We all know the story of putting a frog in boiling water. He jumps out. But if you put a frog in cold water, and slowly turn up the heat, he'll boil to death. Are we frogs? Perhaps. I travel a good deal, and so I'm often confronted with the the changing rules and unclear policies of the TSA. I've been told to take off my belt, remove my shoes, take out my computer, keep my ticket and basically perform all manner of physically impossible tasks while moving along quickly and not talking back. I've complied. And now, with airlines charging for additional bags, and new special TSA approved cases for computer carry-ons -- it's bound to get worse. But is it an inconvenience or a slow boiling away of civil liberties?
I wasn't sure -- until I got this email from my friend Seth Carmichael:
My Dear Friends, Family, and Everyone else in my address book,
As you know, my name is Seth Carmichael, I am a US citizen born in Washington DC. My wife, Elisa Victoria Gilsenan, is a British Citizen and permanent resident of Australia where her family 
has lived for the past ten years. She was going to college in the US and was in the United States on a student visa when we got married on August 28th of last year in Los Angeles where we have been living since she started school in 2005. This past February her father Brian Gilsenan was assaulted in Sydney while on his way home from an after work function. (Link To Sidney Morning Herald)
He was seriously injured and spent the last few months in the hospital. He passed away on Saturday May 24th, 2008. Elisa and I went to see him immediately after the incident, when we returned to the US she decided not to continue with school at this time which canceled her student visa so we started the immigration process by filing our I-130 petition.
In May, Brian's health took a serious turn for the worse and Elisa needed to return to Sydney to be by his side. We called the US dept of homeland security and tried to request an exception to allow her to leave the States but they told us that all they could do is expedite her I-130. Obviously she still had to return to Australia and she did so. As I said Brian passed away on Saturday May 24th. I went to Australia on Sunday the 25th to help settle his affairs and help Elisa with her Visa situation but we had no luck reaching the consulate in Sydney or anyone else that could help us with her Visa. I came back to the states and have been trying to get her back since June 1st, we have had several conversations with various consulate officials and many immigration lawyers but there seems to be no process for helping with this kind of a situation.
We have talked to people at the consulate in Sydney, I've talked to my congressman's office, a friend of a friend wrote a letter to the US Ambassador to Australia, we have talked to many different immigration attorneys, but no one seems to be able to help. We are stuck in the system and right now I just want to get her home so that we can be together in this trying time and finish the immigration process here in the states. The emotional challenges of the whole situation are just overwhelming us.
I am hoping we can get Elisa back into the states as fast as possible so we can continue the immigration process that we have started here and put this horrible tragedy behind us. It seems so simple a request.
I can't help but think of the emerging security bureaucracy that has grown in the past 7 years, and wonder how many grieving young women, musicians, athletes, students, and just tourists have been scooped up in this net of bureaucracy and paperwork -- effectively closing the border to even people as obviously deserving as Seth's wife Elisa.
I don't claim to understand immigration law -- but it seems to me that Elisa shouldn't have to lose her father and her husband in the same six month period.
It seems like compassion ought to be part of the process somewhere - but it seems that in our drive to control the borders and protect us from terrorists, that people like Elisa are ending up unable to return to her friends and family in the US. It doesn't seem like it should work that way.
Posted July 4, 2008 | 10:37 AM (EST)