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The New Majority in the Same-Sex Marriage Debate

Posted: 05/20/11 03:12 PM ET

When public opinion is moving quickly on an issue, corroboration is king. We now have no less than four reputable national public opinion surveys in three months showing a slim majority of Americans now support allowing gay and lesbian couples to marry. Looking at the current convergence of polls, past trends, and current support patterns, this clearly looks like the beginning of the end of the same-sex marriage debate.

Just yesterday, we at Public Religion Research Institute released results from the PRRI Religion & Politics Tracking Survey, which finds a slim majority (51 percent) of Americans now favor allowing gay and lesbian couples to legally marry, compared to 43 percent percent who are opposed. And today, Gallup released corroborating results showing, for the first time since their tracking of the issue began in 1996, a majority (53 percent) of Americans believe same-sex marriage should be recognized by the law as valid, compared to 45 percent who say it should not.

Earlier this year in March, an ABC News/Washington Post poll found 53 percent of Americans said it should be legal "for gay and lesbian couples to get married," and in April a CNN/Opinion Research Corporation poll found 51 percent said marriages between gay and lesbian couples should be "recognized by the law as valid." The results of the four polls are remarkably consistent even though the surveys were conducted independently by different organizations using different question wordings in different field periods.

The PRRI poll also revealed a truth that is too often missed in media coverage of the issue: the debate is no longer between secular Americans who support same-sex marriage on one side and religious Americans who oppose it on the other. It is true that religiously unaffiliated Americans are strongly supportive of same-sex marriage (77 percent). But solid majorities of Catholics and white mainline Protestants (56% and 55% respectively) also support allowing gay and lesbian couples to legally marry. On the other side of the debate are white evangelical Protestants and minority Christians, a group made up mostly African American and Latino Protestants. Only 23% of white evangelical Protestants and 37 percent of minority Christians support allowing gay and lesbian couples to legally marry.

The partisan divides are also large. More than 6-in-10 (61 percent) Democrats and a majority (55 percent) of political independents support allowing gay and lesbian couples to legally marry. In contrast, less than 4-in-10 (37 percent) Republicans and only 34 percent of Americans who identify with the Tea Party movement support same-sex marriage.

Three other observations from the data are worth noting for their possible implications for the remaining skirmishes over same-sex marriage:

  • The ground is shifting quickly. Much of the movement in support has happened in 2010 and 2011.

  • Support for same-sex marriage is now extending beyond the youngest age cohorts. Sixty-one percent of 18-34 year olds support allowing gay and lesbian couples to marry, but so do nearly 6-in-10 (57 percent) Americans between the ages of 35 and 49.

  • There are now as many Americans who strongly support same-sex marriage as strongly oppose it. One-in-four (24 percent) Americans report that they strongly favor allowing gay and lesbian couples to legally marry, equal to the number who strongly oppose it (25 percent).

Results from the PRRI Religion & Politics Tracking Survey were based on telephone interviews conducted May 5-8, 2011, among a national probability sample of 1,007 adults age 18 and older. The overall margin of error is +/- 3.0 percentage points. To read the topline results and full methodology, click here.

 
 
 

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01:39 PM on 05/25/2011
People are starting the ignore the relevant social and natural science that shows the cognitive difference between men and women. This is important because the male parenting style is a needed complement to the female style. Studies in neurobiology show that male hormones create a more competitive, assertive cognitive pattern. Women tend to be more intuitive and better judges of character. They can receive more emotional input and emphasis social bonds more than power.

Children progress through predictable and necessary developmental stages. Some stages require more from a mother, while others require more from a father. For example, during infancy, babies of both sexes tend to do better in the care of their mother. Mothers are more attuned to the subtle needs of their infants and thus are more appropriately responsive. However, at some point, if a young boy is to become a competent man, he must detach from his mother and instead identify with his father. A fatherless boy doesn’t have a man with whom to identify and is more likely to have trouble forming a healthy masculine identity.

A father teaches a boy how to properly channel his aggressive and sexual drives. A father also commands a form of respect that is more likely to keep the boy in line. And those are the two primary reasons why boys without fathers are more likely to become delinquent and end up incarcerated.
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JShankel
I want my country forward
04:20 PM on 05/23/2011
Tick tock.  Even Focus on the Family is conceding likely defeat:

http://www.worldmag.com/articles/18060

"We're losing on[gay marriage], especially among the 20- and 30-somethings: 65 to 70 percent of them favor same-sex marriage. I don't know if that's going to change with a little more age—demographers would say probably not. We've probably lost that."
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07:37 PM on 05/22/2011
As every one now knows after Saturday Night Live last night, "It's not gay if It's a three-way."

