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Fighting Stereotypes One Day At A Time

Posted: 03/18/2012 10:17 am

In a sea full of software engineers, I stick out like a sore thumb. So much, in fact, that I often need to clarify what I'm doing in a crowd of Silicon Valley's tech elites. The biggest red flag? I'm female.

When I explain that I'm a software engineer, people often respond with surprised expressions or snarky quips about not looking like a "typical" engineer. Most women would find these responses offensive, but these are actually the moments I celebrate most.

Situations like these are the breakthrough moments when stereotypes start to disintegrate. The preconceived notion that software engineers look a certain way, dress a certain way, or act a certain way no longer hold true. For me, witnessing someone reevaluate their opinion about women's role in technology is empowering, and being the catalyst of these moments is even more rewarding.

I've enjoyed challenging gender stereotypes since childhood. Growing up, I had two main passions: art and computers. These two passions came to a standoff in high school when a class schedule conflict made it impossible for me to take courses in both topics. I had to make a choice: Art with my best girl friend or Intro to Programming with a room full of boys that I had nothing in common with. I chose Intro to Programming.

I immediately felt like an outsider in the programming class. I drew even more unwelcome attention to myself when I wore my cheerleading uniform to class. The first time I did this, the teacher laughed unapologetically at the sight of a cheerleader in his class. According to him, cheerleaders don't program.

My self-consciousness quickly faded when the first test of the term came back, and the top score came to me. As he handed back the test scribbled with "100%" on the top, he looked me once over in my cheerleading uniform and gave me a nod of surprise and approval. I said nothing at that moment, but I knew I had silently screamed a disruptive message to him: Cheerleaders CAN program. And they can program damn well.

Ever since high school, I've thrived on breaking the stereotypes of what it means to be a software engineer. I remember getting advice before starting my first job about dressing professionally, so people would take me seriously. The rules were:

1). No high heels.
2). No skirts.
3). Nothing "girly."

Apparently, to be taken seriously meant blending in as best I could. But I didn't want to compromise my self-expression. I love wearing nail polish. And four-inch heels. That doesn't mean I'm sacrificing any part of being an engineer.

I've worked in a male-dominated video game industry where I got to build platinum titles such as Dead Space and The Simpsons Game. I've been a software engineer at tech giants Google and now Facebook, where I get to build products for hundreds of millions of users. Each experience has taught me so much, allowed me to work with some of the smartest people in the world, and has given me the opportunity to succeed as a woman in technology.

I'm proud of my career -- not just because I love what I do, but because it has challenged so many expectations on what women are capable of. And by challenging these stereotypes, women can break them down little by little until they no longer exist.

 
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In a sea full of software engineers, I stick out like a sore thumb. So much, in fact, that I often need to clarify what I'm doing in a crowd of Silicon Valley's tech elites. The biggest red flag? I'm...
In a sea full of software engineers, I stick out like a sore thumb. So much, in fact, that I often need to clarify what I'm doing in a crowd of Silicon Valley's tech elites. The biggest red flag? I'm...
 
 
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10:37 PM on 03/21/2012
Thanks Sophia for sharing your story. I was one of very few women in electrical engineering school in the 80's. One professor actually told me I should drop out to leave a space for a man who might have a wife and children to support. This world needs the talent and diversity of thought women bring to bear on solving problems. Women and girls in science and technology need continued support and strong role models. It is always difficult to take the road less traveled regardless of who you are and where that road leads, but the rewards are worth the journey.
04:17 PM on 04/01/2012
I've lived in silicon valley for 20 years. I've met exactly ONE female programmer. They simply do not exist.
01:08 PM on 03/21/2012
I am currently a woman Computer Science student attending a UC and this article was very inspiring to me. Whenever I tell someone I'm a computer science major, their first response is, "You don't look like the type!" Definitely fighting the stereotype. Thanks for this article, it has definitely given me encouragement to stay strong and persevere.
12:07 PM on 03/21/2012
I work as a application support analyst for a software company. There are about 10% women in our company and we exclusively deal with the customer's IT crew, not the end user.
It's actually rare, but every now and then one of us comes across someone that is not satisfied until one of our guys tells him the very same thing. Other than that I'm simply one of the guys here and I love it.
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08:17 AM on 03/21/2012
I think conversations on gender stereotypes like these are important to be have with girls and young women. It's about middle school to high school where self-consciousness in identity begins to affect life choices. Wouldn't it be nice when what a woman is wearing (or not wearing) is not considered the most relevant part of the conversation?

