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On Gay Bullying and DADT: Cindy McCain vs. John McCain

Posted: 11/11/10 10:29 PM ET

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April 1, 2008 -- Photo by Mark Wilson/Getty Images North America


Over the years, this blogger has expressed admiration for some of the principled issues that John McCain stood by when his Republican Party was off course. He was gay friendly then and had lots of gay staffers in his campaign. He was backing serious efforts in campaign finance and broad election reform. He was the epitome of a "radical centrist" when he was the straight-talk express John McCain.

If John McCain had beaten George Bush in the 2000 primary, I would have strongly supported his campaign.

But something has happened. He has become more mean, more rigid, an angry senator who seems bent on destroying his own considerable legacy by doubling down against the normalization of gay rights in the country.

I don't understand why he is doing this. I've known and respected him for years and have always felt that whether it came to national security policy with regard to North Korea, or leading on normalization of relations with Vietnam, or believing that we needed to fundamentally change the dynamics of the corporate takeover of the nation's election machinery, McCain has been a great leader. I haven't supported his views on Iran, think he oversells "the surge" in Iraq -- but reasonable people can debate these important matters in a civil and respectful way as I have tried to do with the senator on many fronts for years.

Some of his closest, long-term advisers and friends are well-respected gay lawyers and politicos. He knows that the military is packed with honorable gay men and lesbian women serving their country. I've personally heard him express appreciation for their service.

But now he's the lead opponent in the US Senate of efforts to end Don't Ask Don't Tell -- and McCain, who is probably in his last term in the US Senate, is going to scar his legacy badly by making himself into one of those senators who voted against the Civil Rights Act or who supported racial segregation and upheld an infrastructure of bigoted law in America's past.

I want the straight-talking John McCain back -- a McCain that is going to be relevant to our nation's future, not one that we have to always express shame about as we look back at his legacy because he was the person who "delayed" the normalization of gay rights in this country and in the US military. Strom Thurmond eventually remade himself and found ways to demonstrate that he had dropped his once raging bigotry, but John McCain at the current point of his career is possibly going to end on a very dark note.


As the intrepid John Aravosis has pointed out today, John McCain's wife will not join him in his anti-gay crusade.

Aravosis writes:

John McCain is leading the filibuster against the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" "repeal" legislation in the Senate (it's not an actual repeal, but we'll leave that for another time). Today, Cindy McCain joined a number of celebrities in a video about gay youth suicide and bullying.

Mrs. McCain's part of the video condemned DADT and then accused our government of sending bullies a message that what they do is okay.

The woman basically accused her husband of sharing the blame for gay kids killing themselves.

I'm astonished. And impressed as hell.

CINDY MCCAIN:

Our political and religious leaders tell LGBT youth that they have no future.

They can't serve our country openly.

VARIETY OF SPEAKERS:

What's worse, these laws that legislate discrimination teach bullies that what they're doing is acceptable.

CINDY MCCAIN:

Our government treats the LGBT community like second class citizens, why shouldn't they?

I want to express thanks to Cindy McCain for this brave and much appreciated message to bulliers everywhere and for her support of the gay men and women serving this nation and risking their lives in military engagements thousands of miles from home.

I can't imagine to know or understand the contours of their marriage. That is their private affair.

But I can't help wondering whether Cindy McCain misses her straight-talking, do-the-right-thing husband as much as I do.

-- Steve Clemons publishes the popular political blog, The Washington Note.

 

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April 1, 2008 -- Photo by Mark Wilson/Getty Images North America Over the years, this blogger has expressed admiration for some of the principled issues that ...
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
09:44 PM on 11/13/2010
We really dodged one by not having *this* dude and Palin in the White House. Ten percent of America would be fleeing in inner tubes.
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GayGrandpa
05:04 PM on 11/13/2010
All old fogies except maybe for the hippie folk out to simply croak! DIE! YES I am talking about my generation and older...those who are too stuck that they cannot see the wisdom of being progressive...there was a time when everyone in this country believed in progress...now some, many, too many want simply to go back to 1958 and stay there! Either wake up and smell the coffee or simply don't wake up!
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NABNYC
04:40 PM on 11/13/2010
Bill Clinton, a Democrat, is the one who put this policy into place. The Democrats have had control of the Senate, House and White House for two years and, despite Obama's promise he would get rid of this policy, the Democrats have refused to do so, even with the backing of so many military leaders and polls that show the great majority of Americans and the great majority of men and women in uniform think this DADT policy should be repealed.

