“Well, it is all a matter of attitude. With that attitude, yeah, a person would be single. But I know tons of ostomates and many of them have partners and spouses, many of them got together after their surgeries. The right partner won't care.”
“so you are calling this woman a liar?you know people with cancer and they dont smell but this woman says she smells because she has cancer. hmmmmm.
so why am I insensitive?
how many people with cancer who have died have YOU cared for? i have cared for 3 including my husband who died at 50. and yes,they smelled from chemo and medicine and not being able to hold their bowels.adult diapers smell worse than babies becuase it is ADULT crap!
so dont get sanctimonius on me! I LIVED IT!”
“thats why i choose not to have a colostomy bag and be fatter than i should be rather have a hard time going or not go at all for long times.. the doctors swear that it doesnt smell , and a lot of people have no problems,etc,etc.
there are a lot of diseases that give people foul odors.
if i were the mother,i would keep my child home or let someone else go to the school in my place.
i wonder if she has been asked to leave public places like restaurants?
i had a husband and friends and family die of cancer,and yes the smells are somethimes intolerable,that is why i would never subject others to it if i could avoid it.
i know most people dont like it,but i feel she is playing a sympathy card here.
this is not a teachable moment for the children,this is something that will ruin it for everyone.,”
Sally R on Nov 17, 2013 at 21:58:35
“People with ostomies don't smell if they take care of themselves. It is 2013. Ostomy supplies are odor-proof.”
nightingale11 on Nov 16, 2013 at 23:25:41
“What a wonderfully compassionate individual you are. I hope your kids don't pick up your attitude and outlook. As a Nurse Practitioner, I can tell you there are many alternatives. Too bad you have a closed mind.”
Kate Feiner Botts on Nov 16, 2013 at 23:13:11
“You are just horrible insensitive human being. I have know people with cancer and they don't smell!”
Kindheart 101 Returns on Nov 16, 2013 at 22:54:58
“I'm sorry for your illness, but mostly for your point of view.
“i hasve not made it.it is an ongoing struggle.
but that is part of the treatment. keep taking the meds,keep telling yourself " i refuse to be them".
i have not a drop of friends or family to help either,but thats ok.”
Joyce Fleetwood Collins on Nov 14, 2013 at 11:43:33
“I wish you well and much sucess. Sometimes "friends" can be more harmful than helpfl though, a family member f ours has friends like that. They pretend to love her then drag her back down. I think she's learning though. Good luck and never give up”
“i have. NOBODY needs to get high.like nobody needs to beat their kids or wife because it was done to them.
there are resources available if you want.it take a bit of effort.ask for help!
i have never gotten high as i have family memeber who are addicts and mentally ill.
i have major depression.i make sure i take my meds and see a doctor and therapist. i do withouit to go to doctors.
i KNOW what my background is! the physical and mental abuse .the addiction.
and i and many others have made a CONSCIENCE EFFORT to avoid the problems.
i am nothing special,but if i can ,so can others.
it is a choice!”
“plenty of children are needing homes.
but oh no,we all want our own baby. if ya wanted kids bad enough ,you would have made any child a parent.
all the m oney you spent,could have given so many children a great life.”
“bipolar? go to therapist and doctor,get your medicine take it,get help. go on with life.
and dont have kids!
this from the daughter of bipolar father who ruined 3 children's lives.”
Joyce Fleetwood Collins on Nov 14, 2013 at 10:34:21
“So sorry to hear that, but I was only pointing out some factors for addiction causes. As a nurse I have seen it many times i the past. Not everyone is strong enough to get through it. Luckily you sound you you have made it”
having memebers of my family die from both breast cancer AND addiction,i can tell you something!
First,breast cancer isnt something you bring on yourself! nothing you have done makes you deserve it!
HOWEVER, addiction is something you do to yourself and your loved ones, nobody told you to do drugs ! nobody forced you to get high. and you could have avoided it all by not starting.and you could have sought treatment immediately!
the addicts in my family cost me over 100k from stealing from my bank and forging my name etc.stealing my jewelry and other things. one died,one is in jail and the others just keep going in their flophouses. hard drugs or "prescription" they are addicts. I am done with them! they have hurt their children ,parents,friends.
i dont feel sorry for any of them and if they all died,the world would be a better place!
dont EVER classify breast cancer with these scum of the earth!
my cousins died,good women with children,decent women who worked hard and never diod a damn thing to deserve death!”
Kristen K Hz on Nov 21, 2013 at 10:39:37
“I am so sorry for your pain. You can find relief from your resentments in Al-Anon or Naranon. You deserve to step out of the anger and live a happy life regardless of what your family members have done or are doing today. http://www.al-anon.org/”
“and what about the millions of couples who cannot have a baby? are they not married?”
Kurt Reply on Nov 10, 2013 at 18:50:49
“Most states offer legal recourse for those who find out they are infertile. They can have their marriage annulled as if it never happened, so the fertile partner can find a more fulfilling relationship. That can't happen if the two who enter a marriage already know they are infertile with each other. That is one right that heterosexual marriages will have that gay ones can never have.”
“so children are not allowed to have imaginations?
ever play" cops n robbers"? "cowboys n indians"? oh i forgot,too politically incorrect!
kids have imaginations. they write and draw about stuff and as long as they dont hurt other kids and animals let them have their fantasies!
especially in fall,when they dream of halloweeen costumes for months!
i think it is just the way boys are made.crashing their little cars,jumping on each other ,being rough. it lets out the agression that is ingrained.
leave the kid alone!”
“the employees are careless. i have had lids on soda spill when being handed to me. and i never buy hot coffee there,it is too damn hot. i do but the iced coffee.all summer it was $1 for a large.
dont usually buy food from them,well an occasional breakfast burrito.”
“because not just "american girls" do it. bronwinn1021 just assumes American girls do things,which is not true.
european women are trashy and dont say they are not.
and if Indian women were not so secluded,they would probably be the same way.
I am so sick of people saying how bad American women are.”
clandestine on Nov 1, 2013 at 12:20:56
“As an American woman, I am sick of hearing us being trashed too. I really think it would help, if we would stop acting like trash. I also agree, European women are just as trashy, however, as long as they are pointing fingers at us, fewer eyes are on them. Not really sure what any of this has to do with the commercial, though.”