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Steven Crandell
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Steven is the father of four children. They are all loving, bright and funny. He is very proud of them. (And thoroughly objective in his analysis.)

Steven helps develop and coordinate story and strategy for organizations to improve outreach, productivity and effectiveness. Nonprofit foundations are a particular focus.

Current projects include writing a series of donor guides for high net worth individuals and families. Published by Rockefeller Philanthropy Advisors. Funded by the Gates Foundation. Title guide: Your Philanthropy Roadmap.

Steven is the author of the book, Silver Tongue – Secrets of Mr. Santa Barbara (2007). (It's about his dad, Larry Crandell -- also loving, bright and funny.)

He also researches, writes and manages the publication of life stories and organizational histories through his business: Legacy Books for Future Generations.

Steven was a journalist for more than two decades, spending 10 years as the producer of several national news programs for the public broadcaster Television New Zealand. He is the former Director of Development & Public Affairs for the nonpartisan nonprofit Nuclear Age Peace Foundation.

His Huffington Post fiction project is a serial novella called "A is for Amy & Adonis." Check archive below.

He also writes very short poetry. See twitter lit web review, escarp.org.

Blog Entries by Steven Crandell

Run at the Speed of Fun

(9) Comments | Posted February 4, 2013 | 2:54 PM

A race is by definition competitive. But the millions of people who enter weekend running races around the world are not competitive runners. And that can set up many of us for disappointment.

You name the distance -- 5k, 10k, 10-mile, half-marathon or marathon. It's the same. The first...

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'Where You Stumble, There Your Treasure Is'

(2) Comments | Posted December 18, 2012 | 11:42 AM

Where is your treasure?

I write not of bank accounts or investments, but of what you value in your heart.

Please take a moment and reflect. What brings you a sense of wholeness and balance and joy? Where and how did you find it?

Joseph Campbell, a...

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Do You Suffer From Information Hoarding Syndrome?

(2) Comments | Posted November 21, 2012 | 10:18 AM

We are trying to remember too much.

Without any screening, the great server cloud banks save everything. All email. All photos. All Facebook posts. All webpages visited. Forever.

Jack Dorsey says Twitter got its name because it represented "short bursts of inconsequential information and chirps from the birds." But...

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Sticker Love

(0) Comments | Posted November 6, 2012 | 4:30 PM

My 7-year-old son and I arrived early for school one day. In order to pass the time, I turned to the dozen second graders lined up outside my son's classroom and asked:

"How many of you have ever got a hug?"

All 12 children put their hands up.

"How many...

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Opposites Attract

(2) Comments | Posted October 15, 2012 | 3:45 PM

Why does fear call us to be courageous?

Why is patience often the best course when we're in a hurry?

Why does our hostility often dissipate when we realize the role our own frustrated desire plays in stoking resentment?

Opposites are complementary. The contradictory things that most folks believe...

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Are You Using Your Spiritual Bandwidth?

(2) Comments | Posted September 6, 2012 | 3:40 PM

God has the biggest social network on the planet. Have you joined yet?

I write not of a religious God used to divide people. This concept creates doctrines that turn faith into a members-only club. I write of a God who connects people regardless of culture, religious belief, nationality,...

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Review: Messages From the Ancestors

(0) Comments | Posted August 7, 2012 | 11:22 AM

There's a new little book on spirituality with a special claim -- its authors are spirits.

Compiled by Stanford-trained urologist and author Dr. David Cumes and Santa Barbara educator Maryellen Flynn Kelley, the handsomely designed, pocket-sized book confirms that its real authors were no longer living when they composed its...

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Finding Hope, Part II

(4) Comments | Posted July 3, 2012 | 6:24 PM

First the sun, then the rain.
Darkness fades away, light begins.

I have spent a ridiculous amount of time on this wedding song. I am revising and revising. I play it for my two sons. The 4-year-old wanders off to play indoor soccer in the lounge before I get...

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Finding Hope, Part I

(4) Comments | Posted June 26, 2012 | 5:11 PM

This is the story of me finding hope again.

