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True And False Religious Freedom

Posted: 09/13/2012 12:24 pm

On Sept. 4, the Democratic convention in Referendum 74 of the national platform issued an official statement of belief in expanding martial status and rights. No sooner did the Democrats affirm same-sex marriage than the U. S. Conference of Catholic Bishops voiced opposition. The hierarchy was "deeply saddened" by the endorsement. The bishops were ready with self-serving concern for the status quo. Gay marriages, they replied, undermine the "very cornerstone of society" and "erode or ignore the unique meaning of marriage."

The bishops have good reason to be distressed but not over the brave political support of basic human rights for LGBT people but for their knee-jerk reaction. Predictably, the bishops use the current buzzwords in lieu of genuine thoughtfulness to mask discrimination: marriage equality, they assert, violates "religious liberty." Religious liberty? The hierarchy is entirely free to express disagreement.

Liberty for the bishops is a synonym for power and control, their power, their control. They aim to impose unquestioned submission to their self-styled rectitude. Unlike Jesus' freedom to challenge the elders and scribes, liberty by contemporary authoritarian lights deprives others of their rights. Such unchristian Christianity adds a new type of suffering on LGBT people.

I am a 78-year-old gay man who is a practicing Catholic. The older I get, the more clearly I see how official church teaching on sexuality presents a false idea of freedom and misconstrues Christianity. As in scripture, intolerance in daily life binds and traps. Subjugation comes early. Ecclesiastical homophobia burdens a LGBT child with recrimination and shackles the child in religious censure. Prejudice effectively cuts off young gay people from themselves, others, and God.

In my new memoir "Hidden: Reflections on Gay Life, AIDS, and Spiritual Desire" I look back on my Catholic past to see how false religious freedom provides a benediction for oppression. By stigmatizing gay people as sinful, the church deprives us of our human rights. But Christianity at heart is a community of inclusive open-mindedness. Against the false freedom that traps LGBT people in judgmental animosity, I have found that true religious liberty frees us to be ourselves and to love, which is crucial to biblical revelation.

The most striking demonstration of being free to love came to me in 1981 during the peak of the AIDS crisis. Though the church had not been a mother to her gay children with AIDS, they came anyway to the afternoon liturgy at St. Joseph's Church here in Greenwich Village. In their time of utmost need, those with AIDS brought life back into a church that left them for dead. Seeking the true God of love was their act of spiritual defiance. These gay men, mostly young, taught me that religion was not helpless and the world was not ugly. The sheer desperate tenacity of the love of life in these stricken men expressed deep spiritual commitments. They moved toward the altar for nourishment with a justifiable dignity that the authorities lacked.
The vitality of their appeal stood out in sharp relief against the lifeless Christianity that vilified their gayness. Not from the dead spirit of clerical condemnation but from these famished bodies the Eucharist rises. At the liturgy, persons twisted with disease were not the reviled carriers of plague rejected by society. Bodies that were hosts for infections sought the host of sacred healing.

Their return to the church that spurned them showed me that the divine spirit was far beyond any barrier of separation that humans erected for themselves. The love that dare not say its name, much less demand marriage equality, howled out from its heart with what voice it had left to reclaim its place in God's plan. Worship, not arbitrary doctrine, modeled a church to which all could feel at home with a sense of moral belonging.

It took the love of those with AIDS to elevate homosexuality out of a subculture and into the national prominence that has culminated in the recent political call for marriage equality. Persons with HIV practiced true religious liberty. They were doing in free obedience what they believed they had to do. Trust came not from rule decreed from the top down. Faith rose out of the bodily need and interior disposition each had of the creator upon whom they utterly depended and freely sought.

A lot has happened since the 1980s AIDS crisis. The passage of time has increased the liberating relevance of the freely expressed faith of early persons with HIV. They took up the authentic gospel way to the altar. They show the bishops how to free themselves of fear and to love those who love love.

 
 
 
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06:39 PM on 09/17/2012
To "love love"? GOD IS REAL LOVE and has nothing to do with sinful, sin-filled lusts of the flesh. This is THE LOVE OF GOD, that we keep HIS Commandments and that HIS Commandments does not grieve us. For whosoever is Born Of GOD Overcomes this world [the lusts and love of the things in this world] and through our True Faith In GOD's WORD, CHRIST JESUS; we overcome and are victorious. (I John 5:1-4) We must stop being deceived and trying to deceive others into believing that GOD accepts and oks any sin. (THE REVELATION OF JESUS CHRIST 22:18:21) [We can't call ourselves CHRISTians and hate The WORD OF GOD at the same time, for CHRISTians embrace The TRUTH rightly divided.] AMEN!
01:37 PM on 09/27/2012
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08:40 PM on 09/16/2012
Well spoken, bravo! I admire your bravery and persistence. True love cannot be conquered. Do not be fooled by fallible men parading around in religious robes.
05:04 PM on 09/25/2012
Thank you. There is more about this in my book, Hidden. Let me know if you read it.
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09:46 AM on 09/16/2012
If i were a visitor to this planet what would i make of this "god"?

That alone should explain why the war is God vs Man.

Satan at the least had good sense to inspect, unlike the "scientists" and "clergy". Keep your delusions safe, remain ignorant.

