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Mothers Deserve Options

Posted: 06/26/11 11:42 PM ET

I made my 2008 documentary The Business of Being Born to educate women about choices in childbirth, and raise questions about maternity care in the U.S. For example, why were C-section rates skyrocketing? Why were options such as birth centers and home birth disappearing? And why does a country supposedly committed to health care reform seem opposed to safe, cost-effective options that include midwifery and well-woman care?

The impact of the documentary was monumental. The blogosphere blew up (I can handle a few people yelling at me if it means my message is being heard!) Every day women stop me on the street to share stories of their safe, successful, meaningful births. Many say they felt "in the dark" about their options until seeing The Business of Being Born. But unfortunately, due to the highly medicalized climate of hospital births and the financial interests of insurance and drug companies, our birth options are disappearing at an alarming rate. It's seems that the more we know, the fewer choices we have. In the last five years, New York City alone has witnessed the shuttering of its only freestanding birth center, two hospital-based birth centers, a popular childbirth education center and a major hospital that offered privileges to a large number of hospital midwifery practices and home birth midwives. This has left many parents-to-be struggling to find birth options outside of the traditional OB/GYN approach.

But why is all of this important? Why does it matter if a mother's prenatal visits are 10 minutes long or last more than an hour? Why does it matter if the care provider at her birth is someone she has built a trusting relationship with over 9 months or a stranger-on-call? Why does it matter if a woman brings her child into this world in a way that makes her feel empowered and respected, as opposed to feeling pushed through a delivery where she is not an active participant in her care? Does how we are born really matter if mom and baby are pronounced "healthy" in the end?

Well, I have seen that it matters quite a bit. For me, this is not about promoting natural birth or home birth or claiming one model of care is superior to another. What I have come to realize is that, at its core, the birth process is directly connected to most important thing in this world -- loving and caring for our children. The bottom line is that mothers who receive attentive prenatal care and have a positive birth experience are in a better position to create a healthy attachment to their babies, have more success breastfeeding, and enter the experience of motherhood feeling empowered and energized. And that concept -- the respect for birth as the sacred beginning of motherhood -- is what has become sorely lost in our mainstream medical system. Yes, having a healthy baby is of tantamount importance, but what could be more essential to the emotional and physical well-being of future generations than to honor and empower mothers through pregnancy and birth? Sometimes I think the only people who really understand the relevance of this issue are the mothers themselves, and we are all just too tired and busy raising our children to make a stink about it.

I, however, am making a stink. It concerns me to see that a growing number of mothers feel coerced and undermined during the birth process, and rates of post-traumatic-stress disorder after birth are on the rise. There is a blasé attitude toward rising cesarean rates, which now make up one third of all births in the United States. Any doctor will tell you that a Cesarean is major abdominal surgery, so why is this the only example in modern medicine where a post-op patient is sent home to care for a newborn? We have absolutely no system to follow-up on mothers after birth and make sure they are able to care properly for their babies. In other countries, new mothers are visited daily by nurses or doulas who help them with breastfeeding or household chores.

The entire pregnancy and birth process is physiologically designed to prepare women emotionally and physically for motherhood. Mother nature has endowed us with a complex interaction of hormones that literally reshape the human brain for motherhood. Doctors have not even begun to crack the surface of understanding the neuroscience behind the hormonal interactions between mom and baby during the time of birth. In fact, they do not even understand what causes a woman to go into labor, which is why labor induction methods remain crude and statistically double one's chances of ending up with a cesarean. (Most women aren't informed of this risk and blindly opt for the "convenience" of a scheduled induction.) There is a complete lack of evidence-based medicine when it comes to childbirth. Although I am worried about the effects of all this intervention, my true passion is making sure that new parents are informed.

To further this conversation and give expectant women more empowering information to make their own decisions about their births, I decided to create a series of educational DVD's called More Business of Being Born.

The topics covered in my new videos will not be discussed at the typical 5-10 minute obstetric appointment. But the information is essential -- so essential that we decided to forgo the traditional studio distribution model that we used for the original film and self-release, market and distribute these videos. This has been no small task as we have yet to see a dime of revenue from The Business of Being Born and had to ask our filmmaking team to create the 6 new hours of video for no salary. We have created a Kickstarter campaign to raise all the necessary funds for self-distribution.

