MrPragmatic's Comments (62)
Obama Gets It Right: A NYC 9/11 Trial
Commented Nov 19, 2009 at 13:10:55 in Politics
“I disagree with Schlesinger. There is no question or doubt how “heinous these crimes were" and the public trial will cost taxpayers a reported 75 million. Even if that estimate is high you can bet that it won't be less than 5o million. Even if the terrorists can't be pinned down to be beholden to a specific country they are nevertheless foreign enemies of the United States and they committed an act of war against the United States people. Try them in a tribunal and be done with it.”
Mr. President: I Challenge You To Quit!
Commented Nov 06, 2009 at 12:44:10 in Living
“The problem is that too often three a day becomes 5 then 7 and so on. Also, smoking has been shown to give a short term boost to concentration but in the long run smoking is harmful to the brain and has been shown to speed up dementia in older smokers. Having said all that, if somebody is able to maintain a habit of on occasional cig and doesn't feel bad about their "light" habit then to each their own. I became one of those occasional smokers that bummed once in a while but for some reason having just one or two a day started to make me feel sick (headache, dizzy, and surprisingly irritable) right after smoking. Like anything else smoking has different effects in each individual person.”
Raising Malawi: Will You Join Me?
Commented Oct 29, 2009 at 00:22:06 in Impact
“How about starting at home? Right here in America? Many Americans are not aware of the extreme poverty and mis-treatment of children right here. What a shame.”
MiHi replied on Oct 29, 2009 at 13:08:55
“I guess places in the US aren't exotic enough locales for a has-been egomaniac like Madonna to get off her polo horse and care about.”
topkatnc replied on Oct 29, 2009 at 10:18:05
“Agree !”
karela replied on Oct 29, 2009 at 02:38:20
“Both are important. Give to both. Sacrifice is not a dirty word. It's a grace and a blessing.”
Mental Illness: The Stigma of Silence
Commented Oct 26, 2009 at 01:26:27 in Living
“What? The post didn't say that alcohol was behind all mental illness.”
Mental Illness: The Stigma of Silence
Commented Oct 25, 2009 at 20:43:09 in Living
“Right on.”
ladamoxie replied on Oct 26, 2009 at 13:37:02
“Mr. Pragmatic I am proud and glad you found what works for you!!”
Mental Illness: The Stigma of Silence
Commented Oct 25, 2009 at 20:41:21 in Living
“Well said and very true. I was on vacation once in Mexico and became friends with an Italian guy who was staying in the same resort. We had dinner and drinks together on and off for about two weeks. He never once asked me what I did for a living. Through conversation about 10 days into the stay he mentioned being a doctor, which was prompted only by a discussion on health care. I have since learned that it is not common place for Italians to ask "so what do you do"? How refreshing is that!”
Bucket-Of-Love replied on Oct 26, 2009 at 01:32:57
“It all starts with the common refrain (taunt?) "What do you want to be when you grow up?" What a terrible statement, as it forces the innocent child to formulate ideas beyond their reach, jamming a child's mind with misguided, poorly considered responses. This is reinforced over and over. Also implied, here, is that one is nothing until they pick a career. There are better ways!
Then there's mass hypnosis regarding higher education. Most 18-year olds are not equipped to make real career decisions at this stage; only a small percentage really are. How many of those, after having spent $100K (or more) of Mom and Dad's money, end up in a job that's related to what they studied? Not many. The constant promotion of the idea that 18-year olds have reached a proper threshold for making this decision is, I believe, tied to education-as-industry, where the goal is to get as many paying customers through the doors as possible.
Yes, it would be very refreshing if intelligence was considered to be a broader basket than "what do you do for a living?". And, possibly, less isolating, and possibly more productive.”
Then there's mass hypnosis regarding higher education. Most 18-year olds are not equipped to make real career decisions at this stage; only a small percentage really are. How many of those, after having spent $100K (or more) of Mom and Dad's money, end up in a job that's related to what they studied? Not many. The constant promotion of the idea that 18-year olds have reached a proper threshold for making this decision is, I believe, tied to education-as-industry, where the goal is to get as many paying customers through the doors as possible.
Yes, it would be very refreshing if intelligence was considered to be a broader basket than "what do you do for a living?". And, possibly, less isolating, and possibly more productive.”
