Sarah Buttenwieser
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Sarah Werthan Buttenwieser writes for Preview Massachusetts Magazine, HandEYE Magazine and various other publications. Her essays on parenthood have been anthologized. Her personal blog is Standing in the Shadows.

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We Are In Texas Now

0 Comments | Posted March 20, 2012 | 5:40 PM

Last night before I went to bed, I read a piece in the Texas Observer that's making the rounds. The writer, during her planned pregnancy with her second child, learned in that shockingly awful way -- a routine ultrasound -- that the son she'd been eagerly awaiting with her husband...

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Being Honest About My Biracial Daughter and Long-Haired Son

0 Comments | Posted May 5, 2011 | 1:49 AM

I think about "passing" a lot when I walk on the beach.

I'm a white woman with graying but formerly dark hair and olive skin. I tan easily. I'm mother to four, three I gave birth to and one I adopted. That last one, the adopted girl, is biracial --...

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Choices: 2011 and Beyond

0 Comments | Posted March 2, 2011 | 12:51 PM

When I was a senior in high school, my mother did not want me to have sex.

This did not stop me.

So, I didn't tell her.

And here's a little more: It was 1981. Once I finally admitted, a few weeks after becoming sexually active that I was indeed...

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Truck-Loving Girls and Ballet-Dancing Boys: Why Raising Ungendered Kids Isn't So Simple

0 Comments | Posted February 11, 2011 | 8:29 AM

When people asked what I was having while I was pregnant with my first child, I wanted to say, "Kittens." But instead, I answered, "Baby." Boy or girl, I didn't find out until the featherweight human emerged. Turned out he was (is) a beautiful boy. I didn't pick the word...

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