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Who Gets to Use Handicapped Parking

Posted: 09/14/10 08:00 AM ET

I had no intention of writing on this subject until one morning when I was sitting at my desk in my office at our rehabilitation hospital. I looked out of my window toward the front row of handicapped parking spots. A sleek, late model sports car pulled slowly and carefully into the first of several handicapped parking places. As I looked on with curiosity, a young blond woman sporting a red miniskirt, knee high boots, designer purse with smart phone and an arm tattoo sprung briskly from driver's side. I waited for someone with a disability to exit from the passenger's side but the door never opened. The young woman meticulously covered the equally sleek automotive beauty with a protective cover, maybe not so much for the dust as for the risk of some truly disabled person scratching it with their cane or wheel chair.

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On more careful examination of the car I noted that it had the appropriate disabled license plates. Indeed, the young woman was visiting the owner of the car who was also a patient at our hospital. Where better for anyone to park on a hot, humid day than in the spot closest to the front door? Never mind that Bob, who is paralyzed on one side and uses a wheelchair can't find a place to park. I see him driving back and forth waiting for a spot to open up.

There is no doubt that it can be tempting. I have a disabled placard in the glove box of my car that I use when I am driving my 94-year-old, disabled mother to her doctor appointments. But, how easy would it be, when I am alone and it is pouring rain, to slip it over the rear view mirror, park close to the door and limp a little when I head into the grocery store? It is not just that I would be doing something wrong, but I would be depriving the disabled person of a privilege that they deserve and I do not.

Have you been to a large outdoor mall? Just watch who parks in the parking spots right up by the front door. Sure Joe had a bad stroke, but that doesn't entitle his able-bodied wife to park there when she goes by herself to buy groceries. Investigative reporters do television pieces on this problem, placing microphones in the faces of the offenders, but it is also going on in your community. Joe's wife is part of the problem but the medical community may also be contributing to the problem.

The Doctor and the License Plate
It is the physician or the optometrist who has the authority to sign the application forms that grant disabled placards or license plates. But, how many doctors know the law, read the forms and assure that only those truly eligible get the privilege? How often have we signed a form for a patient without really evaluating whether it was a necessity or a "convenience?" Every unnecessary form we sign decreases the number of available parking spots for those that are deserving.

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The law leaves a great deal of room for interpretation by the physician. It states that "A person is disabled who has mobility problems that substantially impair the person's ability to ambulate, or who is legally blind." Clearly a person paralyzed by a stroke or who has had a leg amputated qualifies. The judgment call is when someone has low back pain or arthritis in their knees and would prefer to park closer. We need to clearly evaluate whether they have disability. The person with a thinking problem, paralyzed arm or speech disorder would not qualify.

What about the man who has had a heart attack and gets short of breathe when walking? You can interpret this as a problem with mobility or ambulation, since the distance he is capable of walking is impaired. The same is true for patients with severe pulmonary problems. But, how far is too far? Ever try and get a close parking spot at the movies on Saturday night or the new home supply store on the way home from work? It isn't going to happen! Practicing medicine is using one's best judgment and this is no different.

Back to the Miniskirt
Temptation comes in many forms. A one night stand with a handicapped parking spot can get you in trouble. It is illegal for an able-bodied person to park in a disabled parking place if they do not have the disabled person with them. It doesn't matter that a disabled placard is hanging from the rear view mirror or that better yet you have disabled plates. It is like stealing from someone -- someone with a disability.

Six hours later the girl in the miniskirt came back to her car. Just as deftly as she had exited the car, she pulled off the dust cover, not a scratch on the car, and drove away. Clearly the cleanest car leaving our parking lot and not a drop of sweat on her finely powdered brow!

*To find out the regulations in your state go to website of its Motor Vehicle Division as the rules do vary from state to state.

 
 
 

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I had no intention of writing on this subject until one morning when I was sitting at my desk in my office at our rehabilitation hospital. I looked out of my window toward the front row of handicappe...
I had no intention of writing on this subject until one morning when I was sitting at my desk in my office at our rehabilitation hospital. I looked out of my window toward the front row of handicappe...
 
