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The Surprise of Being a Christian

Posted: 06/03/10 01:00 PM ET

Hannah's Child: A Theologian's Memoir has been out for not quite a month, but in that time I have received more letters about the book than any book I have ever written. I am not sure why that is the case, but it seems that I have struck a nerve. That I come from the working classes evokes for many a sympathetic reading. Others respond to my having lived for over twenty years with a wife that suffered from bipolar illness. The significance of friendship for sustaining my life also seems significant to many readers. The response I find most surprising is the surprise many express about my surprise that I am a Christian.

That a theologian should be surprised about being a Christian may seem strange, particularly among folk who have little sympathy with Christianity. They often assume that theologians by definition must believe in what they think about. That, of course, is a deep mistake made, particularly in recent times. Many who become theologians in our time think their task is to try to determine how much of what has passed for Christianity they still need to believe and yet still be able to think of themselves as Christians. I discovered, however, that I did not know enough about Christianity to know what I was disbelieving.

There are good reasons for me not to be a Christian. Hannah's Child begins with the story of how I came to be. My mother, who came from dirt poor Mississippi folk, and my bricklaying father married late. They had trouble having a child. My mother had heard the story of Hannah and Samuel, so she prayed that if God would give her a son she would give that son to God. That was a perfectly appropriate thing for her to do, but as I observe she did not have to tell me she had made such a promise. In particular, she did not have to tell me when I was six. That she told me was surely grounds sufficient for me to have nothing to do with Christianity.

Moreover being in the "trades" makes one very suspicious of the "nice" people who are Christians. I was taken out to the job by the time I was seven. I labored for bricklayers for many summers, finally learning to lay brick in my teens. "The job" is not exactly a place for those that think what it means to be a Christian is to model middle-class morality. I was not attracted to a church that seemed filled with people whose manners legitimated their presumption that they were my superiors.

I became a theologian because I could not "get saved." I was raised in an evangelical Methodist church. Evangelical meant that though you had been baptized and made a member of the church on Sunday morning, you still had to be "saved" on Sunday night. I wanted to be saved but I did not think you should fake it. So finally sometime in my middle teens, while we were singing during the altar call "I Surrender All" for the twenty-fifth time, I surrendered. That is, I dedicated my life to the Lord assuming that if God was not going to save me, I could put God in my debt by going into the ministry. That has never happened, but it did put me on the road to college.

By the time I had got to college, I had begun to read and had decided that most of what Christians believed could not be credible. So I became a philosophy major at Southwestern University in Georgetown, Texas. It was by reading philosophy that I discovered that I did not know enough about Christianity to know if it was true or not. So I went to Yale Divinity School not to study for the ministry but to find out if the stuff was true. God help me, I fell in love with theology, and in particular the theology of Karl Barth. I have now spent a lifetime thinking about God.

That I have spent my life thinking about God, moreover, has gotten me into a lot of trouble. I did not expect to discover that being a Christian might put one crossways with the assumptions that shape "normality" -- assumptions that make war unproblematic -- but like it or not, I became convinced that Christians cannot kill. I even think that Christians must tell the truth -- even to those they love. As a result, I have never found being a Christian easy.

I observe in Hannah's Child that most people do not have to become theologians to be a Christian, but I probably did. I still find it surprising that I am a Christian. God is just not there for me the way God is there for some people. I am not complaining. I assume that that is the way God works to make some of us have to think hard about what it means to worship God. I use the language of worship rather than belief because I am never sure if I believe in God. I do not trust myself enough to take what I believe seriously. But I do worship God, and I do so with joy.

Theologians seldom write memoirs. There are many good reasons we do not. No doubt the main reason is that we, academics that we are, have not lived lives interesting enough to write about. Yet people tell me that Hannah's Child is a page-turner. I am glad they think so, but I am not surprised. I am not surprised because it seems to me that the God who raised Jesus from the dead is full of surprises.

 
 
 
Hannah's Child: A Theologian's Memoir has been out for not quite a month, but in that time I have received more letters about the book than any book I have ever written. I am not sure why that is th...
Hannah's Child: A Theologian's Memoir has been out for not quite a month, but in that time I have received more letters about the book than any book I have ever written. I am not sure why that is th...
 
