MizLiz's Comments (5058)

“I don't know "most prenups". I guess it depends on what is in them. Perhaps Tiger's is not "most." Perhaps we shall just have to wait and see.”

“So get it right the first time. Agree people don't change and our girls should not put up with this.”

“Neither do women. Let's be fair here.”

“Excuse me, but some men out there, like myself, are very faithful to their wives.”

“Correct. He might act like he is sorry and do all things required, but once the dust settles he will be right back to it again. Any woman who thinks otherwise is truly naive.”

“well, people dont change. and there are plenty of evolved men and women out there, and plenty of dysfunctional ones. dont poison your daughter with your own sadness.”

“People change all the time. It takes a firm commitment but is possible. Do not teach your children such cyncism. It will cloud her current and future decisions and she will miss out on opportunities because she will rely on statements like MEN DON"T CHANGE.

Be that as it may Tiger is a jerk. Elin should pack up the kids and run, get tested for AIDS and other STDS. She should remain HOPEFUL and when she is good and ready she can consider a LOVING relationship with someone who respects her and understands what a nurturing marriage is.

Tiger could very well change but he can do it himself, without Elin and the kids by his side.”

“Society brainwash many to believe anything white is always better... cuz really.. look at the women he chose... there are many 3 cute( & that's a stretch) out of the bunch... so it certainly wasn't beauty that made him chose those women...

Many ppl are attracted to the opposite sex for many reasons...

Tiger is unsure about his own identity(one of the texts from jamie he calls himself blasian (black/asian), but to Oprah he chose to list himself as a rainbow), so I'm not sure how he could so sure of himself stepping out of the box that is placed around him..

It is defiantely his life to pick the mates he wants to bed... but by no means is this some discovery or put down to black or asian women...

This is a reflection of Tiger and Tiger alone... And anyone that wants to read more into it has their own issues to overcome..”

“Though I am not African American, I have numerous friends, clients and acquaintances that I am on a level of comfort with to discuss openly many such issues.

What I hear from them depends greatly with whom you are speaking. Several of my Black male friends are married to white women. From their perspective, it's just who they fell in love with, nothing more. Some had dated a number of other non Black women, some never dated other than white women. The ones who only dated inter racially have a number of reasons for avoiding AA women, from they just had an attraction for white women to believing that AA women had some personality issues they didn't like.

The Black women I know are far more harsh in their answers and really seem to be the most adamant about being critical of Black men dating inter racially. Of course when I put them to the task and asked them if they would date a non Black man they found attractive the answer is far more conciliatory. Not trying to bash AA women, just my experience.

I think that in the 21st Century, our obsession with who someone loves whether inter racially, gay, straight etc., is ridiculous. Let people love who they will and as long as the relationship is healthy, happy and beneficial who cares about the identity of the coupling.”

“None of them are Asian either, and he's as Asian as he is black. Are you equally bothered about the example it's setting for young Asian Americans?”

“your own people? we are all humans right?

so what does your people mean.....”

“Just my 2 cents as another interracial person, but Tiger has two parents and they are not both black. That doesn't make him black by default, it's his choice, it's his identity.

Why don't you ask how come there aren't any Asians in the mix?”

“VAMOOSE!!”

“There seems to be some self loathing issues going on with Tiger. The elephant is the room has always been his lack of racial identity--not really wanting to be black--or wanting to remind people that there's a drop or two of white in him also.

For that reason, he makes me uncomfortable and I've never been a fan. However, regardless of his wife's race or the race of his mistresses, he is so very wrong. Apparently he has no respect for the institution of marriage. Who'd a thunk it?”

“Why is everyone so stuck on his black? He is also half Asian, so how come he is not an Asian? Why is he automatically black? Why aren't you asking how come as an Asian man is he only into blonds?”

“I'm not bitter at all, just keeping it real. Tired of women blaming other women for the behaviors of these men! Tiger is a man Ho! And, I'm sure he had that baggage before he got married. Please. I will bet his wife knew how he was beforehand but thought marriage could change him (Not!) and Tiger had a whole lot to offer her, to boot.

These are grown up people making decisions to do them, it's call the realities of life!”

“None of them are "Pros" you don't know who a "pro" is. These hoodrats are nothing more than vicarious thrill seekers looking to be seen by any means necessary.”

“Believe it! Haven't you ever taken a look at the Jerry Springer Show? It's unbelievable what people will do and say for money!”

“We must be about the same age since we have the same outlook on this. Tiger was/is a jackass (clearly some moral and emotional growth issues there). But these "ladies"... Goldigger is far too kind a descriptor. What kind of creature who has passed sophomore year in high school reveals the details of a sexual tryst, absent the pressure of a court order? At least, to her crdit, Monica Lewinsky thought she was confiding in a friend.”

“Agreed.”

“Actually, insurance can cover it, as the constant skin against skin contact can be a big problem with rashes and things.

Depends on your insurance tho.”

“she'll never have as much as him.

she can't golf.”

“Why should she get all his money? Good for him she signed a prenup. The woman was a college-drop out, low level bikini model, ex-sales clerk than nanny. She lucked out and married a wealthy man and had two children. She and the children will be provided for, but just because her feelings are hurt does not entitled her to "every red cent".”

“"You live, you learn
You love, you learn" -Alanis Morissette.”