findingmuse's Comments (79)
Breach of Discipline
Commented Sep 10, 2009 at 15:23:06 in Politics
“Major General Eaton, my dad--a military school graduate, Vietnam vet, and staunch Republican--would have completely agreed with everything you wrote here were he alive today. He wouldn't have voted for Obama, but he would have been respectful of the Commander-in-Chief once he took office. Good military training teaches you that (I know, because I got to experience some of it as his daughter).
Thank you for writing this (you said it so much more level headed than I've been saying it today) (one example of why I know I am *not* good military material. :-)”
Thank you for writing this (you said it so much more level headed than I've been saying it today) (one example of why I know I am *not* good military material. :-)”
Tiring of Facebook Fatigue
Commented Sep 09, 2009 at 11:46:09 in Media
“Facebook can cause so many misunderstandings if you use it wrong. For example, if you're having a personal issue/disagreement/problem with someone, please don't use your status update to let everyone not in on the issue/disagreement/problem know that. It confuses those not in the know, and further agitates those who are in the know. Occasionally, it makes you look crazy, and people wonder about you.
As a general rule, I don't say anything online that I wouldn't say to someone's face. Ditto for facebook. I don't post things I don't want to come back to haunt me. I don't use the internet to deal with my psychological issues--a therapist and lunch with my best friend work so much better, i've found. All lessons learned the hard way (which is how I like to learn my lessons best--they stick with me better and longer).”
As a general rule, I don't say anything online that I wouldn't say to someone's face. Ditto for facebook. I don't post things I don't want to come back to haunt me. I don't use the internet to deal with my psychological issues--a therapist and lunch with my best friend work so much better, i've found. All lessons learned the hard way (which is how I like to learn my lessons best--they stick with me better and longer).”
hp blogger Sarah Schmelling replied on Sep 09, 2009 at 16:19:40
“I totally agree. And I think a lot of the points in the WSJ story make so much sense: especially to just think before you post something, and to try to imagine what you would think if you read that in someone else's status update. I think we're all finding our way with this new kind of communication.”
gbkc replied on Sep 09, 2009 at 15:05:49
“true- it's best to keep that stuff in person. i was having a snark for snark w/ my neo-con brother about obama's school speech and our mother stepped in and put us in virtual time-outs.”
Palin No Longer Writing Her Own Script
Commented Sep 09, 2009 at 10:50:29 in Politics
“I laughed out loud at the "linguistic schizophrenia" remark. Good times!”
Bai replied on Sep 09, 2009 at 12:37:40
“And Mr. Dunn provides the perfect example of her linguistic schizophrenia:
"I know that John McCain will do that and I, as his vice president, families we are blessed with that vote of the American people and are elected to serve and are sworn in on January 20, that will be our top priority is to defend the American people."
I'm amazed that she has a driver's license.”
"I know that John McCain will do that and I, as his vice president, families we are blessed with that vote of the American people and are elected to serve and are sworn in on January 20, that will be our top priority is to defend the American people."
I'm amazed that she has a driver's license.”
stick458 replied on Sep 09, 2009 at 11:11:35
“Since when is unjustified ridicule funny? Pathetic.”
Obama School Speech Sends the Right Message to Many Who are Usually Tuned Out
Commented Sep 09, 2009 at 10:31:34 in Politics
“I have a challenge for you, Captain of Industry:
1. Google "white privilege." (Here's a good article you can start with: http://uts.cc.utexas.edu/~rjensen/freelance/whiteprivilege.htm)
2. Reflect on what you just wrote here.”
1. Google "white privilege." (Here's a good article you can start with: http://uts.cc.utexas.edu/~rjensen/freelance/whiteprivilege.htm)
2. Reflect on what you just wrote here.”
Crimes Against the Soul of America
Commented Sep 08, 2009 at 11:56:06 in Living
“I get very snarky and sarcastic a lot when it comes to neo-con types like Rove and Cheney. And usually, after I say my snark and make my sarcastic remark, I feel a little "less." In other words, I think they win whenever that happens. (But dagnabit, they'd make Jesus himself need to count to ten before speaking, I bet :-p).
HP doesn't allot me enough space to go into all the various reason NCLB is a flawed law (though I do think it's made schools more accountable, and that's important), how we ended up where we're at today, and all the ways in which we could improve our public educational system. But quite honestly, no one seems to listen to teachers much--they're far more interested in what politicians have to say about it. And researchers who haven't been in an actual classroom in XX years think they know. Nobody reallys bothers to ask those in the trenches.
