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	<title><![CDATA[Tear Down the Walls: How to Bring Curiosity into the Mix]]></title>
	<url>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/grande-lum/tear-down-the-walls-how-t_b_139084.html</url>
	<abstract><![CDATA[<p><em>Choice of attention - to pay attention to this and ignore that - is to the inner life what choice of action is to the outer. In both cases, a man is responsible for his choice and must accept the consequences, whatever they may be. -- W. H. Auden</em></p>

<p>Look at your difficult relationships with fresh eyes to open new possibilities. </p>

<p>Whether interacting with a lifelong acquaintance or a total stranger you can say to yourself, "I know what that person...</p>]]></abstract>
	<taxonomy><![CDATA[Living]]></taxonomy>
	<date_published>2008-12-01T05:12:00-05:00</date_published>
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