I ask you to join me in fighting for the right of all mothers to have access to safe, intervention-free options, and to let other women know what those options are. How and where you decide to bring your child into this world is a choice that belongs to you.

To be a part of this movement, please click HERE.

 
 
 
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08:42 AM on 07/04/2011
Are we talking random midwives here that everyone's using or Nurse Midwives who have Master's Degrees?
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Nathaly Macomber
Philo is my son.
01:16 AM on 07/04/2011
Women need to be VERY CAREFUL about home birthing. Baby's die ALL THE TIME due to these risky procedures performed by midwives.
Link to "midwife retiring due to dead baby" : http://skepticalob.blogspot.com/2011/06/prominent-midwife-retires-after.html
Link to "baby died due to home birth after c-section http://skepticalob.blogspot.com/2011/06/another-hbac-another-rupture-another.html
Link to "Mothering.com: more than 20 home birth preventable deaths in two years" http://skepticalob.blogspot.com/2011/05/motheringcom-more-than-20-preventable.html
Link to " baby died due to untreated Group B Strep by midwife" http://skepticalob.blogspot.com/2011/03/wrens-story-on-1st-anniversary-of-his.html
http://skepticalob.blogspot.com/2011/05/midwife-lets-baby-die-breaks-law-pleads.html
ETC, ETC.
And did I mention all of these babies would be alive if the mothers had gone to a hospital to give birth. SAD!
11:28 PM on 07/04/2011
Have you even watched the movie? If you had, I doubt you would be making these erroneous statements. Ricki Lake is not suggesting that women who are at high risk for complications give birth at home. She is simply trying to educate people about the problems we have in this country with obstetrical care. Giving birth at home for a low risk mother with a TRAINED and SKILLED caregiver is perfectly safe.
All the latest research confirms the fact that planned home births for low risk mothers that are supervised by a trained birth attendant are as safe, if not slightly safer, as hospital births.
That is the data, plain and simple. Your campaign to needlessly scare women into thinking that they are irresponsible for giving birth at home is misinformed. On the same note, I could find story after story of infant and maternal deaths due to hospital negligence. It is time that we start looking at the facts for what they are and supporting each other as mothers. The truth is that the US has one of the worst neonatal/maternal mortality rates in the industrialized world (As an aside, perinatal mortality is an ADDITIONAL indicator, not the most important, as you stated. http://www.who.int/healthinfo/statistics/indneonatalmortality/en/) "The Business of Being Born" is bringing this debate into the mainstream and I commend the filmmakers for their efforts. At the very least, do your research before making inflammatory statements.
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Nathaly Macomber
Philo is my son.
05:56 PM on 07/05/2011
Yes, I have watched the documentary and Ricki Lake NEVER gives a biased opinion between HB and hospital birth. In it, she never states the fact that high risk pregnancies should be attended in a hospital, though, she does claim that if something goes wrong during the home birth process, the mother should be transferred to a hospital... But I wonder... What if there's not enough time to safe the mother or baby's life? Time is CRUCIAL when dealing with an individual in the brink of dying. Furthermore, the essence of this documentary is to say that a woman's body was created to give birth and it is imperative to listen to nature.. Well, life isn't really that easy and to rely on "miracles" isnt how live is preserved. I know of two women who lost their babies due to having watched this documentary... They opted for home births BECAUSE they had a low risk pregnancy, though, tested positive for GBS and the midwives never administered the antibiotics necessary to save the babies' lives. Whether these women had given birth in a hospital, their children would be alive. Where's the fine print accompanying this documentary?? All Ricki Lake is trying to do is PROFIT from the st00pidity of people like yourself. Or is she donating the proceeds from her DVD sales? Don't think so.
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Nathaly Macomber
Philo is my son.
06:05 PM on 07/05/2011
I'd also want to read the stories of "infant and maternal deaths due to hospital negligence". Please post the links.
11:29 PM on 07/04/2011
Some links:
http://www.naturalchildbirth.org/natural/resources/homebirth/homebirth01.htm
http://ajph.aphapublications.org/cgi/reprint/82/3/450.pdf
http://www.lamaze.org/Research/WhenResearchisFlawed/Homebirth/tabid/172/Default.aspx
http://www.thefarm.org/charities/mid.l
http://www2.cochrane.org/reviews/en/ab000352.html