Mental Illness: The Stigma of Silence
Commented Oct 25, 2009 at 17:26:22 in Living
“Good point. Many times people who are labeled with mental illness are leading lives that they don;t find congruent with who they really are. Cognitive dissonance is a major cause of anxiety, depression, and mood swings. Meds won't work when one is not right with their life. A painter needs to paint. A writer needs to write. A carpenter needs to build. If you are an accountant and you loathe your job because your talent and passion is elsewhere you will probably be moody and depressed. Go to the doctor though and you will get a pill and be labeled as bi-polar.”
ladamoxie replied on Oct 26, 2009 at 13:41:48
“Mr. Pragmatic I love that you used the word cognitive dissonance... Leon Festinger (sorry if I spelled your name wrong LF) would be proud.
Some people, like myself do need medication because I have not made it to your way Mr. Pragmatic. I unfortunately have the kind of depression that if not treated no matter what my mind knows is true about me (that I can do amazing things, etc.) doesn't answer back that way. I know cognitvely what is wrong but I can't make that depression go away. It will take time just as everything that means something real does take time.”
Some people, like myself do need medication because I have not made it to your way Mr. Pragmatic. I unfortunately have the kind of depression that if not treated no matter what my mind knows is true about me (that I can do amazing things, etc.) doesn't answer back that way. I know cognitvely what is wrong but I can't make that depression go away. It will take time just as everything that means something real does take time.”
Bucket-Of-Love replied on Oct 25, 2009 at 19:33:56
“True, for many, about what you say not being able to be in one's element.
Furthermore, the persistently circulated notion of forming one's identity through the WORK one does, is just as much a detriment to one's mental health, imo.”
Furthermore, the persistently circulated notion of forming one's identity through the WORK one does, is just as much a detriment to one's mental health, imo.”
Boadicea replied on Oct 25, 2009 at 18:53:55
“Interesting comment.
And those are too few and far between, so thank you for taking the time to write it.”
And those are too few and far between, so thank you for taking the time to write it.”
Mental Illness: The Stigma of Silence
Commented Oct 25, 2009 at 16:40:10 in Living
“Medication would not have been the answer for Alex in Fatal Attraction. Why? According to Ms. Close this character suffered from Boerderline Personality Disorder, which is not treatable with any psychotropic medication. Personality disorders are very hard to treat and medication can only be effective in addressing co-morbidity of other issues, e.g., depression. Personality disorders are only treatable through psychotherapy since these disorders stem from ones thoughts about themselves and others. The problem is that there is a lot of bad apples who work in the mental health field who mis-diagnose and over medicate. Psychotropic medication should not be taken lightly or seen as a panacea. For the most part, it is not understood how most psychotropic meds work and there is the potential to do more harm than good particularly if somebody is labeled with a mental illness when in reality there is a different underlying cause than brain chemistry gone awry. Life circumstances, personal choices, drugs, alcohol, food allergies, hormones can all influence behavior and emotional health. Sometimes using brain changing medication is like using a sledge hammer to put a nail in the wall. Moreover, kids with undeveloped brains are being diagnosed and labeled and then given all kinds of medications that have negative implications the rest of their life.”
ladamoxie replied on Oct 26, 2009 at 13:43:53
“BPD is one of the HARDEST of all the "personality disorders" to treat. I am reading a nonfiction book about a woman who overcome her BPD and she had a HELL of time doing so!!”
Stressed-Out Arizona Governor Caught On Camera Calling State Capitol "Hell Hole"
Commented Sep 27, 2009 at 02:59:10 in Politics
“Couldn't agree more! Phoenix is a hell hole 5 months out of the year. Just look at the calendar and it's 106 today. And BTW the state capital is on the wetsern fringe of lovely downtown phoenix, which is a hell hole no matter what time of the year.”
Indie2008 replied on Sep 27, 2009 at 10:36:51
“It's a "Dry" heat !”
Reviewing President Rahm Emanuel's Health Care Speech
Commented Sep 10, 2009 at 00:59:38 in Politics
“Yes, and does everybody forget that candidate Obama in the primary was very critical of HRC for proposing mandating coverage? Obama said back then that mandating coverage and levying a fine would be unfair and a bureaucratic nightmare to enforce. He was right the first time.”
Reviewing President Rahm Emanuel's Health Care Speech
Commented Sep 10, 2009 at 00:52:40 in Politics
“Finally! Thank you Mr. Sirota for saying what many others must be thinking. I am amazed at the shallowness of people praising the speech--as in the emotional delivery--for its style but say little about its content. Yes, the president delivered a wonderful speech. But the content? Gee, whiz this is not about health care reform anymore, it;s about the president playing to the muddled middle. The policy that the president outlined is about mandates and provisions, which will do little for those who simply can't afford any kind of health insurance whatsoever. With no real fully tax funded public option there simply is no reform.”
manyamile replied on Sep 10, 2009 at 02:06:51
“i think fully funded single payer is too great a leap for now.
it would be a disaster.
dems did not come out with enough unity, enough voice backing it
and i believe the reorginization would be disastrous..
i think that is the reality.
a viable public option is still in the plan, that's what i heard.
there are some important moves in the right direction in the presidents plan. i can live with that.
