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Sister Joan Chittister, OSB

Posted: August 11, 2010 06:22 AM

Mercy Is What God Does for Us

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Mercy is what God does for us. Mercy discounts the economic sense of love and faith and care for a person and lives out of a divine sense of love instead. Mercy gives a human being who does not "deserve" love, love. And why? Because, the Scriptures answer, God know of what we are made.

The fact is that we are all made of the same thing: clay, the dust of the earth, the frail, fragile, shapeless thing from which we come and to which we will all return some day. We are all capable of the same things. Our only hope is that when we are all sitting somewhere bereft, exposed, outcast, humiliated and rejected by the rest of society, someone, somewhere will "reach out a hand and lift us up."

Mercy is the trait of those who realize their own weakness enough to be kind to those who are struggling with theirs. It is, as well, the measure of the God-life in us.

Beware those who show no mercy. They are dangerous people because they have either not faced themselves or are lying to themselves about what they find there. "We are all sinners," we say, and then smile the words away. But the essayist Montaigne was clear about it: "There is no one so good," he wrote, "who, were they to submit all their thoughts and actions to the laws, would not deserve hanging ten times in life."

It is our very weaknesses that enable us to understand the power, the necessity of mercy.

The Sufi mystic Mishkat al-Masabaih reminds us, when we are overwhelmed by our own inadequacies, our own diversions from the straight paths of life, that the mercy of God is always greater than the sin of being too humanly human. He writes:

She who approaches near to Me one span, I will approach near to her one cubit; and she who approaches near to Me one cubit, I will approach near to her one fathom; and whoever approaches Me walking, I will come to her running; and she who meets Me with sins equivalent to the whole world, I will greet her with forgiveness equal to it.

The mercy we show to others is what assures us that we do not need to worry about being perfect ourselves. All we really need to do is to make the effort to be the best we can be, knowing we will often fail. Then, the mercy of others, the mercy of God is certain for us, as well. "The only thing we can offer to God of value," St. Catherine of Siena said, "is to give our love to people as unworthy of it as we are of God's love."

This post is adapted from my book God's Tender Mercy: Reflections on Forgiveness (Twenty-Third Publications).

 
 
 
Mercy is what God does for us. Mercy discounts the economic sense of love and faith and care for a person and lives out of a divine sense of love instead. Mercy gives a human being who does not "deser...
Mercy is what God does for us. Mercy discounts the economic sense of love and faith and care for a person and lives out of a divine sense of love instead. Mercy gives a human being who does not "deser...
 
 
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12:53 AM on 08/14/2010
If God finally decided to annihilate all the inhabitants of Hell just to be merciful and because He is so emotionally compassionate, the moral universe would rise up and cry "Unjust!". How could the crimes of Stalin, Mao, bin Laden, or the Devil even be compared to those of the average sinner?

Therefore God can only be merciful and just by eternal damnation of every sinner. The severity of the punishment for breaking a law is always a reflection of the lawmaker's estimate of the value of the law. God estimates the value of a relationship with Him to be such that to live selfishly can only be rewarded with an eternal punishment.

The commitment of the will to self is renewed evergreen by the sinner, so that if God were to evaluate that lost soul in 10 trillion millenniums, He would conclude that the Divine justice of eternal misery and suffering is more valid that day than the first day.

But God is not the tormentor in Hell. The Devil and his demons torment the lost.

God is love
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timm553
In vino veritas
04:22 PM on 08/13/2010
Have you ever noticed that when someone dies it's almost always the case that someone will say that they've been called home to god, or that they are assuredly in heaven now or something to that effect? Considering that there are supposedly a finite number of people that are going to be "saved" in the end, I suppose that there is going to be a lot of disappointment come judgement day. I mean the quota is filled already, I'm sure.
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PlayTOE
Morals evolved due to cooperative group living
01:20 PM on 08/13/2010
God's Mercy ... that is when God was planning to do something way too vile, but decide not to do it to somebody.
... God planned to kill Adam & Eve for pinching fruit, but showed mercy and just kicked them out of the garden and guilt tripped their descendants.
... God had the entire earth killed in a flood but showed mercy to Noah and his family.
... God told Abraham to kill his son, but showed mercy and let him kill a ram instead.
... God was planning to send you to hell because Adam sinned, but showed mercy and just had his son Jesus tortured instead.

