Standing up for the Sissy

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Posted April 17, 2008 | 11:43 PM (EST)



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If Hillary's candidacy runs its course, feminists and Hillary supporters must continue battling misogyny, despite their former loyalties, by rallying to defend Obama's cause.

Those still in denial about the pervasive presence of sexism and misogyny in the 2008 primary will find Amanda Fortini's "Feminist Reawakening" in New York Magazine an illuminating read. Even if Hillary loses the nomination, argues Fortini persuasively, she "leaves behind a legacy of reawakened feminism--the fourth wave, if you will." The lingering question for feminists, ponders Fortini, is what comes next?

Fortunately or not, Hillary is again showing us the way--though not as we feminists had expected.

Hillary, poster-child of feminist revival, is shaping the misogynistic conditions for its next battle. Hillary is the feminist poster-child gone postal. Hillary is a victim, but she has turned victimizer. Once the oppressed object of the right-wing hate machine, she has internalized the posture of patriarchy and become the victimizing bully. Joining the chorus of media pundits and politicians, Hillary has embraced the emasculating rhetoric that vilifies Obama as feminine and as yet another milksop Democrat. It has been noted by many that Hillary attacks Obama using strategies straight out of the Republican playbook; it has not been noted that these attacks reaffirm the very misogyny Hillary's campaign has been attempting to transcend.

The Obama-castration calumny is everywhere. Obama has been described as like a woman ; an elusive starlet; too dainty to be considered a real man; not macho enough; not tough enough; kind of a wuss; effete; and Dukakis-like. He is an arugula-eating, calorie-counting, weak-kneed wimp. He is haunted by the specter of John Kerry; almost a bigger pussy than Clinton; the offspring of pinko (i.e. gay) Commie radicals; and a friend of a friend of the former Soviet Union . (Um, could someone break the news to Republicans that the Cold War is over?).

Slandered as both a sissy and a pusillanimous pussyfooter, Obama also bowls like a girl (or like Hillary on Ellen) and has gay-tendencies . He failed the commander-in-chief test and his wimpiness and wordiness conjures memories of AdeLADY Stevenson. Some even argue (with a positive spin) that Obama has a feminine management style and that he is our true first female candidate. After all, Obama appeals to "female virtues" while McLame appeals to "male virtues." And, of course, the Obama-effete narrative is the linchpin around which Hillary's favorite liberal (i.e. "girlie man"), elitist, un-patriotic, Marxist, decadent-San Francisco-loving (i.e. gay Mecca loving), and Ivy-snob narratives rotate.

The Obama-effete strategy like the Hillary-hating phenomenon thrives because misogyny is alive and well in America. At the heart of these caricatures lays the assumption that acting like a woman is shameful. There is nothing more abhorrent to many Americans than seeing a man acting like a woman because there is nothing more abhorrent than being a woman. There is no greater American cultural sin than the sin of femininity.

If he wins the nomination, Obama must take the first step in directly and honestly confronting this inexorable cultural tradition as he did in his speech on race. A critical and forthright examination of cultural misogyny--including a direct recognition and examination of his own effeminate caricatures--will not only protect his candidacy but begin to create the cultural conditions in which liberalism can thrive, strengthening Democratic prospects for years to come. But as with our national discourse on race, Obama and Obam-acolytes cannot change our cultural climate alone.

Hillary supporters must join the Obama campaign in this fight. If we don't confront the misogynist culture in which such characterizations have import than not only will woman and men that act like woman continue to suffer, but Democratic candidates will continue to fall prey to these distracting and destructive tactics (tragically promoted by some of its very own victims) and Democrats will continue to lose.

Hillary's candidacy engendered a feminist reawakening, but Obama's candidacy must awaken the rest of the Democratic Party to finally confront this shameful cultural tradition before it is too late.

 
 

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- SharonB See Profile I'm a Fan of SharonB permalink

Mysogny was given a big boost in the 1990's by Bill Clinton's defenders first for whom was Hillary.
She did not just defend him, she trashed the women who charged him.
It was not good enough just to fight in the courts, no..no..no! They had to be blasted with a flame thrower until there was nothing left.
Has she ever been 'felt-up" by someone in authority over her and her carreer???? Has she ever been molested by someone that she trusted and helped to get elected?????
Has she trashed and ruined the lives of women who HAVE had such things done to them? Yes.

