Dehrenstein's Comments (36)
It's Not Just Tiger: Monogamous Marriage Is An Anomaly
Commented Dec 10, 2009 at 11:57:37 in Living
“Marriage is a legal contract recognized by the state. Monogamy has nothing to do with it. My lover and I have been together for 39 years. Marriage would give us over 1000 rights that Tiger and his wife had the moment they decided to sign the papers.
Maybe he married the wrong twin.”
Maybe he married the wrong twin.”
'A Single Man' Draws From Tom Ford's Relationship, Family Suicide
Commented Dec 09, 2009 at 19:54:47 in Entertainment
“It's a very great film.
Don has a cameo in it. Isherwood would have loved it.
Colin Firth's performance is superb, and I want Matthew Goode so bad I can taste it!”
Don has a cameo in it. Isherwood would have loved it.
Colin Firth's performance is superb, and I want Matthew Goode so bad I can taste it!”
Please Don't Tolerate Me, Reverend Senator Díaz
Commented Nov 14, 2009 at 14:01:08 in Politics
“SING OUT LOUISE!”
The Not-So-Sudden Death of The Advocate
Commented Nov 04, 2009 at 21:23:03 in Media
“The collapse of The Avocado (as we who used to write for it refer to it Judy) was inevitable. LGBT life changed the net exploded, and a bimonthly mag wasn't any way to "kepp up with what's going on." The mad could have become "more relevant" if it took chances and kiced ass.
But that's never been The Gay Way, has it now.
Save for the street.
And the readers of the The Avocado never wanted to know a damedn thing about Marsha P. Johnson.
Or Morty Manford, for that matter.
http://www .latimes.c om/news/op inion/la-o e-ehrenste in13-2009o ct13,0,456 6962.story”
But that's never been The Gay Way, has it now.
Save for the street.
And the readers of the The Avocado never wanted to know a damedn thing about Marsha P. Johnson.
Or Morty Manford, for that matter.
http://www
A New Wrinkle in the JFK Assassination Story
Commented Oct 30, 2009 at 11:04:17 in Books
“I really don't see what it adds at all.”
Fenderbender replied on Oct 30, 2009 at 11:27:06
“It adds an amazing amount of information, if you've read anything at all about the murder of Kennedy. It says that Johnson knew of the conspiracy to kill Kennedy. There is a very long line of people involved in that murder, or were privy to what was going on, and a number are still alive today... that's why most of the records are still sealed and will stay sealed for a very long time. Follow the money folks.”
spqesq replied on Oct 30, 2009 at 11:22:29
“Frist read the Caro trilogy on LBJ. Then read "I heard you paint houses". Then read the Warren Commission Report. It adds a lot.”
Gore Vidal Has Lost His Mind
Commented Oct 28, 2009 at 16:31:49 in Media
“And I agree on both points.
So much blather about what the girl claimed in her deposition. Not a word about her mother -- who like so many show busienss parents was pimping her child all over town.
This practice goes on to this very day. In fact, on this very day all Hollywood is celebrating the (thankfully posthumous) release of a glorified DVD extra of a concert film that was never made starring the record industry's most lauded pedophile.
One of these days, and I hope its sooner than later, the full story of parent-pimps will be told. Then we'll hear all about the Chandlers, and the others.
In the interesting but tendentious documentary "Roman Polanski: Wanter and Desired," Samantha makes pointed note of the fact that she's not going to talk about her mother at all.
Smart girl. Talk about what Mom did and you give the whole show away.
Segue to "Baby June and her Newsboys."”
So much blather about what the girl claimed in her deposition. Not a word about her mother -- who like so many show busienss parents was pimping her child all over town.
This practice goes on to this very day. In fact, on this very day all Hollywood is celebrating the (thankfully posthumous) release of a glorified DVD extra of a concert film that was never made starring the record industry's most lauded pedophile.
One of these days, and I hope its sooner than later, the full story of parent-pimps will be told. Then we'll hear all about the Chandlers, and the others.
In the interesting but tendentious documentary "Roman Polanski: Wanter and Desired," Samantha makes pointed note of the fact that she's not going to talk about her mother at all.
