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Susan Winter
As seen on "Oprah," best-selling author/relationship expert Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) specializes in today’s evolving forms of loving partnership. Susan writes, speaks and coaches on all forms of romantic connection; from cutting-edge partnership models to traditional relationship challenges. Susan's work connects the individual with their authenticity, true expression and self-worth.

Susan’s credits include: "The Today Show," "Good Morning America," ABC/CBS/NBC Evening News, VH1 and CNN. Featured articles and cover stories include: Cosmo, Harpers Bazaar, People, Good Housekeeping, New York Times, Washington Post, London Times, Boston Herald, LA Times, Chicago Tribune, San Francisco Chronicle, IN TOUCH Magazine, Entertainment Weekly, Woman's World and The Times of India. In radio Susan has been a frequent guest on NPR, ABC, Playboy Network (Sirius Radio), CBS News Radio and 98FM-Dublin, Ireland.

Entries by Susan Winter

9 Monate. 98 Männer. Das habe ich gelernt.

(3) Comments | Posted July 8, 2014 | 8:28 AM

Ich hasse Dating. So. Jetzt ist es raus. Man muss sich über die Machanismen dieses Konzepts mal im Klaren sein. Dating ist nur ein flirty Beschnuppern. Ein erster Eindruck von dem, was später in Angriff genommen werden muss. Nicht mehr und nicht weniger. Und so wie der unwillige Schlittenhund, der...

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98 uomini in 9 mesi. Ecco cosa ho imparato...

(2) Comments | Posted July 3, 2014 | 6:11 AM

Odio gli appuntamenti. Ecco, l'ho detto. Facciamo chiarezza sul significato di questo concetto. Gli appuntamenti sono solo una prima annusata civettuola a quello che potrebbe essere costruito in seguito. Niente di più, niente di meno. E come i cani da slitta costretti a stare legati in fila, la mia anima...

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9 Months. 98 Men. Here's What I've Learned

(351) Comments | Posted July 2, 2014 | 8:45 AM

I hate dating. There. I've said it. Let's be clear about the mechanics of this concept. Dating is only a flirtatious first sniff of what may later be mounted. No more, no less. And like the unwilling sled dog harnessed in line, my soul squirms at the thought of having...

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The Two Different Meanings of a Breakup

(0) Comments | Posted May 28, 2014 | 1:48 PM


Breakups can have two distinctly different meanings. They can be exactly what they are, or the opposite of what they seem to be. A breakup can mean, "I'm done here. It's really over." Or, it can be a plea for love...

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Confessions of a Lazy Lover

(5) Comments | Posted May 15, 2014 | 10:56 AM


I must make this admission: I'm lazy lover. I apply no energy whatsoever to creating a love life. Why any man would seek my company at this juncture in my life is a complete mystery to me. I lack all desire to be...

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Why Smart Professionals Are Stupid Daters

(17) Comments | Posted April 21, 2014 | 5:53 PM

A successful venture capitalist can distinguish between a company of true merit and one of false flash, yet fail to see the same in the woman he's dating. An accomplished businesswoman can walk into a job interview thinking, They're crazy if they don't hire me, yet wonder if her date...

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The Irrational Fear of Being Alone

(0) Comments | Posted April 8, 2014 | 4:26 PM

The fear of being alone is terrifying for most people I know. This paralyzing projection keeps many a couple trapped in a dysfunctional loop of unhappy relations. Though the reasons stated for not separating include children, loss of money or "it's just not the right time," at the core of...

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Sex: The Price of Admission to the Game of Love

(4) Comments | Posted March 19, 2014 | 2:10 PM

This is the best of all times to be a man. Sex isn't the promise of a future partnership. It's a prize that's given freely at the beginning of a "who-knows-what" type of interaction with a woman.

Standing in the middle of this sociological shift, I look around my world...

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The Unbroken Heart

(0) Comments | Posted March 4, 2014 | 12:40 PM

Rare, but it does exist. I know a woman who has never had her heart broken. Something inside her insists upon her leaving the man she is with before any emotional damage can occur. I marvel at this. She doesn't struggle with conflicting feelings. They simply evaporate. She's not cold...

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