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Divorce Talk: The Worst Thing People Said To Me Post-Split

Divorce Talk: The Worst Thing People Said To Me Post-Split

Commented Apr 28, 2012 at 06:18:20 in Divorce

“I had people make comments out of ignorance. My husband left me with a text message (after 16 years) and committed bigamy days later. The strangeness of the story led it to be covered in the news. Some of the comments in the newspapers were extremely heartless and painful, especially for me to read while trying to come to terms with my new reality.

"If she had only had sex with him more..." I didn't realize there were people watching in my bedroom.

"Boy, that wife must be terrible for him to leave her like that." Regardless of me, since when is it okay to commit a felony while leaving your spouse?

"I feel really sorry for the new wife." Well, okay, so do I.

http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com
'Divorce Is': Tweeters Share Their Definitions

'Divorce Is': Tweeters Share Their Definitions

Commented Apr 24, 2012 at 21:28:46 in Divorce

“Different for everyone. Devastating for most. A turning point for some.
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Divorce Rate: Satoshi Kanazawa Says Allowing Polygamy Would Bring Down Divorce Rate (VIDEO)

Divorce Rate: Satoshi Kanazawa Says Allowing Polygamy Would Bring Down Divorce Rate (VIDEO)

Commented Apr 24, 2012 at 20:50:12 in Divorce

“My husband didn't try to legalize polygamy, he simply committed bigamy without my knowledge. In his case, it wasn't about trying to accumulate more wives; he was trying to create a new life because he screwed up the first one too much. My take - if you don't want to be monogamous, don't get married.
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turkeyfish on Apr 26, 2012 at 12:58:51

“Often it happens that people don't recognize that until after they are married. Few of us were born wise, and it would seem fewer still die wise.”
Body Image: Swimsuit Shopping Puts Women In A Bad Mood, Increases Self-Objectification (STUDY)

Body Image: Swimsuit Shopping Puts Women In A Bad Mood, Increases Self-Objectification (STUDY)

Commented Apr 24, 2012 at 05:31:20 in Women

“I grew up in a family that frequented nudist hang-outs. As I became a teenager, I realized that I felt more insecure about my body in a bathing suit than I did nude. There is something about how the suit hides and reveals that made me agonize over my body in a way I never considered when it is in its natural state. So, I guess one way to avoid buying a bikini is to swim in your birthday suit:)
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Banchee24 on Apr 24, 2012 at 18:07:56

“Hi, let's go swimming.”
The Best Gluten-Free Breads: Our Taste Test Results

The Best Gluten-Free Breads: Our Taste Test Results

Commented Apr 22, 2012 at 07:16:12 in Taste

“I think you have to redefine your idea of "good" with certain gluten free foods, bread included. I was thrilled with my 'Tweason Ale last night, but I have to release the memory of how good Guiness tastes to enjoy it. I'm not a fan of any of the prepared GF breads, but I do like the Gluten Free Pantry's mixes and they are easy to use and the results freeze well.
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Life After Divorce: Does Divorce Affect Your Well-Being?

Life After Divorce: Does Divorce Affect Your Well-Being?

Commented Apr 21, 2012 at 06:10:53 in Divorce

“Divorce can be a painful and alienating transition. Some people are able to more beyond it, making the well-being hit a temporary one. Others seem to get stuck in the bog of divorce and suffer for a lengthier time. In my opinion, this study indicates that there are a large number of divorced people who would benefit from more support and assistance in learning how to overcome their pain.
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Grounds For Divorce: Which Reasons For Divorce Are The Strangest? (PHOTOS)

Grounds For Divorce: Which Reasons For Divorce Are The Strangest? (PHOTOS)

Commented Apr 19, 2012 at 19:20:12 in Divorce

“My husband married another woman. I'd say that was grounds for divorce!
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JFaye on Apr 21, 2012 at 14:46:37

“This actually happened to my best friend from high school through college ... Her legal husband married three other women while being married to her... All the times he was away at night, she thought he was away on business. As she would say, "He likes getting married. The dope (being nice here) was too cheap to divorce anyone." Actually after a meeting with two of the other wives, they agree he thought divorce was too expensive. Crazy people out here!!!”

onionboy on Apr 20, 2012 at 11:14:28

“Mrs. Gingrich, I am so sorry.”

logic123 on Apr 20, 2012 at 10:45:03

“My husband did the same. We had been separated for a good six years. When I tracked him down after he filed papers, his neighbors pointed to me which house on the block he lived in... with his wife, son and dog. When he and I got married he made me give up my dog because he found them to be a nuisance. I gave the dog to my coworker and took it back after I moved away from my husband. All the signs were there that he was a prick, I just ignored them.”

k1979 on Apr 20, 2012 at 10:00:12

“Yeah, I'd say that counts as a valid reason. Wow.”

Charlotte Bonnie on Apr 20, 2012 at 08:26:13

“Yikes!”