I hate to see fellow progressives making the same mistake the wacko righties make, in saying that anyone who suports the president's plan is just an airhead , someone who falls for a good speech.. someone who is obviosly shallow and who doesn't really understand anything
.reminds me of all the 'drinking the kool aid ' comments
c'mon progressives, your better than that. thinking progressives and lefties can disagree with out disrespecting each other,.”
it would be a disaster.
dems did not come out with enough unity, enough voice backing it
and i believe the reorginization would be disastrous..
i think that is the reality.
a viable public option is still in the plan, that's what i heard.
there are some important moves in the right direction in the presidents plan. i can live with that.
I hate to see fellow progressives making the same mistake the wacko righties make, in saying that anyone who suports the president's plan is just an airhead , someone who falls for a good speech.. someone who is obviosly shallow and who doesn't really understand anything
.reminds me of all the 'drinking the kool aid ' comments
c'mon progressives, your better than that. thinking progressives and lefties can disagree with out disrespecting each other,.”
Tim303 replied on Sep 10, 2009 at 01:15:44
“Oh come on, mate!”
Obama Losing Support Among Democrats
Commented Sep 03, 2009 at 13:51:27 in Politics
“HRC must be kicking herself for taking the SOS job. If things keep going this way for BO, then perhaps Clinton will resign sometime in 2010 and dust of that rolodex of her millions of supporters.”
Obama Losing Support Among Democrats
Commented Sep 03, 2009 at 13:46:39 in Politics
“Ironic that most Obama supporters could not understand why HRC backers were so fervent in their support of her until the bitter end and now we are finding out why. Everything that you describe is what many HRC supporters saw in Obama during the primary. Remember the charge of Obama as an empty suit? Sadly this is proving to be the reality. Everything is not lost though as Obama may just yet step up and grow into the job as he realizes that being the cool kid with big ambition is not enough.”
The Best City Movies by Farr
Commented Jan 10, 2009 at 18:21:06 in Entertainment
“Nothing about San Francisco or Chicago? Those two cities always look great on film and are usually essential to the story or tone of the movie. For Chicago "The Fugitive" comes to mind and for SF the movie "Vertigo" comes to mind.”
RedDogBear replied on Jan 12, 2009 at 10:01:05
“There were only two things in the recent Batman movie that I liked. Keith Ledger's performance and the chase scenes on Lower Wacker drive in Chicago. Oh, also the chase scene at the end of The Blues Brothers also in Chicago is amazing. They end up crashing in the plaza next to the Picasso statue by city hall.”
John Farr replied on Jan 12, 2009 at 00:10:06
“both excellent titles, no doubt.
also for chicago, the untouchables...”
also for chicago, the untouchables...”
Selecting Hilary Clinton as Secretary of State and Obama's Premise of Change
Commented Dec 08, 2008 at 15:10:18 in Politics
“Maybe I am naive, butI think that your position is over thought. The SoS is a key position and a bad apple in that job could really mess things up for Obama and more importantly for our country. I choose to simply believe that Obama selected HRC because he saw value in her to be an effective SoS under his leadership. I assume the best about Obama and by extension that means I assume that he hires people that he thinks will be good for the country period. To think otherwise would mean that I voted for the wrong person.”
Letter to Sean Hannity of Fox News
Commented Dec 08, 2008 at 14:58:49 in Media
“Why does Deepak even feel the need to defend himself against the likes of Hannity? I doubt that anybody who finds inspiration from Chopra, gives a hoot what vile misrepresentations are spewed about him by a right wing demagogue. I thought that these new age enlightened types stayed above the fray so as not to internalize negative energy, man. In any case, a defensive Deepak Chopra is bad for his brand.”
NewRadical1 replied on Dec 08, 2008 at 16:19:48
“I too was a bit surprised to see Deepak so deeply offended and emotionally affected by an attack from a faux news loon like Hannity.
I can understand wanting to counter his inane babblings with the truth, but at the same time, I found it disingenous to in one breath to say "If you stop blowing you'll be out of a job" and with the next "Love, Deepak".
Still, we're all just human. And it is natural to be upset by someone like Hannity, and I give Deepak credit for being authentic in his reaction to him.”