Let's bring Lady Gaga in the schools to teach your daughters how to helicopter..

Take it for what it's worth. States are goin one way or another on the open sexuality and loosening of marriage thing.
03:34 PM on 05/22/2011
They would be horrified to think so, but, suspect that the Westboro Baptists have done a good deal to nudge the mean wavelength of the political spectrum on this issue.

Newspaper pictures of mean faced Southern cops, with their riot sticks, sunglasses, and snarling police dogs, faced off against peaceable civil rights demonstrators, convinced a lot of fence sitters during those years that, however much they reluctant they might be to support black civil rights, there was no way they wanted to be associated with racial bigotry that ugly.

And today, The Westboro Baptists hold up a very unflattering mirror to the face of sexual bigotry. Middle of the road Het voters may take the Levitican ban on homosexuality very seriously, and they may find what gays do in the bedroom distasteful, even repulsive, but, looking at the Westboro flock, with their horrific "God Hates Gays" and "Thank God for Dead Soldiers" picket signs, easy to think, "These people are bigots; they are ugly and hateful. I don't share their values. I don't want to stand in solidarity with them. I don't want to be associated with them in an way."

And so the balance shifts, millimeter by millimeter. The US could approach a civilized balance on this issue... any decade, now!
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see-ellen2001
02:09 PM on 05/22/2011
We have same sex marriage here in Canada. So far not a ripple in our social fabric. I do question when people look at hetero marriage as staying this way bcs that is the way it has always been. Marriage as gone thru many transitions over the years, from number of wives, to who can and cannot marry. This is just another transition.
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Wayne Peterson
08:59 PM on 05/21/2011
.....Newt Gingrich.....please lecture us on the necessity to "protect traditional marriage:.....hurry!
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rsttho557949
What is Job's Crucible?
12:20 PM on 05/21/2011
I do not know all that was asked of the folks that participated in the survery about same sex marriage. I have always felt that the majority of people do not care about gays or same sex civil unions. From my own research it appears that the majority of people do care about same sex marriage. Yes, we know that as soon as we protest agaisnt same sex marriage people such as myself will be called a "hater", bigoted, or have some irrational phobia about two pwople who want to consumate their love in matrimony. So what's the big deal? The big deal is that there is a human response that is negative when ANY FORM of intimacy-outside the traditional normal man, normal woman God blessed marriage is presented to the public to be approved. Consider the couple in adultery who profess deep love for each other but can't divorce-at that point in time- for major isssues, they do not recive love and acceptance for the public. What they get is a negative response to a union that is not socially acceptable...een though they are professing a deep and commited love. We all know that public opinion is not going to prevent that couple from seeing each other, and we know that preaching the Bible o the fear of God isn't going to stop a gay couple from being with each other. People don't "hate" gays: they just respond to any public form of immorality.
07:02 PM on 05/21/2011
Long ago as an undergraduate, I enrolled in an art-criticism course. The professor was an extremely well-known art critic. Early on in the course, we were asked to discuss various works of art and unilaterally each student would lapse into saying "I like this" or "I don't like that" or variations on the "like"/"don't like" theme. The professor finally called a halt to the discussion by saying: "Who gives a s_it what you like or don't like other than your mother, your lover and possibly your friends. Nobody else." I have come to see this as a universal truth. We are not looking for acceptance by your corner of our social construct because we have acceptance in our own corner of our own social construct. The issue is not whether you like us or not, whether you accept us or not, or whether you despise us or not. The issue is whether our government can continue to discriminate against taxpaying American citizens who happen to be lesbians and gay men BECAUSE some people dislike us. I do not care if you believe us to be immoral, nor do I care if you "hate" us or not. I care greatly that my government is not providing equal rights and treatment under the law. Apparently you are incapable of comprehending this rather simple fact.
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rsttho557949
What is Job's Crucible?
10:34 PM on 05/21/2011
Hi xenas mom,