I think what I'm saying is that I agree: we are at a spiritual crossroads/crisis in America. I see it in the children and families I work with, every day. It makes me hypervigilant to make sure I'm being the change I'd like to see in the world (until Dick Cheney says something else :-p)”
HP doesn't allot me enough space to go into all the various reason NCLB is a flawed law (though I do think it's made schools more accountable, and that's important), how we ended up where we're at today, and all the ways in which we could improve our public educational system. But quite honestly, no one seems to listen to teachers much--they're far more interested in what politicians have to say about it. And researchers who haven't been in an actual classroom in XX years think they know. Nobody reallys bothers to ask those in the trenches.
I think what I'm saying is that I agree: we are at a spiritual crossroads/crisis in America. I see it in the children and families I work with, every day. It makes me hypervigilant to make sure I'm being the change I'd like to see in the world (until Dick Cheney says something else :-p)”
One More for Michael Jackson
Commented Sep 04, 2009 at 11:54:43 in Entertainment
“When my dad died, we found him in his bed--it was very traumatizing because it was so unexpected, and we never got to say good-bye. But I remember that looking at him was like looking at a picture: it was him, but not really HIM. He wasn't in there anymore. Even walking into his bedroom and immediately going into denial about what was happening, deep down I knew the truth: the room was too still (even though there was a lot of frantic activity around him) and too quiet (even though his tv was on); there was a distinct lack of energy--something was missing. I'd imagine that is very similar to what went on in Michael's house when his loved ones found him.
What mattered most afterwards (and afterwards is always for those left behind, never for those who've passed on to whatever's next), were the stories people told about my dad. My dad was a complicated man with a lot of positives and a lot of negatives, and the stories people told me about him showed how deeply he was loved and how deeply he loved others while he was here. And in the end, I think that's all that really matters. How much love you put out there.
I just wanted to share that, because your Michael stories reminded me of that. Thanks for sharing :)”
What mattered most afterwards (and afterwards is always for those left behind, never for those who've passed on to whatever's next), were the stories people told about my dad. My dad was a complicated man with a lot of positives and a lot of negatives, and the stories people told me about him showed how deeply he was loved and how deeply he loved others while he was here. And in the end, I think that's all that really matters. How much love you put out there.
I just wanted to share that, because your Michael stories reminded me of that. Thanks for sharing :)”
Where's Dave Chappelle When You Need Him?
Commented Aug 27, 2009 at 10:17:53 in Comedy
“Me too. I really miss Dave Chappelle. :(”
Town Halls: 7 Tips for Handling Conflict
Commented Aug 19, 2009 at 12:15:00 in Living
“The 3 most helpful and useful things I've taken away from talk therapy are
1- there is only one person in the world you can control, and that person is You. When someone is upsetting you, you can either choose to react or not to react. The best choice is always don't react. When you react, it fuels the other person's issues about themselves (and it is never, ever about you; it is always, always about them) and nothing gets accomplished, because
2- You are never responsible for how someone else feels, thinks, or does. Their problem, not yours. And don't let them make their problems yours because people love to do that.
Of course, all this is much easier said then done. If you had my mother you'd understand. Which is why it is always good to remember that
3-Life is about progress, not perfection. Don't beat yourself up--you can do better tomorrow. :)”
1- there is only one person in the world you can control, and that person is You. When someone is upsetting you, you can either choose to react or not to react. The best choice is always don't react. When you react, it fuels the other person's issues about themselves (and it is never, ever about you; it is always, always about them) and nothing gets accomplished, because
2- You are never responsible for how someone else feels, thinks, or does. Their problem, not yours. And don't let them make their problems yours because people love to do that.
Of course, all this is much easier said then done. If you had my mother you'd understand. Which is why it is always good to remember that
3-Life is about progress, not perfection. Don't beat yourself up--you can do better tomorrow. :)”
hp blogger Dr. Cara Barker replied on Aug 19, 2009 at 12:45:27
“Thanks so much for weighing in, findingmuse. It is clear that you've 'done your work,' on your own search and on your journey. Your points are beautifully stated, and ring out truth, 'loud and clear.'
The fact is that I'd love to hear more from you. Your Voice is inspiring. Keep writing, my dear. You've got a lot to say. Come back and let me know about you, and how you are doing. I'm listening.
Love and blessings,
Cara
P.S. Loved your comment about dear old mom, and your humor!”