It's much longer than any other post in this series. So be forewarned. If you want to read it while you heat up the leftovers in the microwave, you might not have enough time.

"First the sun, then the rain.
...

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Just Being

(10) Comments | Posted June 6, 2012 | 7:29 PM

Mother Teresa once said there is good in everyone. Of course, to my knowledge, she never experienced separation or divorce.

Mother Teresa went on to say that some of us hide this goodness and some of us aren't even aware of its presence.

I like her idea. It reminds...

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Something All Men Share

(0) Comments | Posted April 24, 2012 | 2:30 PM

All men are sons.

Simple truth. But important.

You might feel alone. Especially following a relationship split. But in fact, you are a part of a long tradition of fathers and sons. You are a link in a chain stretching to antiquity. Though your dad might be distant, might be...

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Surviving Separation: Getting to Know Myself Again

(17) Comments | Posted April 17, 2012 | 7:40 PM

Separation meant that many of my life plans became redundant. I felt I had to start from scratch in many ways. My marriage was so much of my identity, I even felt the need to get to know myself again.

Who was I? Where did I want to go?...

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Beware the Penis Imperative

(2) Comments | Posted April 4, 2012 | 4:04 PM

I have a lot of respect for the penis imperative. Without it, I wouldn't be alive. I am the product of generation after generation of wild men able to do the wild thing.

But my wild, surging sexuality can cause serious trouble.

I learned this lesson before I was married....

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The Next Relationship

(37) Comments | Posted March 14, 2012 | 8:50 PM

I met her in a supermarket. By the eggs. She was eating corn chips. I caught her eye. She said: "These are the best corn chips. No sense getting a small bag. Have to get a big one."

I have always liked a woman with an appetite.

Eight months after...

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Cut The Conflict In Front Of the Kids

(13) Comments | Posted February 24, 2012 | 2:00 PM

Many men who go through separation are dads. We know that the separation not only impacts ourselves and our partners, but also our children.

Sometimes that impact is strongly negative. This is the stinging lesson I learned:

Out-of-control conflict between parents is bad for children to witness. They remember...

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Parenting Apart -- Soccer and Wandering Through Life's Changes

(1) Comments | Posted February 9, 2012 | 4:13 PM

Chuang Tzu, an ancient Chinese sage and one of the inspirations for Taoism, wrote that life was about wandering through ceaseless changes.

Separation is also about wandering through changes. My journal tells the story. This happened about 18 months after my partner and I first split.

June 28, 1997

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Freedom, Courage And Splitting Up

(2) Comments | Posted February 6, 2012 | 8:25 PM

Separation can bring sorrow to a family, but it also brings freedom.

Psychologist and writer Eric Fromm wrote this about "dissolving an unhappy marriage":

"The stock argument of parents in such a situation is that they cannot separate in order not to deprive the children of the blessings of...
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Create Multiple Explanations

(2) Comments | Posted January 19, 2012 | 5:05 PM

I think of love as a beautiful backyard garden -- homey, friendly, natural, surprising, beautiful, sweet, peaceful... and laced with mines that will blow me to smithereens.

Risk goes with romance. Danger with delight. Pain with passion. If I am open enough to love and be loved, then I am...

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A New Year's Memo: God's on Everyone's Side

(0) Comments | Posted December 24, 2011 | 4:24 PM

MEMO TO: All Governments, Religious Leaders, Soldiers, Protesters, Suicide Bombers, Lovers, Liars, Freaks, Squares, Parents, Children, Sons and Daughters

SUBJECT: Ten Points for Peace in 2012

1.1

God's on everyone's side.


1.2:

All is made to continue,
And the continuing is all.


...

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Appreciation = Joy

(1) Comments | Posted November 22, 2011 | 11:59 AM

Appreciation is everyday magic.

It grounds me. It lifts me. It expands my mind and spirit while contracting my ego.

When an investment appreciates, it grows. When I appreciate, I make an investment in my own growth.

Naturally, I try to appreciate as often as possible -- in...

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