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Equal Pray for Women

Posted: 03/14/11 10:58 PM ET

March is National Women's History Month, and the theme for 2011 is "Our History is Our Strength."

Let's take a moment, then, to celebrate achievements of the last century -- or, since American women got the right to vote in 1920. Almost everywhere you look, women are doing work and assuming leadership positions -- in education, business, health professions, the arts, and public service -- that would have been unimaginable even a few decades ago. As any parent knows, hoping for a better future is crucial to creating it. So, I'm happy to agree with Barack Obama, who recently wrote, "Only if we teach our daughters that no obstacle is too great for them, that no ceiling can block their ascent, will we inspire them to reach for their highest aspirations and achieve true equality."

Hooray and Hallelujah! All this is well worth celebrating.

Imagine, however, if National Women's History Month's motto for 2011 was tweaked slightly to read, "Our Religious History is our Strength." Would there be as much to rejoice about? I'm afraid not.

The statistics on women's religious leadership in present-day America are dismal. While there are increasing numbers of Protestant and Jewish communities that recognize women's equality, the vast majority of Christians, Jews, and Muslims in the United States worship in denominations and congregations that categorically deny women's access to top-level, ordained positions. What's especially disheartening is that the sexism found in these religious communities is not as subtle as what's now found in the public sphere. On the contrary, it is shouted from the rooftop and proclaimed from the pulpit. There's no embarrassment about it, no promise of change, no pretense of re-thinking this position. Instead, the "Women Need Not Apply" sign flashes in neon lights. It's God's will.

Faith systems are often the source of our core-truths and provide our moral compass. Given that most Americans consider themselves religious, what does it mean that women's perceived inferiority is still a central theme in many worship services? How can we expect our nation to honor basic principles of equality in public life when that's not what people are taught to believe in church?

This is especially disheartening when we consider who is actually doing the day-to-day work of running most faith-based communities. For centuries, it's primarily been women who keep the account books, dust the pews, visit the sick, teach theology to the young, support those in need, care for the sick and dying. In fact, if it weren't for women's work as subterranean ecclesiastical leaders, our churches, synagogues, and mosques would probably not exist. And yet they are barred from ordination.

There's much to puzzle over here. Why is it that some Christians have no problem imagining Sarah Palin running for the highest office in America, but would never allow her to pull on a long black robe and put her consecrating hands on communion bread and wine? Why is it that Secretary of State Hillary Clinton can manage the massive complexity of foreign relations, but would be prevented from stepping into many pulpits located in the country she represents? As a female theologian, I sometimes joke that if the first half of my life was spent in seeking equal pay, the second half will be seeking equal pray. And I firmly believe that until we have the pray part settled, the pay part will remain far too fragile a gain.

It's not all bad news, however. I grew up in a denomination, the Disciples of Christ, that started ordaining women in the 1800's. Today, fully a third of the students in seminaries in the United States are women; even in denominations that won't ordain them, women still are filling classrooms and receiving degrees. Add to this that, historically, forward motion on social problems in America such as poverty, slavery, the displacement of Native-Americans, and legalized hatred of gays and lesbians, have been fueled by the efforts of not only women, but openly and happily religious women. In fact, there would not have been a women's movement in the U.S. without them. Think of Elizabeth Cady Stanton who in 1895 co-authored The Woman's Bible, or The Rev. Dr. Ella P. Mitchell, who was one of the first African-American women to graduate from Union Theology Seminary, back in 1943. Dr. Mitchell often cited in favor of women's ordination a passage from Joel 2, verse 28, which says, "I will pour out my spirit on all flesh, and your sons and your daughters shall prophecy."

Thinking of what this means -- the spirit poured out on "all flesh" -- I come back to what's traditionally been considered women's work: namely, keeping a safe home, taking seriously the human need for beauty and affection, and nurturing the next generation. Is the worry that if women final attain equality with men in church leadership that they will no longer have the time or energy to do these nurturing tasks, too? We have to, all of us, figure out how to place a value on what we most want from our lives. It's not just about women gaining more power by stepping into the pulpit; it's about learning to tell a faith-filled story about what we value most, one that doesn't, at its core, cultivate negative beliefs about gender and sex inequality. So, yes, I want more women to climb into the pulpit, but I also hope more men and women alike will discover how marvelous it is to make tomato sauce, soothe a fevered brow, or listen to the bedtime prayers of their children.