MissFrijole on Apr 20, 2012 at 07:24:18

“What?? He did that while he was still married to you? Geez...you would think they would investigate people's marital status before handing out marriage licenses like candy! Sorry that happened to you!”
Bike Commuting Tips: <em>Bicycling Magazine</em>'s 5 Solutions For Your Cycling Worries

Bike Commuting Tips: Bicycling Magazine's 5 Solutions For Your Cycling Worries

Commented Apr 19, 2012 at 05:14:48 in Healthy Living

“Umm...you didn't address mine: I can barely ride a bike:(
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nopojoe on Apr 19, 2012 at 23:18:15

“answer: start riding more, in safe areas. venture out when you are more comfortable. make it social, and make it fun”
Financial Services Guy Uses Excel Spreadsheet For Match.com Dating

Financial Services Guy Uses Excel Spreadsheet For Match.com Dating

Commented Apr 18, 2012 at 20:56:22 in Business

“I used a spreadsheet for Match.com. But that's because I'm a geek, not a creepy stalker.
http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/2012/02/14/spreadsheets-c…l-dating-tools/”
Let's Start A New Trend: The Divorce Registry

Let's Start A New Trend: The Divorce Registry

Commented Apr 17, 2012 at 17:17:31 in Divorce

“I thought about this when I was suddenly abandoned by my husband. I never had a wedding registry because we already had an established household. After my divorce, I was left with nothing, high legal fees, and the daunting task of setting up a new household. I never had a divorce registry, but I did have amazing friends that provided a home for a year and helped me to get back on my feet.
http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/2012/02/12/wanted-the-ron…ntly-separated/”
Dooce Divorce: Heather Armstrong Reveals Why She Blogged About Split (VIDEO)

Dooce Divorce: Heather Armstrong Reveals Why She Blogged About Split (VIDEO)

Commented Apr 16, 2012 at 20:08:39 in Divorce

“Blogs and other social media can be used as a positive support platform for those undergoing trauma and change. It allows people to give and receive support in a semi-anonymous forum that can assist in the healing process. I applaud Heather Armstrong for using her public site to engage people in discussion about divorce and its effects.
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Beth Ism on Apr 18, 2012 at 13:56:29

“Absolutely.”

divorcedpauline on Apr 17, 2012 at 00:42:56

“Agreed!”
Fit Links: Be A Better Runner, Adventure Races And More

Fit Links: Be A Better Runner, Adventure Races And More

Commented Apr 15, 2012 at 06:09:12 in Healthy Living

“First, I never claimed to be a world-class sprinter, which certainly has a large genetic component. I choose to sprint for fun and fitness. I do plenty of strength and endurance work, but yoga helps by improving flexibility, thus improving biomechanics and making my stride more efficient.”

Cyrus Trance on Apr 15, 2012 at 13:27:57

“Strength training and technique are important in sprinting. Learning to relax while maintaining stride length and leg speed is the goal.

When I first started college I had a really good coach who stressed strength training and technique. He later became the Dallas Cowboys conditioning coach.

Yoga will not build any significant strength, explosive power, or running technique. Stretching your hamstrings will help stride length but if you lack strength then its all for nothing.

Every good sprinter I ever ran against was strong.”
Fit Links: Be A Better Runner, Adventure Races And More

Fit Links: Be A Better Runner, Adventure Races And More

Commented Apr 14, 2012 at 06:52:26 in Healthy Living

“I've been surprised at how much my running has improved by adding hot yoga to my training. I've become faster and I'm not as sore. Even my sprint buddy has noticed the change in my stride!
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Cyrus Trance on Apr 15, 2012 at 04:12:17

“Never heard of getting faster by doing yoga.

Yoga is not really a good strength or endurance builder.

Sprinters are born not made.”
Slayer Introduces 'Reign In Blood' Wine

Slayer Introduces 'Reign In Blood' Wine

Commented Apr 14, 2012 at 06:46:41 in Home

“Wine and metal? Yes, please:)
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Nutritional Yeast: The Surprisingly Tasty Health Food

Nutritional Yeast: The Surprisingly Tasty Health Food

Commented Apr 14, 2012 at 06:45:19 in Taste

“I add it to many savory dishes, but my two favorite uses are very simple. I sprinkle it on popcorn and love it mixed into scrambled egg whites. It adds great flavor without the butter or salt:)
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Sugar In Food: 8 Eats With More Than A Twinkie

Sugar In Food: 8 Eats With More Than A Twinkie

Commented Apr 10, 2012 at 20:20:50 in Healthy Living

“Dried fruit is a "healthy" source of sugar that fools many people. Watch out for those raisins hiding in granola, baked goods, and cereals...their sugar and calories adds up quickly!
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missy mitten on Apr 11, 2012 at 02:02:56

“I refuse to believe a handful of raisins is in any way unhealthy.”
Miley Cyrus: Gluten-Free Diet Is Responsible For Weight Loss

