May 29, 2012 at 15:06:09
“Some nightmares are caused by illness, fever, drugs. Most are metaphorical movies about issues of immediate concern in the dreamer's life. PTSD nightmares are very painful, and can be helped by a method created by Dr. Barry Crakow. How wonderful that you may have found a chemical basis of your nightmares.”
mann buhtir on May 29, 2012 at 17:21:05
“i have nightmares if i get too hot while i sleep... if it's nice and cool, no bad dreams.”
RML 1 on May 29, 2012 at 15:58:28
“PTSD nightmares are unnecessary, and are being ignored by medical professionals. Even if you have illnesses, (I have Neuro-Borreliosis, C-PTSD, BiPolar, Asperger's,) or are on drugs, (I am on lithium, and on&off antibiotics)... Get tested for food allergies!!!
MY PTSD nightmares were cured by avoiding allergic foods. No other method needed.
Metaphorical movies? Getting gang raped every night in my nightmares isn't metaphorical at all. It's a crime against humanity that my ex-family Dr's couldn't help me!”
“This problem is far broader than husbands' or wives' showing a lack of appreciation. And the fix far more complex than showing it now and then. Take just the issue of women saying, "I'm done!" This has been happening since the 80's here, and in spades in Italy. The problems start even before the marriage with the cultural norms and the acceptance of those norms and stereotypes by men and women. At a certain point, usually in their 40's, but again in their 60's, many women are willing to risk an uncertain future to free themselves from living with a male who thinks himself superior by virtue of sex and from all the drudgery and indignity that entails for a self-respecting woman. SO much water has gone under the bridge, the lack of respect/equality is baked into most people and will not change in a lifetime. One can hope for the next generation a more mutually respectful world view.”
Salem1 on Mar 10, 2013 at 00:14:01
“When you know with pretty much certainty you'll get alimony, the kids, child support, etc., it's a lot easier to leave.
Marriage is going out of style because men are tired of the intrinsic exploitation of the relationship.
Why get married when you can have great girlfriends who are not legally able to rape you the way wives would be? Men have learned and are enjoying life instead of becoming financial slaves to pre-menopausal overseers.”
jf12 on Mar 9, 2013 at 23:57:45
“"a male who thinks himself superior by virtue of sex and from all the drudgery and indignity that entails for a self-respecting woman"
I consider myself superior sexually by virtue of doing all the sexual drudgery and indignity that entails.”
“This is a fun article that encourages us to be more creative and try out new things! Sorry to see that some take too many thing too seriously. Surprises boost romance. The most important thing I can teach my romance clients (both male and female) is daring to risk rejection so they will NOT miss connecting! Brava, Megan!”
“Charm, decorum, considering your image as an actual reflection of who you are or hope to become! How refreshing! I work with singles who want to date and mate more successfully. Many of their difficulties stem from values, skills, and habits they
failed to develop in college.”
hp blogger Tracey D. Smith on Oct 15, 2010 at 00:24:04
“Thank you Gayle, I am sure your occupation is very enlightening. Perhaps there would be less divorce rates if programs such as yours gained more recognition. Cheers to couples that gain the cohesion to truly gain longevity in their relationships.”