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Rita Schiano

Entries by Rita Schiano

It's Brutal Honesty Time

(1) Comments | Posted February 28, 2012 | 5:01 PM

This is not the blog I intended to write today. My intention was to write an uplifting article about the remarkable power of resilience, but I had to finish another assignment first. This is National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, and I had to write an article about dangerous...

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How Taking One Small Step Can Change Your Life

(2) Comments | Posted January 25, 2012 | 11:27 AM

Can taking one, small step really change your life? Proponents of kaizen think so. (And for the record, so do I.) Kaizen is a means of making great and lasting change through small, steady increments. Kaizen's practical roots are based in the Japanese management concept for incremental (gradual, continuous) change...

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Beware Those Stinkin' Thinkin' Traps

(0) Comments | Posted January 10, 2012 | 7:09 PM

So, you've set your sight on getting in better shape this year. Losing weight and working out are at the top of your New Year's resolutions list. And you are determined to follow through this year.

But as you pop the Jane Fonda "Prime Time -- Fit & Strong"...

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Giving And Receiving With Grace

(1) Comments | Posted December 8, 2011 | 10:48 AM

In the coming weeks, the No. 1 question most of us will be asked is, "What did you get?" While the Christmas season is rooted in the Christian faith -- a faith that teaches benevolent and charitable giving -- Buddha, too, offered a succinct lesson in giving and getting.


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A Lesson In Resilience

(1) Comments | Posted November 24, 2011 | 9:52 AM

On a brisk September day in 1620, 102 passengers and a crew of roughly 30 left England embarking on a grueling 66-day journey marked by disease and death. According to history, the Pilgrims undertook the voyage to escape religious persecution in England. The Mayflower, originally destined for the...

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Life Is What You Do

(0) Comments | Posted October 25, 2011 | 4:05 PM

In 1969, Joseph Stein together with John Kander (music) and Fred Ebb (lyrics) adapted the novel Zorba the Greek by Nikos Kazantzakis into a Broadway musical. The show opens (and ends) with the song "Life Is," with lyrics that bolster Alexis Zorba's credo that you must grab life while you...

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How Distracted Are You? Take The Quiz

(34) Comments | Posted October 7, 2011 | 8:43 AM

It is not surprising that modern day life is often referred to as the "culture of distraction." We are bombarded with information 24 hours a day, seven days a week. And yet, most of us cannot get enough. We channel surf, search the Web, talk and text, drive and text,...

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Connect With Your Friends -- It Could Increase Your Resilience

(4) Comments | Posted September 22, 2011 | 8:36 AM

When is the last time you heard the voice of a friend or loved one who you don't see regularly? How often do you find yourself thinking, "I need to give (fill in the name) a call" and then days, weeks, even months later you have the same thought because...

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On 9/11 Anniversary, Channel Your Stress Positively

(2) Comments | Posted September 8, 2011 | 8:49 AM

It was about 7:15 a.m. Mountain Standard Time when the phone rang that Tuesday morning, Sept. 11, 2001. We were packing our suitcases, preparing for the second leg of our Colorado vacation. Suddenly, a cry rang out from upstairs. "Turn the television on! Hurry! Something horrible is happening!" As our...

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Attitude Is Everything

(20) Comments | Posted August 26, 2011 | 12:57 PM

When it comes to resilience, attitude really is everything. Having an optimistic view of yourself and confidence in your strengths and abilities creates conditions for success and healthier living.

To start, let me be clear. When I talk of optimism, I do not mean that rose-colored glasses, Pollyannaish-way of looking...

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How Well Do You Weather Life's Storms?

(8) Comments | Posted August 12, 2011 | 8:21 AM

Willa Cather wrote: "There are some things you learn best in calm, and some in storm." How well we weather the tempests in life, how quickly we bounce back from adversities and calamities, depends largely on our level of resilience.

Research on resilience has shown...

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Life's Little Annoyances (Don't Let Them Get to You)

(6) Comments | Posted July 24, 2011 | 11:33 AM

Critical, and sometimes life-altering, situations can happen that throw us totally off kilter: losing one's job, developing a serious illness (oneself or a loved one), or natural disasters such as floods, paralyzing snow and/or ice storms, hurricanes or tornadoes. How well we weather these devastating, out of our control circumstances...

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8 Ways to Bring Stillness into Your Life

(4) Comments | Posted July 7, 2011 | 8:19 AM

Deepak Chopra wrote: "Silence is the great teacher, and to learn its lessons you must pay attention to it. There is no substitute for the creative inspiration, knowledge, and stability that come from knowing how to contact your core of inner silence."

Noise is a prime environmental cause...

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Stress Triggers: How to Identify Yours

(2) Comments | Posted June 19, 2011 | 10:30 AM

Each of us has situations that can make our heart race, our blood boil -- deadlines, interviews and teenagers, to name a few. Knowing what causes you stress is vital and powerful information and the beginning steps toward living a healthier, stress-reduced life.

Stress is the body's reaction to...

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Letting Go of Yesterday's Hurts

(8) Comments | Posted June 3, 2011 | 8:22 AM

If you can tell a story about how you were wronged last month, last year, five, even 10 years ago with the same vehemence, anger and ire, then you have not let go of it! What happened has happened. What was done is done. Over, finis.

Like a dog...

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