Miley Cyrus: Gluten-Free Diet Is Responsible For Weight Loss

Commented Apr 10, 2012 at 19:35:19 in Healthy Living

“I've been gluten free for 5 years due to intolerance (never bothered to be tested for celiac). My athletic build is due to an overall healthy plant-based diet and consistent and intense exercise, NOT the elimination of gluten. Especially now with the popularity of gluten-free foods, I could junk all day long if I wanted to. It is important not to get so hung up on a piece of a diet that we fail to look at the big picture.
http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com
Spinach Recipes For When You're Sick Of Kale

Spinach Recipes For When You're Sick Of Kale

Commented Apr 9, 2012 at 18:19:18 in Taste

“I love to make spinach smoothies: frozen mango, pineapple juice, and spinach! If I want a richer, more filling smoothie, I make this one: ice, banana, almond butter, vanilla protein powder, cinnamon, and spinach. The spinach is easily overpowered by the other flavors and it adds great nutrition to a quick snack or meal.
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Cupik on Apr 18, 2012 at 14:09:14

“instead of ice, try frozen blueberries - we get our green by putting superfood in our smoothies.

Our teenage sons are now smoothie junkies - they ask if they've done something wrong if they don't get a smoothie in the morning.”

DennisTheMenance on Apr 11, 2012 at 09:48:14

“You Don't have to make Spinach or Asparagus a MAIN Course.. Just an Additivie like Lettuace and Tomatoe and Oinions..Mix them into your Burgers, Hot Dogs as your Condommints..It's tasteless and Has Twice the Vitamins than Lettauce and Tomato..
A Simple Spoon Full size is all that is needed to be added..
Eat that 2-3x a week and your alot better off than Nothing..aren't you?”

natal plum on Apr 11, 2012 at 09:42:30

“Sounds utterly disgusting”
Divorce Books: HuffPost Divorce Readers Recommend The Books They Read During Their Divorce

Divorce Books: HuffPost Divorce Readers Recommend The Books They Read During Their Divorce

Commented Apr 8, 2012 at 18:08:37 in Divorce

“I went to extremes after my divorce. On one hand, I read books like the True Blood series because I could keep up with the story even if I read it between crying jags and the silliness distracted me. I also turned to The Sociopath Next Door (Martha Stout) to try to understand my ex-husband and Waking the Tiger (Peter Levine) to learn how to heal from the emotional and physical trauma of the divorce. Once some clarity of thought returned, I enjoyed theoretical physics books that reminded me of how small my problems really were.
http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com
Prettier Skin.. A Clearer Head.. And 8 Other Perks To A Good Night's Sleep

Prettier Skin.. A Clearer Head.. And 8 Other Perks To A Good Night's Sleep

Commented Apr 3, 2012 at 15:25:57 in Healthy Living

“Why does this have to be the headline on a day when I am dragging after waking up at 2:30 am, unable to get back to sleep. Not fair, Huffington Post. Not fair.
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Start Over Smart Divorce Expo: Opening Night Party

Start Over Smart Divorce Expo: Opening Night Party

Commented Apr 2, 2012 at 16:15:33 in Divorce

“Oh, that is too funny. I wish it were a Freudian slip, but it's most likely not enough coffee and/or no contacts in yet:)”

lizp33558 on Apr 3, 2012 at 06:56:55

“lol, you have a good sense of humor”
Start Over Smart Divorce Expo: Opening Night Party

Start Over Smart Divorce Expo: Opening Night Party

Commented Apr 2, 2012 at 05:08:23 in Divorce

“Those early stages of divorce are a very alienating time. It is beneficial to be able to talk to others who are going through a similar trauma. Perhaps the best part of the expo is that it takes discussion of divorce out of hushed tones and moves it into the pubic eye.
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ILoveGreatDanes on Apr 2, 2012 at 14:10:44

“"pubic eye." Freudian slip?”
Kate Schermerhorn: 'The Moment I Knew My Marriage Was Over'

Kate Schermerhorn: 'The Moment I Knew My Marriage Was Over'

Commented Mar 28, 2012 at 19:10:04 in Divorce

“I knew mine was over when I received the following text: "I am sorry to be such a coward telling you this way, but I am leaving you and leaving the state." This was after 16 years together. We were planning a trip to the coast for the following weekend. Instead, he married another that weekend, committing bigamy. Over with a capital O.
http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com

Califishing on Apr 3, 2012 at 03:18:57

madhooker on Mar 28, 2012 at 19:21:18

“That is a valid reason for a marriage to end. Realizing one day out of the blue that you hate the sound of your husband chewing is not. Maybe the sound of the chewing made Kate realize that there were many other aspects of the marriage driving her nuts; regardless, the video as it is makes her sound pretty pathetic.”
Divorce Expo: HuffPost Divorce Hosts A Panel On Infidelity At Start Over Smart Expo In NYC

Divorce Expo: HuffPost Divorce Hosts A Panel On Infidelity At Start Over Smart Expo In NYC

Commented Mar 28, 2012 at 06:29:38 in Divorce

“I am glad you stumbled upon the link:) Wish the best for you in your journey.”
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