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Is the Life of a Black Boy Worth Anything Today?

Posted: 03/23/2012 3:46 pm

Several days ago my friend Michelle Alexander, author of the profound 'The New Jim Crow,' asked via her Facebook page, 'Is the life of a black boy worth anything today?' I wept when I read her question, because I knew the answer. This is an edited portion of what I wrote to her that day.

No, the life of a black boy is worth close to nothing in our nation -- and that is why I am so passionately crazed about the justice work that I do. When I loved a black man in seminary and thought about birthing a mocha child from between my legs I realized that such a child would never receive the presumptions and privileges that my brothers do -- and that my blond-haired, blue-eyed son does.

Twenty people have been shot in Chicago in just a few days, and people who look like me don't even notice in the northern and northwest suburbs. So no, "Is the life of a black boy worth anything today?" as you asked on Facebook -- no, it isn't. The only ones of my friends who are outraged on this are my black friends. It hasn't even hit my white friends' radar. And you, too, as a mother are horrified -- because you have been reminded (again) that we are not that far from Emmett Till's time.

When we last spoke we talked about what it takes to create a movement -- to move from addressing isolated incidents (the "Underground Railroad") to creating a cultural shift ("Abolition"). Obviously, it takes a change of heart and mind. But as Jeremiah Wright quoted Jim Wallis at the National Press Club, "We haven't confessed of racism, much less repented."

So how do we do that? Yes, we need more stories (as you brilliantly did in "The New Jim Crow"). But even more, we need laws that prohibit abhorrent behavior (because during the Civil Rights era it was the laws that insisted on behavior that was to protect everyone).

This article will make your blood boil. This is the quote that most outraged me:

Was Trayvon Martin, who was unarmed, posing a threat to Zimmerman's life? We may never know for sure, but in Florida -- and a growing number of states -- what matters isn't whether or not Martin was actually a threat, only that Zimmerman "reasonably" believed he was. But what is reasonable? Ekow Yankah, an associate professor of criminal law at Cardozo School of Law in New York, says that to some people, it is reasonable to be suspicious of a young black man walking alone in the dark.

Michelle, I believe it is time to talk more openly of what many of us know to be true regarding racism, privilege, etc. You've told the stories, but as you address the racism and ask questions of whether the life of a black boy is worth anything more people will upset -- because white moderates can fight for sentencing laws but to ask such a question baffles many. The same was true with the Troy Davis issue: my black friends wept and my white friends thought it was "unfortunate." The night Troy was executed/murdered, my black friends and I were screaming at each other on Facebook, shocked that the court didn't stay the execution. And most of my white friends were commenting on the new timeline on Facebook. Sorry for the typification, but really it was pretty much along race lines.

Obviously, many days later, more voices are being raised in protest -- white, black and all hues. But even today, one of my African-American friends has raised the question: Why was there so much more national outrage with Michael Vick and the dog incident, and, in comparison, silence on this issue? I suggested, "There is an internalized presumption that a Black Male may mean 'danger' and a lot of folks (even if they don't allow themselves to ponder on it) wonder if they might have done the same thing. So rather than naming that sin -- they justify it (without even knowing it)."

I yearn for those of us who have "pink skin" (as my daughter suggested, when she was little) to know the enormity of what it was for President Obama to say, "If I had a son, he'd look like Trayvon" because President Obama spoke the truth. Even a president's son wouldn't be safe in a hoodie carrying Skittles.

As we continue into the coming weeks of conversation and investigation we need to remember that there are MANY Troy Davises and Emmett Tills and Trayvon Martins in our nation. May those of us who have white skin remember -- and live into -- the wisdom and courage of Archbishop Tutu when he said, "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality."

 

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redd35
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07:35 AM on 03/27/2012
no and truth be told all black life is undervalued globally....
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Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry
05:47 AM on 03/28/2012
Sadly, your observation is correct and is demonstrated in the global treatment of Africa--as China "invests" and controls foreign policy (including exclusion of the Dalai Lama from South Africa), as global companies rape minerals from land and victimize children, and as European nations colonized African nations. I wanted to continue the list (medical apartheid, disparate opportunities in education and housing)--but I'll just say "Thanks for your comment"
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austere
03:01 AM on 03/27/2012
Thank you sister Lowry for your insight on this issue we all seems to grapple with (or not). Indeed, it is as the President has suggested, we Americans, need to do some soul searching to see where we are in treating one another as equals as human beings and not as a box of color Crayons.
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Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry
05:52 AM on 03/28/2012
Thanks--and I'm grateful for the President's observation. However (as you already know) we've had lots of moments of "soul searching" in our nation--but what next? What substantive things do we do to respond in sustainable ways? Certainly repeal of laws like "Stand Your Ground." As Dr. King said in 1964, "It is true that behavior cannot be legislated, and legislation cannot make you love me, but legislation can restrain you from lynching me, and I think that is kind of important."
02:48 PM on 03/26/2012
wow. I'm the white grandmother of two not-white grandsons. Therefore, I really relate to this piece. When is the time to address this? Even before my family became bi-racial, I noticed that low value placed on those who are not white. I did advocacy work in the public school system in my system. I cannot tell you how appalled I was at how many of the white, and yes, often so called "liberals" spoke about many of the students this district served. Many were literally thrown away by the time they entered first grade.

