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Last week bloggers Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks wrote about how the Obamas, who celebrate their 16th anniversary on October 3rd, set a new standard for marriage in America.

For Americans, one of the most important aspects of an Obama presidency is being overlooked: the model of a healthy relationship....For example, Michelle and Barack do something we've never seen before in a presidential couple: they actually look directly...