 
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10:58 AM on 09/20/2010
I am curious ,perhaps someone could explain.1) Why would a truck driver need a handicap permit?2)Why would a nurse need a handicap permit? If they are handicap should they still be a nurse?I believe if you break the law you should suffer the penality,but here in the in this city the POLICE sworn to protect and serve,say it happened in a parking lot,it's private property and they have no authority to enforce the law. I wonder does this happen in other cities?I know we shouldn't judge people on appearances,but we do.What needs to happen is a standard application that has procedures to follow.Business don't want to offend the customer for fear of losing the customer.Local authorities don't want the added work load.Doctors don't have the time to be specific,and local government doesn't want the added work either
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05:13 PM on 09/18/2010
Of course for his example, the author uses a beautiful girl, dressed provocatively, in a sports car, and even puts an evil assumption about why she uses the car cover, even though the patient at the hospital is the actual car owner. But then did anyone notice that he says she doesn't come out of the hospital, where she is visiting her family member/friend, for 6 HOURS? I wonder how often the doctor sees young people spending 6 hours visiting a parent in a hospital? There sure aren't many where my mom is.

So I get the point of the article, but the young woman may actually be a saint as far as the time she is spending with her sick family member/friend.
09:09 AM on 09/18/2010
It is a shame so many people are so willing to accuse others without any understanding of the needs involved. My condolences for your loss. Believe me, I know the hurtful remarks of others are often remembered long after the event. I hope you can find something to uplift you to replace this memory. The speaker does not deserve your attention. I hope you are well.
03:50 PM on 09/17/2010
My Husband was double amputee due to complications caused by diabetes. I have a truck for his electric run about. We pulled into a handicapped spot, we have license plates rather than just a placard. The kind used for vans. I have to open the passenger side door all of the way in order to get the run about positioned in the right way. Regular spots don't leave enough room along side of the vehicles. I got him into the chair and some one actually had the nerve to ask why we needed a handicapped spot if he had an electric run about. I was a bit taken a back and told him the reason why and he said well just park crooked and leave the handicapped parking for some one who really needs it and walked away.. My husband is gone now and the first thing I did was have the handicapped plates removed and regular ones put on. I am very healthy and don't mind the walk, but I would sure love to have him back to fuss over again.

Thanks, Texas Gal
mountaingal
Liberty and justice for all.
11:09 AM on 09/17/2010
I have had a handicapped placard for at least 8 years but have only used it a few times when I feel I cannot handle the extra walking required to get to appointments or when my frail 90-year-old mom is with me. It is impossible for me to help her and get around myself. When my husband drives he drops me off and parks in a regular spot to keep the spot free for those who need it. It does irk me when I am having difficulty and pain to walk in from a regular spot and see an able-bodied driver jump out of the handicapped spot and run into the store. I only hope they are picking up their handicapped relative.
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Amy Rollins
10:41 AM on 09/17/2010
Some stores have expectant mom spots reserved, but a-holes abuse those too. When I was 7 months pregnant, I watched a dude in a flashy black sports car pull into the expectant mom parking spot right in front of me. I pulled into the spot a couple of spots down. I got out, he got out, and he actually LOOKED straight at me, smiled, and just kept on walking into the store. I spit on his car as I walked past. It was immature, but it was a hot day and I was so MAD.
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andthatsnotall
This is karma & yes she is...
08:00 PM on 09/16/2010
I'm handicapped. Seven degenerative discs, spinal stenosis, arthritis, fibromyalgia and Epstein-Barr. My life sure is fun. I have a handicapped license plate and a handicapped ID I have to keep in my wallet incase a police officer wants to see if I really am the one who is handicapped while using the handicapped parking space. I am not complaining about that. Just stating how my state operates.

My gripe is 2 fold. There are lots of people with legit handicap licenses that park on the blue stripes between other handicapped cars. How the deuce are we supposed to get in and out of our cars when these idjits park right next to our car doors? Try getting your wheelchair up to your car's door with a car parked 2 feet from your car. Blue stripes are not for parking on!!