The fact is that I'd love to hear more from you. Your Voice is inspiring. Keep writing, my dear. You've got a lot to say. Come back and let me know about you, and how you are doing. I'm listening.
Love and blessings,
Cara
P.S. Loved your comment about dear old mom, and your humor!”
What's Wrong With American Medicine?
Commented Aug 18, 2009 at 11:09:40 in Living
“You really need to read the New Yorker article that was linked in the last paragraph of the article("The Cost Conundrum"). It directly addresses what you've brought to the table in this comment. In many ways, you're correct--we do have the best technologies, medicines, doctors, etc. But are we USING them appropriately?
Read all 8 pages. I promise you won't have to read any socialist agendas in it--the article isn't pushing any. It's just a very matter-of-fact, this-is-where-we're-at-right-now point of view. Written by a surgeon who has experience within the system.
It might take away some of your fears of socialism and propaganda and put them where they actually need to be: what's going on in American healthcare today, and why? It gave me something to think about.”
Read all 8 pages. I promise you won't have to read any socialist agendas in it--the article isn't pushing any. It's just a very matter-of-fact, this-is-where-we're-at-right-now point of view. Written by a surgeon who has experience within the system.
It might take away some of your fears of socialism and propaganda and put them where they actually need to be: what's going on in American healthcare today, and why? It gave me something to think about.”
New Rule: A-hole in One Shouldn't Be Obama's Game
Commented Aug 14, 2009 at 11:59:07 in Comedy
“This new rule made me think of Dr. Seuss:
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
and
"Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive more Youer and than You."
Just be yourself, Mr. O. You can't win with the crazy portion of the neo-con Republicans anyway, so just be yourself.”
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
and
"Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive more Youer and than You."
Just be yourself, Mr. O. You can't win with the crazy portion of the neo-con Republicans anyway, so just be yourself.”
Get to Know Your Angry Neighborhood Protesters! (SLIDESHOW)
Commented Aug 13, 2009 at 12:43:42 in Home
“they're all so freakishly scary. and so, so sad. :(”
Yahoorefugee replied on Aug 13, 2009 at 15:52:01
“I'd love to explain this "freakishly scary" people, but any attempt to enlighten you is "fully moderated". So, so sad. :) They don't even allow me to post the health care bill on this site. You must be the most highly mind controlled group in the nation.”
Hard Truths and the Teachable Moment: The Gates-Crowley Saga
Commented Jul 28, 2009 at 23:29:55 in Politics
“i second that.”
Hard Truths and the Teachable Moment: The Gates-Crowley Saga
Commented Jul 28, 2009 at 23:26:54 in Politics
“I really, really, really, deeply, deeply (that's 3 reallys and 2 deeplys) agree with every single word you've written here.
I hope President Obama prints this and makes those two guys read it out loud to each other while they drink their beers at the White House.”
I hope President Obama prints this and makes those two guys read it out loud to each other while they drink their beers at the White House.”
Facebook Status: I Dare You. Say What's Really on Your Mind!
Commented Jul 28, 2009 at 23:04:07 in Living
“I so enjoyed this article...it was poignant and sweet and funny and very true.
In addition, I will add that occasionally I go whole days (and once almost 2 whole weeks) without updating my facebook status simply because I knew I couldn't find (a) the write way to update what was going on with me, and (b) even if I could I probably couldn't do it in 50 words or less. And (c) it wouldn't be warm or witty or amusing for others to read, and I'd probably have to start fielding cell phone calls about it all and I HATE cell phone calls. Texts, too, which is slightly ironic since I have a facebook account.
Sadly, I find many of my fb acquaintances seem to use it as a tool to masquerade what perfect lives they're leading. I suspect at least 98% of them are terrific liars, and this makes me sad for humanity. Which is why I'm going to do what Robert-Cook has said he will do, and will update my fb status to ask my people: "What's really on your mind?" (I anticipate a slew of lies :)”
In addition, I will add that occasionally I go whole days (and once almost 2 whole weeks) without updating my facebook status simply because I knew I couldn't find (a) the write way to update what was going on with me, and (b) even if I could I probably couldn't do it in 50 words or less. And (c) it wouldn't be warm or witty or amusing for others to read, and I'd probably have to start fielding cell phone calls about it all and I HATE cell phone calls. Texts, too, which is slightly ironic since I have a facebook account.