 
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Kathleen Kelly
attorney, progressive Democrat
10:43 PM on 06/13/2010
Although I admire this interpretation of Christianity, I still find Christianity itself to be exceedingly narrow. There are many other faiths and philosophies that also disavow war and lying on an ethical basis. So why does Hauerwas claim Christianity as a belief?
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Beth Boyle
10:01 PM on 06/08/2010
To be a Christian is to question the status quo and it will forever put you out of sync with pop culture and with the mainstream. If you really live a Christian life you have to have guts and you have to forget about your selfish ambitions. America today is a very hard place to be a genuine Christian.
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GeorgioSutton
05:57 PM on 06/09/2010
Every single Christian has a different has an answer like this and seem to imply that they are living the true Christian life and everyone else is doing it wrong. Why not just drop the iron age scripture and lies and live a good life based on morals that we all view as acceptable.
02:13 PM on 06/10/2010
"Groupthink"?
03:44 PM on 06/10/2010
I agree, Georgio. The thing I find insulting is when Christians insist we need the Bible to instill "values" in us. Like it isn't common sense to be polite to your parents and neighbors, and not kill people???
07:19 AM on 06/11/2010
As you can see, dear Beth Boyle, the Bible gets no respect because of the mischief of our Post-Christian Founding Fathers.

They gifted us with a Godless Constitution and displaced the Bible from being the law of our land.

Are you jealous of Theocracies?

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OMG1
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04:47 PM on 06/08/2010
bsmithslo compares the belief in mystical magical being to homsexuality. Being a homosexual, and ironically I just happen to be one, is a glitch in the genetic code. Some of my wires didn't connect where they should and I turned out gay. However, being gay, I reallize, is not what I should have been. I will not further the species but I may assist others with their efforts to care for a promote the species.

My homosexuality does not interfere with my ability to understand what reality is. Reality is that the normal homosapien animals should be able and willing to procreate. I tried it once and it was icky to say the least. I am willing to admit that my homosexuality is abnormal but there is nothing I can do about it. My homosexuality does not require that I suspend rational thought and believe in ridiculously absurd.

The belief in magical and mythical beings may indeed be genetic and a by-product and continuance of childhood fantasies. However, as a grown adult it becomes something else entirely different especially when presented overwhelming evidence to the contrary. The unwillingness to throw out the blanky even when you know the blanky provides no real safety or protection is worrisome and a little disturbing.

Religion is dying a slow and painful death thanks to Copernicus, Newton, Galileo, Darwin, Einstein,Wilson, Dawkins and many other critical thinkers and scientists.
08:12 PM on 06/08/2010
As a Christian, I can only agree with you that religion is dying. And I thank God for it. Christianity is the anti-Religion. The idea that there is a Supreme Being somewhere out there manipulating world events so that those who believe in it have security and that those who don't believe in it will suffer - that idea is dying. Thank God. But that Supreme Being has nothing to do with the God revealed in Jesus. The God revealed in Jesus doesn't provide security. Just look at the life of Jesus. Read what Hauerwas wrote. For you it's magic and myth. Fine. For us, it's a way of life that calls us to actively love all, including our enemies. It calls us to live in a spirit of forgivness, not revenge. It's a challenging way of life - not a secure way of life.
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Aldo Rodriguez
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02:37 PM on 06/11/2010
Agreed (and as fellow Christian) and Fanned!
11:56 PM on 06/12/2010
Right on. Its time for Christians to actually live out Christs teachings.
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OMG1
The Myth Slayer
01:36 PM on 06/08/2010
When I was a little boy I had a blanky and an invisible friend and the both gave me a great sense of comfort and protection. However, they in reality did no such thing but that did not change how I felt as a child. As adults, you have simply traded your blanky and invisible friend for God. Same thing.
03:46 PM on 06/08/2010
I agree that this is part of the inspiration behind religion. The other is crowd control.
04:11 PM on 06/08/2010
I'm wondering if you actually read the article. Hauerwas says that Christianity is not a comfort for him. That it challenges him to be honest. It challenges him to offer forgiveness rather than to seek revenge. The god you are against in not the Christian God. The inspiration of Jesus is not worldly comfort; rather it is to care for the poor, visit those in prison, give water to the thirsty, feed the hungry, clothe the naked. The inspiration is not "crowd control" - far from it. It's about absorbing the violence of the crowd and offering forgiveness in return. That's what Jesus did. That's what he invites his followers to do. As Hauerwas points out, it's far from easy and far from comforting. But it is the challenge of love Jesus gives to a violent world.
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04:52 PM on 06/08/2010
Did you get in fights with the other kids over whose blanky was better?
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OMG1
The Myth Slayer
05:22 PM on 06/08/2010
Yes almost led to nuclear war... well not really but we did fight about who had the bigger missile. LOL
02:30 AM on 06/08/2010
This second last column puts in to words how I often want to describe my faith, when talking with other evangelicals who want to find out if they can save me or not.
11:17 PM on 06/07/2010
The dilemma of the atheist is that the heart and mind of Jesus can only be had after conversion and an in-filling with the Holy Spirit, which in itself takes faith to experience.
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MikeHermit
Proud Atheist
11:26 PM on 06/07/2010
That is no dilemma. I do not have the same dilemma in believing in Santa Claus, unicorns, tooth fairys and such.