From Sciencebasedmedicine:
"Highly-paid obstetrical expertise is not needed for most births. There is no reason well-trained, well-equipped midwives could not deliver babies at home for those who prefer it and are willing to accept the small risk. There is also no reason midwives could not deliver most babies within the hospital in a patient-friendly homelike environment with expert emergency backup right next door. That would be the best of both worlds."
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UsedtobeAlongst
Correcting the Left's hypocrisy
06:22 PM on 07/03/2011
All I can say Ricky is that you need to spend some time at a big city hospital, when a car from an unlicensed midwife drives up to the ER and throws out a woman in labor with serious problems, then speeds off and we are left to deal with it .
Then you will understand why we have such a poor OB outcome in this country.
09:21 PM on 07/03/2011
Homebirths account for 1% of births in the US. They cannot possibly make a stastistical impact on the horrid maternal and infant mortality in this country. Follow the money.
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Nathaly Macomber
Philo is my son.
10:49 PM on 07/03/2011
Infant mortality is the WRONG statistic. It is a measure of pediatric care. That's because infant mortality is deaths from birth to one year of age. It includes accidents, sudden infant death syndrome, and childhood diseases.

The correct statistic for measuring obstetric care (according to the World Health Organization) is perinatal mortality. Perinatal mortality is death from 28 weeks of pregnancy to 28 days of life. Therefore it includes late stillbirths and deaths during labor.

The US has one of the lowest rates of perinatal mortality in the world.

2. The Netherlands, which places the greatest reliance on midwives, has low mortality rates.
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MadMaddie
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06:02 PM on 07/03/2011
I get what Ms. Lake is saying, but "blindly opt for the "convenience" of a scheduled induction"? Wha?
Both of my kiddos were induced at about 8 months due to kidney failure caused by severe pre-eclampsia.
I've never had high pressure in my life except during pregnancy.
Thank the stars I have 2 healthy kiddos despite being forced out of the womb at 32 wks & 34 wks, but my inductions were attempts to save my life and the lives of my unborn children, not conveniences.
What is convenient about having synthetic hormones pumped into your veins at a rapid rate to force your unready body to begin labor?
What is convenient about having your OB/GYN break your water for you in an attempt to force your unready body to begin labor?
What is convenient about having to being hooked up to an IV of Magnesium Sulfate (used to prevent or stop seizures caused by high blood pressure) for the entire labor and delivery and then being continued by IV for an additional 24hrs following delivery?
Maybe some women view that as a convenience, but I'd have given plenty to have 2 labors that were begun because my baby and my body were simply full-term and ready to deliver.
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08:35 PM on 07/03/2011
I do not think she is implying women have Csections for their convenience. My sister was carrying my niece who was breech and was told she needed a Csection. She ended up having an inversion (they manually flip the baby from the outside). Had she not been seeing a midwife the inversion would likely have not even been discussed. She had a vaginal birth as opposed to major surgery. My other sister was pregnant with twins and was basically told by her doctor that she would have to have a Csection. When Lake discusses "convenience" I believe she is referring to the doctor's convenience. When my sister with the twins had the Csection she was given the run around and it came down to when was convenient for the doctor. My sister with the twins was told on a Thursday that they needed to deliver them immediately. When she did not consent immediately they ended up scheduling her for the following Monday. Had it really been so pressing than why would they wait over the weekend? She did not request they not do it during the weekend, she just wanted a chance to talk to her husband and decide. The ironic thing is that my sisters are twins and one of them was breech. My mother delivered twins with one being breech vaginally not through a C section about thirty years ago but today my sisters who had each of those situations separately were told they must have C sections.
05:36 PM on 07/03/2011
I would like to remind everyone of the facts...US is 41st in maternal mortality. We have a cesarean rate of 33%. Everyone needs to google "pit-to-distress" and then honestly tell me that there is not a serious problem in this country. Women are not informed and those of us in the natural birth community, including Ricki Lake, are simply trying to get the word out. If you love intervention and the medicalization of birth then what are you complaining about?
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Nathaly Macomber
Philo is my son.
07:04 PM on 07/03/2011
Rick Lake is just trying to sell her DVDs.
09:24 PM on 07/03/2011
You are totally misguided. Natural birth is not an industry that makes billions, medicated birth is. If anyone is in this to make money it's hospitals, insurance companies, formula companies, drug companies and lawyers. As a natural birth educator I can tell you the first BBofB movie opened the eyes of lots of women. We have a crisis in this country and your lame statement helps noone.
03:02 PM on 07/03/2011
While I agree some doctors are too quick to decide on scheduled C-sections, I do think we see more of them because babies are born bigger these days and doctors have the technology to see if natural child birth will cause problems.

