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Faith House Manhattan Tour Bus: Experience Your Neighbor's Faith to Deepen Your Own

Posted: 12/25/2011 9:56 pm

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We are coming to a realization that religious zealots cannot be fought with indifference. Extremists of all nationalities and religious persuasion feeding on prejudice, legislating exclusion, and resorting to violence cannot be prevailed upon by people with less passion. Telling them to "cool down" and to "be moderate" will not do it. We must allow fires greater than theirs to arise. Our passion for a whole and interdependent word must rise above their passion for a segregated and zero-sum world.

In Faith House Manhattan, a non-profit inter-religious "community of communities," we believe that the time of isolated faith is over. We believe that to know who I am, I must also know who you are. For three years now we have hosted more than 60 Living Room gatherings where people can experiences the practices of another religion (or path, including atheism). We invite all to join our "co-laboratory" of interdependence: "Experience your neighbor's faith, deepen your own."

Our call is to get radical. Very radical. We hold that in today's world, religious people have to remap their reality to include -- in tension and in gratitude -- 'the other.' While our ancestors may have fought for independence, ours is the great struggle for interdependence. 'The other' is not over there, but all around us. While we have been conceiving of the world in vertical terms (whose party is better, whose institution is larger, whose nation is stronger, whose god is bigger), the world is becoming increasingly horizontal, and wonderfully so. Can we learn to be a part of the whole?

This past year, Faith House started a new program with four religious communities in Manhattan, who were part of a "Tour Bus" with reciprocal visits to each of our main religious gatherings. We brought people together to trespass imaginary boundaries while preserving the real ones. From an experience of worship at a Hindu temple, to a Jewish Shabbat service, to a Sufi Zikr, to midweek "Space for Grace" at a major Protestant church -- either as "Interfaith 101″ or an opportunity for seasoned pilgrims to be hosts or guests in their own setting -- this seven-week adventure was a unique New York City experience.

One of the participants, Bhakti Center monk and teacher, Chris Fici, summarized the experience this way:

Experience Your Neighbor's Faith, Deepen Your Own. This is a personal revelation a lot of us have shared recently on the Faith House Bus Tour, as the different sounds, colors, tastes and waves of devotion we have experienced together in our different houses of faith have made a deep communal resonance in our souls.

Too often (at least from my own perspective) our own practice can become caught in the mechanical. Living as a monk, in an intense and insulated environment, I often see how my consciousness during our morning meditation is directed towards how tired I am, or how I might be upset with this monk or that monk. The beautiful essence of our prayers and singing and dancing together remains lost to me.

As I was soaking up the whirling sanctity at our wonderful Bus Tour event at the Dergah of the Nur Ashki Jerrahi Sufi Order, the pain of my own disconnection in my own practice became manifest, and that void was quickly filled by the wonderful and mystical people I saw around me, deeply absorbed in the love and vision of the Divine. I came to realize that what they were experiencing was something I had access to every day, if I chose to. I saw very clearly how we were all pearls on the same thread of God's mercy. I returned to my own community and practice with a sense of renewal that has stayed with me ever since.

The interfaith experience is very important for me, and I think for all of us as a common human family. The turbulence of our age calls for a communication between peoples of faith that transcends our superficial differences and allows us to drink from the immense well of wisdom God has given us, to give solace and take profound action to help cure our shared ills.

This turbulence also calls from us a tremendous maturity from our humility, from a recognition that we cannot possibly have the exclusive answers, that the pieces of the puzzle we need come from our brothers and sisters in faith. In Thomas Merton's journals of his final and fateful journey to India and Indonesia, where he breathed deeply of the eastern faiths that had always intrigued and inspired him, he related a realization in this regard that has deeply touched me.

He says that those who are mature in their faith are able to enter into the experience, philosophy, and practice of another faith and gain a practical wisdom which they can take back into their own renewed and strengthened spiritual life. This is the essence of my own personal adventure in interfaith. To be able to see of and hear of and speak about and taste of and move within the common thread of our faiths together is one of the most profound experiences I have ever had in my life. It links me to the maturity needed to answer the spiritual call of our time, and I imagine it may do so for you as well.

I am always eager to point out to others that New York City is a deeply spiritual place. I want to encourage others to develop the vision of the great rivers of faith which run through this town, which are not always visible beyond the surface tumult and loosely organized chaos.