Smart girl. Talk about what Mom did and you give the whole show away.
Segue to "Baby June and her Newsboys."”
Why Gays Can't Wait -- Gay Rights Are Civil Rights (VIDEO)
Commented Oct 11, 2009 at 09:57:57 in Politics
“And they're not going to SAY anything. The silence on the left-wing blogs is deafening. Did any of them even WATCH last night's speech?”
dynwit replied on Oct 11, 2009 at 10:41:00
“It's Sunday. Most bloggers take the weekend off.”
Gay Rights Speech: What Should Obama Say Tonight?
Commented Oct 10, 2009 at 16:13:13 in Politics
“Jim Crow segregation would still exist if it weren't for the work of a black gay man named Bayard Rustin. So to all those African-Americans who say linking gay rights to civil ights is an insult take a long walk off a short pier.”
ladyvader replied on Oct 10, 2009 at 17:00:39
“The gay community is getting the same arguement now that the black community got in the late 40's when it comes to serving in the military.
Recycle garbage is still garbage.”
Recycle garbage is still garbage.”
LuvzAmerica replied on Oct 10, 2009 at 16:23:41
“Im sorry... I simply cannot equate racial discrimination that blacks face to the gay struggle.. . I know that gays need rights too, but this bogus relationship is not right. Blacks were beaten and murdered, for simply stepping outside of their doors, bc you cant hide the fact that you were black. gays on the other hand can hide it. You cant look at a person and say, "yes, gay!" the way you can with a black person...
so while I do understand the need for rights, I think its ludicrous to try and compare the two.”
so while I do understand the need for rights, I think its ludicrous to try and compare the two.”
dct1999 replied on Oct 10, 2009 at 16:23:30
“Bayard Rustin was a giant, and he was instrumental in the fight for civil rights. But to claim that Jim Crow would still exist if it weren't for his work makes no sense.
The civil rights struggle was a collective effort.”
The civil rights struggle was a collective effort.”
AKJM replied on Oct 10, 2009 at 16:21:42
“If your cause if just it will stand on its own.”
Obama's Big Gay Speech: HuffPost Bloggers Weigh In
Commented Oct 10, 2009 at 09:51:18 in Politics
“Speech? I'm sick of speeches.
He should sing "Rose's Turn."”
He should sing "Rose's Turn."”
Gay Rights Speech: What Should Obama Say Tonight?
Commented Oct 10, 2009 at 09:48:53 in Politics
“The only straight politician to do anything for LBGT rights unbidden is Gavin Newsom.
Barry's no Gavin.”
Barry's no Gavin.”
KofTX replied on Oct 10, 2009 at 10:37:33
“WHO'S BARRY?”
blindjester replied on Oct 10, 2009 at 10:28:11
“Nobody cares why a politician does the right thing, as long as they do the right thing.”
SiberianRat replied on Oct 10, 2009 at 10:14:48
“Gavin would not agree with you.”
Fighting For Civil Rights Has Consequences
Commented Sep 24, 2009 at 16:07:34 in Politics
“Go Get 'em Fred!”
Coco Before Chanel's Audrey Tautou Talks Fashion, Fury, And Smoking
Commented Sep 19, 2009 at 12:32:47 in Style
“She's really teriffic in the film, as is Alessandro Nivola as Boy Capel. The grand climax where Coco unveils her first collection is a total knockout. Chanel's clothes are classic.”
APA Was Right To Reject Harmful 'Ex-Gay' Therapy
Commented Aug 07, 2009 at 09:31:04 in Politics
“Well I DO judge people. And if they profess fealty to a Big Invisisble Bi-Polar Daddy Who Lives in the Sky then they're MORONS!”
JFK and the Unspeakable
Commented Jul 26, 2009 at 13:50:28 in Politics
“Lee Harvey Oswald killed JFK and he acted alone.”
laocoon replied on Jul 27, 2009 at 12:39:50
“the fun or meaning of this thread lies in people giving arguments about why they reach the conclusion they reach or in identifying issues they have questions about.”