This isn't John McCain's responsibility. He isn't President. It's silly to focus on him and his wife and suggest the fault lies with them. The reason DADT is still on the books is because Obama and the Democrats are cowards. All Obama had to do was to leave the court's ruling unchallenged: court says it's unconstitutional, DOJ agrees, we're not going to pursue a legal challenge which we believe lacks merit. Done deal.

Obama and the Democrats are transparent at this point: cowards, corrupt, unwilling ever to do what is right. They won't even end the wars for fear the right will attack like what happened after Vietnam. But doing what is morally correct inevitably will lead to being attack by the right-wing, because they are always against anything that is ethical.
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thismachinekillsfascists
Exposing the GOP Lie-machine
05:27 PM on 11/13/2010
Man I wish I could disagree with you but you are dead right. This thing could have been dealt with two years ago but nope. Dems are cowards plain and simple.
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seventhrama
Retired health educator/Ponderer of the Universe
07:07 PM on 11/13/2010
Yes, Bill Clinton and a Republican-controlled Congress were responsible for the DADT policy, which was a compromise to appease efforts for having gays service in the military while remaining in the closet. Moreover, if the most vocal of the advocates for repealing DADT have their way, we will again have to revisit this conversation when another individual or group challenge the policy in court.

Yes, John McCain's is responsibility. He is 1/100th of the votes needed to repeal DADT, and he is one person who can filibuster having the repeal process brought to the floor of the full Senate for a vote. Therefore, you may vent all you want to about President Obama, the Democratic Party, and the wars being waged in the Middle East. However, the Senate will have to repeal the DADT policy and replacing it with legislation that will allow gays to openly service in the military that most lightly will not be overturned by the Supreme Court. Pejoratives such as 'cowards', and 'corrupt' says more about your emotional state than it does about your concern for repealing DADT within the confines of The Constitution.
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NABNYC
07:45 PM on 11/13/2010
seventhrama: a court has ruled DADT is unconstitutional, and injoined its enforcement. All the Democrats needed to do was: do nothing. An attorney, including of the general variety, is legally prohibited from challenging a court's ruling if they do not have a meritorious position to assert. In this case, they don't have a legitimate argument for overturning the court's ruling because the DADT policy is, of course, unconstitutional.

If the DOJ had let the court's ruling stand, that would have been the end to it. The policy would have been legally eliminated from the military. End of the line. There's no policy to attack in the court, nothing to challenge: DADT is history. Nonexistent.

The Senate does not need to repeal DADT. It is an unconstitutional policy, like the court said, so no further action is required of Congress or the President. The court's ruling would have been the final decision if the DOJ had not challenged it.

Further, there is no requirement that the Senate pass a law authorizing gay people to serve. The court decision held that they can, as citizens.

Your analysis is inaccurate, perhaps because you do not understand the status of the issue or the relationship between the government and the courts. Once the court held the policy was unconstitutional and enjoined its enforcement, the military was legally obligated to end it. The only reason DADT still stands is because the DOJ filed an appeal to keep the issue alive for years in the courts.
08:12 PM on 11/13/2010
Democrats controlled Congress when DADT was passed.
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Soulmentor
"To thine own self be true...."
03:42 PM on 11/13/2010
**********Some of his closest, long-term advisers and friends are well-respected gay lawyers and politicos.**************