To us, there being no God is common fact. Just as there is no Santa.

Our dilemma, more of being dumbfounded, is that so many believe in an invisable all powerful something or other.
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bsmithslo
12:33 AM on 06/08/2010
Not really. Take it on faith that Santa exists. On Dec. 26th you can go back to non belief. Take it on faith that God exists for a day, for a month, for a year. The risks seem fairly low in my opinion. There are some that make it through with little to no difficulty. For some of us it has changed our lives.
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Kathleen Kelly
attorney, progressive Democrat
10:45 PM on 06/13/2010
Exactly: One must be delusional in order to believe in the delusion.
08:00 PM on 06/07/2010
It is a very sad commentary on the state of Christian theology and ethics in this country that Stanley Hauerwas has so many followers and disciples. He says that "Christians must tell the truth": yet I have never read a book of his wherein he presents the viewpoints of those theologians with whom he disagrees in a truthful, undistorted, manner. Moreover, if one has ever heard him speak, as I have, his violent and, indeed, foul language bespeaks a very different implicit message than that of the "peace" and "non-violence" he explicitly proclaims as a pacifist. If Hauerwas is what the Christian church believes and represents, then it is morally as well as intellectually bankrupt. Fortunately, there are other theologians who are better interpreters of the gospel, though Hauerwas is too arrogant to engage in a any sort of self-critical discussion with them. He prides himself on saying that, as a teacher, he sees his goal to be not that of teaching students how to think but rather what to think! This is the pedagogy of a professor who teaches future ministers at the Methodist Divinity School of Duke University! Shame on Hauerwas! Shame on the Methodist Church! Shame on Duke University!
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bsmithslo
12:39 AM on 06/08/2010
Thank you for your information about this. I know many theologians with doubts. I know some who believe based on logic alone without much in terms of feeling or "indwelling" of the spirit. Both of these groups have a respect of their subject that Hauerwas seems to lack. His intentions seem to come from a different place. I can't explain my reaction other than to say something seems to be lacking.
09:04 AM on 06/08/2010
As a United Methodist pastor, I just wanted to offer a couple of corrections to your note. I received my Divinity degree from Duke, and suffered through the language of one of Hauerwas' classes. Duke, although many United Methodists may attend, is not considered a Methodist university, there are loose connections, but not direct denominational ties. The UMC cannot dictate what Duke does, and Duke does not inform the church of what it is to do or believe. It is simply Duke Divinity School...and a variety of denominations have students there. In addition to United Methodists are: Southern Baptist, Episcopal, UCC, and many others.
11:05 AM on 06/07/2010
If the fact of your own faith surprises you- and you cannot seem to account for it- perhaps you are in the wrong faith.

I've watched Christians all my life, and I'm still surprised by their general level of spiritual chaos. Why on earth would you bother with a religion that obviously confuses you so greatly? The gods pick whom they will, and evidently this god didn't pick you. Yet you stubbornly persist in clinging to him.

