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Why Gays Must Be Allowed to Serve Openly in the Military

Posted: 03/11/10 10:38 AM ET

Admiral Mike Mullen, Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, recently told Congress it was time to end the "don't ask, don't tell" policy about the sexual orientation of American service members. It's about time. As a retired Navy Captain who has long believed that DADT is harmful to national security and unworthy of our nation, I wholeheartedly support allowing gays and lesbians to serve openly in the armed forces. Congress should heed Admiral Mullen's words and repeal this deeply flawed policy and allow the military to maintain good order and discipline the old fashioned way: focusing on the conduct of service members, not their sexual orientation. Having commanded two Navy reserve units, including a P-3C patrol squadron with over 300 men and women, I can say with considerable authority that sexual misconduct, not sexual status, is the real challenge in a military unit.

Critics of Admiral Mullen's view contend that ending DADT would be disruptive because we are engaged in major combat operations. In fact, it is because we are engaged in major combat operations that DADT must immediately be repealed. America's all volunteer force struggles to recruit and retain quality personnel; DADT has resulted in the discharge of thousands of well-qualified service members, including hundreds of mission-critical translators, voice interceptors, and other specialists crucial to the war against Al Qaeda. The deleterious impact on military readiness from those figures alone is basis enough to repeal DADT. The professed concerns about the impact of gay soldiers on unit cohesion are especially ironic, given that the military was simultaneously filling out the ranks through thousands of "moral" waivers to recruits with criminal records for offenses such as burglary, aggravated assault, and robbery. A felon in the ranks could be tolerated, apparently, but not an openly gay man or woman.

Another compelling reason to end DADT is the corrosive effect of a policy that has encouraged deception in a military that prizes honesty and integrity. Critics of DADT rightly focus on the thousands of gay service members who must lie about who they are in order to serve our country in uniform. But the ethical dilemma and culture of deception engendered by DADT does not end with the gay soldier or sailor. There are thousands of straight service members (including some unit commanders) who know or strongly suspect that a shipmate or platoon mate is gay, yet they choose to remain silent and ignore the policy in order to protect their brother- or sister-in-arms. Any policy that sets up such tension between loyalty to comrades and obedience to orders is an unhealthy policy. And a policy that was founded on willful deceit - don't ask (because we don't want to know) and don't tell (because we prefer you to lie) - is especially pernicious.

As a squadron skipper I dealt with a number of sexual misconduct and fraternization cases, all of which involved inappropriate relationships between heterosexual members under my command. Some were minor, others more serious, but I dealt with them as skippers have long dealt with disciplinary matters. Good commanders get the facts, hear from all concerned, and mete out the discipline they believe is appropriate and in the best interests of the unit. There is no reason military commanders cannot proceed in the same manner if the inappropriate relationship involves gay or lesbian behavior.

DADT must also be repealed simply because it is wrong. No American should be denied the right to wear the uniform of this country simply because he or she is gay. The test ought to be a simple one that can apply to every sailor, soldier, airman or marine regardless of sexual orientation: It's about what you do, not who you are.

Sean Coffey, an Annapolis graduate and 30 year Navy veteran, is a candidate for the Democratic nomination for New York Attorney General.

 
 
 
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11:59 AM on 03/14/2010
Send this video around and let McCain know to get out of thew way and repeal DADT!

ALL THE MARCHING MARYS (JUST REPEAL IT)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MNvTCJB8V4
02:11 PM on 03/11/2010
"A felon in the ranks could be tolerated, apparently, but not an openly gay man or woman."
"DADT must also be repealed simply because it is wrong."

God bless you Mr Coffey, and thank you for your service. If I still lived in NY you'd have earned my vote. As it is, I'll be referring you to my family back in Rochester.
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01:28 PM on 03/11/2010
Thank You Capt! As a New York resident and a retired 30 yr Sailor with 10 years as a Command Master Chief, I had many gay Sailors working with me throughout the years. For the most part they did serve their country well.
I do believe all this discussion about unit cohesion is by people who have never served. For the most part, the Sailors they work with DO know that they are gay and just don't care. We have too much to do to be worrying about who someone else is sleeping with.
You'll have my vote.
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TexasDem0
USMC Vietnam combat vet
11:26 AM on 03/11/2010
Gays have served quietly and honorably in every war, conflict, or crisis in the history of our nation and have earned the right to serve openly. Although long overdue, this doesn’t look like a simple change. The military will have to address a number of issues, such as gay marriage, housing for gay couples, dependents’ benefits, etc.
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02:34 PM on 03/11/2010
It would be sweet if ending DADT also resulted in allowing gay marriage, but it doesn't. So no, the military doesn't have to address a "number of issues". All it has to do is stop being h0m0ph0bic.
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11:11 AM on 03/11/2010
Thank you, Captain, for stating it so clearly.
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11:11 AM on 03/11/2010
For fairness sake, with homosexuals sharing living quarters with other homosexuals and heterosexuals, we should allow male and female heterosexuals to share living quarters in combat zones. Will that help unit cohesion and focus?
12:31 PM on 03/11/2010
How is that "for fairness sake?" Do you think that allowing lesbians and gay men to share living quarters with members of the same sex means that they will finally get to have all the sex that they want and therefore, straight military members should be afforded the same opportunities? Or, do you think that allowing lesbian and gay men to share living quarters with members of the same sex means that they will get to see naked people and so we should afford straight military members the same opportunity?

Are you actually saying that the reason for firing people from their jobs and discriminating against them is because it would be unfair to straight people to let gay people live among straight people, but not let straight people live among members of the opposite sex? That is your argument???

So, the reason why I had to live in utter fear everyday of my partner getting sick or worse while I was serving OUR country in Iraq was because it's unfair that Johnny can't sneak peaks at Jane? The reason why I have to lie about who I am to all of my co-workers and why I have to "un-gay" my house when my boss comes over is because Bob can't share living quarters with Betsy??