I can understand wanting to counter his inane babblings with the truth, but at the same time, I found it disingenous to in one breath to say "If you stop blowing you'll be out of a job" and with the next "Love, Deepak".
Still, we're all just human. And it is natural to be upset by someone like Hannity, and I give Deepak credit for being authentic in his reaction to him.”
Grunty1 replied on Dec 08, 2008 at 15:37:25
“Because you can NEVER let the liars get away with their BS for a second!”
maikonen replied on Dec 08, 2008 at 15:33:19
“I think you have it all wrong. Deepak Chopra expresed his valid points to increase Hannity's awareness of how negativism is causing right wing implosion. What better way to avoid internalizing negative energy? And wasn't Chopra the essence of good manners and politesse?”
Caroline Kennedy? Thanks But No Thanks
Commented Dec 07, 2008 at 23:45:15 in Politics
“Great post. Could not agree more.”
Caroline Kennedy? Thanks But No Thanks
Commented Dec 07, 2008 at 23:43:50 in Politics
“HRC had to campaign for that seat and she won because the voters chose her over another candidate. That my friend, is the democratic process and is nothing like giving the seat to somebdy who never ran for it or served in a public office.”
RadCenter replied on Dec 09, 2008 at 21:24:41
“Oh, I'm sure Bill never called in any favors on Hillary's behalf. It was just her hard work and gosh darn it, gumption! that won her one of the most powerful Senate seats in the country. "Democratic process" my a$$.”
rzan1 replied on Dec 08, 2008 at 00:36:59
“She won because Rudy Giuliani who was very popular at that time dropped out for health reasons and was replaced by a major idiot. She was merely the lesser of two evils.”
Promise replied on Dec 08, 2008 at 00:21:07
“HRC had a stroke of very good luck when Rudy Guiliani dropped out of the race against her due to his diagnosis of testicular cancer. I'm not so sure that she would have beat him if he had stayed in.”
The Extreme and Imaginary Pro-Obama Bias
Commented Nov 28, 2008 at 12:56:56 in Media
“The MSM did not perpetuate the Obama slander of being too exotic, liberal, a Muslim, etc. In fact, the MSM went to extremes to dispel these notions. They may have run the Wright video over and over but they never allowed the narrative that Obama's association with the Rev. Wright was significant or meaningful in any way take hold and gain traction. The MSM pushed back frequently at both Clinton and McCain surrogates while allowing Obama's surrogates to deliver talking points unchecked. Now, do not get me wrong; I am vey glad that Obama will be our next president. But I think that one would have to be very blinded by bias to not see that the MSM media acted as Obama surrogates to some degree.”
myworld replied on Nov 28, 2008 at 19:47:17
“I can count the passes Mcclain and Palin got during the campain ,if the issues were Obama issues their would have hung him out to dry .come on!!!!!!!”
conned replied on Nov 28, 2008 at 19:30:31
“Mr. Pragmatic, the way I see it is; you had the RNC and GOP operatives leaking a whole bunch of seedy, unfounded rumors that should have no place in intelligent discussion. The suggestions were manipulative and void of context. Anyone on this planet can have relationships with people that hold deplorable views in part, or overall. A true pragmatist, like I believe Obama to be, has the ability to listen to opposing views, reject the unfavorable ones, but still embrace the person for the good in them. Lord knows that politicians of all political stripes rub elbows with characters far more shady than Rev. Write, Prof. Aires, etc. I just kept thinking throughout the campaign just how squeaky clean Obama must be for those allegations to be all they had on him! The fact that the MSM acknowledged these cheap manipulative tactics at all was generous, but overall, irresponsible.”
noamjunior replied on Nov 28, 2008 at 16:03:40
“YOU SAY -they never allowed the narrative that Obama's association with the Rev. Wright was significant or meaningful in any way take hold and gain traction
so, your saying it's the media's job to help GOP talking points gain traction?”
so, your saying it's the media's job to help GOP talking points gain traction?”
jinxed replied on Nov 28, 2008 at 14:19:52
“Evidently you did not watch the same ABC, CBS, CNN and NBC evening news shows I did. Every time I hear the Republicans accuse the MSM of being liberal I wanted to dig out my hip boots and put them on because the BS is so deep. My biggest fear is that my home would start smelling, permanently! The main stream media is ANYTHING but liberal and they have never been liberal. The MSM has been preaching the Republican, neo-conservative, evangelical talking points since 1994 and have been getting more and more hysterical each passing year. The election of 2008 will be known by centerists (right and left) as the breaking point when then rest of the country woke up to the fact that MSM does NOT have working/middle class Americans interests at heart. The MSM is and always has been preaching corporatist policy and interests at the expense of 95% of the American taxpayers. The pendulum has finally swung as far right as it can possibly go and is now slowly starting to move back to the center where MOST of this country is! All I can say is, its about time!”
emncaity replied on Nov 28, 2008 at 14:12:55
“You're just dead wrong, and you have no evidence (other than the selectively anecdotal) to support statements like "the MSM pushed back frequently at both Clinton and McCain surrogates while allowing Obama's surrogates to deliver talking points unchecked."
