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The Best Milestone Birthday Celebration A Man Could Have

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The restaurant is crowded, unusually so for a Tuesday night. The waitress lets the specials roll off her tongue as she does on any other night, and we pretend to listen even though we've all chosen our main courses already.

Table for four. While this happens with amazing regularity at home, we don't often manage to sync our schedules and go out for dinner together. Old habits die hard, and I am usually just as happy making dinner and sharing it around our table.

But tonight is different.

My husband has a milestone birthday today. And while the other diners may think they are having a special meal with colleagues or friends, I feel as if there is a bubble around our table tonight.

A bubble that holds within its rounded edges the three people I hold the most dear in my heart.

A bottle of wine arrives, along with something tamer for the teens with bubbles and cherries. We raise our glasses in a toast to my husband and I catch his smile as he thanks us for spending this evening with him.

It's magic... like all of the times I have seen this man smile, but deeper, almost. He's in his happy place, with his family, and there is no place else he'd rather be right now.

I feel a lump form in my throat that I push aside. I don't want to cry, don't want to take away from his moment.

He wanted to be with us.

When people would ask, "Where are you going for the BIG birthday?" he never wavered, really. Offers of exotic beach vacations, ski lodges or weekends in Napa didn't entice him. Sure, they all sound like fun... but he wanted more.

He wanted to be with us.

To start the second 50 years of his life with his family, to listen to our stories and laughter and bask in the glow of that kind of love that nobody else can give you.

And as I watched him raise his glass to us, to another 50 years, to our family I couldn't help but be in awe of this man who has given me so very much. Family, unconditional love, laughter.

And he wanted to be with us.

Happy Birthday, babe... here's to another 50.

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