When you come to New York City, you can enjoy a Broadway show, walk the Brooklyn Bridge, check out that special night club you found on Google, enjoy this gastronomical paradise with more than 4,000 restaurants, but don't miss the rich undercurrent of spirituality you can find at every corner. The many religious traditions can help you understand yourself, and perhaps rekindle a passion for your own faith, an encounter that will change you forever. You might even come back to your home and do something radical like taking time to understand the faith of the other, whose life is now inextricably intertwined with yours.

Read articles and reflections about each stop on the Faith House tour here.

 
 
 

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Click through the slideshow to look at photos from the Faith House Manhattan Tour Bus: We are coming to a realization that religious zealots cannot be fought with indifference. Extremists of all nat...
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08:10 PM on 01/25/2012
People today barely even speak to - or even acknowledge his or her "neighbor" - let alone having an interest in experiencing their neighbor's "faith"

(SMH in despair)
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03:03 PM on 01/05/2012
Why wont you stick to love thy neighbor instead of eating poisoned berries?
You'll end up hallucinating and confused.
As a person of christian faith, I tried to read other scripture other than the Bible, and I just got lost and fearful. But thank God that he brought me back.
* Christians, do not do this, just love the person and have nothing to do with their religions.
King Solomon warned you about this type of behavior, through experiences with his beloved pagan wives.
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Sally Tallywhacker
Godless, just like everyone else.
02:17 PM on 12/29/2011
"Faith House" - and exclusionary and divisive title if ever there was....
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suebeedue
04:44 PM on 12/31/2011
Are you kidding me? You will grab at any straw...tks for the laugh
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Sally Tallywhacker
Godless, just like everyone else.
07:25 AM on 01/01/2012
It excludes the people that hold no faith, so no I'm kidding. Still funny ?
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Sally Tallywhacker
Godless, just like everyone else.
07:26 AM on 01/01/2012
*not
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
12:50 PM on 12/29/2011
......Unity is very underated. The only true unity exists among Jehovah's loyal ones.
.....Even in the world when it comes to atheists, agnostics, etc. they only agree to disagree with believers. Once they come in contact with Jehovah's Witnesses they try to close ranks but even then....no unity. My question is...why the special attention paid to the Witnesses? Are we that threatening to their belief system? Must be. If they are sooo intellengent (which I fully believe many are) why not let go of the ridicule and "study" with a open mind the Bible with a Jehovah's Witnesses? Put their brain to good use and see for themselves.
...... Whether they believe it or not, JW only want to help. Help those who have legitimate questions recieve legitimate answers. Not intangables. Not hypotheticals.
.......When we defend our God it is done to fulfill this scriptual admonition...
1 PETER 3:15..." But sanctify the Christ as Lord in YOUR hearts, always ready to make a defense before everyone that demands of YOU a reason for the hope in YOU, but doing so together with a mild temper and deep respect."
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Cindbird
Using my head for something other than a hat rack.
03:08 AM on 12/31/2011
I would love to sit down and study the Bible with you, if you are willing to sit down and study the Buddhist Sutras with me.
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
04:25 PM on 12/31/2011
Are you a Buddhist? If so, were you always?
10:44 AM on 12/29/2011
Interfaith is the reality of our world. Most of the nasty comments you see in the religion section are only possible with the anonymity of the internet. It's probably a safe bet that most people would not say these things to their neighbor in real life (aside from people like Christopher Hitchens and Westboro congregationalists, who make a living out of being outrageous).
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Sally Tallywhacker
Godless, just like everyone else.
02:17 PM on 12/29/2011
You'd like that to be the case I suspect...
02:47 PM on 12/29/2011
Where do you live that that's NOT the case? In real life, face-to-face, you tell all of your neighbors and coworkers what you honestly think of their differing religious beliefs (or lack thereof)?
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smcircle
If we don't stand up for us who will?
10:09 PM on 12/28/2011
A moral dilemma. If one decides not to be an atheist then one must know there are other points of view, the free will thing. If one is an atheist then what is wrong with allowing and accepting if others choose to believe in God. The point is God gave us free will so believing in Him or not what is wrong with allowing the rights you have for others? Since there are so many different churches, or whatever we call them, in order to get along we really should go by The Golden Rule if would expect respect for what we choose to believe. Sorry but no one can prove only their ways are right for all in the eyes of God.
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Sally Tallywhacker
Godless, just like everyone else.
02:24 PM on 12/29/2011
Quote," If one is an atheist then what is wrong with allowing and accepting if others choose to believe in God."