Secondly, I see lots of people parking in the handicapped spots while someone runs into the store to do an errand. If I point out to them that they aren't supposed to park there they say "My motor's running. I'm NOT parked!" or they say something unprintable. There have been many times when I or others have had to park many, many spots away because non-H'd people have parked in 'our' spots. Geez, Louise, people! Think about someone else for a change. Some day YOU might be the one needing that blue space.
ThinkCreeps
Seriously, it's time.
05:25 PM on 09/16/2010
Being too fat to walk from the far side of the lot seems to be the most common reason.
considerthis
I try my best
09:29 AM on 09/17/2010
uncalled for and unfunny
10:54 PM on 09/17/2010
Accurate.
12:44 PM on 09/16/2010
My mom has a handicap permit for extreme asthma. On bad days walking a long distance can bring on an attack, hence the handicap permit. She rarely uses it only when she is having a tough time breathing. Since its not a visable handicap she sometimes gets dirty looks from people. Keep in mind that not all handicaps involve wheel chairs or crutches or even a limp but the person may still have mobility issues.
08:44 PM on 09/15/2010
In the state where I live two placards are given out by the DMV or a handicapped plate. Many handicapped people give the second one to their able-bodied adult children. I can't tell you how many times I have seen young men leaping out of sportscars and jogging across the parking lots after using a handicapped placard. I have also seen people park in handicapped spaces in the rain while the spouses are shopping in the grocery stores. None of them have placards or plates. Since there is so much senseless violence where I live I would not confront them although I am forced to park farther away. I am oxygen dependent with multiple ambulatory problems and if I am feeling well I do not use the handicapped spaces although I have the placards. My adult son was not given my extra placard because he is healthy. No one wants to be handicapped but let's not others make it harder to shop, visit the doctor or go about one's life.
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Cananna
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06:47 PM on 09/15/2010
You know, some loser yelled at my mom once for parking in a "good" parking space in a mall lot, and not parking in handicapped parking despite having the plate.
It was my Dad who was disabled.
Of course, this idiot stomped right up to my mom, blowing cigarette smoke in her face, screaming at her. My mom said her piece, but this lazy idiot wouldn't shut up, until I told him to " Get the F$@ out of my mom's face." I may be female, but I am 6', and and a triathlete.
I'm not proud of it, but it was the first time my mom heard me drop the F-bomb.
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glockman
08:17 AM on 09/17/2010
Think of this next time something like this happens to you...It's difficult to speak when you're swallowing a mouthful of teeth :)
08:11 AM on 09/15/2010
I'm old enough to remember when handicapped parking came to be. It started because we realized that not all handicapped people were lucky enough to have someone drive them around, drop them off at the door and go find a parking spot and then join them. Some handicapped people were still independent and drove themselves. They needed these spots. Now, it seems, even when they have someone that is able-bodied, driving their car (with them in it), they don't get dropped off at the door--they use the space provided for the handicapped driver. The exception would be a mentally challenged person or minor. Otherwise, doesn't it make sense that if they are SO handicapped, they should be dropped off at the door? Then, maybe there wouldn't be handicapped drivers driving in circles looking for a spot.
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ZDuck
02:27 AM on 09/15/2010
Don't judge people using the placards. Not all handicaps are visible.
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kbella
05:54 AM on 09/15/2010
Did you read the description of the TYPE of disability necessary for a placard? When I had two broken arms, I didn't get a disability placard because I could walk just fine. The point is, those placards are for people who have mobility problems or other problems that affect their mobility. This young woman CLEARLY did not have such an issue.
10:35 PM on 09/15/2010
I was told by my doctor, when I was getting my disabled parking place cards, that heart problems account for a large part of those receiving disabled permits. Kinnda hard to see the heart and even pretty, young girls can be born with congenital heart defects. Again, not all handicaps are visible!
12:48 PM on 09/16/2010
My mom was granted the permit due to extreme asthma. On bad days having to walk a long distance in a parking lot can bring on a severe attack. She only uses the permit on days when her asthma is really bad otherwise she doesn't. Point is the asthma affects her mobility even though its not visable. Maybe the girl had that problem, if the author really wanted to know he should have asked her.
85Percent
Southern Liberal & Michigander
09:52 PM on 09/14/2010
I appreciate this article. We have handicapped plates because of my husband, who can barely walk even with his cane. I, too, use a cane, but I only need it for balance. Otherwise, I can walk and walk and walk, only I walk like I am a little drunk. The few times that I drive alone, I do not use the handicapped spots. I probably would look to most people like I need one, but I don't, Thank God. I am so glad to see that it is actually illegal to park in a handicapped spot when the disabled person is not in the vehicle. We see it all the time. They go deely-bip-bopping into the store like they haven't a care in the world, and those sure don't look like the ones with hidden disabilites, ya know?
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thinkingwomanmillstone
I'm nervous. My life is under a Micro-bioscope.
08:52 PM on 09/14/2010
Not all disabilities are visible. I know people abuse it, but there are people with heart conditions, etc that need the decals but don't look disabled. Most of the comments are sour grapes from people who have to walk from further away rather than from the disabled who can't find a spot. It reminds me of a time when my son was about 5. I wanted a Christmas picture of him but the local mall photographer had a first come first served policy in effect for Christmas. I went to him in early December and explained that my son had autism and couldn't wait in line because by the time it was his turn we'd not be able to get him to cooperate at all as he would be in full fall apart mode. The man, very kindly, agreed to a first appt of the day for him. When I showed up, the other mothers of course were not happy and made many nasty comments to me. When we were done, I explained that I'd be happy to trade the privelege of going to the front of the line if they'd trade their children's health for my child's disability.( I in no way wanted to trade my child. I just wanted to put it in perspective) Let's not resent the handicapped spots...let's just be glad that we don't qualify for the decal.