iPhone app iPad app Android phone app Android tablet app More

Featuring fresh takes and real-time analysis from HuffPost's signature lineup of contributors
Rick Newman

GET UPDATES FROM Rick Newman
 

Too Much Student Debt? Blame Your Parents

Posted: 05/14/2012 2:44 pm

I graduated from college in 1988 with about $11,000 in student-loan debt, which is slightly less, when adjusted for inflation, than the $27,000 that the typical indebted student owes today. The monthly payments seemed onerous at first, but as time went on they become manageable. While paying back my loans, I got married, bought a house, had kids and got divorced. By the time I made the final payment, 15 years after I graduated, I barely noticed the monthly debit from my checking account.

The total amount of student-loan debt in the United States has now risen above $1 trillion -- more than the total amount of credit card deb t-- and a small percentage of borrowers owe staggering sums well above $50,000. A recent front-page story in the New York Times declared that an entire generation has been "hobbled" by student debt.

Maybe so, but it's worth keeping in mind that for a couple of generations at least, recent grads have felt hobbled by debts they didn't think much about when they blithely signed up for the loans. I certainly did, and it didn't help that a recession set in shortly after I graduated, forcing me to juggle part-time work as a starter journalist with freelance jobs and restaurant work.

One big difference today, of course, is that the economy's chronically weak and the jobs that are supposed to help grads pay back their loans aren't really there. But there are a couple of less-acknowledged problems that have contributed to the debt binge that's now causing financial stress for millions of recent grads.

One contributing factor is parental abdication. Where were the parents when these kids were signing up for $50,000 or $100,000 in debt, so they could go to private schools that made them feel good, with no consideration of whether the cost would ever be worth it? The Times article, for instance, profiles one student who took on $120,000 in debt so she could major in marketing at a pricey private school in Ohio. Her father is a paramedic and her mother is a teacher, which suggests that they're not wealthy, but at least ought to be sensible. But would they rack up endless amounts of spending on their credit cards, with no plan for how to pay it back? Or buy a Mercedes on a Honda budget? If not, then why did they let their daughter get so far under water?

The press sometimes builds stories around egregious examples that don't represent the overall trend, but the Times accurately identifies a problem that some economists believe has gotten big enough to slow down the broader economy. About 10 percent of student borrowers owe more than $54,000, according to the New York Federal Reserve. Some of them will surely default. Overwhelming amounts of student debt are depressing demand for housing (since many swamped grads move back in with their parents), forcing young adults to marry later and even pushing down the rate of population growth, which bodes poorly for consumer demand and economic growth.

This comes during an era of overindulged kids who can presumably do no wrong, so their parents are inclined to say yes to everything, including, apparently, mountains of debt. Some struggling grads no doubt come from troubled homes where there's little parental involvement, and they may be the ones most taken advantage of by university boosters who make a degree from Precocity College sound magical. But college-bound kids, by definition, are America's privileged class, because somebody has instilled in them the value of education and guided them through the tests, admission procedures and other rigors it take to get into college, especially an expensive one. Parents who get their kids that far, but then flub the cost-benefit analysis -- or worse, let their kids make their own immature calculations -- don't really understand education. It's an important asset that's valuable at the right price, but not at any price.

The other factor is the horrible habit of living on borrowed money that has gripped America for the last decade or so. Those bubble years of easy money convinced millions of Americans that there is such a thing as a free lunch, that you can borrow to finance spending and somehow not end up insolvent. That fantasy evaporated with the housing bust that began in 2006 and still hasn't ended, and a lot of people have learned financial literacy the hard way, by losing their homes or ending up so far under water that their living standards will be depressed for years.

Yet many parents still seem to have passed the easy money mentality onto their kids. Most of this year's graduating seniors, after all, entered college in 2008, the year the economy quaked, and they've had four years to watch the credit bubble burst and change course, if necessary, to pare down their debt load and rationalize their finances. Yet we still hear woeful tales of grads who feel they were deceived about their prospects because nobody told them how suffocating all that debt would be. And who should have told them? Not guidance counselors, not admissions deans, but their parents.

To cope, many grads will move back home with their parents and sponge off them for a few years, adding to their parents' bills. Parents shouldn't complain. They're getting off easy compared to the kids they misdirected.

