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Weiners and Losers

Posted: 06/17/11 08:46 AM ET

What is it about our culture lately that just loves tearing a human being to pulpy, bloody shreds?

Whatever one may think of the lurid spectacle that is The Wide World of Weiner, the glee demonstrated by the media is the truly disturbing element here.

The fact that Weiner was one of the left's most effective warrior's against the legitimately vile purveyors of rightwing horseshit is now seemingly forever lost in the bloodlust that defines our cultural landscape; the prevailing analyses have more in common with base schoolyard taunts that bred a Dylan Klebold than with straight journalism.

As the media now fully embraces the bully-tactics of the more outrageous quasi-journalistic hecklers, schadenfreude has supplanted integrity. And since so many Americans take their behavioral cues from the sensational shows they watch and the churning, angry propaganda they listen to, classic Judeo-Christian tenets such as humility, self-awareness and mercy have become quaint, corny concepts that elicit a snicker and a roll of the eyes.

How did all this happen? What brought this nation from the beginnings of true social awareness in which people were put before profit to a sneering mob at a tawdry sideshow?

The cultural baseness that we have descended to matches the attack launched by the corporate capitalist crazies who equate higher social consciousness with lower financial gain. By relentlessly flooding our awareness -- and our children's awarenesses -- with tacky techno-baubles and increasingly disturbing sexual imagery, a low-aiming, desensitized mass is created.

But the Weiner episode is only the most recent Lord of the Flies-moment in a long, line of media-led derision. From narcissists like Weiner to truly pathetic creatures like Anna Nicole Smith, there is a bizarre chasing-down of these high-profile fuck-ups to their inevitable humiliating ends. And when these people, architects of their own idiocy they may indeed be, have found themselves hanging from a ledge, why instead of helping them recover do we pry their fingers off?

We'd rather see them splat. Lower aims = higher ratings.

By consistently grinding human responses down to the cowardly and the cruel, the jeering media are digging a hole from which the nation has a decreasing chance of recovery. Americans should not take such pride in excoriating a fellow human being who has revealed himself to be a schmuck (by having revealed his schmuck). As unsavory as The Weinerscapades have been, the utter lack of compassion displayed by the multitude gathered to watch has been way more obscene.

 

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07:35 PM on 06/20/2011
It's not just the media that's to blame, we've got the new sneering, mocking American, too. What is going to become of us?
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dporterdvd
Progressives won 1890-1920. Time to win again.
05:56 PM on 06/20/2011
Thank you Steven Weber for the intelligent, well written article full of wit and wisdom. Hope you contribute more articles.
MaeS
Yay for those meddling kids in NY
10:00 PM on 06/19/2011
Ayup. The media's bully pulpit is pretty much used to bully these days.

The thing that gets me is all the fuss about Weiner lying. First of all, I have never met a single person who hasn't lied on occasion. Secondly, ALL politicians lie and we don't care a bit when it is about policy. We have it exactly backwards, though. We SHOULD care when they lie about policy (which actually affects us) and should NOT care when it involves their private lives.

I would look at Weiner's underwear pics every day if it meant I could have universal health care--something which got sabotaged by lies about death panels.
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The Smartest Monkees
Planet of the Apes? We're on it, baby!
10:47 PM on 06/19/2011
"I would look at Weiner's underwear pics every day if it meant I could have universal health care--some­thing which got sabotaged by lies about death panels."



Amen!!!

I saw Eric Cantor look straight into the camera a couple of weeks ago, and say that his friends on Wall Street want the Repubs to stand tough on raising the debt ceiling.

Yeah, Eric, we know. Wall Street is just dying for you Repubs to crash the ENTIRE WORLD ECONOMY, if you can't throw old people under the bus. It would work out so well for them and the banks. Jeesh!

If Wall Street is so fond of your threats to not raise the debt ceiling, why did you and Boehner have to call them just prior to your vote in the House on this issue, to reassure your Wall Street pals the vote wasn't serious?