Nice to hear from you again. You know, in life, often compromise is the best option to live in peace. You bring up laws about granting equality becsue you pay taxes. HOw many people have done that in this country and are still denied total coverage under the Consitution. The reality is this: there is the law and their are people. People are the variable in this equation more than noble words written on a doucment that is supposed to look after all people. Bottom line: with people, any form of immorality away from the norm (normal man/woman in matrimony blessed by God) is met with a negative response. That negative response is directly proportional to the distance it is away from that traditional norm. Question: do two lovers, were are both adluters, recieve a positve or negative response...even though they are in love and commmited to each other-when busted? I'll bet a number of gays laughed and professed their support of morality when Tiger and the "Governator" got busted. Folks simply don't like immorality made public. The compromise: since you will not ge the positive response you seek with pointing to the Consitution, protests and whining, do what you must do, in a gay community or in the privacy of your home or hotel room. do like the adluteres and fornicator do--keep it to yourself and take it up with God. I understand that God, unlike man, is very merciful.
03:50 PM on 05/22/2011
Talking to a few of your friends is not "research."
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rsttho557949
What is Job's Crucible?
04:38 PM on 05/22/2011
If you want to live in peace, its best to compromise with controversial issues. The "reasearch" advises: retreat so that you can live to fight another day!

But human nature will not change about immorality made public. Keep it to yourself and you won't have to argue, fuss, cuss and fight. Make it an issue and look at all the time you've wated when you could have been making love.

Common sense is not as common as it seems!
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11:44 AM on 05/21/2011
With respect to the voters who are realizing they "accept" marriage equality, their opinions are powerless. The fact remains that real, negative, tangible, anti-gay marriage laws are in full force. The gays cannot marry; therefore, acceptance is powerless. A really impressive sea change would be the gays being treated equally under the law. The law is more powerful than acceptance. This is what the gays seek, and need, now, and 50 years ago.
07:03 PM on 05/21/2011
Excellent points. Fanned.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
02:50 PM on 05/22/2011
Well said Wish I could fan you again, but will definitely fave you!
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Daleri Rileda
Jungle Jargon
08:54 AM on 05/21/2011
The reality is that homosexul relationships will never be the same thing as marriage.

What the law says in that regard is irrelevant.
11:09 AM on 05/21/2011
We are a legally married same sex couple. What you, a perfect stranger whom we are unlikely ever to meet says in that regard is irrelevant to us. All that matters to us is equal rights and treatment under the LAW. In other words, what the law says about our marriage is paramount; what you think of it matters not a whit to us. Have a lovely weekend.
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reasonable111
12:45 PM on 05/21/2011
Then why is a civil union with all the rights of marriage attached to it not good enough?

What gays want is acceptance through the marriage ticket.
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Daleri Rileda
Jungle Jargon
01:18 PM on 05/21/2011
I don't know you but I know you cannot have babies between yourselves.

Real marriages do produce offspring.

Nothing, not even the law, will ever change that.
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JShankel
I want my country forward
04:21 PM on 05/23/2011
"What the law says in that regard is irrelevant­."

Then there's no reason not to change it.
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BurtonDesque
Fear a Blank Planet
02:14 AM on 05/21/2011
The same sex marriage 'debate' shows just how poisonous religion is. It is utterly antithetical to Enlightenment ideals.
09:07 AM on 05/21/2011
I agree 100%. Organized Religions (the big 4) are all good at separating followers (us) from non-believers (them, heathens, pagans, etc.)
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08:15 PM on 05/20/2011
Hey, I know plenty of 55 year-olds and up who support marriage equality.

I have seen so many posts on HP where the opponent to gay marriage states something like, "Most people don't want it--Majority rules--so there."

Somehow I think they are going to change their tune soon about "majority rules".
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JShankel
I want my country forward
03:50 PM on 05/21/2011
You know it.  As soon as the majority supports it, they'll go back to reminding us that we live in a constitutional republic, not a democracy, and that we don't do things based on majority rule.
07:37 PM on 05/20/2011
In the 1930's the majority of German people thought that -Hitler- was the greatest leader that they could have, so much for public opinion polls???
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JShankel
I want my country forward
08:05 PM on 05/20/2011
Yeah, that's the apt comparison here.  Absolutely.
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adrianrf
Another job-creating immigrant
08:09 PM on 05/20/2011
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Godwin's_law

you fail.
06:54 PM on 05/20/2011
Poll just shows that the Tea Party and reactionary "conservatives" are succeeding in turning more and more people against their regressive ideas and policies. Republican Party is becoming more isolated from mainstream America.
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17andlife
do you REALLY want to know?
04:11 PM on 05/20/2011
While this is all well and good, I doubt it will mean anything. These polls are based on a national level. There is a problem with that. It is the States that choose to allow or disallow such rights. So, no matter what happens in another state, or the opinion of another in another state, my state (TX) will always say no.