~ I think you'd be hard pressed to find an atheist that DOESN'T accept others believing in anything they want. It's when supserstitious beliefs start to interfere with, and get preferential treatment from, the government that an atheist might protest.
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BeeJayCeee
I still loathe Thatcher
11:58 AM on 12/28/2011
Faith is not a virtue, it's a character flaw. The sooner we understand that as a society, the sooner we can stop teaching the horrendous untruth of religion to children. That will be the start of better understanding and the beginning of the end of extremists.
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rothteachbt
Fanatical moderate
07:01 PM on 12/27/2011
It is really so depressing to see how much of the commentary on this marvelous case for religious unity or at least mutuality degenerates into the usual sort of religious argument where no one is convinced of anything and no one leaves with either more compassion or more understanding of anyone else.
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
07:21 PM on 12/27/2011
It will never get better. The human element is inherently self-centered. It is what it is.
Thanks for expressing your desires. I would be all for avoiding the degrading chatter.
05:11 AM on 12/28/2011
As an atheist I am all for religious unity. When you can convince other religions that your God is no better than theirs and they accept that their God is no better than yours then we can have some unity. So do it or quit complaining about us atheists who don't need some mythical God to be better than your God or any other God.
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
01:29 PM on 12/28/2011
OOOO...sour grapes. If not believing in God makes one like you, I'll pass.
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suebeedue
12:37 AM on 12/29/2011
Your idea is very naive. There is only one God, according to the Bible, and that is it. So telling me to accept that someone else's God is the same does not make any sense whatsoever. You also don't get that unity does not result from compromising my standards just so you will feel better. It might make you feel better, but that is it.
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11:10 PM on 12/26/2011
What a fabulous idea! Come to my house! I'll tell you all about Jack and the Beanstalk and how it's the inspired word of the one and only Supreme Giant, creator of all (fe-fi-fo-fum aren't just empty words around here!).

We'll share a traditional dish of magic beans :)
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
11:21 PM on 12/26/2011
Oh, goody...another non-believer bent on desturbing the peace. Let's go!
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11:25 PM on 12/26/2011
Repent and accept the bean!
04:05 AM on 12/28/2011
You call religious fanatics killing religious fanatics and innocents peace?
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01:17 AM on 12/27/2011
Yay! A fun one. Most atheists are so boring I just have to torture them, but you sound pretty cool. So I wish the blessings of the FSM upon you, may his angels shed angel-hair pasta all around your house. ;-)

F&F
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02:02 AM on 12/29/2011
Many are unaware how splendidly well Beanism and Pastafarianism go together ... especially with a bit of cracked pepper and olive oil.
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gal416
is a Bible verse † † †
10:53 PM on 12/26/2011
If you've come to the point where you need other religions to strengthen your own, you're either in the wrong religion, you don't understand the one you're in, or you just feel that you need a god who agrees with your way of thinking.
04:20 AM on 12/28/2011
It really is strange concept. Other religions will strengthen your own. No. It will make you even more dogmatic about your own religion. As long as the false concept of a God exists there will always be batlle for my God is better than your God.
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suebeedue
12:40 AM on 12/29/2011
I totally disagree. It is not that other religions strengthen your own, it is understanding each other that strengthens us all. For instance, atheists are so bent on ridiculing Christians that it does nothing but alienate the two groups. Seek to understand and get along. If you cannot do this, it proves that you need God in your life.
12:59 AM on 12/30/2011
phyrro...not really. Understanding what others believe allows you to understand how they think, and why they behave as they do. Understanding why people behave as they do opens the door to a dialogue between people who might otherwise imagine all sorts of threats, slights, or dangers.

If your faith is weakened by understanding the religion of another person, your faith was non-existent to begin with. Open your mind and heart to the view of others. You don't need to join their religion or change churches to listen, learn, and understand. It's one of the best ways to avoid bloodshed and overcome hatred, bigotry, and racism.

Isn't there enough war, hatred, and bloodshed in the world now without adding to it?
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Salty too
Give me Liberty or give me death.
10:38 PM on 12/26/2011
2 Corinthians 6:14-18

King James Version (KJV)

14Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

15And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?

16And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.

17Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.

18And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
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gal416
is a Bible verse † † †
11:04 PM on 12/26/2011
Exactly! Paul sums it up for the believer in Jesus Christ. If you have Him, you don't need anything else. If a person doesn't have Christ, today is the day of salvation.