ResistanceisFutile replied on Jul 26, 2009 at 17:24:45
“You need to read the complete warren Commission Report and view all of the associated records.
You will learn that the conclusions bordered on the bizzare.
This was a coup plain and simple.”
You will learn that the conclusions bordered on the bizzare.
This was a coup plain and simple.”
RODERICK098 replied on Jul 26, 2009 at 15:17:27
“According to Gore Vidal- Oswald, Sirhan and the gentleman who shot George Wallace all had the same writing style and that style matched that of E Howard Hunt -one of the Watergate folk who wrote mystery novels-as Vidal points out in his essay what is the chance of all three asssins having a diary in the first place not to mention that all three lift sentencess directly out of E Howard Hunts novels. His essay then goes on to point out that a CIA manual on assainations recommends planting diaries on certain individuals to implicate them in the assaination.”
lletaa replied on Jul 26, 2009 at 14:28:06
“No, he didnt!”
steel71 replied on Jul 26, 2009 at 14:17:26
“Wow, you should be on the next Warren Commission!”
myzenthing replied on Jul 26, 2009 at 14:14:55
“And Santa Claus is real and he hangs out with the Easter Bunny.”
Remembrance of Sublets Past
Commented Jun 22, 2009 at 16:53:29 in New York
“Lovely. You're a National Treasure Mr. Durang.”
Review: Before Wilde: Sex Between Men in Britain's Age of Reform
Commented Jun 17, 2009 at 16:38:16 in Entertainment
“Precisely, Jimboy 17. Can't wait to get ahold of this book. It sounds fascinating.
The Heterosexual Dictatorship (Christopher Isherwood's ever-useful term) does everything in its power to marginalize and pathologize us. Historical studies like this are body blows against that evil empire.
Hi Larry. Love ya to little pieces. Never change.”
The Heterosexual Dictatorship (Christopher Isherwood's ever-useful term) does everything in its power to marginalize and pathologize us. Historical studies like this are body blows against that evil empire.
Hi Larry. Love ya to little pieces. Never change.”
WoodyCPM replied on Jun 18, 2009 at 08:01:47
“I thought he called it, "The Heterosexual Tyranny". Although it's conceptually the same thing as "dictatorship", I like "tyranny" better! It's broader, more pervasive, systemic.”
The Big Gay Chip on My Shoulder
Commented May 27, 2009 at 13:28:34 in Entertainment
“Uh no. We want Marriage. The fact that the fundies, the Mormons and the world's largest pedophile cult (aka. The Catholic church) don't want us to have it shows in and of itself how valuable marriage is.”
The Big Gay Chip on My Shoulder
Commented May 27, 2009 at 13:26:49 in Entertainment
“Did you choose to be straight?”
letsbepeaceful replied on May 27, 2009 at 14:06:07
“(I think justoverit means that God is not happy with the ones who think being gay is a 'choice')”
Homo Sex in Colonial America
Commented May 20, 2009 at 11:01:42 in Politics
“Larry is BEYOND THE BEST!!!!!!
The Heterosexual Dictatorship (Christopher Isherwood's ever-useful term) is staggering and about to keel over. And Larry's right there to give it the coup de grace.
Oh and BTW, folks "I couldn't care less" is right up there with "The check is in the mail," and "I promise not to come in your mouth."”
The Heterosexual Dictatorship (Christopher Isherwood's ever-useful term) is staggering and about to keel over. And Larry's right there to give it the coup de grace.
Oh and BTW, folks "I couldn't care less" is right up there with "The check is in the mail," and "I promise not to come in your mouth."”
New York Gay Marriage: How It'll Strengthen Heterosexual Marriages
Commented Apr 06, 2009 at 11:17:39 in Politics
“You make a very rational argument Mr. Alvear. But homophobes aren't rational.”
Pucky replied on Apr 06, 2009 at 11:48:58
“Both people who are for and against gay marriage may be rational.
Rationality depends upon following the logical consequences that flow from the base precepts that people believe.
If you don't believe in any sort of basis for morality other than a utilitarian approach, then you will come to the logical conclusion that you can do anything you want. That is certainly a rational approach.