A major lie, and one dealing in toying with potentially plunging the world into a catastrophic economic depression! And Cantor wasn't called by the press or Howard Stern's lacky on this major untruth in any way. Maybe if he'd said it while standing in his underwear.
Dayne
People are people
08:54 PM on 06/19/2011
Hey Steven, I promised we would share comments again. Anyway, beyond our political/ideological differences, I can't agree with you more on this subject. Regardless of the moral, ethical, legal (only allegations) issues, the media blitz on this scandal (what will it be next week) is pretty sad. We know human nature likes to see the mighty fall, but kicking a man down, then biting him, pulling his hair, and giving him a wedgie (sp), is that really necessary. Your statement, "The cultural baseness that we have descended to matches the attack launched by the corporate capitalist crazies who equate higher social consciousness with lower financial gain. By relentlessly flooding our awareness -- and our children's awarenesses -- with tacky techno-baubles and increasingly disturbing sexual imagery, a low-aiming, desensitized mass is created." pretty much sums up how I look at the general media and culture nowadays. We are slowly being ground down into the lowest common denominator, it's kind of irritating.

Take Care,
Dayne

P.S. - Still a wise ass, but keeping up the fight.
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kocean1
When this party's over it will start again
09:58 PM on 06/19/2011
Appealing to lowest common denominato­r is right on target. People love a train wreck and they'll watch it over and again until the fire ignites. What is about human nature that enjoy seeing other people get destroyed and then laugh at the same time? Do we as a society constantly have to build ourselves up at other peoples expense? The news outlets spew so much hatred and animosity it's like a free for all 24/7 that people just swallow it up. When I watch the FOX network-rarely-it's like I'm getting hit with a sledge hammer. They hammer a point until people actually believe what ever is said. The hate and anger is at an epic level.

I shall allow no man to belittle my soul by making me hate him.
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08:01 PM on 06/19/2011
If our society does indeed collapse, I shall say it was sadly deserved.
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The Smartest Monkees
Planet of the Apes? We're on it, baby!
08:29 PM on 06/19/2011
And if it indeed does collapse, it's demise will have also been, sadly, so easily preventable.
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06:10 PM on 06/19/2011
This is so sad, he's human, he's a man, give a man power and it corrupts, even the best. WHAT are we going to do? About the only one who can run and stay out of trouble any more, would be a robot......humans can't handle it.....i am so sad for my country
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The Smartest Monkees
Planet of the Apes? We're on it, baby!
07:00 PM on 06/19/2011
One of my first jobs out of high school, was working at the capitol building of my state. I vividly remember how the pretty young women would flock to, and flirt with, any man in a suit with a briefcase in hand.

Consequently, I was one of the few basement stock clerks, who wore a suit and carried a briefcase.

I'm joking about that, of course, but it did give me a very good early education about the temptations thrust onto men in powerful positions.

Therefore I've always felt that as long as the pol involved in a scandal isn't moralizing to others and fighting against human rights issues such as women's rights and gay rights, and providing no laws have been broken, their private issues should be their own to work through.

However, when they build their political careers by trashing Dems and liberals as being "immoral" and lacking "family values," that's a game changer.

When they fight against a woman's right to be in charge of her own body, fight against the rights of gays to be treated as equals in this nation of laws, fight against health care for all (especially health care for children), fight against the elderly and the poor and all based on their self-proclaimed "moral superiority," I have zero sympathy for them when their chickens come home to roost.
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Steamboater
Forget hope. Agitate.
06:01 PM on 06/19/2011
The first thing Obama and Nancy Pelosi did was get behind the wheel of the bus and drive right over Weiner and when he commited no crime at all. It's fine to stick to your values and condemn Weiner for betraying his wife but there's something terribly wrong and a betrayal of those values when you single out your own in the most venemous way without making a case for Vitter to resign, and not just a matter of fact statement either. When Obama sad that is he were Weiner he would resign, make no mistake abou tit. That was pressure coming from the white house for Weiner to go. That did it for Weiner too. With friends like this administartion, who needs republicans.
MaeS
Yay for those meddling kids in NY
09:56 PM on 06/19/2011
To be fair, Obama is married to Michelle, who I doubt would put up with much mess. But I cede your point.
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Anna Nicole Dahmer
Lie like that & you won't go to heaven
04:28 PM on 06/19/2011
Mr. W.,
"You have to be willing to get happy about nothing." - Andy Warhol.
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steve-in-abq
04:15 PM on 06/19/2011
Why do we not have compassion for someone like Weiner? There are millions of us out here that play by the rules and repeatedly see those that do not get a pass. We're tired of it. I've written before on this site that people without morals or ethics are driven by cost, benefit, risk and reward. This is the equation to which our society needs to return. Many of our problems can be traced back to an imbalance of these fundamentals. The bank bailouts, mortgages people could not afford, the Wall Street players that can benefit from a gain and walk away from a loss. Sign me up for that one. "If I win, I win, if I lose, I didn't play. Sound good? Removing the risk of failure and a cost for screwing up has turned out to not be a good combination. Weiner screwed up. He needs to pay the penalty. More importantly, the penalties for screwing up need to be clear to people and they need to be applied across the board.
05:08 PM on 06/19/2011
You feel the same way about David Vitter? Who just got re-elected?