The most pro-McCain aspect of the press (which any study with a rational methodology shows is actually _right_-biased) was the way they continued to assent to the McCain's basic good-guy image, regardless of uncountable lies and misrepresentations. His stint in the service and as a POW bought him literally unlimited points that prevented the MSM from hammering him properly as a dishonorable, two-faced candidate who changed multiple positions on critical issues.
They also backed off of Palin's serial lying and the personal hypocrisy of parading her pregnant daughter in front of the cameras for the "family shot," but then crying foul when anything about the pregnancy was published. It was monstrously hypocritical, since very obviously, if the Obamas had had a pregnant teenage daughter and a teenage father who posted crap about how he was gonna "kick your ass," etc., we never would've heard the end of it. Other examples abound.
Overall, the MSM still treats Republicans as the real traditional Americans, if sometimes a bit extreme, and Democrats as the sometimes necessary remedy or punishment for a Republican administration gone wrong. Just wait until they get rolling on Obama--not that it'll make any difference to anyone already convinced of the mythical left-wing bias.”
The most pro-McCain aspect of the press (which any study with a rational methodology shows is actually _right_-biased) was the way they continued to assent to the McCain's basic good-guy image, regardless of uncountable lies and misrepresentations. His stint in the service and as a POW bought him literally unlimited points that prevented the MSM from hammering him properly as a dishonorable, two-faced candidate who changed multiple positions on critical issues.
They also backed off of Palin's serial lying and the personal hypocrisy of parading her pregnant daughter in front of the cameras for the "family shot," but then crying foul when anything about the pregnancy was published. It was monstrously hypocritical, since very obviously, if the Obamas had had a pregnant teenage daughter and a teenage father who posted crap about how he was gonna "kick your ass," etc., we never would've heard the end of it. Other examples abound.
Overall, the MSM still treats Republicans as the real traditional Americans, if sometimes a bit extreme, and Democrats as the sometimes necessary remedy or punishment for a Republican administration gone wrong. Just wait until they get rolling on Obama--not that it'll make any difference to anyone already convinced of the mythical left-wing bias.”
fiduciaryatlarge replied on Nov 28, 2008 at 13:46:37
“Care to cite a couple examples of "the MSM went to extremes to dispel these notions"?”
Do The Right Thing: Hillary for Secretary of State
Commented Nov 19, 2008 at 00:38:17 in Politics
“We really need to let this bone go.”
Hillary Clinton: A 21st Century Choice for Secretary of State
Commented Nov 15, 2008 at 13:58:38 in Politics
“Well, I guess that our new president does not agree; he has already re-assembled the clinton era team in a major way.”
Hillary Clinton: A 21st Century Choice for Secretary of State
Commented Nov 15, 2008 at 13:57:22 in Politics
“The siting senator of NY does not need to aplogize for going to war. She has said a million times that she voted the best way at the time given the information coming from Bush. Your argument is subjective and based on HRC's perceived judgement. But I feel that HRC is hyper criticized for subjective issues more than any other pol. HRC is a dynamic, smart, and known the world over. These are good assets for a SOS.”
Hillary Clinton: A 21st Century Choice for Secretary of State
Commented Nov 15, 2008 at 13:52:31 in Politics
“Women don't need to be kept "in line." This is not the 1950's. Obama has stated over and over that he wants people around him to challenge him. Let the man govern the way that he wants to. He was not elected to be micro-managed by the American People.”
Hillary Clinton: A 21st Century Choice for Secretary of State
Commented Nov 15, 2008 at 13:48:26 in Politics
“Judgement and experience are not the same thing. If the argument is "expereince" then it is true that HRC is qualified for the job. Experience implies one's professional background and accomplishements. If the argument is "judgement" then that is a different matter and it could be argued that she lacks the judgement. But the expereince argument does not hold water.”
Hillary Clinton: A 21st Century Choice for Secretary of State
Commented Nov 15, 2008 at 13:42:24 in Politics
“I used the word "shrill" on purpose. It is called irony and that is exactly my point since the original post included the word "screeching," which is akin to shrill.”


