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God Loves Me, Loves Me Not

Posted: 06/17/2012 8:21 am

Today, God loves me. I mean, what else can you say. My team won last night. The player I was cheering for won the tournament, my stocks have gone up last week, I had three good meals, last night was a good night's rest. My children have not called me with any problems. My wife got to her destination with no car problems. It is all good. God must love me.

Last week, God was not my friend. Last week, the elections did not go as I had hoped. My doctor did not make it all better with one shot. The bills for my insurance came due. No one volunteered to help us at our office. The sermon I gave seemed pretty bland to me and to the people who heard it. It was not a good week. God did not love me that week.

Sometimes I think that is how many of us evaluate our relationship with the Holy. It is a very, very old standard by which lots of people have used to evaluate their relationship with God. If things are going very well, and we are prospering then we must be doing good, and God is blessing us. If things are going poorly and we are struggling, then we must be doing something wrong, and God is punishing us. It is a measuring stick that is even used in the Old Testament. If the king was faithful, then God blessed him and the king prospered. If the king was unfaithful, then God did not bless and the king suffered defeat and opposition.

It is the criteria that was debated directly in the book of Job. It was the philosophy that the disciples asked Jesus about when the man born blind came to Jesus. Who sinned to make this man blind? His parents or He?

But what fascinates me most about us is how rapidly we change our opinion about what God thinks about us depending on the one event or one week. We can go from thinking that God loves us to God has it in for us in a couple of hours. We can go from thinking that we are blessed to the conviction that God ignores us in one moment. Maybe we could at least try to get a broader picture and consider the whole events of a year or two years.

We might want to try to steady ourselves in the basic affirmation that indeed God loves the world and all who are in it and so God loves us all the time regardless of what happens to us. That God loves us and is working for the good of all creation in the events of the created order.

But if that is a stretch for us then certainly we can remind ourselves as the Sinatra song says, "Life keeps turning in cycles, first there is laughter then tears. So I think I'll stay round and see what tomorrow brings." And the whole story has not been told. One cannot evaluate the book until you get to the end. We cannot make the final decision until the final event has happened. There is always the possibility of something happening that will change our verdict.

It is a journey, an adventure, and without ups, downs, mysteries, challenges, surprises and joys it would not be nearly as much fun.

 
 
 
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ttsgw
Atheist and secular humanist
04:38 PM on 06/19/2012
Love has nothing to do with god, Jesus or Christianity.
03:19 PM on 06/19/2012
Yup! Someone (I can't remember who) wrote, "God loved me yesterday; He loves me today; and He will love me tomorrow."
02:30 PM on 06/19/2012
Acts 11:17
So if God gave them the same gift he gave us who believed in the Lord Jesus Christ, who was I to think that I could stand in God’s way?”
02:29 PM on 06/19/2012
John 14:6
Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
03:23 PM on 06/19/2012
Of course--I think He refers to the way He lived as "THE WAY." And I think we can imply that Jesus reveals to us the character of God--the truth, the life. His life was inclusive.
01:44 PM on 06/19/2012
Scripture teaches that GOD is angry with and hates the sinner continually, but loves the elect who hears and obeys all of GOD's commands. The Bible is very different than most are willing to teach. This is why Christ became our atonement!
10:00 PM on 06/19/2012
"GOD is angry with and hates the sinner continually"

I thought god lover the sinner, but hated the sin?
11:10 AM on 06/19/2012
"It is a journey, an adventure, and without ups, downs, mysteries, challenges, surprises and joys it would not be nearly as much fun."

Yeah, tell that to the innocent children dying in Syria and suffering from starvation in many other nations.
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Tylerious
My mom thinks I'm awesome
09:39 AM on 06/19/2012
As the story of Job confirms: God is willing to let you unduly suffer to prove a point. It isn't that he doesn't love you, he just doesn't possess empathy.
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1John 5:11-12 Eternal Life in flesh
12:08 PM on 06/19/2012
Or God's confidence that no matter what circumstances happens, He knew his "Son" Job would be awesome...like Moms think we are awesome in you bio ! ;)
Shalom
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Alex Prior
Abyssum abyssus invocat
09:24 AM on 06/19/2012
My personal goddess Asphaltia, the goddess of on steet parking, is also very fickle. One moment she's going my way, the next I'm on the wrong side of her road. I've tried everything to get her to be consistent. For a while there she insisted that if I obeyed all of the traffic rules I'd be fine, the celestial parking space would be mine if I was patient and waited for it, and in the meantime I would have the good things even if I did have to render unto the parking meter that which was the parking meter's. But then she said that obeying all of the road rules was not enough - even wearing a seatbelt was not enough - that faith alone would give me a parking space, and to test me she started denying parking spaces.