My daughter in law is student teaching in one of the nearly all-white more affluent elementary schools in our district. Just a month ago, two little girls asked her if she was "really" a teacher, because, you know, they didn't think that "people like her" could be teachers. These were innocent small children asking a question, but it says much about how many people think about people of color.

We live in a northern city. A city that's probably close to 40 percent minority. We're a very politically liberal city. Yet this is the conversation. The not-whites are the "others", and obviously, the "less than others". There is so much systemic racism that it's often hard to digest. Yet we have a vocal right wing that tells us to even discuss the possibility is "racist" on our part.

I want to be encouraged. I try to be encouraged. But it's damned hard.
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Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry
05:56 AM on 03/28/2012
Thanks for your courage and your candor. We need to keep having the conversations. You are seeing and naming what a lot of us with "pink skin" don't name or see. And, as you noted, we are close to not being "majority." When I read your comment regarding "liberals" I recalled the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King's response to the clergy in "Letter from Birmingham Jail." I commend to your reading not only his response, but the clergy's letter that demanded his response.
01:36 AM on 03/30/2012
And I AM a liberal. That's what hurts. I'll tell you a little more about our family. My grandson, born of a white father and a Dominican mother, was born on the day after Obama was elected president. It truly was a case of "it was the best of times, but the worst of times"....it was so inspiring to see that our country elected someone much like my grandson as president, yet, I couldn't forget the crowds at the Palin rallies. In fact, I had stated, more than once, that there was no way I'd take my mixed race, bi-cultural family anywhere near anyplace that mob was assembled. We represented everything they feared.

It does hurt that many of my "liberal" peers are so blind to what is so obviously apparent. They mean well. And don't get me started on the conservatives I know...they refuse to consider race to be an issue at all. Maybe when there's more of a "not white" presence, things will get better. Families like mine are growing in number. Maybe that's where salvation lies...when more people can say that "those" people are just a lot like members of their own families.
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joeyhas
08:01 AM on 03/26/2012
I don't think that, in this country at least, the life of a black child (boy or girl) has been worth much at all throughout the American history. We may have great speakers and inspirers on the subject, we may have laws to allow them to have a 'chance they'd not have any other way'. But have they had any real worth put on them? It's a shame that this world is so focused on nationalism, race, color, gender, etc. It's not what is important. Humanity as a whole is what is important. But the rich don't get rich on this.
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12:14 AM on 03/26/2012
emmitt tills and trayvonne Martin. That's two.
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Rhonda Kelso
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12:49 PM on 03/25/2012
Some people are human too.
11:18 AM on 03/25/2012
Thank you for this. I too wonder why my white friends on Facebook are so silent on this issue? Do they assume he deserved to die? Here's a blog I wrong on the subject. http://onbeingjulia.blogspot.com/2012/03/on-why-trayvon-martin-matters-to-me.html as our President said, we need to do some soul searching as a nation.
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Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry
06:04 AM on 03/28/2012
Julia--thanks for your response and for your blog. Quite impressive--and heart-wrenching. Quite a great question, too . . . not sure I have an answer. Some possibilities: (1) people want to believe that we don't have a nation that is complicit in murder via laws and ignorance, (2) people don't know what to say, (3) and the human tendency to imagine "if we ignore it, it will go away" Thanks, again, for your piece.
Norm
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10:53 PM on 03/24/2012
Your premise is just wrong: the life of a black boy is most certainly not worth close to nothing in this nation. The national uproar over the unjust loss of one should prove that.
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Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry
06:07 AM on 03/28/2012
The lack of national uproar over so many other black boys deaths in our nation would suggest otherwise. When black males have the same rights and privileges as I do then that may be true. Please ponder on the access black males have to quality education, employment, housing, etc.
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BritishAmerican
10:30 PM on 03/24/2012
Hang your heads down in shame America!!!
08:24 PM on 03/24/2012
Their lives are worth nothing to the NRA and ALEC that worked feverishly to pass the Stand Your Ground law.
09:03 PM on 03/23/2012
Horrible and divisive, its bad enough Obama has divided the country on econom ic class and this author and Obama are dividing it on race.
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Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry
05:46 PM on 03/24/2012
Because I offer the observation doesn't mean that I have created the reality. I'm a white mother of two white children with a white husband. BUT I have witnessed profound racism against my African-American and Hispanic members--and it is wrong. Perhaps a bigger challenge could be this: how can we with "pink skin" (as I referred to in the article) become more cognizant of the times that we are tempted to react to stereotypes? (Like locking car doors when seeing a Black Man or even when we sense fear--when in reality our inculturation is informing our responses?)
08:46 PM on 03/25/2012
Lock your doors always. Clutch your purse always. Be safe. Doing so only when blacks or hispanics are around is what let's blacks and hispanics know what's going through your head when you see them. Blacks and Hispanics don't know what your reaction is when you come across a Jeffrey Dohmer type or a Bernie Madoff type or a Lloyd Blankfein type because it isn't reported 24/7 in the news.

