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My Four Days With Eckhart Tolle

Posted: 07/10/2012 11:16 am

I was first introduced to Eckhart Tolle's teachings many years ago, while wandering through a bookstore on Michigan Ave. in Chicago. His book called to me, as books often do. Standing by itself on an empty display table across the crowded store was a lone copy of A New Earth. I had no idea who the author was, or what the book was about, but I was magnetically drawn to it. I said to my husband, "There's something in this book I need to read."

It didn't take me long to figure out what it was. Eckhart Tolle's message is simple in theory: All power resides in the present moment because it is the only moment that exists. The state of your consciousness determines your reality; simply put... Your inner determines the outer. There is a transformation happening in human consciousness and Tolle's teachings support us in shifting from an ego-based state of consciousness toward an awakening of self-remembrance of our essence.
So now, I am at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, N.Y., and Tolle, best-selling author of The Power of Now and guest on Oprah's Soul Series, is speaking to 600 people for four days about what it means to in the present moment.

"You are the universe, you aren't in the universe," he says quietly. His ingenious ability to communicate his own experience of a radical inner transformation as well as his teachings is both inspiring and insightful. He exudes a childlike delight while speaking about the shenanigans of the mind. There is light-heartedness in his manner, his humor evident while he explains: Our negative thoughts are harmful to our well-being, and can become like a living entity within us. He refers to them as "gremlins," not the cute, fuzzy ones like Gizmo, but the scary gremlins after they get wet.

The gremlins -- our negative self-talk -- want to keep our attention focused on our so-called problems, to keep us in a state of continually trying to fix them or ourselves. One of my favorite Eckhart-isms is, "You are not a problem that needs solving."

Be here now. Sounds easy, right? And yet, it is putting the theory into practice that presents the challenge. Our culture is wired to keep us on the horizontal dimension of the past and future. Tolle points out: So much of the time, we are projecting ourselves into the past or the future. We are either looking into the future for the promise of fulfillment, or dreading what may or may not happen. In the reverse we are peering over our shoulder at the past, either regretting what happened or longing for our glory days. Regardless of whether we are thinking about the past or the future, we are losing our power to a non-existent phantom. All power resides in the now.

He speaks about how the mind is always looking for what's next, thereby reducing the present moment into a means to an end, with every moment serving the next moment. Our mind tells us something is wrong or missing in our lives, or we are not enough, this moment is not enough. As a result, these constant voices in our heads keep us running from this to that...on a search for an illusory sense of fulfillment and happiness. It's the "I'll be happy when..." syndrome. But, "when" never comes.

During a question-and answer-session, a man asks Tolle about attaining goals in relation to being in the present moment. His answer resonates throughout the audience. He says it's fine to have goals but realize that you will not be any happier when you achieve your goal than you are in this moment. The circumstances of our lives are constantly changing, and if we depend on our external circumstances to give us inner peace, joy and love, we will be prisoners to the situations, people and things that come in and out of our lives. Trying to control our external world is both, exhausting and futile.

At the end of my four days I am filled with immense gratitude for the gift of being in the presence of Eckhart Tolle and in the energy of the participants here -- and for that bright, white, "ah-ha" moment when I hear these words: "Accept each moment as if you had chosen it. Surrender to what is, instead of wishing it were different or fighting the moment." I think about the times when I perceived a situation as unacceptable, and uselessly resisted the moment. I realize now, that's how I create my own suffering, by refusing to accept what is.

His online TV station, Eckhart Tolle TV, is selling the video downloads of the event, so everyone can watch, listen and be here now.

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01:32 AM on 07/12/2012
Christians will have to rethink their views if they understand these teachings. That's a radical shift and is one that most will not or cannot make.

But that's OK. As Tolle points out: the only important decision here is the one that you're immersed in. The mistake is to get involved in a high-school-football "who's got the better religion" discussion. Then, each person is simply trying to make themselves feel better, soothe their ego.

I found the teachings remarkably liberating, on a practical level and a spiritual one. I came more into an understanding of how "I" am. It was never reasonable to me to think of a separate God that sat on a throne, a heaven that included some and excluded others, or a commitment to tangible non-eternal objects like books or statues or people.

Others may find comfort in those things, but the teachings are there for those who aren't.
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jf12
When I saw her I marveled greatly.
12:39 PM on 07/10/2012
The life that now is, is not all there is; there is a world to come, which is better (Luke 18:30, Romans 8:18, 1 Tmothy 4:8, etc.). The *fundamental* purpose of religion is to convince us that short time we have here is not as important as eternity (Psalm 144:4, etc etc etc). Vanity of vanities.
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04:52 PM on 07/10/2012
Mhm. But this is not quite what Tolle means. He does not deny the above; his views are compatible with Christianity and he draws extensively on Jesus' teachings.

The focus on NOW that he advocates is nicely summed up by Peace Pilgrim (do look her up, if you haven't heard of her -- an amazing woman, one of those exemplars I talk about), who says,

"How often are you worrying about the present moment? The present is usually all right. If you're worrying, you're either agonizing over the past which you should have forgotten long ago, or else you're apprehensive over the future which hasn't even come yet. We tend to skim right over the present moment which is the only moment God gives any of us to live. If you don't live the present moment, you never get around to living at all. And if you do live the present moment, you tend not to worry. For me, every moment is a new and wonderful opportunity to be of service."

Peace Pilgrim: Her Life and Works in Her Own Words - Pg. 64

As you notice, it is akin to Matthew 6:26.

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jf12
When I saw her I marveled greatly.
06:08 PM on 07/10/2012
Sure, but "take no thought for the present" seems somewhat contradictory to "focus on the now".
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04:56 PM on 07/10/2012
contd.

The wisdom of this realization is two-fold (well, there is much more, but I'm pointing out just the two main "benefits" which are congruent with Christianity -- and not only):

1. to remind us not to worry needlessly and to surrender to God's will, trusting that He knows what's best for us in any given moment;

and

2. to use now -- and not wait for some time in the future -- to align our behaviors (and thoughts) with His will, right at this moment, doing what He intended for us (i.e., not wasting time, and fulfilling our purpose in life).

Speaking of which -- ay.
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jf12
When I saw her I marveled greatly.
06:07 PM on 07/10/2012
Yes, but it is viewing the Now through the lens of Eternikty instead of vice versa.
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jf12
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12:17 AM on 07/11/2012
Yes. There is no time to waste, not least because there are things to see and people to do. So there's no reason to wait to do what you know to be right.
Acts 22:16 And now why tarriest thou? arise, and be baptized, and wash away thy sins, calling on the name of the Lord.
More importantly, it's always the time to do right. It's never better to wait to be good at some better time because there is no better time than now.
2 Cor 6:4 (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)