If you believe that we inhabit a universe whose physical laws are extraordinarily unlikely to occur by chance, then you will probably come to the conclusion that it wasn't by chance. And that it was made by our Creator, who told that we should treat each other with love and respect, and to act in a certain way.
So it is quite possible to come to different conclusions and both be rational.”
Rationality depends upon following the logical consequences that flow from the base precepts that people believe.
If you don't believe in any sort of basis for morality other than a utilitarian approach, then you will come to the logical conclusion that you can do anything you want. That is certainly a rational approach.
If you believe that we inhabit a universe whose physical laws are extraordinarily unlikely to occur by chance, then you will probably come to the conclusion that it wasn't by chance. And that it was made by our Creator, who told that we should treat each other with love and respect, and to act in a certain way.
So it is quite possible to come to different conclusions and both be rational.”
Why I Called Justice Scalia A Homophobe
Commented Mar 26, 2009 at 11:53:34 in Politics
“Heterosexuality is a life choice, not a right. As such, like smoking, another life choice, people are free to participate or not, as they choose. Additionally, there is no requirement for others to approve of your choice. The false position put forth by heterosexual advocates is that to disapprove of heterosexual behavior is to hate the heterosexual. That is a marketing ploy, not a rational conclusion. The individual, in a free society, is free to disapprove of smoking or anal intercourse without hating the smoker or the heterosexual. Christ taught to hate the sin and love the sinner. Like most of the politically correct demands of today, being free to practice whatever you choose to do, is insufficient for whatever emotional, self-centered reasons spouted by heterosexual advocates. They demand that heterosexual behavior must be approved by others. That demand of my approval, infringes on my freedom to hold values and beliefs that may be contrary to yours. Your demand to control my thoughts and opinions is not a right; it is an infringement on mine. I could care less if you choose to smoke or have vaginal intercourse. I do object to your telling me that I must approve of a behavior that I believe, as have people and societies for thousands of years, to be immoral. And like smoking, it may be hazardous to your health.”
OpalSky42 replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 14:27:55
“Your approval is immaterial. Human rights are being abrogated and it is wrong. I'm pretty sure a lot of folks in the south did not approve the legalization of human rights for African Americans but it was legalized anyway. Homosexuals are human and therefore, should have the same rights in this country that all other humans have.”
elkabong replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 13:30:53
“When you chose to be heterosexual was it/is it difficult for you to ignore your intense sexual feelings for those you find attractive who share your gender?
I'm incredibly jealous that conservatives get to choose which gender they want to be attracted to. All the liberals I know: God chose for them.”
I'm incredibly jealous that conservatives get to choose which gender they want to be attracted to. All the liberals I know: God chose for them.”
OpalSky42 replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:54:25
“Homosexuality is no more a choice than is being born male or female. Of course, if the bigots couldn't call it a choice, they would lose most of their amunition. Being black or female used to be considered inferior too.”
pjburke replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:53:17
“"Heterosexuality is a life choice, not a right."
Two questions:
When do you believe that you consciously made this choice to (presumably) be heterosexual?
And does it really bother you that much that members of the LGBT community DO INSIST that YOU have a right to be heterosexual, since most (if not all) members of the LGBT community are of the view that you were made heterosexual, arrived into this life already heterosexual, and that just being who you are is difficult enough in this life without ignorance or bigotry -- and worse -- making life more difficult for you?”
Two questions:
When do you believe that you consciously made this choice to (presumably) be heterosexual?
And does it really bother you that much that members of the LGBT community DO INSIST that YOU have a right to be heterosexual, since most (if not all) members of the LGBT community are of the view that you were made heterosexual, arrived into this life already heterosexual, and that just being who you are is difficult enough in this life without ignorance or bigotry -- and worse -- making life more difficult for you?”
StevenevetS replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:52:02
“For those of you who missed it, Dehrenstein is making an excellent (and very effective) rebuttal of NCMike's flawed logic posted further down.
Forgive me for spelling out what perhaps should be obvious.”
Forgive me for spelling out what perhaps should be obvious.”
dheitman replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:29:22
“I don't agree with the oft-repeated excuse for religious bigotry: You can hate the sin while loving the sinner. In fact, that's not the sentiment I have at all towards bigots; I hate them as well as their bigotry.”
