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In 2008, I graduated from Indiana University, where I studied public relations and sociology. The previous April, I had begun looking for jobs and felt confident; I had worked hard throughout school and my resume wasn't lacking. Each summer, I had interned in cities like Los Angeles, Washington D.C. and New York. I assumed the job market would be competitive but through interning I was hopeful that I had built a solid network of people whom I could later come back to as contacts in the industry. That August, I moved to New York. Nothing could have prepared me for what I encountered that fall.

I couch-surfed in Manhattan while I searched for jobs and apartments. I set up numerous interviews and sent my resume out to hundreds of offices. I contacted IU alums and contacted their contacts. It was a vicious cycle that yielded no results.

Ultimately, I took an unpaid internship in a magazine's fashion department and a part-time job at a clothing store. I wanted to keep busy and meet as many people as possible. I developed a routine that involved sitting in the Starbucks on the Upper East Side with my laptop for hours on end. I even had a folder in my browser dedicated to job sites; I would click "open all in tabs" and search the postings all day long.

In March, I was offered another internship at a publishing company to work in their fashion department. It was full-time unpaid. I stayed three months. I could only go so far there; they weren't hiring and sifting through sample closets proved unsatisfying. After all, I wanted to be on the front lines with the clients.

After a year of struggling, I needed a break. The emotional and mental costs of being unemployed were mounting. I headed to D.C. to visit a friend and consequently, began comparing it with New York. In the nation's capital, everything seemed more manageable, more affordable. As much as I loved New York, it wasn't working for me. I started toying with the idea of working down south. I lined up a few interviews that summer and the fall. Despite my efforts, nothing happened.

I went back to New York where I still had a lease on my apartment and started working full-time at a luxury jewelry store on Fifth Avenue. It was back to retail for me. I knew I wasn't fulfilling my potential. The tasks were mundane and repetitive. Inadvertently, my experiences in New York were teaching me what I didn't want.

I had shipped all of my belongings back to my childhood home in Cleveland and was facing the reality of moving back there, which would be a sign of total defeat -- personally, educationally, and professionally. Since leaving for college six years earlier, I had asserted my independence whenever and wherever possible. I am blessed to have a family who has supported me financially and I wanted nothing more than to prove that their investments paid off. I wanted them to be proud of me and I wanted to be proud of the work I did. Inherently, I knew I would never find that in Cleveland.

Finally, thanks to a very lucky sighting on CareerBuilder and some very good friends, I started speaking with a public relations firm in D.C. in early 2010. I interviewed at the firm in March. I loved it. Everything about it was fantastic. On March 19, six days before my 24th birthday, I was offered the job.

If I had to sum up the past two years in one word it would be perseverance. I rarely took a day off from the job search, even when I was working full-time. Trying to explain today's process of getting a job to those who aren't looking for one often results in looks of incredulity and audible gasps. There are hurdles to jump, competition to beat and even then, no guarantees. The obstacles I faced forced me to push myself to the limits. I learned what I was truly capable of and surprised myself.

Now, I'm more accustomed to working in a team setting and understand why companies practice such a high degree of professionalism; the most minuscule detail can make or break a project. Most importantly, I learned that sometimes you have to do all the things you don't like to get to the one thing you do... even if it takes two years.

 

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01:59 AM on 07/23/2010
After reading your article, it really encourages me. Especially this sentence:I learned that sometimes you have to do all the things you don't like to get to the one thing you do... even if it takes two years.(http://www.avitodvdconverter.org/) I am an English assistant in a company. And I don't like my job any more. I want to give up my job. I want to give up myself. I can't bear the reality. But your article has given me much confidence. I will go on working and be hardworking like you. Really thanks!
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11:29 PM on 07/25/2010
I'm glad you enjoyed my article. There is always something to be learned from a job experience. Best of luck to you :)
01:57 AM on 07/23/2010
After reading your article, it really encourages me. Especially this sentence:I learned that sometimes you have to do all the things you don't like to get to the one thing you do... even if it takes two years. I am an English assistant in a company. And I don't like my job any more. I want to give up my job. I want to give up myself. I can't bear the reality. But your article has given me much confidence. I will go on working and be hardworking like you. Really thanks!
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Sic Transit Gloria Mundi...
08:36 AM on 07/22/2010
So much for IU's Alumni Network. You showed drive and tenacity, but I think if your story tells anything, its that luck really plays into it. You had to labor through multiple internships just to come up short.

In this day and age, it's not about what you know, or who you know...its about who knows you. This is especially the case in PR.

Way to make it happen.
05:01 PM on 07/21/2010
Congratulations! All your hard work paid off.
08:01 PM on 07/21/2010
Thank you, I appreciate it.
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11:21 AM on 07/21/2010
These days U must skip the lib arts for solid cert in some area. My daughter got masters in PT and a cousin is an OT and they had jobs from day 1 out of school. That was a few years back but the principle remains the same. BAs & BSs just for the hell of it is a vast waste of money.
03:29 PM on 07/21/2010
Agreed! I totally understand the desire to pursue your dream job. But you gotta mix practical in with it. Get a practical job, THEN work on the dream job. If you are adventurous and decide that you want to live bravely, then you aren't allowed to complain.

Sometimes you gotta do what you HAVE to do so that later you can do what you WANT to do. Any other method is brave, but no b!tching if it doesn't work out...
08:03 PM on 07/21/2010
Heloise,
I didn’t obtain a degree “for the hell of it†nor did I waste money. With all due respect, PT and
OT do not interest me in the slightest. I am passionate about PR and communications and I feel
lucky to have discovered this through internships and prior work experience from the time I was
19. Also, there is a MONUMENTAL difference between a few years ago and today. Read any of
the other 9 stories here or simply pick up any newspaper and compare to one from a few years
back. I guarantee the headlines will differ significantly.
10:57 AM on 07/21/2010
But you're so YOUNG. if you were an older person, or a senior, none of this likely would have worked. But I'm happy for you that you've got a job.
10:33 AM on 07/21/2010
I think i'll be dropping by that starbucks to meet a hot girl!
10:16 AM on 07/21/2010
At least you kept working in and out of your field even at no pay. I wonder ho many of the ones on the dole are willing to do that. Most people are waiting for that high paying job that will not come. get off your asses!

Hats off to you!
08:04 PM on 07/21/2010
Thanks, Eddie. I tried ... and I am grateful that it paid off.
01:20 AM on 07/22/2010
I was in similar situation, went from a $50,000 job, to lay off, to Target for $7.00 per hour.
I actually ended up liking working for Target! I took another part time job also to make mo money, and gave me all new perspective on things. Ship came back in and landed a decent, but not quite $50k job, about 3 years after.

Had a good time, and only on the dole for one month!

Peace !
09:39 AM on 07/21/2010
Part of the decision in going to college has to involve the ability to sell your new found knowledge.

You might have wanted to study medieval undergarments all of your life, but you need to do your own due diligence to see who would want to pay you for that skill once you graduate.