Has she accomplished even ONE thing in this life on her own that has brought her success, other than marrying Bill Clinton?????

She is no feminist... she is Marilyn Quail.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:22 PM on 04/20/2008
- numina See Profile I'm a Fan of numina permalink

Love the post. Your comments make me wonder why political battles must inevitably be fought in such a way that the tactics of engagement become what controls the candidates messages and ultimately their vision of the future. Hillary's war room may have made it impossible for her to distinguish the difference between the two in her attempt to make Barack the "timid" candidate, but it is not too late for Obama to look beyond the call of the day to day tactical battles to a strategy that relates to his reason for running: to offer a change through his person and his politics.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:30 PM on 04/19/2008
- jef2001 See Profile I'm a Fan of jef2001 permalink

great post, Shaun. idiotic sexist rhetoric was a prominent part of the last GOP presidential campaign against Kerry but it's pretty amazing to see the Clinton campaign doing the same thing. this needs to be addressed! good job.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:18 PM on 04/18/2008
- jhNY See Profile I'm a Fan of jhNY permalink

I promise to vote for Obama if he receives the nomination, although I support Clinton, and if everybody else who supports her now does the same in November, we will beat McSame to a standstill. And hopefully this whole ugly sidebar will be defeated as well.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:38 PM on 04/18/2008
- Politihal See Profile I'm a Fan of Politihal permalink

But you miss the point entirely: Obama is a whimp, a wuss, a sissy, a scardicat. This isn't about a Hillary strategy. This is about who Barack Obama is...just a girlie man. http://www.thecjpoliticalreport.com

Halli Casser-Jayne

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:15 AM on 04/18/2008
- zip47 See Profile I'm a Fan of zip47 permalink

I loved this post.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:39 AM on 04/18/2008
- wildgeeseNC See Profile I'm a Fan of wildgeeseNC permalink

I loved your discourse on Hillary as "the feminist poster-child gone postal". Very true. I wish that all her misguided feminist followers who assume that having a vagina defines your values could reassess this conundrum.

But as far as Obama needing to make a speech about misogyny- you really lost me there. Nothing sounds more elitist and removed from the everyday reality of common life than statements like,

"A critical and forthright examination of cultural misogyny--including a direct recognition and examination of his own effeminate caricatures--will not only protect his candidacy but begin to create the cultural conditions in which liberalism can thrive, strengthening Democratic prospects for years to come."

Come on now! Just because something fascinates the heck out of you doesn't mean that it's an issue that will scintillate and unite this country!

Obama is challenging the stereotypes of what a man is supposed to be just by being who he is and succeeding with gentler tactics. What he is doing is more powerful than anything he could say.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:22 AM on 04/18/2008
- CanProf See Profile I'm a Fan of CanProf permalink

Wow, this is a great post. I voted for Clinton back in early February, mostly because I was angry about the pervasive misogyny in the media and in our society generally; but I dislike the way she's treated her opponent since then--the man who is going to be OUR party's nominee. And until I read your post, I couldn't put my finger on what it was that bothered me so much. It's her acceptance of the misogynistic narrative of feminine inferiority. If she can't win by being a woman--being herself--then I don't want her to win. You've also made me see an aspect of the discourse around Obama in a new light; I never even noticed that he was being feminized or, worse, that being a feminine man could be a bad thing. As I turn away from Hillary, I have a new cause for my feminism: defending Obama! Thanks.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:16 AM on 04/18/2008
- wildgeeseNC See Profile I'm a Fan of wildgeeseNC permalink

Misogyny exists, and i can understand your outrage. But blindly supporting any female doesn't impact our culture. Hillary isn't a woman who rose to prominence on her own. Like Ferraro, she came into the spotlight by being married to a prominent and financially corrupt man.

What examples could she possibly bring to our daughters about how to achieve their dreams? If you want young girls to truly hate themselves, just teach them, through role models, that you must marry and stay with a man who constantly embarrasses you, and use his connections, position, power, and money to then go after being all that you can be.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:41 AM on 04/18/2008
- scandinavian See Profile I'm a Fan of scandinavian permalink

great post, thank you!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:30 AM on 04/18/2008
- drmavis See Profile I'm a Fan of drmavis permalink

Excellent analysis.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:49 AM on 04/18/2008
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