Move it to a back burner, and open yourself to the experience of a god that invites you, or even no god. Christianity is simply not right for everyone, regardless of their mothers and their upbringing.
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bsmithslo
12:40 AM on 06/08/2010
Amen. I don't believe that God plays games with an open heart and spirit.
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StillMadMatt
Offending the right people is its own virtue.
06:53 AM on 06/07/2010
Gos is wall of confusion created by man. Do you really believe in Voodoo? Zombies? Monsters? Stop suspending your rational thinking for regurgitated myths.
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Acharn
12:53 AM on 06/07/2010
"God is just not there for me the way God is there for some people." I love that! I identify with that! I've never heard a self-identified Christian say that, which is one of the reasons I do not think I am a Christian. I've met a couple of people whose Christianity I admired. One was a Baptist doctor at a mission hospital in Thailand. Ordinarily I distrust and dislike missionaries, but that man was truly admirable; and humble. Another is a Catholic priest who works in the slums of Bangkok. But I don't think either of them could have said that sentence. It expresses a feeling I've had all my life. Thank you.
06:23 PM on 06/07/2010
I was thinking that when he said it, he meant that his relationship with God is different from those of other people. It should be because we all different. Some of us are accepting, some question a lot, some rebel, are unbelieving, etc. That does not diminish or negate a relationship. That we think of God already implies there is one. Anyway, like all relationships, its constantly changing. Its like a road with many side paths and hopefully, always going forward.
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Acharn
04:18 AM on 06/08/2010
I know people who claim to have conscious contact with their God on a daily basis (actually, we usually use the term "higher power" to minimize arguments over what God we're talking about). Some of them tell me they never feel alone, because they ALWAYS feel the presence of their God. I've never felt that. My usual response is to believe they are deluded, but if I'm going to be honest, I confess I yearn for that kind of certainty.
12:36 AM on 06/07/2010
This man, like so many others, arrived at both his unbelief and belief reactively, and out of some desire to experience an emotion. First... satisfaction at rebelling against his mother's presumptuous plan for his life. Second... the desire for comfort and peace through both conformity and the belief in a "great beyond."

I wish him peace and comfort. But even if he achieves it through religion, that doesn't make a single thing he believes true.
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The Myth Slayer
10:31 PM on 06/06/2010
The Greatest Lie Ever Told- Evidence Contradicts Entire Exodus Story

http://www.worldagesarchive.com/Reference_Links/False_Testament_%28Harpers%29.htm

This is a 2002 Harper's article and just one one many recent articles that have shown that science, archeology and common sense has debunked and reduced the bible to a heap of scrap pages. The evidence is now overwhelming but people still cling to these ancient myths. Why?

Why, in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary, do people still believe in giant boats, talking snakes, talking vegetation, dead people coming back to life, devils getting your brain and all of the incredible nonsense that accompanies religion?

This is the article I want to read. I read a few books on religion and immediately realized it was all nonsense. After years and years of reading, I know with 100% certainty that it all a bunch of baloney.

Why do hundreds of millions of people believe this stuff?
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Weirdwriter
01:35 PM on 06/07/2010
Um, 'cause we're not as smart as you. Feel better now?
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The Myth Slayer
04:39 PM on 06/07/2010
Not really. I was think something like explaining the psychology associated with belief in the supernatural or mythical beings. I would like to understand what is happening in the brain that causes to irrational to short circuit the rational on such a global scale. How does it work?

In the face of extraordinary evidence to the contrary, how does one disregard facts and logic in exchange for make believe and imaginary? How does that work and why? Is there a fear element? Is it the fear of death? Is it the need for comfort figure?

Your glib response may be cute but it does nothing to answer the question.

Dawkins tried to explain this issue in The God Delusion but I would like to see studies and research regarding what is happening in the brain when Christians are confronted with facts that counter their beliefs.
07:30 AM on 06/11/2010
Or as Einstein, because he too categorically rejected beliefs in the supernatural.
12:24 AM on 06/13/2010
Follow your own advice and don't believe everything you read even if it is on the internet. Fact is the Bible has been proved time and time again. Archaeologist have uncovered cities mentioned only in the Bible. http://www.allaboutarchaeology.org/bible-archaeology.htm . The Genesis Creation Story and the Genesis Flood have been proven to be possible and even probable. http://www.answersingenesis.org. I would say the evidence is overwhelmingly in favor the truth of the Bible.
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MikeHermit
Proud Atheist
04:39 PM on 06/06/2010
I don't know whether I like this guy or dislike him more then other Christians.

As an Atheist I like my Christians to be predictable. Un-Christlike to the core. Christians who doubt but remain Christian for the sake of . . . ? Belonging? I don't know. I understand the need to belong, or to feel a part of something greater. As an Atheist it is often made clear, even as a Vet, that I don't belong in most situations in this country. The Christians have taken over.