Only when men and women both understand the importance of "women's work," will women and men, together, be able to truly claim equal pray time -- at the bedside and behind the alter.

 
 
 
March is National Women's History Month, and the theme for 2011 is "Our History is Our Strength." Let's take a moment, then, to celebrate achievements of the last century -- or, since American women ...
March is National Women's History Month, and the theme for 2011 is "Our History is Our Strength." Let's take a moment, then, to celebrate achievements of the last century -- or, since American women ...
 
 
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ninetailedfox
banning people.....so childish
03:48 PM on 03/20/2011
Religion, namely the christian one, has never been ab out gender equality. No matter how many times people try to make christianity into a positive religion, it doesnt change the fact that it was in fact, christians that believed women are inferior to men. To subjugate a female to christianity, is counterproductive as a female. Mind you, I am an ex christian for several reasons, and I agree with Ingersoll, Neitsche, Paine, and many other non christians. The greatest mind, is one that doesnt follow Jesus, but follows their own heart instead.
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Michael Doane
The religious right is neither
09:16 AM on 03/18/2011
In a democracy, women have as much right as men to lead people across their silly and damaging religious beliefs into continued darkness.
11:22 PM on 03/17/2011
Dr. Serene Jones obviously does not agree with the Apostle Paul. Fitting that Brian McLaren so much agrees with this article, as he disagrees with the Apostle Paul on most everything as well.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
01:23 PM on 03/17/2011
God assigned roles to men and women. Mary the Virgin Mother, The Immaculate Conception, is the most perfect human ever created, but her 'role' was Not to be an apostle, she was His Mother, The New Arc of the New Covenant, and now the Queen of Heaven. Christians, and especially Catholics revere the Blessed Mother, even the Muslims do. Christ was the Messiah, Emmanuel, and HE decided that his Apostles were to be men only, and he only chose 12 men, one for each tribe of Israel. Jesus was also who told us that God was His Father, not a woman, a male and then he told us of a mystery, that He (jesus) and The Father were ONE. We creatures have not the ability to fathom the mind of God, but we do trust in Him. This is why His church has no Female Priests or Bishops. The foolish political whims of today have no bearing on the subject, nor should they.
11:41 AM on 03/17/2011
Get a grip Thunk, and reread the First Amendment provisions concerning free exercise of religion. A religious denomination is entitled to set its own rules concerning who it wants as church leaders. Period.
08:00 PM on 03/16/2011
Even an issue as simple and basic as this one seems to be at a level too deep for most here, though understanding of God's love and perfect plan for us seems rarely to be the goal of the posters.
08:15 AM on 03/16/2011
The US has rules that give women recourse if they are discriminated against in the workplace. I am not sure why churches are exempt from those rules. Isn't being a minister a job? I guess it's just another case of cultural "respect" for religious beliefs, like not prosecuting Catholic Bishops for abetting the criminal activities of pedophiles. It's all about power.
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01:48 AM on 03/16/2011
I believe that the entire issue here is not one of respect but of fear.

Women are the necessity for the only true miracle I have ever seen - the birth of a chilld. Because of their power, men have tried to limit and control them throughout history.

I suspect that somewhere in the far distant past, there was a struggle between the followers of the sky god and the great mother earth. The sky god's worshipers won, and the effort began to dominate the women.

We have followed this pattern ever since and it has been found all over the earth. It has been so engrained in our societies that many men still take it for granted. If they are smart, they don't show their prejudices loudly. They still want to be desirable to as many women as possible.

The fight of women for equal rights has only been going on since the 1800s. It will take many years before it truly takes hold, but I believe that equality will be in all of our futures.

By the way, I am male and a combat veteran in Vietnam so please don't categorize me as a man-hating femanist. I am merely someone who like to see a level playing field, and both sex and race are two areas where bigotry offends me.
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Titanshanks
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12:17 AM on 03/16/2011
I think it's so strange when people fight to be part of a tradition that gives them no respect. It's kind of like trying to be accepted by the kids who pick on you and steal your lunch money.
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12:19 PM on 03/16/2011
Keyword: tradition. It's not the "tradition" that attracts people, it is the affirmation of faith and desire to contribute that keeps people interested in participation in church life.

