I finished my book tour for my most recent book, "Love Shrinks: a Memoir of a Marriage Counselor's Divorce", and I was on around fifty radio stations talking about my divorce and divorce in general. My own divorce seemed so idiosyncratic to me that I didn't imagine so many people...

On May 24th of this year I wrote a piece for the Huffington Post called, "Why the Sex in Our Marriage Disappeared." It described an eight year marriage with little to no sex and the events leading up to that sorry state. I had 485 comments on the...

Let me explain the sex life I had with my ex-husband. During the official 8 years of our marriage, my husband and I had sex three times. Two of the times I remember. The third--well, I'm just guessing there had to be three.

It's hard to talk about this....

I didn't hate my husband when I filed for divorce. In fact, I still loved him. What an awful spot to be in. We had not been together in any meaningful way for years, but I managed to stay in love with how we were in the beginning of our...

On March 16th, I placed my first essay in the Huffington Post which I titled, "Do as I say, not as I do." I'm a psychotherapist and marriage counselor with twenty years of experience, and the essay started off talking about my eight appearances on Oprah where I...

As a bestselling psychotherapist author and marriage counselor, I spent a lot of time in the 90s on television talking about love and romance, and promoting my five books on the subject, including Guerrilla Dating Tactics and How to Stay Lovers for Life. I told the...