God's mercy is seriously overrated in his holy book.
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unitarianuniversalist
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09:29 AM on 08/13/2010
Oh my, you couldn't have misunderstood me more. I say mercy is what I do for me is the sense that it is I doing the mercy, not some nebulous god figure or idea. Sorry if you misunderstood my wording.
11:44 PM on 08/12/2010
God is a verb, not a noun...
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08:53 PM on 08/12/2010
mercy is as mercy does.

sorry sister but we are eternally innocent.

now that is a huge paradigm shift for a religious person. huge.

now being innocent does not mean we do not suffer for out mistakes due to our selfishness.

but without that karma there is no advancement and therefore no dynamic aspect to the vitality that most call God.

the adam and eve story actually gives some hints to this but it has been corrupted by human minds over the many years.

think deeply sister about your inner self and you will find that God you are looking for.

right there all the time from within.

when you find that "god" within you will see clearly that enternal innocence.

as mark twain stated god made man in his image and then man returned the favor. :-)

the word god has been given so many human traits and baggage no airline in the world would book god on a flight. :-)
11:02 PM on 08/12/2010
So that I will not just dismiss this out of hand as mindless drivel, could you tell us more about the "eternal innocence", of, let's say, Pol Pot?
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unitarianuniversalist
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07:40 PM on 08/12/2010
Mercy is what I do for me.
12:03 AM on 08/13/2010
The definition of "mercy" being used here by Sr. Joan, unitarianuniversalist, is that of Augustine and Aquinas: "mercy is heartfelt sympathy for another's distress, impelling us to help him if we can." Using this definition, you are saying that you feel sympathy only for your own concerns; the distress of anyone else leaves you cold. Fortunately, selfishness, self interest, and cold hearted self-absorbtion is not what occurs to most of the rest of us when we think of the quality of "mercy."
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09:52 AM on 08/13/2010
I think not, MirrorMonkey. I took unitarianuniversalist's comment as saying that "My enacting mercy toward others is good for me also." It's the idea of enlightened self-interest--that one's self-interest is connected to the well-being of one's fellows. It's also the idea that we are all connected, so mercy I show toward someone else is mercy to me as well. "As you do it to the least of these..."
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Magick1
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07:18 PM on 08/12/2010
If mercy is the sole province of a diety or a concept of a diety written in the pages of a book, we are probably in trouble.
11:32 AM on 08/13/2010
Lots of people are on 'dieties' :)
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06:57 PM on 08/12/2010
This is a very beautiful article. Take a moment and be kind. Kindness fosters more kindness. Social policy that does not foster kindness and mercy is just profane.
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10:15 AM on 08/13/2010
The idea that we're all inherently unworthy skummy people, and "The only thing we can offer to God of value," is to give our love to skummy people "as unworthy of it as we are of God's love."

That's a beautiful idea?

"Social policy that does not foster kindness and mercy is just profane."

The idea that all of our fellow humans are "unworthy" is just profane!
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syntax facit saltum
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02:37 PM on 08/13/2010
That is not the idea. It is no matter how deep and beautiful, and good and nourishing our experience of the humanness of one another is, it is incomparably shallow, ugly, and non-nourishing compared to the love that God has for us. And when my sister steals all of our father's money for her own inheritance to hell with her other sisters, I can forgive her something so spiteful and cruel, if I can see my own weakness and capacity to do things that are deeply hurtful as well. Those are all beautiful ideas.
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Cori527
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04:39 PM on 08/12/2010
I believe that we should show mercy to all those who espouse bigotry in the name of religion.
01:10 PM on 08/12/2010
I will give you a job, if you give me tax cuts only. Is that mercy, compassion, doing something good for all, or greed, only do it if you give me something? I ask Mercy? And good fruit there? No? why? No mercy?
12:51 PM on 08/12/2010
Remember Adam Eve the devil and all his angels choose for themselves. God did not do it. But God warned them all. Eat from the tree of good and evil and you will surely die. God forces no one. to love Him or accept God his word as truth. All of them chose for themselves and brought it on themselves not God. God is not liar, and God does not transgress his own laws either.

but Adam Eve accept the devil, the great deceiver like men do to day spin and twist God's word. To make all think it will be good good for them To get all to accept what they are selling. Lies, twist and spin. They instill fear, I will protect you. The one to fear, is the fear monger themselves. The devil did the same thing to God, did he not? The Devil falsely accused God of being a liar, not good for Adam and Eve right? Made up lies about God right?
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hayness
A wise man proportions his belief to the evidence
05:04 PM on 08/12/2010
God created Adam and Eve without knowledge of good and evil. Now how could he expect them to know that it was not good to disobey him?

God created everything, according to your mythology. So God is responsible for everything that happens. The devil is god's creation. Do you wonder why God would create the devil if He is good?

Your myths are just nonsense.
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07:45 PM on 08/12/2010
To choose between good and evil assumes the ability to know the difference between the two. Temptation assumes a knowledge of something that one desires. The problem with the old tale of Adam and Eve and the Garden of Eden was that it was written by people who knew "good" and "evil." However, if you are perfectly innocent of either of these things, how can one be tempted?
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11:56 PM on 08/12/2010
Hey, Shawhan. Fanned in anticipation of further communication. Like your new screen name.
12:40 PM on 08/12/2010
God gives Mercy, to whom he chooses, when one truly repents. God forgives.

God gives Grace, we cannot earn God"s Grace. God gives us His Grace, God sent his Grace, freely, His most precious son, Jesus Christ, a man of no sin, became Sin, for us. Christ paid the debt of all our crimes, our sins. We all broke God's Laws. Sinners cannot save sinners can they?

