Shari Foos is a Marriage and Family Therapist in Santa Monica, California She is also a writer, performer and activist, dedicated to bringing higher education to marginalized adults.

Blog Entries by Shari Foos

The Upside Of The Fall

2 Comments | Posted October 17, 2008 | 01:47 PM (EST)


Where will it end? How can we find the upside of an international financial crisis that has caused and will continue to cause millions of people profound tangible losses? How can we develop a healthier approach to individual and political governance that will reap a sustainable balance between stability and...

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On Becoming and Being a Mother

Posted April 20, 2007 | 11:54 AM (EST)


It shocked me that first night as I lay in the hospital bed, you rooting up my chest, seeking sustenance from me. I was at once awestruck and sad. Sad, because it had never occurred to me before; awestruck because at last I knew.

Since then, it has been...

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My Kinky Habit: Giving

Posted December 10, 2006 | 11:27 PM (EST)


I have a secret pleasure.

It's not dirty but it's definitely deceptive. Doing this makes me seem better than I am, look better than I look after a root job and a blow dry. It's almost like a massage but totally different. Better than hitting the...

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Mothers' Day: To Love and Be

Posted May 13, 2006 | 12:14 AM (EST)


From the moment of conception, the wisdom of a mother's body begins to create a nurturing womb for her fetus. Without any conscious thought, nutrition is provided first to the baby, even when doing so sacrifices the woman's own health. Motherhood is about giving.

In less than one year, Mother...

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Soul Mating

Posted April 28, 2006 | 09:15 PM (EST)


Let's get something straight: the concept of finding one's soul mate is merely an (unscientific) mathematical problem.

Take the roughly 6 billion human beings on the planet. Divide that by two for your preferred gender (and don't give me a hard time about bisexuals or actual statistics -- just hang...

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Criminal Bush

Posted March 24, 2006 | 01:58 AM (EST)


The downward spiraling which has damaged every arena of our society and environment shot into warp speed when George W. Bush twice stole the title, 'President of the United States of America.' We Americans have become accustomed and well trained through a deliberate reduction of educational opportunities, social services and...

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