Yeah, didn't think so.
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steve-in-abq
06:23 PM on 06/19/2011
You missed my point entirely. My comment is NOT about Anthony Weiner. It's about the breakdown of our society and double standards in our country. If you're an ordinary citizen you live by these rules and you are penalized when you break them. If you're a politician, an actor, the super rich, etc. you live by another, much more lenient, set of rules. Your comment exemplifies another problem we face: partisan bickering.
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02:40 PM on 06/19/2011
Well said, Mr. Weber.
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Alwayspissedoffatsomeone
Fighting for Common Sense
01:48 PM on 06/19/2011
Mr. Weber..ever heard the story of the frog and the scorpion?
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Lawson Meadows
Plant in your kids, the seeds of greatness!
01:41 PM on 06/19/2011
Mr, Weber,

You make excellent points!

And, think of the effect on our kids. The examples we set my lending such emphasis to these issues will not serve them well. What has been shown to be important is bathing in the shower of ridicule on the congressman; joining the communal verbal stoning of someone who errors through intent (posting the pictures) and through association (that name); and ensuring we get as much mileage as possible for the bottom line.

But, probably worse, we are teaching our kids to make fun of someone, to bully them just because they can and because it's fun, and to deliver what has apparently become the ubiquitous "kick" when someone is down. The excuses "He made his own bed" or "He brought it upon himself," ignore the effect our actions have as examples for our children.

After poking fun or ridiculing Mr. Weiner, a parent who then attempts to discipline their child for similar behavior toward a vulnerable classmate, is standing on shaky ground and has little credibility.

As you said, "consistently grinding human responses down to the cowardly and the cruel" lowers the bar... particularly in the next generation, and that is a tough seed to "unplant"!

With appreciation,
Lawson Meadows
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edejan
01:26 PM on 06/19/2011
Wasn't it in the days of its decline, the Roman Empire established the lion vs. man gladitorial fights? I believe we're at about that point in brutality and degradation of our society.
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tnlcallen
01:19 PM on 06/19/2011
The spotlight of the public eye is now relentless. If a person is in the public eye, they should be very careful with what they do in public and in private. It all has to do with the 24 hour news cycle. Congressman Weiner made several mistakes in all of this as the media glare intensified, and so he really has no one to blame but himself.
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SocratesFan
Elitist who loves books and learning
05:10 PM on 06/19/2011
Granted, if you're talking about "who's to blame for his misconduct." Of course he has no one to blame but himself for that.

HOWEVER, there's another issue at stake: Which of OUR OWN actions have been blameworthy?

The whole point of this article is that guys like you and guys like me have been using the flaws of our fellows as an excuse to become belligerent and cruel towards everyone in general.

So yes, Weiner screwed up. But do two wrongs make a right, sir? Shall we lower ourselves to his level, constantly justifying our actions by the flaws of others?
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triplettam
Mind Bender
01:00 PM on 06/19/2011
While I agree with what you say Steven, Anthony brought some of it on himself (besides the tweets). Those press conferences were awful. And then he answered questions . . . stupidly. Didn't know if it was his. And then went on a news show tour. He helped make it such a big deal so that when it did come down, they were all ready to pounce. After it happened, I still thought he should stay. But it had become all white noise. I'm not sorry it's not the first thing I hear about when I wake up anymore.

I see kams is back. Sheesh. I think she's infatuated with you : ).