentions "Jesus of the Bible" several times without seeming to suspect that there may have been more, much more to him than what the Bible shows us. We already KNOW that there are "Gospels" not included in the Bible (which is another very political discussion) that give us more expanded views of Jesus.
Besides where, in your view, is the Jesus who was a man in every way and yet perfect...apparently without sexuality? What you appear to describe is such a man....without sexuality. He was asexual?! If so, then he wasn't a man in every way. The very ideas contradict each other.
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rsttho557949
What is Job's Crucible?
12:01 AM on 09/23/2012
. "He was asexual?! If so, then he wasn't a man in every way. The very ideas contradict each other. "

Good question and my answer will probably not please the theologians of the world but I believe that I'm correct. Jesus came as the Son of Man and is also known as the Son of God. Jesus was the ONLY person on this planet with a dual nature-Devine and human. we know that in order for Him to identify with mankind, He had to suffer(1 Peter 3:18) and that included urges and desires...that included sexual drives. We also know that he did not sin.( Hebrew 7:26) Now I'm saying that even though Jesus DID NOT sin, I believe that as a full human being, He, indeed, had the CAPACITY( my theory) to sin. Sin seems to imply a verb status. Now when one sits down and thinks about what Jesus pulled off, John 3:16 really should bring tears to your eyes.

End part 1…
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rsttho557949
What is Job's Crucible?
12:05 AM on 09/23/2012
Part 2…
What an act of love to suppress the urges that he most certainly had! If one can understand that, it’s easy to see that marriage Sexual does not make a man. In review, Jesus suffered to with mankind; that was His Son of Man status. While he did not sin ( the verb) he had the capacity to sin. This is the reason why the Devil came to tempt Him(Matthew 4:1-11; Mark 1:12,13: Luke 4:1-4) and also the reason why the Devil's Advocates tempted Him (Matthew 27:39,40:Mark 15:29,20;Luke 23:36; I do not believe that would have been put in the Bible if He simply couldn't sin. What would be the point? Now as a human that could identify with the pains, temptations and suffering of mankind, He then could stand in front of God as our representative known as the Son of Man. I also believe that since Jesus was our "sin eater/catcher" the suffering of absorbing mankind sins was becoming unbearable as was illustrated in Gethsemane (Matthew 26:39;Luke 22:41-44;Mark 14:35. His Love prevented Him from sinning. Jesus was on a mission to save us. I simply do not understand why that is so hard to comprehend. As for those spurious “gospels”, I consider them the same way I consider tabloids. They’re like Rodney Dangerfield to me- I give them NO respect. Good question and good night!
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rsttho557949
What is Job's Crucible?
12:02 PM on 09/22/2012
You know here is an old joke that is often given at marriage receptions and goes like this. The father of the bride toasts the couple and with drink in his hand greets his guests and says, "I recall when my son-in-law first gave her the promise ring. Then today we witnessed the marriage ring being placed on her hand. Now for the rest my life I'm going to hear about the SUFFERING that she will endure in marriage!" Jesus came to earth as the Son of Man and identified with the common man with his empathy. I can see if He wanted to add to His suffering, He didn't need 33 years to know about suffering; marriage would have given Him the short course in suffering!
But the real answer of why marriage would have been IMPOSSIBLITY for the Jesus of the Bible is because romantic and exclusive love is SELFISH. If one studies 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 we see the characteristics of true love. Romantic love-especially in marriage-many time falls short of that Perfection. Now this is a difficult concept to grasp but if an infinite woman were married to the Jesus of the Bible, she would actually sin more out of sheer frustration! This paradox is he result of not being “perfected” by another imperfect person bound to Jesus.

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charlesrfd2003
Proud American who believes in the Bill of Rights
08:32 PM on 11/05/2012
That does not make sense. The biggest thing that suggests that Christ was not married is that there is no wife at the foot of the cross. His mother was there as well John and other women. If Christ had a wife am sure John's mother who also was there would have made him bring her along. Of course this is speculation based on my own imagination and speculative mediation.
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jf12
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11:13 AM on 09/22/2012
Incorrect. The Church is the bride of Christ. The physical union of Jesus and a woman (necessarily under the curse of original sin) would have precluded Him giving His body for us.
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Richard Brand
08:35 AM on 09/23/2012
Your position is that marriage would have resulted in Jesus' sinning and thus not be the perfect sacrifice on the Cross for our sins?
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jf12
Esta vez saldré como las otras y me escaparé.
09:41 AM on 09/23/2012
It doesn't generalize to anyone but Him, since all others are under original sin.
11:35 PM on 09/23/2012
since when did marriage become a sin... you mean all of us are being born of sin and sinning...
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12:25 PM on 09/24/2012
"The Church is the bride of Christ."