Now as far as labor being so excruciating in order to prepare us for motherhood - well that's just silly. Labor is excruciating no matter how you do it and we shouldn't judge people because they had a C or heaven forbid, an epidural. I speak of this with bias because after delivering my first two drug free and getting an epidural the third around- I don't know WTH I was thinking the first two times.

Home births? Don't get me started. What's more important - feeling empowered because you did this in your bedroom or feeling safe because you were in a hospital if anything went wrong?
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Nathaly Macomber
Philo is my son.
02:42 PM on 07/03/2011
Really? All this "celebrity" is trying to do is to PROFIT from the stupidit_y of others. Once I got to the final paragraph where she offered her DVDs, I realized such. Almost got me foole_d.
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Nathaly Macomber
Philo is my son.
02:36 PM on 07/03/2011
I read about two women that tried the home birth thing because they saw this documentary and their children died due to pneumonia. Apparently the midwives never administered the antibiotics necessary when they tested positive for Group Strep. Even one of the midwives advised one of the patients to put a garlic clove between her legs because such would help the virus go away. Well, it didn't since the baby died in her arms 24 hours later. To give birth at home is extremely dangerous because the baby doesn't receive proper care during the most crucial time which is 24-48 hours after being born, not to mention, these midwives aren't doctors and can't do anything if something goes wrong with the baby. Why risk the health of your newborn when you can have a safer delivery in a hospital? Of course there could b complications, but such can be treated immediately by professionals who know what they are doing.
09:50 PM on 07/03/2011
if you knew anything about midwifery you would know that these women aren't just people that sit around all day watching tv and decide to pop out babies. they are trained professionals with years of experience and yes, sometimes thing go wrong. but more women and babies die in the US than any other industrialized country in the world. that's not the natural birth movement's fault, that blame lays on the doctors in hospitals that want you in a bed and out because no one feels like waiting 17 hours for you to have your baby on your own sweet time.
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Nathaly Macomber
Philo is my son.
10:44 PM on 07/03/2011
My cousin spent 14 hours in a hospital giving birth. She had to get induced and gave birth NATURALLY. Then spent three days in the hospital. It all depends, you can't generalize.
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CenaW
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01:12 PM on 07/03/2011
The reason is all to obvious,
Mothers who receive good care raise healthy cared for babies, who are then more likely to become responsible thoughtful adults.

That must be stopped.
The capitalists need poor, uneducated, emotinally damaged population to exploit and manipulate.
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rlj13
Torn between liberal and libertarian
10:06 AM on 07/03/2011
Why is having and caring for children the "most important thing in the world," when overpopulation is the driving force behind every one of the world's problems? Maybe women should stop considering motherhood a selfless act and take a broader focus. Does everyone need three kids? I personally am willing to refrain.
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CenaW
Did you know AOL belongs to A L E C
01:14 PM on 07/03/2011
Perhaps you could then explain why every Republican is opposed to birth control, and always cut those programs and always cut foreign aid that provides birth control information and products.
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rlj13
Torn between liberal and libertarian
01:48 PM on 07/12/2011
Oh. No doubt. Republicans are doing nothing short of waging war on the poor and especially women. They don't even pretend to disguise their agenda!

I just meant that motherhood is important, and everyone deserves that basic human rite of passage (as long as they want it), but Im not sure every woman should have children. It can often be more selfless to refrain - like if you don't really have enough money for a child, you are hurting that child.

Also, I found it somewhat alarming the amount of pleasure the women in the film were getting out of the experience. It was almost fetishistic and by the end it seemed almost an addiction. They took the "getting back to nature" approach, but I doubt that in nature your husband would be laying behind you and spooning you.