They now have permission to betray themselves, and like the feral rabid dogs they have tried to turn all others into, they will become. Proceed.
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Tom Pumroy
practical dreamer-artist Man Ray
12:22 PM on 09/15/2012
Excellent condensation of what true love of God should be.
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11:34 AM on 09/15/2012
True religious freedom is atheism.
09:14 AM on 09/15/2012
What a beautiful expression of the centrality of love to the gospel message. Jesus didn't dictate what lifestyle or sexual preference one should pursue. He said God is love and love one another as I have loved you. Your description of how the HIV victims in Geenwich Village refused to let the clerical caste deprive them of their access to the Eucharist or their rightful place in the community of the faithful was incredibly moving. This 76-year-old straight New Yorker agrees that the sham argument by the clerical caste has nothing to do with religious freedom and everything to do with forcing a narrow view of "official" Catholic teaching (which is not even supported by many Catholic laity) on a nation whose constitution guarantees freedom of belief. The USCCB is engaging in the most egregious case of Orwellian double-speak I have witnessed since the passing of Stalin's historical revisionism. To borrow one of Jesus' metaphors, I think a lot of bishops are going to be very surprised when the sheep are separated from the goats and they find themselves on the wrong side of the aisle.
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David Weidner
Ask me about my narcissism!
09:07 AM on 09/15/2012
The mental gymnastics required to be a gay catholic must be a burdensome drain on your proverbial soul. If the religion does not fit, you should just quit.
11:21 PM on 09/14/2012
You're a gay catholic?
Why? I mean, intellectual honestly begs the question...why? You might as well be a free market communist or something
01:11 PM on 09/18/2012
I guess to some people there is more to a religion than just one item.
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talkstocoyotes
11:08 AM on 09/19/2012
Absolutely.

Plenty of religions have practiced human sacrifice; but of course, that's just one item.
03:04 PM on 09/14/2012
"Liberty for the bishops is a synonym for power and control, their power, their control. They aim to impose unquestioned submission to their self-styled rectitude. Unlike Jesus' freedom to challenge the elders and scribes, liberty by contemporary authoritarian lights deprives others of their rights." Well said Mr. Giannone, well said indeed.
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onlyThis
How do you free a bird from an empty cage?
05:39 PM on 09/16/2012
Freedom, for certain conservatives, means the freedom to be just like them.
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Martin Eldred
Alaskan runner, singer, pastor.
01:48 AM on 09/14/2012
Thank you for your article. Some of us are actively working to get the church to be as open as her Lord is. I am Protestant, but we have our issues as well.
01:05 AM on 09/14/2012
Jesus' 'liberty' you spoke of never contradicted Scripture. He came to free people from their sinful bondage, not to say it's ok. His definition of freedom is turning from our wayward lifestyles and obey God's commandments, repentance. That may not be a gay man's definition of freedom, but it's Jesus'.
08:02 AM on 09/14/2012
So you reckon that you are qualified to speak on his behalf then? A bloke that, even if he was first of all real, lived and died around 1980 years ago?

You need to check that ego of yours I think.
06:48 PM on 09/14/2012
Jesus never claimed that homosexuality was sinful.
07:59 PM on 09/14/2012
He never said slavery was bad, either.
06:46 PM on 09/13/2012
Those who in the name of religious freedom seek to deprive others of the freedom to make choices are not interested in freedom. They are interested in control, on conservation of their status. The Mormon church takes substantially the same views as the Catholic church regarding gays and to a lesser degree on contraception, and in addition ban coffee and tobacco. Interestingly, however, devout Mormon merchants offer coffee and cigarets and contraceptives in their groceries, restaurants and pharmacies. As always, principle ends where profits begin. Would the Catholic church oppose contraception if they profited????????????
04:25 PM on 09/13/2012
Could the author please explain in more detail how biblical revelation depends on his being gay?
12:33 AM on 09/14/2012
Hahahaha, I know right?
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BeninOakland
Don't tell me you love me. Let me guess.
02:40 PM on 09/13/2012
Here's one way to think about it.

Religious beliefs about sin, when used in any context other than "I believe "x" is a sin", always boils down to YOUR religious beliefs about MY sins. When religious people urge the state to enforce their religious beliefs about the sins of other people on those people, or on people who disagree that "x" is a sin, it has crossed the line clearly demarcated as...

FREEDOM OF WORSHIP. FREEDOM OF RELIGION. FREEDOM OF CONSCIENCE.

If you're going to define the problem as one of sincere religious belief, then using the state to enforce that belief on people who don't share it. And that is the very definition of religious bigotry.
08:04 AM on 09/14/2012
Bravo.
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Jeff Rosenbury
I love all people -- in the abstract
12:08 PM on 09/16/2012
I agree the state shouldn't enforce one person's concept of sin on another.

But the belief that this is what the Catholic Church is referring to when it claims a lack of religious freedom is just crazy talk. The Church is specifically referring to laws that restrict individual Catholics from obeying their conscience.

This is not a single issue. It is not about the power of the bishops. It's about the lack of power of the individual to practice their religion.

Never in my lifetime has a Catholic bishop had the power to compel a single parishioner under secular law. But the state has recently started to compel bishops to murder people. The have no choice but to object.
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onlyThis
How do you free a bird from an empty cage?
05:45 PM on 09/16/2012
The belief that a fertilized egg is a person is, itself, a religious belief. You don't even see your own blindness.
06:09 PM on 09/16/2012
LOL. You're such a drama queen. Bishops aren't being compelled to murder people.