After searching and trying for so long, I've realized that guidance is an act of allowance. It comes through when you're willing to let go of your attachment to "the answer" and willing to live in the question of what it is you want to create. You must be willing to release your expectations of life. There is no "trying" in receiving guidance. It is an act of surrender. It comes through when you are present to your life exactly as it is.
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