Bottom line: It hurts for a reason. There are too many people for everyone to have multiple kids.
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DeniseDuffieldThomas
Coach and Author of Lucky B*tch
06:16 AM on 07/03/2011
God, some of these comments are so depressing. Go Ricki Go. Thanks for bringing these essential issues to our attention.
lovelybunchofcoconuts
It's nice, to be nice, to the nice
05:08 AM on 07/03/2011
Excellent article.
01:48 AM on 07/03/2011
It's a fact; the PERCENTAGE of life-threatening and/or lifelong disability-related births are much higher for home & natural births than with hospital deliveries (total, c-section & vaginal combined).

Women who feel the need to roll the dice and who feel that the only way they can feel empowered is to squat in a thatch hut & chant (exaggerating, of course)...let them sign away their rights to collect more than $100,000 from their health insurance company, have the state pay for treatment and/or sue the 'birther'.

See, all of us pay for the massive costs for caring for these children via higher insurance rates $ tax dollars. If more women go natural, more children will need $$$ care, and we don't want to pay.

The only area where I want liability caps to be in effect is ob/gyn medicine. Too many doctors are being sued for things they can't control/correct during births.
09:51 AM on 07/03/2011
Where did you get that information? And when you say 'home or natural births' are you talking about ones that are actually attended by a midwife, or teenagers giving birth in their room after hiding their pregnancy?
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CenaW
Did you know AOL belongs to A L E C
01:15 PM on 07/03/2011
You can't provide a single credible source to support anything in your comment.
12:20 AM on 07/03/2011
One answer here Rikki-Medical malpractice tort suits against OB/GYNs. C-Sections are skyrocketing because of now three generations of OBs being trained under the threat of ridiculous multi-million dollar medical tort judgements against them. C-sections are safer. One doesnt go through school/training for 13 years, only to have her/his career ended by a medical malpractice law suit.
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Aaron Watkins
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12:41 AM on 07/03/2011
And the author wonders why they get only 5-10 minute prenatal care? Its because litigation is reducing the amount of practicing OB/GYN's.

To really help the situation caps must be placed on malpractice suits.

http://www.northshorelij.com/NSLIJ/High+Med+Mal+Rates+Drive+Out+Ob+Gyns
12:50 AM on 07/03/2011
Amen. What other professional has to purchase a $250,000 a year malpractice premium before she/he can be allowed to practice? Please someone name one. The government, despite the wishes of Obama, Berwick and others, cant force the brightest individuals to become an OB, assume that level of risk, professional or personal. So, many OBs opt-out of delivering babies. There are just so many doctors who deliver children left. That's why there are short visits.
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TeamSanity
strong emotions don't equate strong arguments
01:36 PM on 07/03/2011
C-sections are safer? Huh? Major abdominal surgery as opposed to something that is a natural process evolved over millions of years. Yes, malpractice suits can be punitive, but that doesn't defend unnecessary surgery on another human being.
01:18 AM on 07/04/2011
Well ...if American society was willing to take on the percentage of mortality/morbidity of the child and mother during natural childbirth as lets say even 50 years ago of 20-30%--then more people in medicine could be supportive of your position. However, that is far from the case, as every malady of newborns such as separated shoulders to temporary nerve palsy is blamed on the delivering medical team. These maladies were accepted as part of 'natural childbirth' in the past, and almost never legally acted on.

As I wrote in my original post, this one can be squarely blamed on the medico-legal environment in this country.
04:53 PM on 07/16/2011
Yes, Csections are safer and lower liability.

Docs are scared of two major things, CP and Distoscia. Both of them can be avoided via Csection.

On the grim side of the math, it is cheaper to risk the mothers life than risk a CP claim.
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08:06 PM on 06/28/2011
The only part of a Hospital that does not practice Evidence Based Medicine is the Maternity Department. They are currently practicing almost the exact opposite of what the best scientific evidence has shown to be the best practices for both mother and baby.
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TeamSanity
strong emotions don't equate strong arguments
01:38 PM on 07/03/2011
True. For one thing, a mother in labor should not be lying on her back with her legs up in the air. Even gravity is being defied by this method. It's just that it's more convenient for the attendant medical personnel.