Samantha Parent Walravens
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Samantha Parent Walravens is an award-winning journalist, writer and mother of four children. Her new book, Torn: True Stories of Kids, Career and the Conflict of Modern Motherhood, was chosen by the New York Times as the first selection for its Motherlode Book Club, and reached #1 on Amazon.com for books in the Motherhood category. She has appeared on the Today Show and has been interviewed by NPR Radio, ABC News Radio, the New York Times and the Los Angeles Times. Her writing has appeared in publications including the Huffington Post, Salon.com, PC World, Yahoo! News, Healthy Women and several “mommy blogs.” Samantha is a Phi Beta Kappa graduate of Princeton University and has a Masters in Literature and Women’s Studies from the University of Virginia.

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10 Tips for Great Sex After Kids

(3) Comments | Posted April 27, 2012 | 4:22 PM

As I approach my mid-40s, each week brings news of yet another married couple in our peer group calling it quits. Some of the reasons? "He doesn't appreciate me anymore." "We just aren't in love like we used to be." "We fight all the time." And the inevitable, "I've finally...

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Karl Lagerfeld Calls Adele 'Fat' -- And Insults Us All

(23) Comments | Posted February 7, 2012 | 5:40 PM

In a recent interview with Paris' Metro magazine, 78-year-old designer Karl Lagerfeld, creative director and mastermind of the fashion powerhouse Chanel, said of the pop sensation Adele:

"She is a little too fat, but she has a beautiful face and a divine voice."

He's since apologized,...

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How to Decode Your Kids' Text Messages

Comments | Posted January 19, 2012 | 10:56 AM

DYK if your kids are NIFOC? Better read this primer to understand what those text messages really say.

You are an Internet-savvy parent. You've blocked all the porn sites, set up filters, and even have a monitoring program to alert you if your kids are talking about sex or...

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Luxury for Less: How to Follow The Storm to a Bargain Vacation

(2) Comments | Posted December 19, 2011 | 7:00 AM

My husband and I have become experts in taking 5-star vacations at 2-star prices. The only caveat is that to get these tremendous deals, we have to "chase the storm" or travel to areas that have been hit by a natural disaster.

We've been on this quest since we...

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Motherhood Not to Blame for Women's Waning Ambition, Survey Shows

(122) Comments | Posted November 28, 2011 | 8:05 PM

A new survey from More magazine confirms a recent assertion by Sheryl Sandberg, Google's Chief Operating Officer, that women of our generation have "blown it," that we haven't dreamed big enough, and that we "lack ambition." Hard words for a 40-something overachieving woman to accept, especially in...

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Why Our Daughters Need to Play More Video Games

(47) Comments | Posted November 16, 2011 | 4:36 PM

Girls today are steering away from math, science and computers in record numbers. In 2011, women in the U.S. earned only 18 percent of all computer science degrees (compared to 37 percent 20 years ago) and made up less than 25 percent of the workers in...

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Being the Oldest in Class Doesn't Give Kids an Upper Hand

Comments | Posted November 1, 2011 | 5:09 PM

With four kids ages 3-13 years old, I am often asked by other moms for advice on whether they should hold off sending their child to kindergarten the following year if he or she is on the "younger" side of their peer group. Conventional thinking on this subject would have...

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What Happened to the Gen Y Work-Life Revolution?

(29) Comments | Posted October 28, 2011 | 1:58 AM

The work-life conflict of my generation -- Generation X, or those born between 1965 and 1980 -- has been defined by the unrealistic expectations that women, primarily, have placed on themselves to "have it all": career, marriage, kids, house in the suburbs, etc. Somewhere along the way, "having it all"...

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Putting an End to Domestic Inequality, Once and for All

(3) Comments | Posted October 27, 2011 | 12:10 PM

It's no news that most women like a tidy house, but I was taken aback by this week's survey results from the Working Mother Research Institute which showed that one of the primary concerns for mothers today -- both working and stay-at-home -- is how clean their house...

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Choosing Career Over Kids: Are Women Doing it on Purpose?

Comments | Posted August 4, 2011 | 3:54 PM

We've heard a lot in the media about Generation X women--those who, like me, were born between 1965 and 1978-- "opting out," or choosing motherhood over career. What about those who choose career over motherhood?

A recent study conducted by the Center for Work-Life Policy,...

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