 
 
 

Follow Rick Newman on Twitter: www.twitter.com/rickjnewman

FOLLOW PARENTS
 
 
  • Comments
  • 24
  • Pending Comments
  • 0
  • View FAQ
Comments are closed for this entry
View All
Favorites
Recency  | 
Popularity
09:30 PM on 05/26/2012
My parents paid for my housing, I paid for my school. I think this is a good system. It motivated me to graduate in four years that's for sure. I would do it again.
10:34 AM on 05/18/2012
As a 23 year old recent grad, I have to say I agree. I took out about $35k in loans, and my payments are manageable, but make my budget exceedingly tight, even though I have had the good fortune to get a full time job with benefits (it only pays around $38K). Now look - I took out the money, and I should have known better - definitely not saying I did not make some mistakes, going to a pricey private school, etc. However, when I was 17, the constant advice from everyone from my parents to my guidance counselors to my teachers was "don't make decisions based on money" and "study what you want to study". I trusted them, and I shouldn't have - that was terrible advice. My mom told me the other day that she thought I'd make $70k coming out of college, and I had this terrible feeling in my stomach, that I've been trusting major financial decisions to people who have no clue...

People need to start treating college education like any other consumer service...buy the best you can afford, but don't overextend yourself any more than you have to. A BA is the bare minimum for employment these days, and you should try to get one for as cheap as possible.
09:39 PM on 05/24/2012
Great that you were able to find a job and are working now. More than what a lot of recent grads can say. I agree that students are given false hopes about what to expect. I find fault with my teachers, guidance counselors, and the adults in my life at the time I was applying to college. My parents are immigrants and weren't savvy with how the whole system worked. When I graduated from HS, it was all about the BIG name schools. I had a teacher tell me she felt sorry for me because I ended up deciding to go to a less expensive, non-ivy league school. I was looked down upon. I had developed low self-esteem because of what she said. After graduating from the lesser college, I realized that it wasn't so bad and I had a great experience contrary to what she expected. Did it really make a difference? I'm just as smart if not smarter than my classmates who went to ivy leagues. No pricey college can compare to what I learned from traveling, learning languages, and having life experiences. I agree, warn students not to overextend themselves and stay away from those credit cards!
11:43 PM on 05/17/2012
This article is narrow in scope. It displays a deep lack of true understanding about the systems of economic and social power at work in American culture.

What this article does illustrate is "moral behavioralism" or radical "individualism" at play in the dominate modes of thought provided to the American people. These belief structures hold that individuals are held entirely responsible for their economic status (as if individuals are separate for the social collective). It never focuses on the economic health of the collective or on the infrastructure of social life. Instead the spotlight is on separate individuals.

This article lacks any attempt to connect the educational debt crisis to the larger economic trends such as: distribution of wealth and property, middle class income stagnation and destruction of labor rights and practices.

Blaming parents again. . . .
Too easy, time to move on.
This user has chosen to opt out of the Badges program
photo
GlennWatson
Two million fans
10:17 AM on 05/16/2012
How dare you blame people for their own mistakes.
09:15 AM on 05/16/2012
Thank you for this article. Throughout all of the hype of rising college costs and student loan debt, very few have discussed parental responsibility. As a 30-year veteran of the financial aid profession, I have witnessed a major erosion of parental investment and sacrifice when it comes to saving for college education. Many parents with students in high school decide to upgrade their homes and assume a $2500-5000/month house payment when their children are only 2-4 years away from entering college. They also continue to incur increasing credit card debt and often take spring break vacations in warm tropical places. In far too many cases it's not just a matter of parents being unable to say no to their children, its also a matter of them not being able to say no to themselves. If more parents were more willing to sacrifice and save, many students would not be forced to borrow excessively and thereby mortgage their own futures.
This user has chosen to opt out of the Badges program
09:49 AM on 05/15/2012
continued:

Some parents have been financially irresponsible, but so were the people who created the crisis. The ones who lied about mortgage ratings and sold them and knew disaster was coming, but pocketed all they could before it happened. Families have paid the price for the greed of many individuals. Those dishonest people who signed people into loans they knew they couldn't afford, who hired teenagers to sign loan papers, who raided pension funds to pay state debt--those are the people who can take most of the blame for the economy and people having to leave college or not being able to afford it in the first place.
12:04 PM on 05/17/2012
So you're saying that parents shouldn't have had the intelligence and sense of responsibility to look at the terms of their mortgages or their kids' student loans? I won't claim that the bankers were being particularly helpful, but no one held a gun to the parents' heads and made them sign an unacceptable loan.
This user has chosen to opt out of the Badges program
08:14 PM on 05/17/2012
It may not have been "unacceptable" before the bankers trashed the economy. Besides, when there is no extra money and college is needed, loans are the only way to go if the student can't get a scholarship.
This user has chosen to opt out of the Badges program
09:49 AM on 05/15/2012
Nice try, blaming the parents when we all know that what people in power do affects everyone else. If we didn't learn that lesson from "too big to fail" then we're doomed to repeat the same again.

People who made money--a lot of money--from defrauding people have paid no consequences for their crimes. Go watch "House of Cards" or any of the other documentaries that have shown how others tanked people's investments and stole from their pensions. These people have no shame at all. They will be laughing and rationalizing, "Everyone was doing it" and "If I didn't do it, someone else would have done it". They sound more like immature children than people who work in finance.

You're going to blame parents for losing their jobs? For not being able to find another job that pays enough to support their family? For having to use savings to survive?
11:31 PM on 05/17/2012
EXCELLENT POINTS.
08:32 AM on 05/15/2012
Great look at the student loan problem.

Parents should seriously consider outlawing the use of student debt in their family. Debt only makes school cost more. and if things don't work out exactly like someone plans, student loans can be an anchor around your neck that can ruin you financially for life.
09:33 PM on 05/26/2012
I'm glad I could get student loans. The only thing worse than graduating college in 09 would have been not going to school at all. The only way to do that for most is student loans.
07:31 AM on 05/15/2012
I can’t emphasize enough, walking away from student loans is really not an option. Because, your student loans never go away! EVER! There are many ways in which your debt can be dealt with the utilization of various programs. There is a link on the right, Navigating Through Your Student Loan Nightmare, which may help. More info on restructuring your debt will come later.

Congress and the Senate should be held accountable because of the lack of financial protections they eradicated; or should I say, [the bankruptcy protections] they have done away with, for the sake of their special interest associations.

for more info: http://studentloandebacle.blogspot.com/
photo
Professor Science
"When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
07:05 AM on 05/15/2012
I'll continue to blame the overall lack of meaningful regulations that allow for greedy educational institutions to arbitrarily raise tuition rates, for my 200+k in education debt. It's funny too how these institutions sell prospective students false promises by way of doctored placement data and, at least in my field's case, "average" starting salaries... for the top top 2-5% of all those actually placed. It's also interesting how for 2 years after graduation I counted toward my school's 86% placement statistic even though I was unemployed... funny how that works.

But let the free market reign supreme! Lmao - I would be curious to see how that would work out given how the practices of these institutions currently amount to usury.
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
OHexpat12
06:22 AM on 05/15/2012
Blame the parents? Oh great...problem solved!
03:05 AM on 05/15/2012
"This comes during an era of overindulged kids who can presumably do no wrong, so their parents are inclined to say yes to everything, including, apparently, mountains of debt"

...seriously? it is completely absurd to believe in these unsubstantiated generalizations that insist college students are somehow hedonistic elitists simply because they are not willing to pass up the best college that affords them the greatest opportunities.
12:08 PM on 05/17/2012
The "best" car is not one that is the most gorgeous, fastest, and most expensive. It's the one that's the more gorgeous and fastest for the amount of money I have to spend.

If students or parents don't do an actual cost/benefit analysis of schools before picking one, they're being fools. Spending ten times as much to go to a school that only gives you twice as much better education is not always a wise decision.
11:30 PM on 05/17/2012
Seriously,

If you know anything about social capital you know this: the college you attend (yes, the ranking and the position in the educational hierarchy) determines your social network, career opportunities, recommendations and, effectively, your life in our corporate capitalist structure.

It comes as no surprise that individuals seek the highest ranked (and often most expensive) educational institution. This is what we are trained for within the competitive norm for social behavior. It is the wise decision.

Please.
03:30 PM on 05/14/2012
Ohio State Philosophy Major Having Second Thoughts in News From the End of the World:

http://www.newsfromtheend.com/2012/05/ohio-state-philosophy-major-having.html