Sadly, I find many of my fb acquaintances seem to use it as a tool to masquerade what perfect lives they're leading. I suspect at least 98% of them are terrific liars, and this makes me sad for humanity. Which is why I'm going to do what Robert-Cook has said he will do, and will update my fb status to ask my people: "What's really on your mind?" (I anticipate a slew of lies :)”
Jon Gosselin: Fool In Love (With Himself)
Commented Jul 28, 2009 at 22:34:56 in Entertainment
“I once went through exactly what Jon G. is going through: an early mid-life crisis. Fortunately, I did not have children at the time or a mega-circus of paparazzi following me around, documenting my every stupid move and whim.
I was also blessed with a husband who was willing to see where he'd made mistakes, was open to counseling, and loved me in ways words cannot describe. So we worked--and continue to work, because any relationship worth having is a constant work in progress--on our relationship, and we're better for it. And now we have a beautiful little girl who is a blessing to both of us (and an every day reminder that we are her only points of reference for how to do Life).
So when I read about Jon's exploits, I feel exactly as the author feels: grow up, Jon. But on the other hand, because I've walked a mile in his shoes, I feel sad for him--he's been in a situation where he's felt constrained and dictated to and he thinks this is the way out of it. It's not. it's a lonely, sad place out there, full of dysfunctionally desperate people and situations that leave you feeling empty, if you jump into it headfirst with abandon (as Jon seems to have done).
I really feel saddest for their children; they had no say in any of this: the divorce, the affairs, or the cameras.”
I was also blessed with a husband who was willing to see where he'd made mistakes, was open to counseling, and loved me in ways words cannot describe. So we worked--and continue to work, because any relationship worth having is a constant work in progress--on our relationship, and we're better for it. And now we have a beautiful little girl who is a blessing to both of us (and an every day reminder that we are her only points of reference for how to do Life).
So when I read about Jon's exploits, I feel exactly as the author feels: grow up, Jon. But on the other hand, because I've walked a mile in his shoes, I feel sad for him--he's been in a situation where he's felt constrained and dictated to and he thinks this is the way out of it. It's not. it's a lonely, sad place out there, full of dysfunctionally desperate people and situations that leave you feeling empty, if you jump into it headfirst with abandon (as Jon seems to have done).
I really feel saddest for their children; they had no say in any of this: the divorce, the affairs, or the cameras.”
PunKinPai replied on Jul 29, 2009 at 11:24:44
“If you've watched the show, please explain how Jon alone could make this a workable marriage. If you haven't, then don't judge. Your marriage is yours alone and cannot be compared to anybody elses.”
Cell-tiquette: How To Polish Up Your Cell Phone Etiquette
Commented Jul 28, 2009 at 16:14:25 in Living
“This one time, I was driving behind some girl who had a bumper sticker on her car that read "Turn off your &^% phone and DRIVE!"
Guess what she was doing. :)”
Guess what she was doing. :)”
What Family Values? The Real Reason America Is Falling Behind the Rest of the World
Commented Jul 22, 2009 at 21:43:03 in Living
“I used to feel like you did...until I became a parent.
I do remember thinking: "Wow, this is such a baby culture country" before I became a parent and kind of rolling my eyes at some of it. And surely there are people who abuse the system, just because they can. But once you're walking in someone else's shoes for a bit, you get it.
So please know: it's not that most parents are asking for special treatment, it's that taking care of small children requires it. Little kids get sick...how can a 9 month old baby or a 2 year old toddler take care of him/herself? To stay healthy, babies have to have frequent checkups...and that's not including the times you need to rush them in last minute because something crazy is going on with them health-wise.
In addition, most daycares won't take kids until they're at least 6 weeks old. Which is really, really tiny.
I had an adequate maternity leave situation through my employer, but I still wish I could have spent at least 12 full weeks with her before going back to work. Unfortunately, I spent 4 of my 6 weeks paid leave on medical bedrest which only left me with 8, 6 of which were unpaid. We had we have bills to pay and I can't afford to quit my job. It's simply how it is for people who choose to have child(ren).”
I do remember thinking: "Wow, this is such a baby culture country" before I became a parent and kind of rolling my eyes at some of it. And surely there are people who abuse the system, just because they can. But once you're walking in someone else's shoes for a bit, you get it.
So please know: it's not that most parents are asking for special treatment, it's that taking care of small children requires it. Little kids get sick...how can a 9 month old baby or a 2 year old toddler take care of him/herself? To stay healthy, babies have to have frequent checkups...and that's not including the times you need to rush them in last minute because something crazy is going on with them health-wise.