The other big issue is the hypocrasy of so-called white Christians when you look at their loud, prominent voice regarding abortions yet remain silent when a non-aborted good kid is murdered.
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11:13 PM on 03/25/2012
This nation HAS ALWAYS been divided by race and class since the beginning. Stop your cheap lying about US history. Obama is divisive to you because you hate that he is bi-racial. That is the only reason you are saying this.

Prior to the election of Obama - was the nation united under GW Bush? No it was miserable and the nation gave that right wing creep a big thumbs down and kicked out of Congress a bunch of his running buddies.

Name a period of time when this nation was united across race and class lines. That period doesn't exist.
07:13 PM on 03/23/2012
All life is precious. I am surprized you can draw a line between a black or white child. Are you going to write an article about a tragic killing of a white child today ? No you won't mention that. The man who shot him should be in jail. But not because the child was black. Your just trying to divide us. You need to stay in your hole until you can put all life on the same level.
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ARTIST50
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08:42 PM on 03/23/2012
She's not putting one life above another, she's commenting on an injustice. You surely can not see the light that all men are created equal.
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Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry
09:59 PM on 03/23/2012
All life IS precious--that's the point! But black males (in particular) do not enjoy the presumption of innocence that white people do. This isn't a place of debate--even studies on the NYC police are bearing out that black males are disproportionately stopped vs. other social groups. I do not think that Mr. Zimmerman would have shot Mr. Martin if Mr. Martin looked like me (a middle-aged, overweight, white mom with gray hair who looked like I just made a platter of cookies).
08:51 PM on 03/25/2012
I believe that was part of the author's point. Americans must dig deeper into soul to find to find out if they are capable of the same type of compassion that Jesus showed. Otherwise, those hypocrites are smearing the name of Jesus Christ.
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novabird
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06:41 PM on 03/23/2012
Your friends may be blithely carrying their white privilege backpacks Reverend Ruth but please don't stereotype all white folks as people concerned only about trivialities.. As a white mother I was shocked and appalled at Trayvon's murder. I cannot imagine the terror of being a mother of a young black man in the state of Florida today, where it is apparently legal for any gun owning racist to murder a black teenager in cold blood.
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BritishAmerican
10:38 PM on 03/24/2012
I suppose you know and understand what it means to be Black in the USA? Why is it that when Blacks tell of their experiences as Blacks, people like you have a problem with that? You nor your kids will ever be profiled or stereotyped the way Blacks are!
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eden4barack08
Yes WE can!!!
06:43 PM on 03/25/2012
Hmm...I assume your comment ended up in the wrong place, 'cause it doesn't sound like a response to novabird's comment.
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pgurlatl
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05:14 PM on 03/23/2012
Wonderful article. Please keep up the work. We need all the help we can get.
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05:10 PM on 03/23/2012
Very well said. Empathy is the word. How do you give that to someone who reserves their reserves of it for only the people they see as deserving or identify with? I say reserves as it seems to be our belief without reason or effort that that reserve is short and finite. ............and so the Trayvons die. Blacks, a $4B industry during slavery and larger than many other essential industries combined, have been transformed into persona non grata in the majority psyche. How reflective.
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Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry
10:01 PM on 03/23/2012
Thank you--great questions. I think we continue to tell the stories and listen to the questions. By-and-large in American society very few white folks hear the stories of what it is to be Black in America . . . and if we knew what it was to raise a Black Man in this society I think that we would be more circumspect.
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04:03 PM on 03/24/2012
We are effortlessly guilty of it. In my attempt to console someone some time ago, and the reason why I try never to tell others that I understand their pain anymore, the person in their grief, snapped harshly at me, "No, you do not understand!" which, although I consider myself quite empathetic, made me stop and agree with the person, apologize and better word what I meant to say. We never fully do but as you said, we must continue to tell stories and more importantly, listen to the questions as that more than anything but the experience itself helps us get as close as possible, where-from, our better instincts may take over.
07:47 PM on 03/25/2012
Great book to read if you have yet read it: Brainwashed, Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority. By Tom Burrell. Very enlightening and will make you look at a lot of things differently.