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	<title><![CDATA[Marital Mentalities: The Changes are Historic, and We're Living Them]]></title>
	<url>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/bella-depaulo/marital-mentalities-the-c_b_230239.html</url>
	<abstract><![CDATA[<p>I think this is a moment in social history that scholars and critics will be analyzing long into the future. There's a lot of matrimania going on -- the over-the-top hyping of weddings and marriage. But as I argued in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Singled-Out-Singles-Stereotyped-Stigmatized/dp/0312340826/ref=ed_oe_p/102-4637341-6604139">Singled Out</a>, I suspect that's not a sign of how secure we are about the place of marriage in our lives, but how insecure. </p>

<p>There are at least two ongoing rhetorical maelstroms. The first, and more narrow one, is...</p>]]></abstract>
	<taxonomy><![CDATA[Living]]></taxonomy>
	<date_published>2009-07-13T12:53:00-04:00</date_published>
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