It's continuing to go to school and participating fully in spite of those kids who pick on you and steal your lunch money.
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
10:50 PM on 03/15/2011
Should anyone, male or female pay anything to anyone male or female for representing Our Creator if they do not show the proper respect for Our Creator? Can any of us who are trying to help people learn how to get Our Creator's approval accept a title that Our Creator's word says is reserved to Him and Him alone, Jesus himself not even accepting such equalness? That would mean that I would be accepting a position above what Jesus would accept, and as the scriptures say, "Can a slave be above his master?". I do not mind being thought of as a lowly slave who is far less than Jesus was. How about the rest of you, come on now, Psalms 83:18, Psalms 111:9, Luke 18:19.
09:05 PM on 03/15/2011
do men and women are equal under god's law ? i'm not sure of it according to the bible , quran , or whatever religious book. just sayin , i'm an atheist ;-)
shylove2
warfare state is pathological
08:53 PM on 03/15/2011
Why when the world of womanhood is lost on the God of War and Dominance and the creator doesn't even like it's creation and wishes to stamp it out because neither bodies or minds will mind its autocratic wishes... a creator separate from its creation in mortal combat with the self it created... in dualism and eternal schisms...
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bbriani3842
400+ yrs of science & STILL no evidence for a god
06:44 PM on 03/15/2011
After reading the bible from cover to cover, I still can't see why any woman would want to be a part of that system.

If the author meant "Equal PrEy" where the injustices would be spread to the male parts of the populations, then, I would understand.

Cause, women do not make out too well in that book ....
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Titanshanks
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12:21 AM on 03/16/2011
Jehovah doesn't even talk to women. He's a sexist, contemptuous god.
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12:22 PM on 03/16/2011
The problem you have here is viewing this as a "system".
05:08 PM on 03/15/2011
Women have no place in religion.
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ekat
05:51 PM on 03/15/2011
Did you hear that drop with a dull thud?

Only if, by religion, you mean institutionalized dogma is there any truth in your statement.
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bbriani3842
400+ yrs of science & STILL no evidence for a god
06:46 PM on 03/15/2011
I agree with SangZe ... women can take pride that they had no part in writing any part of any bible ... they are blame free for the effed-up'd-ness that is religion.
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Hysterian68
bureaucrat/historian/ranter
08:28 PM on 03/15/2011
Women have no place in religion
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Exactly what the papal poop scoopers in purple and scarlet are trying to tell lay Catholics when asked about women priests. Women should just give up on this Church with this old man in a 20th century body and with a 9th century mind in charge of it. Surrounded with others just like him.
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Cubanmom
Another Woman against the GOP-Taliban
03:28 PM on 03/15/2011
Bravo & blessings to Rev. Serene Jones!! As a liberal Roman Catholic (yes, Catholics have liberals) I have felt "called" to serve, would love to preach, but it wont happen in my lifetime, if ever. We have millions of women who also 'feel called' who sit in pews each Sunday, often listening to mediocre homilies, from men whom do not want to be there. The reason the 12 Apostles were men, was simply because Jesus, a religious Jew, was abiding by the religious laws of His day; He could not socialize with women, nor have women as Apostles when they would have to travel and sleep together in close quarters. Sure He was friends with Mary & Martha, etc., but always was within the rule of law. With only one exception, the woman at the well, this was the only time in which Jesus engaged with a woman on His own.

However, if Jesus were here today gathering Apostles once more, I believe with all my heart that He would ask women to join Him!

Thanks for the article. Peace.
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bbriani3842
400+ yrs of science & STILL no evidence for a god
06:58 PM on 03/15/2011
I have to ask ... I need to ask ... Why do you choose to remain a Catholic after "it" came to light and the subsequent cover-ups?

I mean no offense. I don't know any Catholics ... I just want to hear from one.

I would understand if you don't want to answer.

Thanks in advance.
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12:27 PM on 03/16/2011
Why do you choose to remain part of a country that starts wars with little countries and beats up on poor people? Are there not positive reasons for remaining in and being a citizen of your country?