So I turned away from Asphaltia and worshipped Lot - the god of urban renewal. All he demands is a small fee and a ticket. I'll probably rot in in an underground car park for eternity, but it's a small price to pay for happiness in the here and now.
10:11 PM on 06/19/2012
I hear ya!!! It amazes me that people believe that a "loving and caring god" would subject their "children" to hardships in an effort to prove love. That would be like be coming home and drowning my wife's cat to see if she will still love me!!!
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1John 5:11-12 Eternal Life in flesh
09:58 PM on 06/18/2012
John 17:24 "Father, I want those you have given me to be with me where I am, and to see my glory, the glory you have given me because you loved me before the creation of the world."

Jesus became flesh and by means of his death for our death and his resurrectiforce we have a NEW quality of life.. The Father still continues that union of love with his Son. We experience that divine love in THEIR continued relationship, as we are in Jesus. Don't forget its HIS righteousness that allows the union. (Once we confess our sins, and seek his righteousness)
The Holy Spirit is the means that this union is continued as all in this union, share in the divine eternal life. What a gift !
Shalom
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09:53 PM on 06/18/2012
Control is the illusion, god prefers to sit and watch.

That is why you have free will,
but free will is something you have to practice.
And free will is what every tyrant has feared.
It is no wonder that so many claim it must not exist.
So many today will claim they are strong, for they have many great guns.
many great armies and navies. Space technology and robots.
i see them as all weak, and utterly powerless.
The one thing they dont have, which without they have nothing is control.
Becuae each and every person has free will if they choose.
So today they will simply gwet rid of you, for they are the gods now.
They have passed judgement these peoples of titles.
Let no plan go untouched. True they will likely destroy you.
Shortly after they begin to ask why they didnt just listen?
Arrogance.
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09:36 PM on 06/18/2012
The elites of this world really do believe they are "gods".
09:31 PM on 06/18/2012
Malachi 3:6 - For I am the Lord, I do not change.

If God does not change, does His love for us change? And if God doesn't change, do we change and does our love and commitment for God change? Can we expect the same results from God, while our love and commitment to God keeps changing? And so if the results from our relationship with God are always changing, is it up to God or up to us? Does God really need to change to meet our needs or do we need to change to meet His requirements? Are we being honest, when we blame God without examining our own relationship with God? Is our relationship with God good enough to get anything from Him?

- http://www.deathandlife.org/bible101.html
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1John 5:11-12 Eternal Life in flesh
12:16 PM on 06/19/2012
The mediator and high priest he sent fullfills ALL his righteous requirements consistant with his own nature. The law kills, the Spirit gives us the life we need, motivations from heart and mind in him.
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umbriago
The Tooth Shall Set My Fee
07:57 PM on 06/18/2012
If one could just bask in the majesty of the infinitely indifferent universe, life truly could become "fun." It's not about whether some imaginary spirit loves you one week or the next, or whether it "loves" you at all.

Events come and go, like the eternal tides, and we ride them like ladybugs on a log.

Nothing or no one in the universe cares. Now that's my idea of fun!
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Bones Rhodes
06:48 PM on 06/18/2012
Why would you worry about whether YHWH loves you this week and hated you last week ? You're a Presbyterian: it's not like you could do anything about it.
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04:11 PM on 06/18/2012
"It is a journey, an adventure, and without ups, downs, mysteries, challenges, surprises and joys it would not be nearly as much fun".

This is a good article to write about, thank you for your effort.

Everything in this quote is right on except the last word. "fun": really fun? God creates so we can have fun? This is making a God in our human image which religion does 99.99% of the time.

Life is a journey of greater and greater awareness with serial experiences which gives us time and a universal feedback system most call karma, which Jesus called what we sow we reap.

This develops the soul to exist in this "upward ladder of awareness" meaning in those many mansions that Jesus stated existed.

God is not about loving us or not loving us, the Source of all that is, is love, as perfect infinite awareness is perfect love.

The future is bright meaning greater light and love and creativity and bliss as we are made in the image of God. the human ego is soooooooo deceptive it has made God in its image.