Revelation 3:20 Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.
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Salty too
Give me Liberty or give me death.
11:09 PM on 12/26/2011
Hey, good to "see" you. Been awhile. God Bless.
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11:24 PM on 12/26/2011
And what do you think he saw? Why, the beans his mother had thrown out of the window into the garden had sprung up into a big beanstalk which went up and up and up till it reached the sky. So the man spoke truth after all. Jack and the Beanstalk, pg 7 verse 9

But he's a vengeful giant ... if you don't believe me, what do you have to say about this?!

"Fee-fi-fo-fum,
I smell the blood of an Englishman,
Be he alive, or be he dead
I'll grind his bones to make my bread." ~ JatBeanstalk pg 12 section 4

What more proof do you need? This is the day. Will you accept the everlasting magic bean? It's your only hope.
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realitytrumpsbull
Two 'alves of coconut!
10:25 PM on 12/26/2011
How about the joyous day when a lot of these religious folks sit down in the same room together, after a nice hour-long shared Invisible Man session, and suddenly come to the spontaneous realization that, hey, those other people over there in their faith-based getups are...also...people, and that the frothy-mouthed rabble-rousers of various stripe are basically trying to agitate folks to re-fight old, tired battles over...what, exactly? The Force has great power, over weak minds, what are YOU made of, can you be manipulated, agitated, directed, polarized, basically turned into someone else's human tool, to sally forth in the name of Whatever against those other folks? Because that game's been around for a long time, it's called 'indoctrination', and whether it's Christian, Jewish, or Muslim, the game is basically the same, and so's the result, people getting hurt and killed over a 50/50 mix of ignorance and...nothing. And, it makes you wonder, just WHAT goes through people's heads, or doesn't, that allows them to get fleeced for millions if not billions of dollars per year, and led in what amounts to the 3 Minutes' Hate against The Other Folks. Maybe it's time for a little of the old Enlightenment, where people take and sit down and puzzle some of this stuff out to their philosophical hearts' content, not as adversaries, but potentially as future members of the same community? I hold that religious worship should be legal, it's your Constitutional right and all, but, there's nothing stopping people from using their heads, and preventing their hearts(and hands) from being turned against each other in anger in the name of religion. Abuse of the institution of religion is a phenomenon that's been around for a long time, now. We're smarter than this, right? Right.
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Ami Toben
Plenty more where that came from
09:51 PM on 12/26/2011
See other religions and understand how subjective and arbitrary yours is, considering that all religions - all of them - base truth claims on no objective reason or evidence.
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01:20 AM on 12/27/2011
No,of course not, religions are entirely subjective, like taste in music, food, and clothing.

I live in fear of the terrible day when paisley bell-bottoms will come back into fashion.
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WheelsOnFire
Equality Crusader
01:46 AM on 12/27/2011
And Nehru jackets...and stacked platform shoes for men.

And 1970s haircuts.
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rsttho557949
What is Job's Crucible?
08:33 PM on 12/26/2011
I'm not a bearer of hate, but any Christian that buys into the "learning from the faith of others" deception is playing with their salvation. 1+1=2, h2o=water, and the season after spring is always summer. These are facts and unchanging truths. There are no "back door" plays for one to get back to God. It is written that the human heart is wicked and decieving and it is primarily that entity that beguiles the human mind to think so irrationally. It is that heart that lies to the rebellious mind that, "there are alternative roads to God...Jesus isn't the only way" I do hope before somoene loses their soul that they realize that 1+1 is only 2 and that NaCL (salt is not sugar) and that H2O2 is not water and that there are no alternative roads back to God. Using the line that "God knows my heart", is a confession of truth and guilt. The wise shouldn't use that as an opening statement in the presence of God.
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WoolyBumblebee
Creator of TruthAndOblivion.com
11:45 PM on 12/26/2011
Wow! well, that solid evidence of God sold me. I just checked your math to be sure... Yup. 1+1 is indeed 2. Yay you!
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Joel Mendez
actual atheist reverend
12:00 AM on 12/27/2011
your home school covered H2O? i'm impressed. srsly.
07:26 PM on 12/26/2011
Once faith goes deeply into the heart, God lives everywhere, in every person, in every language, in every religion, in every moment. We all have our unique path/ray that brings us Home to God. Wars and prejudices do not belong to God. Unity of all in the One Heart is there just waiting for us to find our way.
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
09:15 PM on 12/26/2011
ONE GOD, ONE FAITH, ONE BAPTISM
12:30 AM on 12/30/2011
One God (for all mankind), One Faith (an identical thread of belief that runs through all religions), One Baptism (whether by water, fire, desire, faith). Every human on earth is a child of God.

It's hard to tell which "church" He attends.