In addition, most daycares won't take kids until they're at least 6 weeks old. Which is really, really tiny.
I had an adequate maternity leave situation through my employer, but I still wish I could have spent at least 12 full weeks with her before going back to work. Unfortunately, I spent 4 of my 6 weeks paid leave on medical bedrest which only left me with 8, 6 of which were unpaid. We had we have bills to pay and I can't afford to quit my job. It's simply how it is for people who choose to have child(ren).”
oustfan replied on Jul 24, 2009 at 01:54:20
“I understand what you're saying... but it still doesn't change the fact that you're wanting employers to treat people differently based on their lifestyle choices.”
What Family Values? The Real Reason America Is Falling Behind the Rest of the World
Commented Jul 22, 2009 at 21:30:24 in Living
“Amen. Amen and amen. In addition, I would also like to see employers be kinder and gentler to mothers who need to breast pump at work. I chose to go to formula, but I work with mothers who pump and they're not allowed to pump when they need to...they have to do it on their designated planning/lunch period (you would think elementary school administrators would be more understanding, but nope--not in my world).
It smacks of chauvinism, all of it.”
It smacks of chauvinism, all of it.”
Steele: I'll Woo Blacks To GOP With "Fried Chicken And Potato Salad"
Commented Jul 14, 2009 at 16:10:33 in Politics
“Huh? He doesn't even make sense when he talks.
At the last gathering with large numbers of black (family) I was at, we ate spaghetti. Just sayin'.”
At the last gathering with large numbers of black (family) I was at, we ate spaghetti. Just sayin'.”
The Secret To Happiness: Don't Care!
Commented Jul 14, 2009 at 16:04:59 in Living
“I say this all the time myself. If people would just take care of themselves, and stop worrying about what everyone else was doing, saying, being? There'd be world peace. It's one of my classroom rules, as a matter of fact: Take care of yourself. Just take care of yourself. (Along with: To have a friend, you have to be a friend)
I follow my own advice/classroom rules about 85% of the time (translation: days I'm not hormonal) (you can click through my HP commentary here and see the days I'm hormonal, in fact...today, for instance, I'm super dandy; tomorrow, I may rip someone's head off because I care what they just said about me).
It's really not pretty, this caring what other people have to say about you; I feel so much more Zen when I don't give a **** than when I do. I really don't know how celebrities deal with it day in and day out.”
I follow my own advice/classroom rules about 85% of the time (translation: days I'm not hormonal) (you can click through my HP commentary here and see the days I'm hormonal, in fact...today, for instance, I'm super dandy; tomorrow, I may rip someone's head off because I care what they just said about me).
It's really not pretty, this caring what other people have to say about you; I feel so much more Zen when I don't give a **** than when I do. I really don't know how celebrities deal with it day in and day out.”
Why Americans Are The Worst Vacationers
Commented Jul 14, 2009 at 15:54:04 in Living
“Gosh, you're going to hate this, but I have to agree with Turtleposer. I've been embarrassed by my fellow citizens (my own frickin' mother is the WORST, by the way) while traveling outside the U.S., but I've befriended and hung out with enough ex-pats from various faraway lands now living stateside to see they are guilty of the same.
I think it's more of a human thing--people are most comfortable with what's familiar. It's scary to be in a place where nobody's doing it the way you're used to.”
I think it's more of a human thing--people are most comfortable with what's familiar. It's scary to be in a place where nobody's doing it the way you're used to.”
How Much More Pathetic Can the Washington Post Get? Sarah Palin
Commented Jul 14, 2009 at 15:31:06 in Media
“Wow, only one or two ! and no weird grammatical clusters. I give her ghost writer an A for the day.
Why does she keep pushing the drill baby drill thing? Why doesn't she latch onto a non-oil based fuel/energy? Something that will serve future generations, not just this one and the next?
Neo-con Republicans are so strange to me.”
Why does she keep pushing the drill baby drill thing? Why doesn't she latch onto a non-oil based fuel/energy? Something that will serve future generations, not just this one and the next?
Neo-con Republicans are so strange to me.”