Christ made us all Righteous to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Christ Willed us our inheritance, Christ most richest Treasure, wealth, Christ prosperity, was Christ Righteousness, Christ Peace. Christ Wealth, His Treasure, was His Peace.

God's Grace was Christ, gave us all freely, made us all - Righteousness. Christ said to the devil, on the cross. Jesus said. Oh Death, Oh Death, Where art thy Sting? Meaning Now?

Peace keeps what Grace Gives. Christ will be High Priest Forever over God's Church, his family, God's children.

Christ taught us the Lord Prayer, It begins with Our Father. We are all God's children, everyone on earth. Can accept God's Grace, and Christ Peace, or reject it. God forces no on, but now no matter what faith , church, religion etc. We are all in the Hands of God, for God accepted everyone. Christ said. It is finished once and for All. All means All.

Christ said Peace I give to you, my peace -I Will-(our inheritance) to you. I give not has the world gives peace. Peace the world does not understand. Love all
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01:51 PM on 08/12/2010
In Romans God says He will have mercy on whom he will have mercy and compasion on whom he will have compasion. God is not held to mans selfish pitiful standards.
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08:33 PM on 08/12/2010
Hi Salty 2,
Romans 9:18 "God has Mercy on whom God wants to have Mercy, and God hardens the heart of those God wants to harden." vs. 21 "God has the right, out of a lump of clay, to make one person honorable and one dishonorable."

The dishonorable (Cain/Esau) will use thier physical efforts to lie, cheat, steal and harm the honorable. This will cause the honorable to humble themselves, forgive and be merciful.
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Kmuzu
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08:09 AM on 08/12/2010
When you think of God as a bad comedian .. the whole universe makes sense.
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03:23 AM on 08/12/2010
As an atheist, I get weary of trying to understand the insistence that God is good and merciful and wonderful. I have not seen any example of this in the OT or in any other religious tenets. What's merciful about condemning someone to eternal hell for some rule infraction? Especially when the "perfect" God has created the flaws in his "creatures" that make them "sinners" in the first place? In other words God is not perfect, either.

The bible paints God as a psychotic, sadistic bully capable of the worst perpetration of war, killing, evilness and vindictiveness. I see no mercy or love in this god at all. Only the indoctrinated blind can come to that conclusion. Does anyone need a diagram? The NT is full of flaws and fairytales as well, no better than its predecessor. Written by ignorant men to control the hearts and minds of people who knew even less than the authors did.

The fact that this continues to hold sway today in the 21st century is mind-boggling. When does humankind wake up to reality? The world would be a much better place if they did. Our world has millions of suffering people that this wonderful God has totally ignored. Even innocent children are not immune to the horrors of starvation, lack of care, horrible diseases, none of which this “merciful God” has seen fit to help.
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08:00 AM on 08/12/2010
My thoughts exactly, if fact this should be the thoughts of anyone sane.

When I read drivel like this "Mercy is what god does for us" manure I am in total amazement, where exactly do these people get this belief from?
I mean there is NOTHING in any religious text that could even remotely lead someone sane to believe this.

The only answer I can come up with is it has to be a massive and severe case of Stockholm Syndrome, it is the only thing that fits.

http://www.devilzown.com/psychosisreligion.html
12:57 PM on 08/12/2010
Pray for all that God's Grace will be given to those who do not believe, God chosen when. Each time comes at different times in ones life, God's grace is given when we need it the most. If God disciplines one, that is good. God loves all. God forces no one. Some time for our own good, God brings us all to our knees. Then we turn to God and ask why and for help. God is happy, greatly pleased to serve, for God loves all. God said. For all have heard, no one will have excuse. Not until all the gentles are in. God will leave no one behind. God is long patient, waits for us all, to ask, seek knock at his door, God hears all and knows all. But God forces no one to Love Him.
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08:06 AM on 08/12/2010
Sojourner, I'm not a Christian -- or an anything else -- but reading your post, I'm struck by the disparity between the sentiment of your opening line -- "I get weary of trying to understand" -- and the polemic that follows. Clearly, you've already made up your mind on these issues. You're not "trying to understand," you're simply weary because others don't agree with you, and what you feel is self-evident truth. If you actually want to understand what others think and feel, you have to suspend judgment, and enter into sympathetic accord -- ie, walk in their shoes. It's very difficult to do, mentally and emotionally. It can take years -- decades -- to begin to understand another culture, or subculture, or even another individual (I've been married for 30 years: trust me, I know). But if you aren't willing to let go of yourself, in the sense of needing to be right, no understanding will ever come.

As far as the Bible goes, if you look at it as a narrative, clearly it traces out the psychosocial development of that particular culture over hundreds, if not thousands of years. There is a clear narrative arc from the days of human sacrifice to a punitive god (Abraham and Isaac), to the days of self-sacrifice by a merciful god in the form of his earthly incarnation in Jesus. You don't have to "believe" any of that (continued below)