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Ron Mirenda

Ron Mirenda

Posted: July 15, 2009 11:57 AM

Leaders Lead By Serving: Do You?



Much has been written lately about giving and serving with the creation of All For Good, the craigslist of service created by the White House, Google, Facebook Connect and the Huffington Post. Scores of posts have narrated good deeds and needed opportunities for service and how it makes our country better, and it does. But I wonder if those in leadership positions realize the example they can set by serving others: those for whom they work, work with and those who work for them.

Years ago I went through an inspirational leadership course. One of the most memorable modules for me was titled: Leader as Servant. It taught that in order to be a true leader, one must serve and give to others. I fear that concept has been almost totally lost in today's business world.

Good, strong business leaders can exert more influence than they realize on those with whom they work and, therefore, on the service component in our country. What does it mean for a leader to serve colleagues, peers and others? Let's look at six ways one can do that.

LEAD: One leads, first of all, by the example of hard work. Respect others and honor their commitment by your own hard work. Don't ask anyone to work harder than you do. One also leads through knowledge. Demonstrate that you really know your product/service.

TEACH: Instill the special knowledge that you possess into those with whom you work.

PROVIDE: Make resources and support available so everyone can be successful at their job. Nothing demoralizes someone more than being asked to do a job, very much wanting to accomplish it, only to find he/she hasn't the resources to do so.

INSPIRE: Give those around you the respect and love they deserve as human beings. They may be your superiors, your peers or your subordinates, but they all will flourish on large doses of love and respect.

MENTOR: Counsel those around you. I don't mean be their therapist, but as one who cares and who can assist them in being successful. Promote them when they deserve it. Sure, they may be transferred away or be hired away, but you will have demonstrated that, as a leader, you have put their best interest ahead of yours or the organizations.

SERVE: When taken together, all these elements provide the framework of service, the kind of leadership you can provide which will, by example, encourage others to join and expand the culture of service throughout our country. Now that you've created a culture of service around you need to again set the example by actively serving others

There are limitless opportunities to serve in our country, but you, as a leader, need to choose those opportunities where you will make a difference and an impact. Joyce Roche', Board Chair of Dillard University and Pres.& CEO of Girls, Inc describes how important this is:

"Volunteering is important not only for the institution, but also for the volunteer. So often in our day-to-day work, things become routine or are so hectic that you ask yourself, "What impact did I have today?" or "Am I making a difference?" Knowing you've made a difference energizes you no matter how hard you might be working. In volunteering, especially for something you are passionate about, this is a gift you receive."

As a leader you may choose to become a board member of a charity where you can make a difference, and there are many resources available for you to prepare yourself to make that difference. One of these is the Association of Governing Boards www.agb.org/ which publishes training materials, newsletters and provides training seminars. There are courses available in most cities and online as well. Many cities have training programs for prospective board members. In Chicago, you can contact: www.1-800-volunteer.org/

Bottom line is you need to demonstrate your leadership by serving and making a difference in our non-profit community. You get to choose where and how, but you need to choose now.

 
 
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11:21 PM on 08/13/2009
Ron,
Another great article, and one that clearly identifies the cheap imitation of those that say "do as I say, not as I do." It's absolutely critical that our leaders, whether public service, corporate or private individual, personify the spirit of the Servant in deed and not just in speeches. There is no more empowering leader than one who truly exemplifies the Servant mentality in their own leadership role. I look forward to more challenging articles on leadership and volunteerism.
11:40 PM on 07/16/2009
Thank you for another practical call to action. Your blogs are not only motivating, they give us as readers concrete actions to take to be in the game, so to speak. What makes it even more meaningful is that I know you practice what you preach and give your time to individuals and organizations where you truly make a difference. You can write about leadership by example because you live it!

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Ron Mirenda
05:36 PM on 07/21/2009
Thank you so much for encouragement and support. I know that you aspire to lead in that way by what you do in your business and personal life, and I'm proud if I had anything to do with that.
Keep up the wonderful work.
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Eli Davidson
Award Winning Women's Small Business Coach,
12:45 AM on 07/16/2009
What a thoughtful post. I am so touched by the compassion and strength of heart you share!

What an example of leadership you are!

Eli
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Ron Mirenda
01:29 AM on 07/16/2009
Thanks so much for your continued support. I hope my thoughts and comments can inspire a few individuals with leadership potential to make the most of it and give back something to the society that provided them with the opportunities and resources to be successful. Then I will feel that I have succeeded.
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Ron Mirenda
05:13 PM on 07/15/2009
Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. It's obvious to me that you understand the basic tenets and foundations of leadership and that you lead by example from that. Continue your dedication to that and you will evolve into one of our strong leaders.
02:17 PM on 07/15/2009
I thought the article was insightful and a wonderful call to arms for the leadership in our country to step up to the plate and deliver. The article brings to mind a wonderful scene from the classic movie Braveheart with Mel Gibson. Mel's character William Wallace was speaking with Robert the Bruce, heir to the throne of Scotland, and William Wallace asks the question, "Now tell me, what does that mean to be noble? Your title gives you claim to the throne of our country, but men don't follow titles, they follow courage. Now our people know you. Noble, and common, they respect you. And if you would just lead them to freedom, they'd follow you. And so would I."

This same theme can be said for the leadership in our country leading us to help others. Imagine the powerful message that employees and contemporaries of leadership would see from a strong committment to volunteerism from some of our strongest leaders, if they would just lead us.