But painting them all with a broad brush makes me feel better. Being occasionally wrong does not make me feel better. Unless most Christians were less agressive with their beliefs. Then I could feel a lot more comfortible with Christians of Doubt.

But as it is, Christians of Doubt ar are an anomoly. An entity I do not know well.
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GeorgioSutton
10:29 PM on 06/06/2010
First I wanna thank you as a Vet. Second, you're very right. They are very predictable and most of their arguments are just taking the arguments of "atheists"( I dont like to really call myself that because we shouldn't have to call people who don't believe in fairy tales a specific name) and turning them around...like calling us dogmatic, or fundamentalist. Things of that sort. But I agree. I dont know the answers to the world and I have a firm understanding that I personally wont get many of the answers that they ask for. I love Carl Sagans cosmic calender. Basically if we put the existence of the universe relative a standard 12 month calender humans would occupy the last 10 seconds of the last day on the calender...for perspective each second is 500 years, each minute is 30000 years, each days is 40,000,000 years, and every months is 1.25 billion years...pretty cool i think. I thiinkn my main point is that to ask for all the answers after "10 seconds" is much more arrogant than saying the ones that claim to have those answers are wrong.
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MikeHermit
Proud Atheist
11:15 PM on 06/07/2010
I admire the title of Atheist. I use it proudly. It is honest to the core. It is the simple non-belief in a diety.

I find too many Atheists willing to cal themselves too many things, or nothing whatsoever. That is their choice.

And Humans have been around for at least 4 millian years. Your ten seconds suggest the Christian belief of Adam and Eve and an earthly age of 6000 years.
12:05 AM on 06/07/2010
With all due respect...I really enjoy a good conversation on these things...for an atheist to claim that he likes his Christians "predictable" is obvious. Without over generalizing, an atheists functions from a worldview that assumes that everything should be predictable/logical/rational. Unfortunately, most of the most important things in our lives are not predictable and neither is a robust doctrine of God or the weather for that matter.

If you think Christians are predictable, your have probably only considered a few American brand Christians or perhaps you have developed a straw man Christian. Prejudice is ugly in any form. If you were exposed to Christians from across the world or even read more about Christians from the past, you'd see that we are a cantankerous, unpredictable bunch.
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MikeHermit
Proud Atheist
11:22 PM on 06/07/2010
I would actually prefer Christains were predictable in other ways. Like, say, they were predictably Christ-like. If Christians actually followed their namesake in a Christ-like manner I would feel far more comfortible associating with them.

I like my weather unpredictable though. I love it in fact.

I care not if prejudice is ugly. When Christians stop putting their god on my money, in my schools, in my laws, all based on their own prejudices (gay marriage for example) then I will allow myself to paint all Christians with a broad brush.

When you start standing up for actual freedom of religion, even against your own religion, insisting God be taking off of OUR money then we will have common ground.

Or should I go to your churches and teach Evolution?

I care not about Christians from around the world. They do not impact my life. Just as Muslims and Jews do not.

I care about what has a direct impact on my life. It is these bible thumping, hypocritical Evangelicals.
02:43 PM on 06/06/2010
Dear Huff Post,

THANK YOU for getting Prof. Hauerwas to provide an essay for the site!!!
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DAE
10:46 AM on 06/06/2010
As a non-theist from birth, not having been indoctrinated with religious belief during my formative years and not being exposed to religious minded people at anytime during my life I have a hard time distinguishing Jews, Christians and Muslims. They all seem to believe in the same fundamental mythology and act pretty much in the same way. It amuses me to see how they make so much out of the silly doctrinal differences that separate them from one another. But I believe in the "prime directive," so I'll just observe the natives and hope they eventually progress to a reasonable degree of rational thought and discourse. Maybe then I'll recognize them as sentient creatures on a par with artiocetaceans.
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PeterPauze
08:40 PM on 06/13/2010
Indeed, every human being is a non-theist--an atheist--at birth. Just as no human is born believing in Santa Claus or leprechauns.

You've got to be taught to hate and fear,
You've got to be taught from year to year,
It's got to be drummed in your dear little ear
You've got to be carefully taught.

You've got to be taught before it's too late,
Before you are six or seven or eight,
To hate all the people your relatives hate,
You've got to be carefully taught