That included his Chief of Staff during his presidential campaign. The man is an opportunistic hypocrite. He holds his middle finger to the wind to discover what he believes is right. With a majority of military personnel and approx 70% of the public thinking gays in the military is no longer a big deal (or any deal at all), seems like this time he caught a very light breeze and thinks it's a hurricane!! Sigh. He needs to retire, and maybe he will....now that he got his one last feel good win.
01:06 PM on 11/13/2010
The McCain family are all working together so when John McCain filibusters a vote to repeal DADT...the backlash from the gay community will be minimal. He continues to take a strong stand against repealing DADT for the sake of his party. At the same time, he's dispatched his wife (sometimes daughter) to counter his decision on DADT to help appease the gay community.
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Soulmentor
"To thine own self be true...."
03:44 PM on 11/13/2010
His wife? Perhaps tho I doubt it. But Meghan? No way would she be so manipulated. She's seems very much her own person.
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studioh!
bridging the snarchasm
01:05 PM on 11/13/2010
he is a sham on all sorts of levels, and has become the poster boy for the "new" politician.
you want a wind farm? go to either house of congress...
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garymc8
We got OBL- not gop
12:46 PM on 11/13/2010
Come on John, ease up. Most of them are in the gop.
09:15 AM on 11/13/2010
Given his own past in the Navy, I supposed his earlier opposition would seem understandable. However, his previous opposition was based on not making a decision until military authorities said it could be done without damaging combat readiness and unit cohesion. Having been told that there would be no ill effects, he accusing military authorities of insubordination. It appears that he only listens to them when they tell him what he wants to hear. This must, in my opinion, be simply a personal grudge, because if he thinks he is protecting our nation, surely he'd realize the truth when confronted with the fact that his actions are actually weakening it. Discharging gay soliders resulted in a critical shortage of linguists in 2001, and in replacing them in 2006 with high school droupouts and criminals. This message must be spread far and wide: Annapolis grad weakens nation through opposition to repeal. He must be hoist be his own petard.
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MInchau
Humans - temporary occupants of this planet
07:06 AM on 11/13/2010
Good for Cindy. After bieng mute for most of the 2008 campaign, she has found her voice once again.
12:06 PM on 11/13/2010
only to take back the statement and say that she supports her husbands stance on DADT, so much for courage.
RealistBC
Micro-bios must pass muster.
06:08 AM on 11/13/2010
As a liberal independent, I'd like to tell the McCain women that they are the true mavericks in that household.
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
09:49 PM on 11/13/2010
Just like the slogan, ...meaningless now that the election's over.
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sprtakis69
Shouldn't all people be entitled to Equal rights?
03:06 AM on 11/13/2010
My friends are going to think I'm crazy! I just friended McCain so I could post this on his facebook page:

As a recently retired Navy veteran THANK YOU (Mrs. McCain)! Senator - please thank your wife for a FANTASTIC PSA spot for the NOH8 campaign! She spoke eloquently, and with such passion, you should be proud of how brave she is! She appears to be braver than many Senator's in our current or upcoming Congress!!!

And then I sent it to him via his personal page! LOL
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garymc8
We got OBL- not gop
12:43 PM on 11/13/2010
Clever use of the social network. :-)
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sprtakis69
Shouldn't all people be entitled to Equal rights?
02:50 AM on 11/13/2010
I'm going to withhold judgment on the tweet until it's proven that she tweeted it. Basically I HEARD her in the PSA and I READ what is supposed to be from her hand....hacked account? I dunno...

In the mean time I'm going to John McCain's website to send him a message to pass a THANK YOU on to his wife for STANDING UP, BEING BRAVE and SPEAKING OUT AGAINST PREJUDICED SENATOR'S in OUR GOVERNMENT!!!

And Cindy - LOVE the new doo!!! Very sexy!!!
02:26 AM on 11/13/2010
FYI. Cindy McCain has reversed her position on DADT. Per Americablog a few hours ago. Say whatever you want over this development.
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mdmccormick
I am tired of this BS
02:05 AM on 11/13/2010
Senator McCain, You won already! I’m confident that you have insured you will expire as a sitting Senator, you will never be president get over it. It’s time to rejoin the human race and try to salvage even a small part of the integrity and morals that you threw away to get here. There is nothing more to gain with this flushing of your legacy but there is still more to lose.
12:52 AM on 11/13/2010
McCain is doing what he always does. Talks the maverick talk and then succumbs to the demagoguery of his pseudo populist republican party's agenda -- The part that seeks to strikes fear in the hearts of middle class Americas by stimulating a sense of moral panic.
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garymc8
We got OBL- not gop
12:45 PM on 11/13/2010
He has been a life long sell out. Him and GW right out of the same spoiled rich kid mold. Born on third base and raised to think he hit a triple.
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Roger Sattler
short term visitor to this
11:48 PM on 11/13/2010
Well put.................thank you..........