Let's not get into an argument on the semantics of the word "bride," shall we? It's not going to help anything.

"The physical union of Jesus and a woman (necessarily under the curse of original sin) would have precluded Him giving His body for us. "

If I understand correctly, you're saying that Christ having sex would have prevented him from being the perfect sacrifice for humankind's sins, correct? Why is this?

When all's said and done, I think you believe this because you believe that purity has an intrinsic value that demands that we OUGHT to value it; and so, by extension, we ought to see Christ as the most fitting sacrifice for all of humankind's sins because he was the purest, sinless existence there ever was.

I argue this point in that purity, as a matter of course, is NOT valuable. We tend to value purity not for the purity itself, but for the uncertainty and possibility it reflects. We don't grieve a stillborn child's death because of the purity of its existence, but because it never had the chance to make any mistakes or learn what it means to really live a life.

Having said that, it makes MORE sense, not less, for Christ's sacrifice to be revered as it was and is because of the choice to be sacrificed for people he cared about, not because of some ideological notion of purity.
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jf12
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01:03 PM on 09/24/2012
Incorrect Biblically and doctrinally. The sinlessness of Christ was required for the efficacy of His sacrifice, and His purity is emphasized in this context repeatedly, especially in Hebrews of course (Heb 4:15, 9:14, 9:28) and elsewhere (1 Pet 1:19).
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jf12
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03:04 PM on 09/24/2012
Re: your argument. You say that His purity was not valuable, and that any old sinful martyr would have served as well.
 
But let's recall the theme of Hebrews: better things. He was required to be better, to be qualified to be the high priest of His sacrifice for our sins. He was required to be better, to be qualified to be the sacrifice He offered. He was required to be God to complete the unity of the acceptance of the sacrifice (Hebrews 1:3, Colossians 2:9).
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SandraLPhillip1
09:41 AM on 09/22/2012
If Jesus had been married and the Bible ommitted that detail that would give non believers free reign to attack God and the Bible.
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timmuh
06:05 PM on 09/22/2012
If the bible was full of contradictions, mistakes and demonstrable pious fraud, or as we say today proven lies, all of which fly in the face or science, which backed up by cast-iron evidence, then that would give non-believers free reign to attack this alleged God and the bible. Woops!
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SandraLPhillip1
06:54 PM on 09/22/2012
Guess you are already have your reason.I don't take much stock in science.
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frjohnmorris
02:53 PM on 09/23/2012
This is sure a lot of excitement about a small piece of papyrus that may indicate that Christ was married. No one knows who wrote it or when. This is much ado about nothing.This proves nothing whatsoever. It only discredits the so called scholars who are taking it seriously.
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03:04 AM on 09/22/2012
A married Jesus has no effect on his teachings or actions.

The teachings of Jesus are profound so profound and threatening that 2000 years later they are still little understood and rejected by the masses.

When Jesus stated one must take up the cross to follow him he was not kidding. His teachings repeated and lived out, as actions would get any follower in deep trouble with organized religions and the gov.

After 9/11 how many Christians followed the teachings of Jesus? How many, really?

A nation that calls itself a Christian nation that has a war machine so large that the world has never known such a massive industrial and military war complex.

I know I know Christians in America think and say they know the teachings of Jesus but their evidence and culture and ideologies says otherwise.

Example: Never met a preacher that understood Matthew 6: 6 to pray in silence and not in public or in church. I know I know preachers say it was not about them not to pray in silence or in public but those that lived 2000 years ago.

When one prays in church or in public the focus is on them not God, and preachers like it that way. The human ego is that deceptive.

Another example: never met a preacher that understood Matthew 11: 11. Most leave it out of their sermons. The Baptists have to leave it out for obvious reasons.
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SandraLPhillip1
11:24 AM on 09/23/2012
I don't know what Baptist church you speak of but the two I attended put the focus on God rather than themselves and that is why I was drawn to them.