SeconLine replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:19:51
“Dehrenstein, I agree with much you say. I am not convinced it is a choice, however, like smoking. I believe that people are "wired" to like certain things sexually, different fetishes. Some of these things are considered "wrong" by many. I do not care what you do in your bedroom, just don't tell me I have to like it or make it legal. If mother nature had intended for different sex individuals to be together sexually then different sex couples would have good taste and the ability to think rationally.”
ldavis24 replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:18:15
“wait maybe I am just being dumb today because the baby in my stomach is stealing my brain cells but is this person intentionally using the word heterosexual repeatedly while intending to describe homosexuals? I am confused because if this person is not using heterosexual intentionally then it is just freaking hilarious!
Kinda kills the whole post if that is the case.
I also like the toss in about how it might be hazardous to your health. I would love to see evidence of that. I might catch anal sex by standing by a gay person with logic like that.”
Kinda kills the whole post if that is the case.
I also like the toss in about how it might be hazardous to your health. I would love to see evidence of that. I might catch anal sex by standing by a gay person with logic like that.”
Yarrr replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:14:04
“One day as a kid, I woke up and thought to myself, "hey, I think I'm going to be straight!"”
CrittersRTasty replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:13:14
“Regardless of whether we agree or not, that was an extremely well-thought-out and well written post. Thanks, I really enjoyed it!”
Fanboy615 replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:12:34
“um did you really mean "heterosexual"?”
jsgaetano replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:11:22
“Your right to unfairly discriminate against people does not trump another person's rights as a citizen of the United States.”
down with bilderberg replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:06:40
“What behavior do you believe to be immoral?”
SeconLine replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:06:34
“LOL”
ladylove114 replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:04:01
“Dehrenstein, nice try but you know your post is ridiculous.”
somsoc replied on Mar 26, 2009 at 12:02:12
“FANTASTIC RE-POST!”
Hannity, The Kiss and Barney Frank, Gay Superstar
Commented Mar 06, 2009 at 09:12:45 in Entertainment
“Glad someone remembered Nel Patrick Harris. He'sbeen acting since he was knee-high to a doormat, but over the last few years has becoem a major TV star. And after coming out he's become an even BIGGER star.
Back to re-write Mr. Jenkins!”
Back to re-write Mr. Jenkins!”
CAMBEL replied on Mar 06, 2009 at 12:34:20
“Neil Patrick Harris was involuntarily outed by internet blogs. After they had been posting articles about him for over a year he finally agreed to give an interview confirming.”
CAMBEL replied on Mar 06, 2009 at 12:27:52
“Neal Patrick Harris was involuntarily outed by the Perez hilton Blog. for over a year they ran pictures of Neal holding hands with his boyfriend under the heading of "Come out come out wherever you are" for that entire time Harris would not respond to any inquiries. Eventually when other media started to pick up on it Harris finally came out to People Magazine, but he basically had no option as he was already outed.”
The Choice Is Ours Now
Commented Dec 23, 2008 at 09:09:02 in Entertainment
YoMama replied on Dec 23, 2008 at 09:26:53
“Great article. He really hits his stride toward the end. Thank you for the link.”
The Choice Is Ours Now
Commented Dec 23, 2008 at 09:08:08 in Entertainment
“That stopped clock known as Richard Cohen finds the right time (thanks in no small part to his sister). Why can't Melissa?”
The Choice Is Ours Now
Commented Dec 23, 2008 at 09:07:07 in Entertainment
“"Overplaying your hand"? WHAT "HAND"?
DON'T YOU KNOW WE'RE "SINNERS" WHOSE DESIRE TO MARRY IS THE EQUIVALENT OF INCEST AND PEDOPHILA?
Melissa you're hopelesly naive.”
DON'T YOU KNOW WE'RE "SINNERS" WHOSE DESIRE TO MARRY IS THE EQUIVALENT OF INCEST AND PEDOPHILA?
Melissa you're hopelesly naive.”