Congratulations on your career, Ms. Chung.
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Feanor
I want my jewels back.
05:00 PM on 03/20/2012
We certainly could use some distaff in my shop.
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MsLMPride
03:14 PM on 03/20/2012
Thank you for this post--you gotta love a smart, confident, proud-to-be-woman software engineer.
02:23 PM on 03/20/2012
Good for you for screaming that message to people.

In an industry dominated by males, I think its refreshing that you're able to be yourself and all that it entails. Hopefully more girls and women will follow this type of lead and not be afraid to let themselves shine through.
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02:14 PM on 03/20/2012
Chung's battle to fight stereotypes is undermined by her own. No woman should wear 4" heels, they are VERY bad for your feet, legs and even back. That she felt the need to wear them to be 'girlish' shows her own submission to a very unfortunate stereotype.
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03:00 PM on 03/21/2012
I'd have to agree. Plus I don't know how many pairs of quite conservative heels - maybe 3 cm - I ruined by having them fall through the cracks in computer flooring back in the day. Also slacks or very long skirts were necessary for crawling around on the floor disconnecting/reconnecting cables on hardware.
08:18 AM on 03/20/2012
I am in tech sales/consulting........I dress the way that I want to. I am not a "suit" female. I dress in colour, high heels and quite feminine. I will NOT compromise who I am by changing my style which is my personality. The men that hired me thought that I was a breath of fresh air...so if anyone "out there" in the field have a problem...then so be it. I was hired for my experience and brains...not my attire.
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m a x
04:31 AM on 03/20/2012
Is this an essay about "Id" ?
02:45 AM on 03/20/2012
stereotypes are hard to break..be it on one's sex and can be on one's race.. but keep fighting the good fight..
01:24 AM on 03/20/2012
Wow, you nailed this article to the T. I feel this way a lot as an AA Software Engineer/CTO in the bay area. I love to be versatile in the way I dress. I'm from NY, so I tend to dress differently than most - it is what it is. People are just way too shocked when I tell them what I do, it's condescending.
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JackieSmith890
02:50 PM on 03/20/2012
there's a huge difference between a woman who works as a software engineer and a guy from new york who has a different style of dress. do not compare the two. you have no clue what kind of garbage women put up with on a daily basis in jobs like these, and your comment proves it.
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ActaNonVerbaNow
12:58 AM on 03/20/2012
I'm concerned about all the torn rotators cuffs from self back patting I'm seeing here. Be careful ladies.
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Elijah Hathaway
05:02 AM on 03/20/2012
I was just about to post a back patting analogy til I saw yours.
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ActaNonVerbaNow
06:04 AM on 03/20/2012
The thing is Elijah, imagine people really facing discrimination or fear of being ostracized. They do the opposite of gloat when they do well in their situations. They keep their mouths shut because they fear that making the bigots that don't like them (for their sex, race, religions, whatever) hate them even more (because of envy). How many men who are early childhood educators, nurses, etc.. do you see writing grand articles about themselves? Pretty much none. They don't want jealous women they work with out to get them.
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02:14 PM on 03/20/2012
There's an app for that;) The Virtual Back Patter, coming to a mobile phone online market near you;!
08:54 PM on 03/19/2012
What??? - Women are waaaay better at everything.. including programming
08:21 PM on 03/19/2012
I love this article. I am a systems administrator and the only female in our IT group. I too wear trendy clothes and 4 inch heels (and yes, I have racked, cabled and built several servers in heels in several data centers). I have been mistaken for a project manager or HR personnel so many times. There have also been many occassions that I had to fight vendors and other IT folks to prove that I know what I'm talking about. Luckily, I have a boss who is forward thinking and had put me in the forefront on a lot of our projects because he saw what i'm capable of. It is still a daily battle but I have to say that I do love the challenge.
10:34 PM on 03/19/2012
inspiring! thanks for sharing that :)
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05:45 AM on 03/20/2012
I cannot imagine lifting a 50 pound server in four inch heels. :-)
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02:15 PM on 03/20/2012
Fortunately, few servers are that heavy nowadays;)