I simply see no real concrete change happening, sorry. I want it to happen, but I think the want is unrealistic. I just think polls like this aren't as accurate as we may hope they to be.
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Bob Kellerman
Let's have more sanity toward each other
04:27 PM on 05/20/2011
SORRY, I have always said.
"Nothing wrong with Texas, except the weather and the people"

--- the only large state where young people poll
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17andlife
do you REALLY want to know?
04:42 PM on 05/20/2011
no arguments from me. but i do like the weather here.
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JShankel
I want my country forward
07:09 PM on 05/20/2011
It means a lot, because until recently gay marriage has never polled above 50% even in the blue states.

This is not going to be one big battle that decides everything.  The anti-gay marriage side likes to crow that gay marriage NEVER wins at the polls. 

Support for gay marriage was at 27% 15 years ago.  We had a bunch of elections right at the tipping point because the anti side could see that it was their last gasp.  They're counting a bunch of 52% to 47% results as mandates.

This poll indicates that while the courts take another six or seven decades to decide whether or not they should decide whether or not they should decide who should decide who should decide who has standing to argue cases before which courts, we may start seeing gay marriage actually voted in at the state level.

Not across the country.  But in a few key places.

Jim Crow didn't end overnight.  It takes tiny moves on multiple fronts.  This is a good piece of ground to get.
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mercedes1947
GOP: "We don't got to show you no stinking facts."
01:06 AM on 05/21/2011
"Support for gay marriage was at 27% 15 years ago. We had a bunch of elections right at the tipping point because the anti side could see that it was their last gasp. They're counting a bunch of 52% to 47% results as mandates."

Are you speaking of 27% nationally. And which poll is this specifically. 15 years ago would make it 1996. When was the tipping point? What are you referring to? What year was that and what elections? Mid-term - national elections - blue state - red state? What the heck are you talking about?
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talkstocoyotes
09:22 AM on 05/21/2011
Yes, it is a good piece of ground to get and the turnaround in just a few decades has been surprising. And it's inevitable that at least a few people would come out of the woodwork harrumphing "doesn't mean anything, sorry" and "I don't know what you're talking about."
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04:11 PM on 05/20/2011
The problem: No one cares what people tell a polling company any more.

Once the Prop 8 groups in California started using Google maps to target people and businesses polling became a farce.

When the DOMA states repeal Paul then you can wake me up.

Ever see gays huddle together and tank the career of a conservative Roman Catholic manager who exercised the right of free speech outside of work?

The only polls that count are on election day. The rest are now intrusive agi-prop by troublemakers looking to resell demographic information.

Sorry Paul, there's more skewing those figures than you think.

As far as polls go I refuse to take them. And the blue collar tea party types that hang out at the local bar? They have words for the info snoops and like to game them if they do participate.

I work in IT in a Gay marriage state. And if that is happening here I can only imagine what's happening elsewhere.

Yech Polls. And there there's the wording of the questions and the new polling mantra--we pollsters decide public policy. People don't want to be on the wrong side of the polls. We can sell more polling on hot button issues if they show positive trending. Yada. Yada.

When the polls successfuly track the election polls on a gay issue please do wake us up. Until then the business people own your pollng model and question phrasing or methodology.
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07:07 PM on 05/20/2011
What a pleasant surprise. I open up HP to read the usual posts from the legions of consumers of our infantile pop culture and find a rarity, someone who writes with mature intellectual toughness and has a handle on the media manipulation with that endless stream of meaningless polls.

That's what I thought about today, too. There are 31 states with DOMAs. If they manage to get enough signatures on a petition in ONE those states to clear the first hurdle in repealing a DOMA, I will be impressed. That would be worth about a billion of those polls where someone gets his TV watching interrupted and answers, "yeah, whatever" then hangs up and continues watching.

Never thought I'd say this in this forum, but F&F!