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5 Things To Know About Your Jewelry When Getting A Divorce

Posted: 03/20/2012 9:05 am

In the famous words of William Shakespeare, "All's well that ends well." When it comes to a marriage, however, this isn't always the case.

Let's start with a few U.S. stats:

- There are approximately 2.5 million marriages in the U.S. every year.
- An estimated 80 percent of brides-to-be receive a diamond engagement ring.
- The divorce rate is currently 48.6 percent.

With these numbers in mind, one can imagine how many engagement rings end up on the market for sale, repurposing or in a toilet bowl. For those interested in the more sensational, here are some of the most famous celebrity jewelry sales.

In an effort to help divorcees understand their jewelry (and what they can do with it in the time of a divorce), I put together the following list:

1. Know who is entitled to the jewelry
The rightful owner is determined by several factors including how it was given, local jurisdiction and reason for marital dissolution. A first good step is to consult a family attorney to determine ownership.

2. Be emotionally ready
Whether you decide to sell it, repurpose it or keep it, make sure you are emotionally ready to go through the process. It is not always a walk in the park. If you decide to sell it, it can be the most difficult (or most easy) step depending on the situation.

3. Keep it in a safe place
Keep it safe (in a safe). Whether you put it in your safe at home or at the bank, don't be a victim of a sock-drawer disappearance.

4. Know what it's worth
Most jewelry stores or buyers will be able to give you a rough estimate of what your jewelry is worth. Make sure to shop it around to get a realistic and worthwhile estimate.

5. Know how to get top dollar for it if you decide to sell it
Getting the maximum value for your jewelry requires understanding its worth and finding the best buyer for it. Chose a reputable buyer who has a good rating with the Better Business Bureau. This can be a very confidential endeavor so consider choosing a jewelry buyer in a private setting.

All in all, the good news is that the owner of a jewelry asset has the choice to do with it what he or she wishes. If one were to ask Shakespeare what to do, he might say, "To sell, or not to sell, that is the question."

About Revere Jewels
Revere Jewels is a top Los Angeles jewelry buyer that specializes in engagement rings, watches, gold, antique and diamond jewelry. The company has offices throughout Southern California. Call 888.619.7932 or 310.775.2025 for a free consultation. Revere Jewels is an A+ Rated business with BBB and offers private and a confidential office environment for all transactions.

About Steve Hami
Steve Hami is the Chief Jewelry Buyer of Revere Jewels. He is a certified diamond appraiser and licensed jewelry, diamond and gold buyer with over fifteen years of experience. Steve comes from a family legacy of jewelers and has worked in all aspects of the industry including sales, manufacturing, distribution and purchasing. Steve specializes in buying rare and large diamonds, engagement rings, antique, estate and gold jewelry. More information at http://www.reverejewels.com.

 
In the famous words of William Shakespeare, "All's well that ends well." When it comes to a marriage, however, this isn't always the case. Let's start with a few U.S. stats: - There are approximatel...
In the famous words of William Shakespeare, "All's well that ends well." When it comes to a marriage, however, this isn't always the case. Let's start with a few U.S. stats: - There are approximatel...
 
 
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04:59 PM on 03/21/2012
I sold my wedding band as scrap gold. I had lost it once and then found it in the garbage disposal. I had taken it off to wash dishes and I guess it got knocked into the drain. It was pretty dinged up. I still got $137 for it. I actually got really choked up when I took that money. The guy said something about how junk you have laying around the house can be worth a lot these days. It wasn't junk to me. It represented nearly 20 years with a woman I thought I'd be with forever, a lot of memories and dashed hopes and dreams. It had been blessed by a preacher and a priest. I'd worn it for all those years and it meant a lot to me, symbolized so much, and it was only worth a hundred and thirty seven bucks? But why would you keep something like that? I could almost feel it when I walked by my jewelery box, and sometimes I'd play with it, put it on. What was I, Sméagol? "My precious." Creepy. It had to go.

I guess it depends on the person and the circumstances of the breakup and so on, but for most I think selling their wedding ring will be an emotional experience.
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02:10 AM on 03/21/2012
I've still got both of mine and I will sell when the price is right. If you are holding onto it and waiting like I am, its always good to get it appraised often so you always know it's current value. I've got a pretty good offer for the bigger one that I am considering so that I can open my restaurant.....
12:39 AM on 03/21/2012
Buy a small ring when you marry. If you're still together 20 years later, then go for the big diamond.
03:57 PM on 03/20/2012
I know I kept it all.
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Glass Cannon
Let every eye negotiate for itself.
01:46 PM on 03/20/2012
Does it really matter? People put such a huge emphasis on material objects. Could be part of the cause of the divorce! Oh, and suppose there is that "possession is 9/10ths of the law" thing.
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Brianna Cole
Which one wins? The one you feed.
12:12 AM on 03/22/2012
Unless there are laws in your area stating otherwise.
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Glass Cannon
Let every eye negotiate for itself.
09:55 AM on 03/22/2012
In this case if it's on your finger it's pretty much yours, lol.