Missouri Child Hunger Denier Believes Life Ends at Birth
Commented Jul 03, 2009 at 00:08:12 in Politics
“i teach in an elementary school where about 90% of our children are on free or reduced meals. sometimes the only meals they get all day are breakfast and lunch. when it's vacation time? we have children who cry because school is where they know they'll get at least 2 good meals.
this is the united states of america. no child--NO CHILD--should be hungry or cold at night. NO CHILD. people like this woman infuriate me. the fact she proclaims to love and follow a man who spent his life healing the sick and feeding the hungry infuriates me. the fact she sits in her holier-than-thou house, with her well-stocked holier-than-thou cupboards, telling everyone else what to do and how to do it infuriates me.
clearly, she's never read the Jesus story where he tells the one dude it's easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. all bibles should be recalled and reprinted, with her picture next to that parable.”
this is the united states of america. no child--NO CHILD--should be hungry or cold at night. NO CHILD. people like this woman infuriate me. the fact she proclaims to love and follow a man who spent his life healing the sick and feeding the hungry infuriates me. the fact she sits in her holier-than-thou house, with her well-stocked holier-than-thou cupboards, telling everyone else what to do and how to do it infuriates me.
clearly, she's never read the Jesus story where he tells the one dude it's easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. all bibles should be recalled and reprinted, with her picture next to that parable.”
Letter to Obama from a Dying Friend
Commented Jul 02, 2009 at 22:07:30 in Politics
“Beautiful, and true. This was a blessing to read, Mr. Gordon. I hope Mr. Obama is blessed by it, too. Peace to you and your family.”
Robert Gordon replied on Jul 02, 2009 at 23:50:51
“Thanks for your kind words. The comment below is a bit disturbing. I hope my response proves hopeful.
Gordon:
Your mind is far sicker than your body. How dare you trash the only Godly person in the election, Sarah Palin. And you praise the sorriest son-of-a-bitch on the planet. there’s a reservation for you in burning hell. You’ve earned it, as much as Obama.
G. D. Manuel
(Response)
Friends:
Thanks for your kind letters. Above? The one exception, the one that speaks to the darkest side of the American Spirit. I pass it along because regardless of what happens at the upper echelons, it’s up to us, the people, to not be daunted by those who speak from a place of fear, the womb of violence. And so, as citizen to citizen, as friend to friend, I ask you to respond not through argument or vitriol, but to rise above a small frightened man who lives in a Hell of his making. Let us pray that someday he transcends it.
His letter makes the choice so clear, so visible, so simple: to use what time we have to shun violence; embrace compassion, and re-dedicate ourselves to the ancient call: to tame the savageness of man and make gentle the life of this world. As evidenced by your letters, we’re not yearning to heed that call; we’re already acting upon it. The people lead; the leaders follow. The motif of our history; the reason for hope.
Robert”
Gordon:
Your mind is far sicker than your body. How dare you trash the only Godly person in the election, Sarah Palin. And you praise the sorriest son-of-a-bitch on the planet. there’s a reservation for you in burning hell. You’ve earned it, as much as Obama.
G. D. Manuel
(Response)
Friends:
Thanks for your kind letters. Above? The one exception, the one that speaks to the darkest side of the American Spirit. I pass it along because regardless of what happens at the upper echelons, it’s up to us, the people, to not be daunted by those who speak from a place of fear, the womb of violence. And so, as citizen to citizen, as friend to friend, I ask you to respond not through argument or vitriol, but to rise above a small frightened man who lives in a Hell of his making. Let us pray that someday he transcends it.
His letter makes the choice so clear, so visible, so simple: to use what time we have to shun violence; embrace compassion, and re-dedicate ourselves to the ancient call: to tame the savageness of man and make gentle the life of this world. As evidenced by your letters, we’re not yearning to heed that call; we’re already acting upon it. The people lead; the leaders follow. The motif of our history; the reason for hope.
Robert”
Hot Dog Road Trip: A Patriotic Party Plan
Commented Jul 02, 2009 at 00:53:53 in Style
“Some of my best heartburn was thanks to The Varsity. I'm more partial to their chili dog concoction, though.
.....and that Garbage Plate thing. Why has Andrew Zimmerman the Bizarre Foods guy not devoured it yet? Or that Francheesie thingy? Clearly, Andrew can do an entire show on bizarre hot dogs.
I do agree with Clint Eastwood about ketchup on dogs, though. My husband is eating has been hot dogs totally wrong, circa 1972. Sacrilege.”
.....and that Garbage Plate thing. Why has Andrew Zimmerman the Bizarre Foods guy not devoured it yet? Or that Francheesie thingy? Clearly, Andrew can do an entire show on bizarre hot dogs.
I do agree with Clint Eastwood about ketchup on dogs, though. My husband is eating has been hot dogs totally wrong, circa 1972. Sacrilege.”


